Quote from: jill610 on February 25, 2019, 10:26:04 AM
I have been reading your posts for quite some time, noting to myself that you are very sensitive to infection prevention and minimizing invasive work. This now makes total sense given your occupation!
On the main topic here, I *briefly* considered zero depth and discarded the idea because I might someday want to have penetrative sex. I could not possibly say today what I will want in my sex life or partner 3+ years from now and the cost is a non issue as insurance covers it either way. Dialation is not that big of a deal (I honestly think some folks make it into a bigger production than it needs to be), and with 2-week hospital stays kind of the norm these days, post surgical complications due to infection is pretty rare (near zero or zero). So I really could not find a reason not to have a vaginal canal, but could find a lot of reasons to have one. Fast forward a bit, and despite every relationship in my past being with a woman, I now solidly want a relationship with a guy. Who'd a thunk it? For sure I would not have been open to the possibility had my marriage survived.
We are all different (thank God, the world couldn't take another one of me for sure), but do consider that the future is of course a big unknown.
If I would be younger, and would have the chances for a sex life that would/could last many years, I would probably go for a full vagina, too.
Human sexuality is very important, and a healthy sex life is so, too! And to have such a healthy sex life, one needs to have the fitting parts to participate!
Now fast forward to my age, a person well into her 70's. It is a simple realistic assumption that my future sex life will not last for many decades! My libido has to be found first somewhere under all the emotional junk in the subbasement, and the orchi certainly will nor help with finding it, and I would need a brain realignment to get away from preferring females as partners. Because of these facts i feel that a minimal depth procedure is fine for me.
I don't care if another person would ever see my private parts down there, Ido it for myself, to make sure that I don't see the ugly junk I have when I step out of the shower.
I was altered shortly after I was born, and now I want to see my body to look the way it was always supposed to be!
Simply said, when I die, I want to lay in the coffin as a woman with the looks of female genitalia!