Quote from: awilliams1701 on March 17, 2015, 12:45:23 PM
I've been there myself. I struggled in high school for being a nerd. I couldn't even deal with the transgender issue so I repressed the crap out of it until now 15 years after I graduated. I was suicidal. Now I'm living my life. I love being me. No one can take that away from me. A couple days ago a car pulled up next to me while I was walking me dog. The entire family tried to make fun of me. I didn't give a crap. That day was nearly perfect. I absolutely loved it and wouldn't even change that encounter. It took a while to get here, but believe me it does get better.

I live a pretty damn good life to say the least. I'm well known in school and I have a good number of friends in a vast number of diffrent social group. I don't discriminate.
and not to tout my own horn but im pretty good looking. My whole ordeal is the thought of throwing this life away.  And I know this issue is just going to continue,  but if I do end up accepting it I don't want to end up a guy in a dress. I want to feel like a true woman, and look pretty damn attractive.

Easy now, some of us are damn proud of being men in dresses. 

Hugs, Devlyn

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on March 17, 2015, 01:33:57 PM
Easy now, some of us are damn proud of being men in dresses. 

Hugs, Devlyn

You can be proud. I'm not hating, nor am I going to bash on you guys. That being said, it does not mean I'm going to Change my stance on the thought

I come here for support just like everyone else. Using someone else's identity in a manner that indicates it's a bad thing is inappropriate.

Hugs, Devlyn

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on March 17, 2015, 01:40:54 PM
I come here for support just like everyone else. Using someone else's identity in a manner that indicates it's a bad thing is inappropriate.

Hugs, Devlyn

Wait a second. Who the hell said I was using your identity to indicate "it's a bad thing." I never once said that it's bad. I simply stated that I do not want to be a guy in a dress. Especially if I'm going to put my life on hold and spend a lump some of money. You can take it anyway you want but before you start popping shots towards me try to understand what I'm saying.

And whats truly inappropriate here, is you going on the offensive for something that I never said. I do believe that I only said, "I do not want to be a guy in a dress." Where in that did you catch me saying guys in dresses are bad. I don't understand where that curve ball came from nor am I happy about you accusing me of saying that.

That was my original fear when I first came out to myself. However its not anymore. I hope I'll pass in the end, but even if I don't, I don't really care anymore. Would I like to be a hot chick? Absolutely! Do I think its going to happen? No, not at all. I've got my age working against me. I started HRT at 32. That a lot of T poisoning. I'll take what I can get. Embracing it though has just been so wonderful.

Quote from: acbonnett on March 17, 2015, 01:29:14 PM
I live a pretty damn good life to say the least. I'm well known in school and I have a good number of friends in a vast number of diffrent social group. I don't discriminate.
and not to tout my own horn but im pretty good looking. My whole ordeal is the thought of throwing this life away.  And I know this issue is just going to continue,  but if I do end up accepting it I don't want to end up a guy in a dress. I want to feel like a true woman, and look pretty damn attractive.