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when you just can't handle it anymore and break

Started by Satinjoy, November 15, 2014, 08:33:47 AM

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Satinjoy

Well I am better and therapy today revealed much.

Stress triggers dysphoria in me.

Personally I am fine.

What to do.

Outlast it.

Wait it out, and come back stronger.

Keep your heads dear friends.  Don't get manipulated by your own dysphoria or anyone else's.  We are all accountable to ourselves in how we handle ours, and pain is part of trans.

Blessings

Satinjoy
Morpheus: This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the red pill - the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the little blue pills - you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes

Sh'e took the little blue ones.
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Jess42

Quote from: Satinjoy on November 17, 2014, 04:45:40 PM
Well I am better and therapy today revealed much.

Stress triggers dysphoria in me.

Personally I am fine.

What to do.

Outlast it.

Wait it out, and come back stronger.

Keep your heads dear friends.  Don't get manipulated by your own dysphoria or anyone else's.  We are all accountable to ourselves in how we handle ours, and pain is part of trans.

Blessings

Satinjoy

That is good SJ. Now you know your stressors. Stress. I still don't I probably never will.
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JulieBlair

Aisla and Jess,
You are my family and I love you. 
Julie
I am my own best friend and my own worst enemy.  :D
Full Time 18 June 2014
Esprit can be found at http://espritconf.com/
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Jess42

Quote from: JulieBlair on November 17, 2014, 06:17:58 PM
Aisla and Jess,
You are my family and I love you. 
Julie

Well we aren't sister for nothing. Love you too hon. Sisters are special to one another. Never forget that.
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Allyda

@ SatinJoy & Julie;

You two are both some of the strongest women I know. We can all get through these tough times together and hopefully be stronger for it in the end.

Ally ;)
Allyda
Full Time August 2009
HRT Dec 27 2013
VFS [ ? ]
FFS [ ? ]
SRS Spring 2015



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Satinjoy

That is kind dear.  But strength comes from God and each other.
Morpheus: This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the red pill - the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the little blue pills - you stay in Wonderland and I show you how deep the rabbit-hole goes

Sh'e took the little blue ones.
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Jess42

Quote from: Satinjoy on November 18, 2014, 04:07:48 AM
That is kind dear.  But strength comes from God and each other.

Oh Satinjoy. I love you dear but strength is something that we find within ourselves. We can ask for inspiration from God to find that strength or ask god to show us our strength or be inspired by our brothers and sisters, but strength is something we have to find within ourselves. We were all created with it. Sometimes strength is not really caring what other's think about you but what you think about yourself. This is my case. I have to live my life the way I want and the way I am most comfortable with. Having ties are fine, but unacceptance isn't.
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Tessa James

Deep breaths, sigh slowly, relax every muscle you own and turn to a warm liquid being........the flow continues
Open, out and evolving queer trans person forever with HRT support since March 13, 2013
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JulieBlair

Shoot Tessa my essence just ran out of my clothes and all over the floor. ;)
j
I am my own best friend and my own worst enemy.  :D
Full Time 18 June 2014
Esprit can be found at http://espritconf.com/
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helen2010

Quote from: JulieBlair on November 17, 2014, 06:17:58 PM
Aisla and Jess,
You are my family and I love you. 
Julie

Julie

Family is everything to me.  Sometimes folk leave home.  Sometimes we change home.  However the ties remain.  Shared experience, love and perspective binds and brings folk together regardless of where they choose to travel.  I like to think that we each carry a part of each person who is important to us and remain linked no matter where we are.

Got to love the Internet - so much easier to stay connected.

Safe travels

Aisla
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JulieBlair

Quote from: Aisla on November 21, 2014, 01:22:56 PM
Julie

Family is everything to me.  Sometimes folk leave home.  Sometimes we change home.  However the ties remain.  Shared experience, love and perspective binds and brings folk together regardless of where they choose to travel.  I like to think that we each carry a part of each person who is important to us and remain linked no matter where we are.

Got to love the Internet - so much easier to stay connected.

Safe travels

Aisla

Aisla,

There are a few that I would follow to the ends of the earth.
You, Satinjoy, Tessa, Jess, Patty, and Taka comprise the list.  You are my teachers, my friends and fellow travelers.  Mostly you are the most compassionate people I have ever known.  Gay or Straight, Cis or Trans.  All identify as both male and female - non-binary and beautiful.

Peace,
Julie
I am my own best friend and my own worst enemy.  :D
Full Time 18 June 2014
Esprit can be found at http://espritconf.com/
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Jess42

Quote from: JulieBlair on November 21, 2014, 01:49:26 PM
Aisla,

There are a few that I would follow to the ends of the earth.
You, Satinjoy, Tessa, Jess, Patty, and Taka comprise the list.  You are my teachers, my friends and fellow travelers.  Mostly you are the most compassionate people I have ever known.  Gay or Straight, Cis or Trans.  All identify as both male and female - non-binary and beautiful.

Peace,
Julie

OMG Julie. You know you are so eloquent in the way you put this and so elegant as a person? You and those other than me that you mentioned are truly special people.
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JulieBlair

You are the most lovely of us all.  :)
Love
Julie
I am my own best friend and my own worst enemy.  :D
Full Time 18 June 2014
Esprit can be found at http://espritconf.com/
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justpat

   I am honored to be included in a group of such beautiful human beings. Thank You Julie . :)  Patty
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