Quote from: Dani2118 on September 17, 2017, 09:22:16 PM
I talked to some friends of mine today that I haven't seen in a couple of months. I was a little worried about their reaction to me now, but it was just a blip in the conversation! Made my day!
That just reinforces my opinion that "people don't care" what we do. It doesn't affect them. I don't know about you but if before I came to realize what was going on with me I would have been fascinated and asked way too many questions.
It was Electrolysis Monday, when I do two sessions, each two hours long, of electrolysis, to try and stay ahead of the waking follicles. I stopped shaving a while ago, and let things get fuzzy. A couple of weeks this month I got in a third two hour session, and definitely got the upper hand.
Today was a major benchmark day. I won the battle.
During the second session, my electrolist ended the session early, as I was out of facial hairs.
Out... of... HAIRS! 🙀😃😃
I haz a happy.
Realizing it's been two weeks since my mammogram, and the phone hasn't rung. This is my 4th mammogram in 10 years. My mom passed away from breast cancer at age 49.
Got my E and S dosages increased. :)
The doc had lowered my S dosage last time because my blood pressure was low. My BP is better this checkup, but now my T is up. (That's not all that was up, especially first thing in the morning, so I'm happier to live with any BP anomaly.) So I am back to my previous higher dose.
And I am happy to have more raw material (E) for the boob fairy to work with.
Oh, and I am getting referred to a shrink for one of my surgery letters, and I have a referral for a psychologist for the other. (My HRT doc, unfortunately, cannot provide one of the two WPATH letters because she is not a specialist. I have three sets of rules to conform to: WPATH, MSI (our health insurance) and Dr. Brassard's rules.)
Can you say. Salon?
First Timer. Yay
OK Honey, spill the beans. What did you have done, how was it and do you plan to go again? - Anne
Today is my first year wedding anniversary to the greatest guy in the world!!! :)
and... I was asked by a friend to join her and some other women to be photographed for a photo essay that will be published about women's body image and acceptance!.. We will be posing in our bikinis! :)
Onward we go!!!!
Ashley :)
Ashley, Congratulations! OK, it is just so hot to be able to pose for a bikini shot...but really now, wow, a full year so quickly. I wish you many more, you deserve the happiness. I want to thank you for the encouragement that you posting your progress had given to me and so many of us here at Susan's, you have contributed to so much of the magic.
Tia Anne
Ashley, wow. Wedding anniversary as your true self - you are an inspiration.
Quote from: Anne Blake on September 19, 2017, 03:32:27 PM
Ashley, Congratulations! OK, it is just so hot to be able to pose for a bikini shot...but really now, wow, a full year so quickly. I wish you many more, you deserve the happiness. I want to thank you for the encouragement that you posting your progress had given to me and so many of us here at Susan's, you have contributed to so much of the magic.
Tia Anne
Awwww!!! Thank you so much Anne and Kendra for the kind words and well wishes! It has been an awesome year of Love, laughs, new beginnings and challenges faced together!... We are going to do our big dinner at our favorite place this weekend... just doing an evening BBQ at home at the end of a gorgeous day here!!! Hubby should be home momentarily and I am ambushing him in my wedding dress!!!
Onward we go!!!
Ashley :)
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Quote from: tgirlamc on September 19, 2017, 07:11:00 PM
Awwww!!! Thank you so much Anne and Kendra for the kind words and well wishes! It has been an awesome year of Love, laughs, new beginnings and challenges faced together!... We are going to do our big dinner at our favorite place this weekend... just doing an evening BBQ at home at the end of a gorgeous day here!!! Hubby should be home momentarily and I am ambushing him in my wedding dress!!!
Onward we go!!!
Ashley :)
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I'm going to live vicariously through you! :) I hope ... ummm ... dinner was good.
I too like the dress, but those shoes!! WOW!
Congratulations Ashley. That's pretty dress and so is the girl in it. Have a great evening with hubby.
Hugs,
Laurie
Thanks Sisters!!! And Denise... "dinner" was extremely good... and then we BBQ'd 😜!!!!!
A 😀❤️🌻
Big day for me, got released by my gcs surgeon, all good and certifiably the new me AND I even have the letters to prove it!
We do plan to hang out in the are for a while more before beginning the drive home, but IT IS DONE
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on September 20, 2017, 04:08:27 PM
Big day for me, got released by my gcs surgeon, all good and certifiably the new me AND I even have the letters to prove it!
We do plan to hang out in the are for a while more before beginning the drive home, but IT IS DONE
Tia Anne
Congratulations, Anne!
Quote from: Anne Blake on September 20, 2017, 04:08:27 PM
Big day for me, got released by my gcs surgeon, all good and certifiably the new me AND I even have the letters to prove it!
We do plan to hang out in the are for a while more before beginning the drive home, but IT IS DONE
Tia Anne
Congrats Anne!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Such a wonderful milestone along the journey of a new life!!! Amazing things lay ahead!!!
Onward we go brave sister!!!
Ashley Marie 😀
Thank you Kathy and Ashley,
It is a big milestone for me and I really look forward to moving on with my journey....but hey, I am only two and a half years old, I kind of need to figure out where to go from here.....I love it, at nearly seventy I am trying to figure out what I want to do/be when I grow up! I will be looking for suggestions from my Susan's family
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on September 20, 2017, 10:12:26 PM
Thank you Kathy and Ashley,
It is a big milestone for me and I really look forward to moving on with my journey....but hey, I am only two and a half years old, I kind of need to figure out where to go from here.....I love it, at nearly seventy I am trying to figure out what I want to do/be when I grow up! I will be looking for suggestions from my Susan's family
Tia Anne
Hi Anne!!!
There is feeling I savor, born of the fact that when other people my age are feeling like their life is beginning the long wind down phase... Mine is just getting started and a world of possibilities, never before considered ...are mine to explore and enjoy!!! I believe you will explore the possibilities you've held in your heart for too long now... Let your wishes come out and be made real :)
onward we go!!!!
Ashley :)
Ashley,
Thank you and love you girl! You have provided me a challenge, next year I will nail a bikini, not just for an "Older woman" but just nail it! Whether or not I succeed is not the point, I will get it done.
Tia Anne
I had to go to Home Depot in male drag and a female cashier opened up a new register, looked right at me and smiled and said: "I can help you over here Maam"
Quote from: Anne Blake on September 21, 2017, 12:00:14 AM
Ashley,
Thank you and love you girl! You have provided me a challenge, next year I will nail a bikini, not just for an "Older woman" but just nail it! Whether or not I succeed is not the point, I will get it done.
Tia Anne
A worthy goal indeed my dear sister! I find it to be the world's most liberating garment!!! Our weather has been absolutely gorgeous here and I try to squeeze in a nice walk at the beach in one of my bikinis every day I have time!!!
Onward brave sister!!!
A 😀❤️🌻
The one person at work who had an issue with my transition came around and used Sarah and she in a conference call... My heart jumped for joy
Yeah Girl! I so love when this happens, the unexpected correct gendering is always the best...
Quote from: LessThanZeroMasculinity on September 21, 2017, 12:14:27 AM
I had to go to Home Depot in male drag and a female cashier opened up a new register, looked right at me and smiled and said: "I can help you over here Maam"
Quote from: LessThanZeroMasculinity on September 21, 2017, 12:14:27 AM
I had to go to Home Depot in male drag and a female cashier opened up a new register, looked right at me and smiled and said: "I can help you over here Maam"
Woo-hoo, male fail! Congratulations!
And welcome to Susan's!
Nothing today but yesterday I had a phone call with the lady at Planned Parenthood regarding an issue with my estrogen. I got the problem taken care of and found out I don't have to make a road trip next month to go see her. I can do the appointment over the phone and have a local lab do my blood work. So happy about this.
Also earlier this week I got an email from my sister. My nephew is already calling me his aunt. Plus I'm taking a four day weekend this week.
I didn't need to use any coverup for mustache shadow today.
Woo hoo!!
Quote from: KarynMcD on September 21, 2017, 11:01:20 AM
I didn't need to use any coverup for mustache shadow today.
Woo hoo!!
Congrats. That's a big milestone that I'm looking forward to.
I filled my first prescription for HRT today. :) :) :)
Quote from: ToriJo on September 21, 2017, 06:01:44 PM
I filled my first prescription for HRT today. :) :) :)
Great Job!!!
I just started HRT and did my first round of IPL [emoji3] the doctor was really nice to, didnt even blink at finding out i'm trans.
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I got my new glasses today! Now I don't wear a sign on my face that shouts 'man' ;D ;D ;D
I had my last genital electrolysis session today at 6 weeks before my GCS. I have now been declared cleared of hair for surgery :)
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on September 21, 2017, 10:11:29 PM
I had my last genital electrolysis session today at 6 weeks before my GCS. I have now been declared cleared of hair for surgery :)
Congrats! I've started my first session of genital laser hair removal a few weeks ago. It stings quite a lot, but it helps to just laugh it off. :)
The reason I'm happy is because I just realized that next week will mark my first month on hormones and anti-androgen! :D
I taught a two hour class last night, on radio frequency propagation, antennas, and feedlines, and had absolutely no issues arise about me. That was nice.
I just finished prepping 129 amateur radio license examinations for a testing session in a few weeks. All done, and once the gallon or so of coffee wears off I'm going to bed for 12-16 hours. I'm getting too old for 40 hour days, but I made it.
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Quote from: Michelle_P on September 22, 2017, 08:09:43 PM
I'm getting too old for 40 hour days, but I made it.
Go get your beauty sleep teach. Sweet dreams.
Hugs,
Laurie
Actually a week ago or so, I was at physical therapy, in the pool and one of the other therapist came in the room and was talking to the lady I was working with that day about the filter on the pool being loud. She said to the other lady, "Just turn the switch back on after she's done in the pool". Everyone there has been super nice so far. I've only worked with two ladies and the guy that does the evaluations. Next week I'm scheduled for some other guy twice. I'd rather have one of the ladies, especially if I'm in the pool. I've been using some Bermuda shorts and an exercise tank top with built in shelf bra. Guess I'll see what the other guy is like next week.
Oh and also my hair is just long enough for a real short ponytail. ;)
Michelle, do you ever deal with ionospheric and tropospheric refraction delays?
Quote from: josie76 on September 22, 2017, 08:23:20 PM
Actually a week ago or so, I was at physical therapy, in the pool...
Eeep! Braver than I am. Yes, I'm chicken about pools. (Ancient dive accident, being trans puts the cherry on top)
But their being so accepting and welcoming is great! Congrats on doing this, and being your authentic self with them.
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Michelle, do you ever deal with ionospheric and tropospheric refraction delays?
It doesn't come up in the usual classes other than tangentially, such as in polarization effects and phase shifts in multipath propagation. The students have enough troubles with refraction vs reflection. [emoji6]
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My sister came for lunch today with her husband, my niece and nephew. Only my sister had met Megan before, so I was a little nervous, but I cooked a yummy roast dinner, and everyone was totally cool.
Wonderful to have acceptance from those closest to us [emoji4].
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Just ran by the pharmacy and picked up my estrogen patch. That was a rough two days without it. They gave me all three boxes this time instead of one box a month. So I'm good for 12 more weeks unless they up my dose next month. Wonder how many patches I can fit on my butt.
I shaved my legs for the first time, and I did not knick them once. I also missed a couple hairs.
I spent over an hour on the phone with my sister this morning. We talked about several different subjects, trying to keep her mind off of her medical situation with her pregnancy. We talked about religions, we are both going to reread the Satanic Bible, as we both had a different take on it's contents. We like religion as a subject, but are not religious. She is an atheist, and I hold my own beliefs on a supreme being at odds with most religions. I read texts from multiple religions for fun. I used my female voice for the whole conversation, and before we ended it she made a comment about how my voice would occasionally enter the female range and inflections when I was younger, but after puberty. Her memories of our younger years bring her more things that she noticed that makes her believe that this was always me, even that far back.
Lovely day with my young children baking for a cake sale. Despite being full-time, I've been keeping my presentation very low key around them. But development meant it was time to start wearing a bra (making things far more obvious) around them. They both seem quite comfortable with this, which is super important to me.
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I started off the day with coffee and donning something both nice and comfortable, then headed to church (UU), where the service was built around the Jewish New Year, thoughts for the next year and on the process of atonement and forgiveness. Beautiful, thoughtful stuff, relevant of course, and personally meaningful.
After church I met my Brooklyn daughter and her SO for brunch at a really nice place that I have enjoyed for many years, for a three hour brunch, conversation, and celebration, of my upcoming surgery, the new year, and life.
This was the first time her SO had met Michelle. I had arrived a few minutes early, and ducked into a restroom to tidy up (Windy on the walk there from my apartment!). I stepped out, turned a corner, and there they were sitting on a bench just inside the entry. My daughter looked up and smiled, and her SO looked a little surprised, then stood and greeted me. "Hi, I'm Michelle. Pleased to meet you", with a big grin. No issues, and we had a very nice visit. We spent another hour in some nearby shops after the long brunch, a very nice day before they had to leave.
Oh, what I wore? Ashley had me thinking LBD. I added a white collarless blouse to shift it toward something better for church.
Wheeee!
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Have I ever mentioned that I enjoy being a girl? (Cue dance number...).
Life. That's what made me happy today.
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Michelle, well done girl! You have to celebrate time with family and of course, just being a girl.
Tia Anne
I went out dressed, as me, for the first time in my life. It won't be the last time. :)
Quote from: ToriJo on September 25, 2017, 02:32:40 PM
I went out dressed, as me, for the first time in my life. It won't be the last time. :)
Yay, wonderful isn't it [emoji5].
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I had my very first laser hair removal treatment on my face today thanks to my awesome wife who bought the treatments for me ;D It wasn't too bad. Peoples description of a rubber band snap is very accurate. There were some areas of my face that really hurt bad, and then others not so much. And now it just feels like I have a kind of bad sunburn on my whole face. But oh so worth it if after all the treatments it actually works and I don't have to shave or feel like a man because of my facial hair any more!!
went shopping and got some ankle boots, calf high boots, 2 pairs of trainers (more like deck shoes)and a pair of every day black shoes, Thing is I wore my breast forms with push up bra , skinny jeans , T shirt and hoodie. Bit of make up as well and not a odd look or smirk or anything . A nice day shopping with my mum( she said it was like shopping with her sister!!!!! who is very picky)
Quote from: ToriJo on September 25, 2017, 02:32:40 PM
I went out dressed, as me, for the first time in my life. It won't be the last time. :)
Reading this post made me happy today. Congratulations!!
I went to the grocery store tonight which is about a mile from my new apartment. I got there by roller blade wearing a cute skort and tank top. As I took the skates off to throw on flip-flops a woman was staring at me as she crossed the street. When I went into the store she was ordering something at the counter, looked at me and said "Now I know why you have such nice legs."
Transferring VA facilities. Went to the new facility as Claire, and have papers turned in for it to be my preferred name. Everyone used Ma'am today. They were really friendly to me. The phlebotomist looked surprised when she read my name, as it wasn't changed in the system yet. We talked about my transition a little, and she said I was looking and sounding good. Happy Dance!
I had 2500 hair grafts yesterday 😀
Congratulations Rachel, now is the time for patience but the results are so great. I had my hair grafts in the beginning of March and now five months later I love the results, you will too.
Quote from: OutsideMe on September 23, 2017, 09:22:01 PM
I shaved my legs for the first time, and I did not knick them once. I also missed a couple hairs.
I thought I replied to this earlier - I remember the feeling when I first shaved my arms, and if you feel anything even remotely like that about your legs, it's really, really awesome. Maybe one day I'll understand why so many other women complain more about shaving than the hair, but not yet. :)
My cold is going
I was playing cards with three ladies, one knew my "status" while the other two did not. We were about 15 minutes into the game and the one how knew misgendered me. A few minutes later, I don't remember why, I outed myself (it made sense at the time) and both who didn't know only figured it out after being misgendered.
It made me happy for obvious reasons but it also means I don't have any male 'ticks' or habits that stick out in close quarters. Even my voice must be getting better. There are a 100 reasons to be happy about that.
I was going through my EOB's for my insurance and realized that I have have already met my medical insurance deductible for the year, so I don't have to pay anything for my GCS in November :)
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on September 27, 2017, 11:30:06 PM
I was going through my EOB's for my insurance and realized that I have have already met my medical insurance deductible for the year, so I don't have to pay anything for my GCS in November :)
That's awesome!!! I won't be able to have GCS til at least next year, so my deductible will be reset at the beginning of the year, so it will cost me around $7,000. Way better than $20 or $30,000 though. But that's awesome for you!
Working at a different facility within the same company that I am leaving to get a new job elsewhere after they found a replacement for me before I put in notice. Yeah have fun tracking the previous statement. I am an on call person for the foreseeable future, at any building in the corporation.
Anyway, went in to work, I thought I was presenting male. Saw a couple of the corporate big shots, only one recognized me. She invited me out to dinner, and was happy that I am transitioning. To top it off, three of the residents, and two of the staff gendered me as female. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
I'm going in wearing makeup tomorrow, unless I get called in early. One of the employees is playing sick. We'll see how things go from there.
The Electrolysis tech told me I have beautiful blue eyes.
I have to go to a formal dinner tonight in drab mode. I'm wearing black boots in the outfit, and decided to wear those boots to work along with my skinny jeans. I saw my legs and feet in the mirror and thought to myself,so femme this is a little too girly for work, then thought screw it, my legs look awesome
My fifth laser hair appointment was today. The doctor realized there is almost nothing left to zap! Happy!
My voice therapist said I've made incredible progress in only three months.
I still think I sound ridiculous to myself though. :-\
My sister called me today just as I was getting to work. I am officially an Aunt today*.....well again. Her twins were born this morning. They are in neonatal intensive care, born a couple months early, but okay.
*I became an aunt when I began transitioning, but was an uncle previously.
Went to work today as Claire. Only one person misgendered me today. He is not a transfriendly person to begin with.
May have made a new friend, sent her here. She was very pleasant, and wants to hang out with me. She "wants to support her peeps".
Everyone was so supportive today, one girl said that I was taking my voice to high, and another said that I am mostly good with my speech, just a few hiccups while talking. They all said that with my makeup on they wouldn't have second guessed me.
Had a couple ladies at the Meijer store near where I'm staying talk to me like I was just one of the girls. Then I had a voice hiccup, and they moved on fairly quickly.
All in all, a wonderful day out as me.
I made a double appointment with a psychologist/gender therapist and went clothes shopping with my mother :D
I changed my name on Facebook to Claire.
Quote from: Artesia on September 30, 2017, 10:37:57 AM
I changed my name on Facebook to Claire.
So now you're Auntie Claire [emoji4]. X
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Quote from: meganjames2 on September 30, 2017, 10:55:40 AM
So now you're Auntie Claire [emoji4]. X
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YES!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so excited!
Almost forgot, because...babies, but today was the first day I looked in the mirror and saw nothing but woman. Still needed that shave, but no man in my eyes after the beard was cut off. :icon_geekdance: :icon_woowoo:
That's really great Artemis. I only see man right now, but I did do something today that made me happy. A while ago, I bought some ladies Dr Martin's and posted them here. After a week or two, they weren't as snug. So I decided to go to the store and try on the size smaller. They fit snug, but good. I bet in a couple weeks they will be perfect. So in my mind now, I wear a women's size 9 shoe, makes me happy even though it's prob only this style. I used to wear size 9 boot men's and size 9 men's shoe. I know people say hrt doesn't make your feet smaller, but I'll take it no matter how I get it!
Bari Jo
A few months ago Randi told me she wasn't sure that she wanted m to go to our niece's wedding with her. I was upset but I let it go.
Today it came up for some reason, I don't recall why. She asked, "you're going aren't you?" I reminded her that she hadn't wanted me to go. She said it wasn't that, just that she wasn't sure I should. So now I'm invited!
I suppose a month from now I could be posting in the other thread, but for now I'm ecstatic! But I have nothing to wear!
:
April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
My E.V. dose was upped on Friday. Hope this brings levels into optimal range!
Quote from: Bari Jo on September 30, 2017, 03:12:41 PM
That's really great Artemis. I only see man right now, but I did do something today that made me happy. A while ago, I bought some ladies Dr Martin's and posted them here. After a week or two, they weren't as snug. So I decided to go to the store and try on the size smaller. They fit snug, but good. I bet in a couple weeks they will be perfect. So in my mind now, I wear a women's size 9 shoe, makes me happy even though it's prob only this style. I used to wear size 9 boot men's and size 9 men's shoe. I know people say hrt doesn't make your feet smaller, but I'll take it no matter how I get it!
Bari Jo
I am feeling even better now. I've been elevated to the status of Godess. :o Even better it is the Greek Godess of the hunt, and my favorite Godess. :icon_mrhappy:
Don't worry, being a deity won't go to my head. ;)
Probably an auto correct or just plain habit. But the thoughts were fun anyway.
Quote from: Dee Marshall on September 30, 2017, 04:40:28 PM
A few months ago Randi told me she wasn't sure that she wanted m to go to our niece's wedding with her. I was upset but I let it go.
Today it came up for some reason, I don't recall why. She asked, "you're going aren't you?" I reminded her that she hadn't wanted me to go. She said it wasn't that, just that she wasn't sure I should. So now I'm invited!
I suppose a month from now I could be posting in the other thread, but for now I'm ecstatic! But I have nothing to wear!
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
Now that's progress Dee! Congrats! Go and have fun.
Fulfilling a long time dream: Buying a pretty Dirndl Dress :-)
Quote from: sarah1972 on September 30, 2017, 10:23:59 PM
Fulfilling a long time dream: Buying a pretty Dirndl Dress :-)
Nice!!!!... Congrats Sarah!... Are you going to an Oktober Fest? :)!!!!
The girlfriend and I had a girl's day out. I got my ears pierced, got a pedicure and got Thai for dinner. The pedicure lady was chatting with me about PMS and how easy guys have it, so I guess I did ok at passing.
My wife was talking on the phone with a friend of hers (who knows I'm trans). As I was walking through the room, I heard her referring to me with the proper name and pronouns - and there's no way she could have know I would be walking through right then. As validating as it is for her to use the right name and pronouns when talking to me, it's ten times so when she does it when she doesn't know I will hear.
I have two on my Calendar :-)
Quote from: tgirlamc on September 30, 2017, 10:55:30 PM
Nice!!!!... Congrats Sarah!... Are you going to an Oktober Fest? :)!!!!
Just helped my 5 year old boy ride his bike for the first time without stabilisers, a very proud parent [emoji4]
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That takes me back to when my 3 were small.
Today was work in the gallery day. I hung a monitor and hid power for it in the wall. I got hot, dusty, tired in the process. When I was almost done I thought to myself, this is a guy thing I'm doing. Than I thought, no, I'm one of those cool girls that do this stuff. That made me happy. Of course I was in drab, and have barely been on hrt (3 months), so I did look like a man, but felt like a cool chick.
Bari Jo
For me today - For the first time, I decided to dress as myself all day (well an androgynous version of myself anyhow) - and I thought most people would probably just think I was a gay guy or something, so it was a small step. It was a day where I didn't go anywhere unsafe - only around home and to my therapist (who didn't even comment!), and even if I did, as I said, it was fairy androgynous, but it wasn't male. (it was enough that my wife noticed and complimented my outfit!).
Every time I dress I'm shocked at how *natural* it feels. Which I never feel in drab no matter what man clothes I wear.
I woke up. It's my birthday. I'm even happy it's here. It's my first birthday as me. I've never felt amazing on my birthday before.
Artesia, you have had a string of highs, that is so awesome. Happy B-Day too!
Quote from: Bari Jo on October 02, 2017, 10:00:57 AM
Artesia, you have had a string of highs, that is so awesome. Happy B-Day too!
I think it is because I am no longer afraid to go out as me. I would like to pass 100% but it isn't the chain holding me back that it once was. I have been out as Claire more often than I have as Steve. I work on an as needed basis for the company that replaced me before I chose to leave. I worked for them as Claire for the last four days. The only people who knew that I was not female were the ones who already knew me. The new people registered me as female, at least at the beginning, I still have some tells that made them realize I was a Transwoman. That was a real confidence boost. One of them was a Speech Therapist, and said that there was something off about my speech that made her realize I wasn't a ciswoman. I told her that I've only had a few(3-4)appointments, and she said I'm dong amazing with the voice.
One of the girls that I hired told me that she originally thought that I was a FtM. She was surprised at my progress, and thinks I am doing amazing, and that most of my mannerisms are feminine. I haven't worked there for four weeks.
Quote from: Artesia on October 02, 2017, 08:40:27 AM
I woke up. It's my birthday. I'm even happy it's here. It's my first birthday as me. I've never felt amazing on my birthday before.
Happy birthday, girl!! :icon_birthday:
Today marks the anniversary of a major theme park. I went to the gift shop and they had retro Jean jackets for figment to celebrate. I tried them on and I fit a small. That got me super excited, but I got a medium in case it shrinks a bit. It's slimming, has rainbow colors on it, I like it. I'm a happy girl. I can't wait till the hair gross out and no beard. I'll look good in this!
My wife brought home some bras and a shirt for me. And let me try on one of the dresses she bought for her. She is awesome!
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My brother and his partner drove 4000 miles (6400 km) to visit my wife and me. We have had a lovely visit the last few days, but today was the best. I went with them (my wife stayed home to look after the animals) to Port Royal and Annapolis Royal / Fort Anne, two historic sites here in Nova Scotia. We had a great time poking around the recostructed forts in good but windy weather.
The nicest thing was that it was an hour and a half drive each way, so we got to do a lot of catching up. We haven't seen each other in five years, i.e. before I came out. So my brother had a lot of questions about my experience growing up and my transition. It felt good to be able to open up to them.
Kathy, sounds like you had a great visit - being able to reconnect with family and finally have them know you as your true self.
I keep getting closer to my goals. Went to the courthouse today as Ken Delmar F0wles, left as Kendra Faye F0wles. Parking and walking to the courtroom took more time than the actual process. That was a lot easier than electrolysis!
Next step: trade in my passport for one with an updated gender marker.
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My endo is writing the letter I need for changing my gender in Indiana. I'll get it in the next week or so.
Quote from: Kendra on October 04, 2017, 07:21:53 PM
I keep getting closer to my goals. Went to the courthouse today as Ken Delmar F0wles, left as Kendra Faye F0wles. Parking and walking to the courtroom took more time than the actual process.
Woo-hoo, congratulations, Kendra! You are officially yourself. :)
I mentioned to my boss that I really enjoy going on business trips to our other offices Friday, and today, boom she slots me for Tokyo for November. That made me a happy girl.
I now have a schedule of all my pre and post op appointment times from my surgeon. One pre and 6 post op for my Nov 2nd GCS 4 weeks from tomorrow :)
Quote from: Kendra on October 04, 2017, 07:21:53 PM
Went to the courthouse today as Ken Delmar F0wles, left as Kendra Faye F0wles.
Kendra, that is fantastic. I'm so happy for you!
I'm getting very close myself. I'm making plans to go full-time, tentatively November 1. After that there's no reason to wait to initiate all the name and gender change paperwork. Verrrry sooooon...
Congratulations!!! 🎉
Quote from: Bari Jo on October 04, 2017, 07:45:45 PM
I mentioned to my boss that I really enjoy going on business trips to our other offices Friday, and today, boom she slots me for Tokyo for November. That made me a happy girl.
Wow, lucky girl, sooo want to visit Japan.
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(https://i.imgur.com/EpCmJ9y.jpg)(https://i.imgur.com/T6SW7Sa.jpg) (https://i.imgur.com/5KDXnP6.jpg) not fallen out of them yet, gold goes with everything , jeans, leggings , skirt and any colour IMO. Very comfy guess the shoe of choice for Hot Rod club xmas dinner, brace yourselves lads!!!!!!
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on October 04, 2017, 09:59:35 PM
I now have a schedule of all my pre and post op appointment times from my surgeon. One pre and 6 post op for my Nov 2nd GCS 4 weeks from tomorrow :)
Wow! Congrats Sydney!!
Quote from: Kendra on October 04, 2017, 07:21:53 PM
I keep getting closer to my goals. Went to the courthouse today as Ken Delmar F0wles, left as Kendra Faye F0wles. Parking and walking to the courtroom took more time than the actual process. That was a lot easier than electrolysis!
Next step: trade in my passport for one with an updated gender marker.
Congrats!! Isn't amazing to be free of the old self. Now comes the fun part....Social Security, DMV, utilities, bank accounts, credit accounts and any other assorted things where you have your dead name. I was able to get my college records changed including getting new diplomas issued!
Quote from: TonyaW on November 06, 2016, 08:54:01 PM
I recognize that!
Thanks to a very outgoing barista that I ran into while out as Tonya one night, most everyone at my local Starbucks refers me as Tonya even when in guy mode.
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Out on your wife?
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I've got a not so shiny paper temporary driver's license that has Colleen and F on it! :)
Colleen that's awesome! I am looking forward to that day.
Hi girls 🙋 I'm happy that my wife told me that estrogen is having a positive effect on me and that she showed support for me in my endeavors. Just knowing that she is with me on this is wonderful.
Happy, Jessica 💁
Quote from: Jessica on October 05, 2017, 10:22:30 PM
Hi girls [emoji137] I'm happy that my wife told me that estrogen is having a positive effect on me and that she showed support for me in my endeavors. Just knowing that she is with me on this is wonderful.
Happy, Jessica [emoji136]
I'm welling up at this. So happy for you, only wish this could have been me too. X
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Have been wearing my breast forms all day and no one noticed, OK so baggy ish sweat shirt but they still stick OUT and wearing the gold shoes again to break them in a bit so put in matching earrings and necklace , well it made me happy
Yesterday was a bad down in the valley day. But today was fantastic! Had to take some friends somewhere and just had a good time doing it. My friends and the people I know are getting used to my changes and it's wonderful to just be me. To top it off, I got mamed from the front and close up!!!! I've got to change my avatar, I really don't look that bad!
Nice Dani, that's great. Getting that ma'am close up must have felt amazing. Let's see that new Avatar too.
Now done my happy moment today. I started purging my guy clothes today. That's a way different purge than I'm used to, and am giddy about it. I also bought two pairs of Levi's. I am now a size 10 30" slim. That makes me super happy.
Bari Jo
Just signed my first ever card (to my nephew) as 'Aunt Megan', felt a bit odd, but great [emoji4].
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Nice one Aunty Meg, even better when its one for you saying to Megan.
Quote from: davina61 on October 07, 2017, 03:46:06 PM
Nice one Aunty Meg, even better when its one for you saying to Megan.
I had cards addressed to me before, always nice [emoji5].
Last Xmas was a nightmare, I used about half a dozen different names and terms when sending Xmas cards depending on who they were for; it's going to be alot easier this year!
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Quote from: meganjames2 on October 07, 2017, 03:38:17 PM
Just signed my first ever card (to my nephew) as 'Aunt Megan', felt a bit odd, but great [emoji4].
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What fun! I see a day in the future where my grandson has 3 grandma's. We already bake cookies together!
Smiling, Jessica 💁
Quote from: Jessica on October 07, 2017, 03:56:27 PM
What fun! I see a day in the future where my grandson has 3 grandma's. We already bake cookies together!
Smiling, Jessica [emoji136]
That's alot of cookies! X
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Came out to my parents & brother today - who were all awesome!
Brother told me he'd beat up anyone that said "mean things" about me. Dad said he knew there was *something* going on but didn't want to say anything until I did. Mom was great too.
I went to the gym today to workout and my legs are now officially stronger after two years of HRT than they were before when my T was high and I weighed 20 lbs more. My body is reversed from normal.
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Quote from: ToriJo on October 07, 2017, 05:44:00 PM
Came out to my parents & brother today - who were all awesome!
Brother told me he'd beat up anyone that said "mean things" about me. Dad said he knew there was *something* going on but didn't want to say anything until I did. Mom was great too.
This is fantastic. Congratulations.
Every day I'm out & someone mams me and *doesn't* mention my height in the grocery store or walmart = a good day. Usually one follows the other lol.
Quote from: ToriJo on October 07, 2017, 05:44:00 PM
Came out to my parents & brother today - who were all awesome!
Brother told me he'd beat up anyone that said "mean things" about me. Dad said he knew there was *something* going on but didn't want to say anything until I did. Mom was great too.
Congratulations!!!
I received all my documents for my PCP to fill out to clear me for surgery (shouldn't be any issues) and instructions before surgery. Also talked with my surgeon office and the final approval from the insurance company came through :icon_dance:
We've had a really good maintenance plan on Randi's car since we bought it. $100 fixes just about anything no matter how many separate problems there are.
A few weeks ago her engine blew and there was some doubt it would be covered since there was a clause that no repair could be more than book value.
Today we got word that the work will be covered. A new engine, installed, for $100!
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
So I dropped by my wife's work tonight and she was working with another guy. I was wearing jeggings and a nice looking shirt and no make up, just my hair pulled back in a pony tail. My wife said hi to me and told me where to meet her when she got off work. The guy that was working with her asked her who I was and when she told him that i was her husband, he was in shock Beause thought that I was a woman and he was floored that I was her husband.
My first real male fail that I am aware of ;D ;D
I had a super crappy day at work, almost cried even. When I finally made it home to sleep, I did the usual wash my face with a baking soda scrub. I noticed for the first time that my skin is actually lighter than my avatar pict now, also less pink, more olive. HRT is working, yay! Finally something I notice in the face!
My mom just replaced the makeup that I left at work!
Quote from: Bari Jo on October 09, 2017, 11:49:18 PM
I had a super crappy day at work, almost cried even. When I finally made it home to sleep, I did the usual wash my face with a baking soda scrub. I noticed for the first time that my skin is actually lighter than my avatar pict now, also less pink, more olive. HRT is working, yay! Finally something I notice in the face!
Sorry you had a bad day, but great news on the HRT progress. X
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Quote from: Bari Jo on October 09, 2017, 11:49:18 PMHRT is working, yay! Finally something I notice in the face!
I came out to a friend who I hadn't seen for about 6 weeks last night, and even before I said anything she was staring, and asked whether I'd lost weight, because my face looked different somehow, maybe thinner? There's been no change in my weight since I last saw her, so it's got to be the HRT. I see everyone else too often for it to be noticeable, I guess.
So
Yay, indeed!
Steph
Today was my first laser session down at the south pole. I have been dreading it for many reasons but I finally conquered my fears and neither the embarrassment nor the pain were anywhere near what I expected!
One more small step taken but feels great to keep moving, no matter how slowly!
There's a semi-regular that came into work today (we often have hour long conversations while he's here), and the first thing he said to me was 'You look like you're 15 years younger! Or more feminine.' ;D :D ;D
Quote from: Charlotte F on October 10, 2017, 02:42:45 PM
Today was my first laser session down at the south pole. I have been dreading it for many reasons but I finally conquered my fears and neither the embarrassment nor the pain were anywhere near what I expected!
One more small step taken but feels great to keep moving, no matter how slowly!
Charlotte, thank you for sharing your experience, I'm glad it wasn't too bad! X
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Today I was being interviewed for a local newspaper in light of "Coming out week". I'm hoping it will be a positive story.
I also found out that my name (Rachel) means "little lamb" (or something similar) in Hebrew. That made me chuckle, haha.
One of my customers gave me a new access badge today... to my surprise it says Sarah :-)
Quote from: sarah1972 on October 10, 2017, 07:41:00 PM
One of my customers gave me a new access badge today... to my surprise it says Sarah :-)
I love this. It's a small but such a powerful long remembered gesture. I'm hoping for some of these at work also.
Bari Jo
As I was leaving my appointment at the VA today; a gentleman asked me, "Did you remember your umbrella ma'am?" and another said "Good day Darling" ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Speaking with a stranger in a coffee house today. I had just commented that my baby picture was the only one in black and white in my family even though I was the youngest by ten years. She said, "you must have been the princess."
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
I had to go to the post office to pick up a parcel that had customs oweing. As I was walking up the front path, a hillbilly-looking guy in farmer overalls was walking up the side path. He put on a burst of speed so he could get to the door ahead of me and open it for me. :) Inside, as I was paying, he and the lady at the counter were teasing each other and being bratty. She turned to me and said, conspiratorially, "I bet he's glad he doesn't live with me!" :)
Treated like a lady by a gentleman, and treated as one of the girls by a lady. Yeah! ;D
Not today, but last week. I had to swing by my wife's work to switch vehicles. One of the cooks was taking trash out and popped over because he thought my wife was leaving (she gives him rides sometimes). I just tell him no we are switching vehicles and I think nothing further about it. That evening she tells me that ye went inside and mentioned about the vehicle thing and said, "your wife is cute."
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Starting to get used to being offered seats and men holding the door for me 🤣
My sister just bought me a doll after I told her I liked it a lot. Next Sat I'm dressing up day of the dead in a drab suit for her wedding. A couple weeks after that I'm coming out to her. I hope she realizes I identify with this doll.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/rxt15rkk9xgregi/IMG_4660_2.jpg?dl=0
Bari Jo
I sent a coming-out note late yesterday to my manager who works in another state. His response today was so awesome I almost started crying at my desk.
Legal name change was yesterday. I'm now legally able to sign Denise and change all my documentation. I have all the proper paperwork for gender change on everything except my New Jersey birth certificate.
Let the paperwork fun begin.
Congrats Denise! I remember that time. I cried when my docs came. I know that there are many docs to change but enjoy knowing that in completing each one, you are able put another pare of the picture of the you!
Hugs
After three weeks on HRT i had a family member pull me aside to ask i could wear a shirt around the dudes. ( i live in the tropics were shirts are optional ) despite disagreeing that women should have to cover up it felt good because she was treating me the same as she does all the girls.
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After waking up with start of an outbreak of hives (last few weeks been working on going out as me.)
I called off work redid the budget. Am married have to be responsible. Sat on the pourch had some coffee, I have been truly blessed. *giggles* Played some 80's love songs and waiting for the wife to get up.
I washed my hair again today. Before I started HRT, I would have to wash my hair every two or three days. Now I can go an entire week without washing it, and it still wouldn't be oily. :D
I love this.
Quote from: Galyo on October 14, 2017, 09:15:18 AM
I washed my hair again today. Before I started HRT, I would have to wash my hair every two or three days. Now I can go an entire week without washing it, and it still wouldn't be oily. :D
I love this.
I love that, too,but over time it changed. Now I need to wash it every two or three days.
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
I wanted my first post in this thread to be something worth posting, even if it was technically something that made me happy last night... But I just received my HRT letter from my therapist. On Monday I'm scheduling an appointment with my GP and keeping this ball rolling, and depending on the whims of fate (ie: what medicaid says and appointment openings) I could be looking at having the actual hormones soon enough, and I am just beyond excited.
Though funny enough, more than the letter and what comes with it, what really made me just overjoyed was the e-mail it was attached to that said "Hi Ellie...". I keep smiling and looking back at it.
Quote from: Roll on October 14, 2017, 09:47:40 AM
I wanted my first post in this thread to be something worth posting, even if it was technically something that made me happy last night... But I just received my HRT letter from my therapist. On Monday I'm scheduling an appointment with my GP and keeping this ball rolling, and depending on the whims of fate (ie: what medicaid says and appointment openings) I could be looking at having the actual hormones soon enough, and I am just beyond excited.
Though funny enough, more than the letter and what comes with it, what really made me just overjoyed was the e-mail it was attached to that said "Hi Ellie...". I keep smiling and looking back at it.
That is so awesome! Also, I love the name. My second daughters middle name is Eleanor and she responds to both Violet and Eleanor, which is just adorable. Glad to hear you are making such amazing strides!
My happy is that I have finally begin the process of hair removal. It's the beginning of a long journey, but it's begun.
Amber
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Bought some new jeans today. When I started this journey in Jan of this year I weighed 185lbs (84kg) and wore US size 16 jeans. My weight is down to 154 (70kg) and I was amazed to find a size 8 was now a perfect fit!
Quote from: Roll on October 14, 2017, 09:47:40 AM
I wanted my first post in this thread to be something worth posting, even if it was technically something that made me happy last night... But I just received my HRT letter from my therapist. On Monday I'm scheduling an appointment with my GP and keeping this ball rolling, and depending on the whims of fate (ie: what medicaid says and appointment openings) I could be looking at having the actual hormones soon enough, and I am just beyond excited.
Though funny enough, more than the letter and what comes with it, what really made me just overjoyed was the e-mail it was attached to that said "Hi Ellie...". I keep smiling and looking back at it.
Congrats Ellie!!
Today I went to my laser appointment for the first time as Sarah. They all had no problems with it whatsoever & were happy to change my name on their file.
I also went out to RenFest again (free ticket!), and had a lot of fun, even if we did get rained on (and rained on HARD - we were holed up in a store there for over an hour while they stapled up tarps!).
While we were stuck there I bought a coin skirt, matching top, and wristbands (basically a belly-dancer outfit). Not sure I feel confident enough to wear it around anyone else just yet, though! ;D
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on October 14, 2017, 08:26:55 PM
Bought some new jeans today. When I started this journey in Jan of this year I weighed 185lbs (84kg) and wore US size 16 jeans. My weight is down to 154 (70kg) and I was amazed to find a size 8 was now a perfect fit!
Congrats on the weight loss!
Quote from: Sarah_P on October 14, 2017, 08:33:45 PM
Congrats Ellie!!
Today I went to my laser appointment for the first time as Sarah. They all had no problems with it whatsoever & were happy to change my name on their file.
I also went out to RenFest again (free ticket!), and had a lot of fun, even if we did get rained on (and rained on HARD - we were holed up in a store there for over an hour while they stapled up tarps!).
While we were stuck there I bought a coin skirt, matching top, and wristbands (basically a belly-dancer outfit). Not sure I feel confident enough to wear it around anyone else just yet, though! ;D
Thanks! :D I just looked up a coin skirt, that is amazing and I want one too now, but I don't think I would even have the confidence to look at it, much less buy it. ;D
Jessica, that's awesome. I'm pretty much exactly the same, started at 184, and now at 150.6. I threw away all my fat boy jeans and bought girl 30" waist, love it!
And Roll, congrats, so much to look forward to!
Bari Jo
Today was a stupid thing but it still made me happy. At breakfast ordering I was asked my name so they could call it out. I gave my boy name. She looked at me funny and I thought repeated it, and I said yes. When I got my receipt it said "Mary". Silly yet still made me smile.
Found Dawson's Creek on Hulu. May be offline for the next few days [emoji23][emoji106]
Being gendered as female by the clerk at the post office this morning. I didn't make any effort and wasn't looking for it. I had on a loose fitting flannel shirt, no make up and I don't give a $hit hair. I guess the black stud earrings and fingernails was enough. It takes so little to make me happy, though it only lasts for a few minutes before I'm back to being miserable again.
I have been practising walking like a woman, I think I have it. I emailed a local trans group asking to join, so hopefully I should soon have a safe place to dress as a woman and get my first fem photo
Okay, a few days ago but still makes me happy. A few days after I came out to my dad, I received a gift from him in the mail, addressed to my preferred name.
Quote from: ToriJo on October 16, 2017, 11:28:44 PM
Okay, a few days ago but still makes me happy. A few days after I came out to my dad, I received a gift from him in the mail, addressed to my preferred name.
Your dad is awesome.
On my way home from working out of town. I stopped at an Arby's restaurant drive through to get a snack. I used my female voice at the speaker. When I got to the window, before he looked at me, he said hello ma'am. Bad part was he changed to sir as soon as he saw me. Understandable, it was dark, so he couldn't see my makeup, I was wearing my work uniform, and my male driving glasses. I told him in my female voice he was right the first time, he apologized, and used female pronouns for the remainder of the wait.
Was getting ready today and I step out of the shower to see BOOBS. ON ME. They are mine! They just kind of hit the point where they look less poky and more filled out.
I sorted out an appointment with a wig and make-up specialist today. For Wednesday 1st, I can't wait to see myself as female for the first time
Quote from: NinaW on October 17, 2017, 12:52:59 PM
I sorted out an appointment with a wig and make-up specialist today. For Wednesday 1st, I can't wait to see myself as female for the first time
Ooo enjoy! You'll have fun. X
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I found out that I now have medical coverage that will cover my HRT so, now I am eagerly searching to get back on hormones
Here's a dumb one to follow up my previous real one... Someone accidentally said ma'am to me. Total slip of the tongue based on nothing that I was doing or presenting which happens a million times each day, but still... was really fun to hear. ;D
I have to walk my sister down the aisle this Saturday. That means I'm wearing a suit which I don't like to do anymore. However it's a day of the dead themed wedding so I bought a day of the dead ladies mask and sparkly hat to wear with the suit. My sisters only comment was, "oh that's not too girly". Um, it's just girly enough right now:)
Bari Jo
Not today, but on Friday the 13th of October, I came out to the world on Facebook, with absolutely no negative feedback!
Story here: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,228563.msg2037025.html#msg2037025 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,228563.msg2037025.html#msg2037025) (Warning: It ain't short, but I kinda think it's worth it. I'm biased.)
Steph
Today, after 50 years of wanting it, I finally got my ears pierced. That was followed by dinner and shopping with my wife and my dear neighbor, who has a keen sense of style, and who helped me pick out some new clothes. That was topped off by warm girl-talk on the ride home.
How awesome to just be one of the girls!
Steph
Remembering how good Monday felt. I had my first session of electrolysis and it went better than expected. She was able to clear my upper lip, lower lip, and start on my chin. Afterward, in the parking lot I got Ma'amed by a stranger for the first time. Granted it was in a dark parking garage but we were standing only a few feet apart, I was unshaven with no makeup, and she heard my voice. She needed some directions and at the end of the conversation she said "thank you, ma'am". I nearly cried I was so happy.
Quote from: Bari Jo on October 17, 2017, 11:47:53 PM
I have to walk my sister down the aisle this Saturday. That means I'm wearing a suit which I don't like to do anymore. However it's a day of the dead themed wedding so I bought a day of the dead ladies mask and sparkly hat to wear with the suit. My sisters only comment was, "oh that's not too girly". Um, it's just girly enough right now:)
Bari Jo
I have a walk down the aisle with my daughter in about a year - I hope I can make it there as a male enough for her! :(
QUITE SIMPLY HRT and sore boobs! I read somewhere euphoria on HRT was just happiness not due to hormonla changes - I say (pun intended) poppy cock!
love and hugs! Marcie
GP has agreed on joint HRT care and she said should be on by Christmas. Also got my Deed poll signed by solicitor so one step away from officially being Davina, now just need wigs to come next week.
Congrats!!! Davina. Glad that it looks like you are getting some movement in your favor.
Hugs,
Laurie
I was complemented on my necklace yesterday! I raided the wife's craft supplies and made me a new one. I was wearing it when I went to pay the light bill and a lady said she loved it and asked if I made it. All of the other ladys had to have a look to and find out how I made it. It's fun to just girl talk! {especially as one of the girls!}
Quote from: davina61 on October 18, 2017, 09:38:42 AM
GP has agreed on joint HRT care and she said should be on by Christmas. Also got my Deed poll signed by solicitor so one step away from officially being Davina, now just need wigs to come next week.
Brilliant news. X
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Think (well, I'd like to think) I'm picking up learning make-up pretty well. Of course, I'm only watching tutorials, learning the theory behind it. The implementation will probably be much harder, but I'm going to practice, practice, practice, when I get the chance (I'm going away alone in 10 days)
I braved the Social Security office today and got my account corrected!
Yet another thing to wait for in the mail.
Well it wasn't today it was Monday. I got my first hormones from the drug store. ;D ;D ;D
Walked out of Victoria Secret half price thanks to a stack of coupons and a cashier tricking the system in giving me every single one!!
Yeah! congratulations! Let the fun begin!
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on October 18, 2017, 06:37:01 PM
Well it wasn't today it was Monday. I got my first hormones from the drug store. ;D ;D ;D
Today was pretty good.
Took my wife to her new doctor for an appointment. As we went in she told me she had to use the restroom. I said I did too, and we went into the women's room, together. The ladies in there said nothing.
The bad.
My brother doesn't want me to present female around my niece. She is 3 years old. He says it will cause her confusion about genders. He wants me to hide it for another 5 years, when she's 8.
The best part though was the Megabot versus Kuratas robot duel. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-ouLX8Q9UM
Hope the link works.
Quote from: Artesia on October 18, 2017, 10:26:00 PM
My brother doesn't want me to present female around my niece. She is 3 years old. He says it will cause her confusion about genders. He wants me to hide it for another 5 years, when she's 8.
That's too bad. I've got friends with a 3-year old that just explained to him that I'm not a boy anymore, and his response was 'OK!'. Does a 3-year old really even understand gender? Seems like it'd be easier on her to get used to it now.
Quote from: Artesia on October 18, 2017, 10:26:00 PM
The best part though was the Megabot versus Kuratas robot duel.
GAAAHH!!! Did that finally happen?! It's been so long since I'd heard anything about it I'd completely forgotten!! :icon_joy: :icon_chainsaw: :icon_boxing: :icon_joy:
Don't spoil it for me! (and no, the link didn't work for me - that's OK, I'll find it)
Well this happened yesterday, but it still made me happy. Another step in my journey...
I talked to my HR representative, who also happens to head our LGBTQ employee resource group. It was an awesome conversation. We even started discussing dates for when I planned to go full time and she sent me links to some resources I may find helpful. I mentioned about wanting to get a trachea shave before going full time, and she said our insurance covers everything related to transitioning and she will put me in contact with someone who can help me get the right boxes checked. This is finally starting to feel real...
Quote from: Sarah_P on October 18, 2017, 11:18:33 PM
That's too bad. I've got friends with a 3-year old that just explained to him that I'm not a boy anymore, and his response was 'OK!'. Does a 3-year old really even understand gender? Seems like it'd be easier on her to get used to it now.
GAAAHH!!! Did that finally happen?! It's been so long since I'd heard anything about it I'd completely forgotten!! :icon_joy: :icon_chainsaw: :icon_boxing: :icon_joy:
Don't spoil it for me! (and no, the link didn't work for me - that's OK, I'll find it)
The link I put in is showing up as a video on my post for me. Weird.
My brother said the child psychologist at work said this is the worst time to tell them, this is the point in time where children start to learn genders. I don't see it as a problem, but this psychologist does. Says "it's confusing" to young children. My studies seem to show it differently, but I'm not a licensed psychologist......yet.
Quote from: Artesia on October 19, 2017, 06:51:18 AM
The link I put in is showing up as a video on my post for me. Weird.
My brother said the child psychologist at work said this is the worst time to tell them, this is the point in time where children start to learn genders. I don't see it as a problem, but this psychologist does. Says "it's confusing" to young children. My studies seem to show it differently, but I'm not a licensed psychologist......yet.
That is plain silly. Yes that is an age where they start to form concepts about gender, but it is also an age where they are most open to gender variance since they don't have preconceived notions about binary genders. Sounds like your brother is trying to avoid having what he would consider a difficult conversation with his child.
When I started questioning and transitioning my girls were 3 and 5 (now 7 and 5). The eldest needed more explanation than the younger child precisely because it did not fit in with what she thought she already knew. Not that she took it poorly. I just had to explain that I was very unhappy as a boy so with the help of my Dr I am changing into a woman. The younger one just accepts that I am dad and I look and act like a girl.
Just because one psychologist says something doesn't mean they are right. There are plenty of uniformed and biased professionals out there. Ultimately, it's your decision, but I personally wouldn't make myself miserable for someone else's piece of mind.
Amber
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I'm taking a massive step... probably walking before I can run, but I don't care. I bought some bras and knickers to wear under my clothes
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Today I've filed the report for changing my name and gender at the city hall! The guy who helped me assured me that I would receive a notice by mail some time the next two weeks. At that point, I can have my ID card and driver's license changed officially! I'll officially be Rachel! :)
As of this morning I weigh 149.2. Next goal is to be under 140...
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on October 19, 2017, 03:28:06 PM
As of this morning I weigh 149.2. Next goal is to be under 140...
Bari Jo
OMG I'm jealous, well done girl. X
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Quote from: NinaW on October 19, 2017, 12:57:40 PM
I'm taking a massive step... probably walking before I can run, but I don't care. I bought some bras and knickers to wear under my clothes
Enjoy! ;D
Quote from: Bari Jo on October 19, 2017, 03:28:06 PM
As of this morning I weigh 149.2. Next goal is to be under 140...
I don't think it's physically possible for me to get that low without some sort of terminal illness, that is so unfair. ;D now I'm gonna go eat cake to drown my weight loss misery! ... Seriously though, congrats!
Quote from: Roll on October 19, 2017, 06:01:44 PM
I don't think it's physically possible for me to get that low without some sort of terminal illness, that is so unfair. ;D now I'm gonna go eat cake to drown my weight loss misery! ... Seriously though, congrats!
Hah, it helps that I'm only 5'6". I have been pulled aside by a couple people asking if I'm okay though. I'm now down 35 lbs. I was a tubby girl.
Bari Jo
That's great progress regardless of your height.
The fact that, even though I'm in the closet, but I still get the chance to dress somewhat female (basically, just wearing leggings), means so much, I feel so much more like myself when I have them on. Especially after a week of wearing work clothes all week, which really brings me down
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Quote from: NinaW on October 20, 2017, 09:12:00 AM
The fact that, even though I'm in the closet, but I still get the chance to dress somewhat female (basically, just wearing leggings), means so much, I feel so much more like myself when I have them on. Especially after a week of wearing work clothes all week, which really brings me down
Hi Nina,
I understand what you are saying here. When I cross dressed at home before discovering there was much more to my need to be female, I felt a relief when I shed my male clothing and donned my female clothes. It was like shedding all my male responsibilities along with them and donning a freer more liberating comfortable life with my female clothes. There was always a sense of rightness about it. Enjoy the freedom.
Hugs,
Laurie
Quote from: Laurie on October 20, 2017, 09:26:22 AM
Hi Nina,
I understand what you are saying here. When I cross dressed at home before discovering there was much more to my need to be female, I felt a relief when I shed my male clothing and donned my female clothes. It was like shedding all my male responsibilities along with them and donning a freer more liberating comfortable life with my female clothes. There was always a sense of rightness about it. Enjoy the freedom.
Hugs,
Laurie
Although I'm not fully dressed as a woman like I want to be, it's much better than nothing at all. I feel like my mannerisms and voice naturally just become more feminine, more myself, I don't even know why. I've already got an idea of how I'd look like if I could truly dress as myself, and I can't wait to be her
Quote from: Bari Jo on October 19, 2017, 06:37:55 PMHah, it helps that I'm only 5'6". I have been pulled aside by a couple people asking if I'm okay though. I'm now down 35 lbs. I was a tubby girl.
Hi Bari Jo,
Congratulations on 35 lbs.! I'm 5' 5" and at one point was pushing up toward 170. After about 2 years I've gotten down to 142 and seem to be stuck there. I want to see 140 on the scale, and would love to get to 135, but that may not be realistic. Now if I could lose these shoulders. Size 14 top and size 8 pants. Bit of a mismatch.
Steph
I got my referral letter to the gender clinic today :) x
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Participated today sharing my experience in a Trans* health panel with 100+ med students in Cambridge. They seemed engaged, informed and keen to learn. The future of medical care for us looks brighter [emoji4]
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Quote from: MollyPants on October 20, 2017, 10:37:18 AM
I got my referral letter to the gender clinic today :) x
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Yay, congrats [emoji5].
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Mollypants , good news girl now you have joined the queue-----
took my young children to stay at the aduld childrens house so i could have a weekend and saw how set up clean and mad cool they had prepared for it. to glass full how all the spawn are major tight andintelly to never hava a real biggy cept awesomenes . yay
I finally got around to doing the leg work to publish notification of my name change. I was dressed mostly drab due to convenience, but when the receptionist at the legal journal called back to whom I needed to speak she said, "theres a woman here about a name change." Teehee. Still tickles me pink that I can wear baggy drab guy clothes and still get correctly gendered.
Also, new color for my hair!
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Quote from: MollyPants on October 20, 2017, 10:37:18 AM
I got my referral letter to the gender clinic today :) x
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That sounds amazing! Congratulations, I'm so happy for you :)... and jealous, ha
I got cleared today from my PCP for GCS surgery in 13 days ;D
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on October 20, 2017, 06:39:50 PM
I got cleared today from my PCP for GCS surgery in 13 days ;D
Congrats Sydney moving right along
Had lunch with my best, first and only girlfriend today (except for my wife!). She is the only co-worker I have come out to -- hopefully that list of girlfriends will grow once I am out to everyone. It was great having someone to talk to.
I hinted to my family today about me being trans, just by talking about a transgender book I've been reading, how much I hate wearing men's shirts and about wanting to grow out my hair, which is giving me the impression my family would accept me bring trans, I was tempted to come out to them, but it's far too early for that
I'm feeling a little better today wearing a wig without makeup. This usually causes me a lot of dysphoria and made me think "what's the point of growing my hair out". But now I'm so dedicated and I'm only 1 beard laser session in and not even 1 month in on hormones! I hope this is a happy start for me for once...
Three things this week, first I went out to Arizona for a FFS consult with Meltzer and Ley which was very thorough, and I flew for the first time as me without event. I'm pretty sure that TSA Precheck had something to do with that, but my therapist thought I'm probably also passing better than I give myself credit for. I don't see it at all but I was happy for the uneventful interactions with American Airlines and TSA.
I also had my first experience with some random dude helping me out if the blue. Apparently I was a damsel in distress who looked like she couldn't find the right bus from the car rental to the terminal. While cool and exciting, also annoying and I can see how that will get old really fast.
But most importantly, my wife went shopping with me today. Her idea, and way too much spent at old navy. Estrogen is not bank account friendly, for sure.
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Tonight I realized that I get way fewer weird looks in "hair tie and screw it" (no makeup in sight) mode than in boy mode.
My boyfriend called me pretty today for the first time. 😊 He has said that I should makeup more often, that I look prettier when I wear it, grr >:(, but has never actually said that I look pretty.
Huh, wait. I am not sure that he did now that I think about it. :(
Okay, so he is on the board of a local art gallery. When we have our local fall fest every year they take advantage of the foot traffic downtown and have an exposition. This evening they all got together, drank a lot of wine and, and well, it was very fun. His one friend is also on the board and I met his daughter for the first time tonight, 23, pretty and cold. Or at least she was to me.
On the way home I mentioned how rude she was to me and he chuckled, and said, Well pretty girls compare themselves to other pretty girls don't they. You couldn't see her face when she realized that the woman she was trying to decide if she was prettier than was more than twice her age.
Technically he didn't say I was petty I guess.
That's okay. 😊 He is biased, not right in the head and probably needs new glasses but it still made me extremely happy. :icon_geekdance: :eusa_dance: :icon_geekdance: :eusa_dance:
I'm proud of myself today, I asked if Waterstones had a transgender book I was looking for, then went into Boots and looked for make-up (I tried doing that the other day but got scared, ha). I still look with great envy when I see girls who look nice
Boots is great and never have trouble getting help, not a batted eyelid when I got colour matched.(think old bald bloke asking for make up)
A couple things made me happy. My sister gave me that doll and I love it. At her wedding I asked for a girly day of the dead face paint. The painter gave me the same pattern as the doll.
Then on Sunday, I wired a gfci outlet, and only had to ask for help once!
I managed to get the PIDs on my homemade micro race drone tuned to where I can actually fly it :) Totally geek-festing this weekend trying to get in to the air. I love flying!
Sorry this didn't happen yet... 18 days and 10 hours until BA! After DECADES of wanting breasts almost more than life itself... I'm down to 2 weeks, 4 days and a few hours. It still makes me happy!!! I have not stopped smiling since I got scheduled 5 days ago.
Wife commented and said, "I'm sure you have some breasts growing." And I think she might be right.
My appointment with the mental health specialist has come through the post - in the UK, this is basically the first step (after telling your doctor that you're trans). I feel happy that the wheels are in motion, even if I am at the very early stage of my journey. If anything, it's hit home how serious this transition will be, it's going to completely change my life, and at some point I'm gonna have to tell my family who I really am
So I have some shape wear , 40B cup and the press studs in the crutch area popped when I sat down . Well I tried it tonight and the poppers have stayed together, diet must be working but the scales still say 14st 2 lb but my breasts seem bigger and no HRT still.
Quote from: NinaW on October 22, 2017, 09:45:42 AM
I'm proud of myself today, I asked if Waterstones had a transgender book I was looking for, then went into Boots and looked for make-up (I tried doing that the other day but got scared, ha). I still look with great envy when I see girls who look nice
I'm a big fan of Boots 'Match Made' service. Their bigger stores have a little gizmo they press to your jawline, and in a couple if seconds it can recommend the right foundation shade which saves alot of guesswork! Just ask at the no.7 counter, never had any issue presenting male, female or random [emoji16]
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Quote from: Megan. on October 24, 2017, 04:16:03 PM
I'm a big fan of Boots 'Match Made' service. Their bigger stores have a little gizmo they press to your jawline, and in a couple if seconds it can recommend the right foundation shade which saves alot of guesswork! Just ask at the no.7 counter, never had any issue presenting male, female or random [emoji16]
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Wow, omg. That sounds really helpful. I have been told the colour of your neck should be the colour of your foundation
In addition they also have little info cards that suggest lipstick and blusher colours that go with that foundation. X
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Two things today. First is my estrodial is being increased tomorrow along with Spiro. This is something that I have been waiting for since I started low dose. Second I finally found a shirt that makes it look like I have boobs. Not big ones but something slightly bigger than my itty bitty titties that I have.
That is all.
Quote from: Megan. on October 24, 2017, 11:24:20 PM
In addition they also have little info cards that suggest lipstick and blusher colours that go with that foundation. X
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Is this a UK only thing? Is there something similar in the USA? I want to go play!
Bari Jo
There appear to be a couple of apps that claim to do similar, a quick search showed loreal shade genius and bare minerals made-2-fit, there may be others. X
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Sephora color iq service looks similar to boots.
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Had a lovely day out in London with my kids, then came home to a thank you card from my nephew addressed to 'Auntie Megan' [emoji4].
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Quote from: Megan. on October 25, 2017, 04:41:20 PM
Had a lovely day out in London with my kids, then came home to a thank you card from my nephew addressed to 'Auntie Megan' [emoji4].
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Those are wonderful to receive. Glad you all had a great time. I've always wanted to visit London.
Quote from: RobynTx on October 25, 2017, 04:49:48 PM
Those are wonderful to receive. Glad you all had a great time. I've always wanted to visit London.
Tnx Robyn, and good news on the HRT and shirt/boobs [emoji5]
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Quote from: Megan. on October 25, 2017, 04:51:36 PM
Tnx Robyn, and good news on the HRT and shirt/boobs [emoji5]
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Thanks. I picked up the shirt at a gift shop while on vacation with the family at the coast. I got it before I started HRT and this is the first time I've worn it. Fits pretty good. I really want to see the look on the wife's face when she sees me in it. :)
Naptime with the cats 😻
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I'm off work for 6 days (if you include the weekends, which I don't work anyway) :), which means I don't have to wear smart men's clothes till next Thursday. That makes me so happy. I'm going to Hull on Friday for 1 night and Edinburgh on Sunday for 2 nights, and I get a professional makeover (wig and makeup) on Monday, that's probably going to be the highlight of my year if I'm being honestly. Can't wait to see myself, but I really hope that I pass
I've got a couple things that made me happy. One is last Friday, I had my pellet count tripled. This immediately affected my mood and made me less emotional. I didn't expect having your e levels drop would make you cry at the slightest agitation, but that was my experience. Anyway, that's number one.
Number two, and this is probably due to number one. My breasts feel like they have buds again. I haven't felt that in like forever. I thought I'd have to accept that I'd be a AA size girl forever, now, not so sure. Maybe I'll get to the coveted B.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on October 26, 2017, 12:43:36 PM
I've got a couple things that made me happy. One is last Friday, I had my pellet count tripled. This immediately affected my mood and made me less emotional. I didn't expect having your e levels drop would make you cry at the slightest agitation, but that was my experience. Anyway, that's number one.
Number two, and this is probably due to number one. My breasts feel like they have buds again. I haven't felt that in like forever. I thought I'd have to accept that I'd be a AA size girl forever, now, not so sure. Maybe I'll get to the coveted B.
Bari Jo
To B or not to B... [emoji16]
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Quote from: NinaW on October 26, 2017, 12:25:09 PM
I'm off work for 6 days (if you include the weekends, which I don't work anyway) :), which means I don't have to wear smart men's clothes till next Thursday. That makes me so happy. I'm going to Hull on Friday for 1 night and Edinburgh on Sunday for 2 nights, and I get a professional makeover (wig and makeup) on Monday, that's probably going to be the highlight of my year if I'm being honestly. Can't wait to see myself, but I really hope that I pass
That sounds wonderful, Nina! Have a great time.
I've got about 7 days of vacation I need to use up before the end of the year. If nothing else I'd love to check into a hotel for a week somewhere & just be me. I've been holding off on it thinking (hoping!!) I might need the time to look for a new apartment or something.
Got to girl with my wife all day. Clothes and shoes shopping, eyebrows waxed, and nails done. She's not typically very girlie, I must be rubbing off on her.
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Quote from: amberwaves on October 26, 2017, 01:42:41 PMGot to girl with my wife all day. Clothes and shoes shopping, eyebrows waxed, and nails done. She's not typically very girlie, I must be rubbing off on her.
I got my ears pierced a few weeks ago, and my wife, who's been avoiding it her whole life, agreed to get hers done at the same time! I guess we're a good influence... well, an influence, anyway...
Steph
I went to the pub, walked up to order my food and the guy behind the counter said "hey lovely what can I get for you tonight"
I stood there like a stunned idiot for a "little too long" but it made me feel great! Once I got over the initial shock.
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My estradiol was increased today which I'm happy about. I'm going to start 3 doses a day tomorrow. Although I'm dreading having to remember 3 times, I'm very happy!
My transition inspired a coworker to come out.
Quote from: KarynMcD on October 27, 2017, 05:34:21 AM
My transition inspired a coworker to come out.
That is just awesome. Good for both of you! You for being a role model and them for being brave enough to be themselves.
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Quote from: KarynMcD on October 27, 2017, 05:34:21 AM
My transition inspired a coworker to come out.
Wow, very cool, Karyn! My therapist warned me at our first session that like it or not, I'd end up being an educator to my friends, and a role model for those who follow. Looks like you've achieved that exalted status!
Steph
PS: I like your name and the way it's spelled. I had actually considered something similar, except starting with a "C" (Caryn).
Our usual mail men handed me todays mail: Here you go ma'am, have a nice weekend! (ok, it was pretty obvious - totally dressed up, skirt heel boots and finally breaking in a b cup push up - A is now at it's limits). Still made me so happy ;D
I just to casually use my name in public. The first time was at a sandwich place where they ask your name so they can call it when your food is available. I gave it to them, even spelled it out. When it was called, I got really happy. I'm doing this more often. I know I'm not presenting, but my name is fairly androgynous. I think the only time it would raise eyebrows would be from family since they know the history of it. Come to think if it, that might be a good way to out myself to them, start the conversation.
Bari Jo
Went for some routine blood work that was submitted in my boy name and had to show ID for the first time. "Last name" xyz "first name" J*, "uh, are you sure miss?" God bless the nurse at quest.
Uuuhh yeah, that is always a fun discussion... The Lab location my doctor recommended is fantastic. All my HRT related lab slips say "F" on it and it stays through the entire system. I usually chat with the lab techs about nail polish :D
Once I went to a different lab and oh boy... they changed it to M, where rude about it and did not even know how many vials to draw. So, never again.
Quote from: jill610 on October 27, 2017, 10:42:30 AM
Went for some routine blood work that was submitted in my boy name and had to show ID for the first time. "Last name" xyz "first name" J*, "uh, are you sure miss?" God bless the nurse at quest.
I haven't had a mini meltdown in three days. Hoping the streak continues.
Quote from: KarynMcD on October 27, 2017, 05:34:21 AM
My transition inspired a coworker to come out.
OMG! We are contagious.
Quote from: Laurie on October 27, 2017, 01:27:33 PM
OMG! We are contagious.
Don't say that too loudly. Some nut job will use it to try and quarantine us.
Quote from: Artesia on October 27, 2017, 01:32:54 PM
Don't say that too loudly. Some nut job will use it to try and quarantine us.
Well, to be fair I have now given most of you leprosy. Sorry about that.
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Congratulations Kendra! Must feel awesome - the smile on your face says everything!!!
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Very nice indeed!
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SQUEEEEEEEE!
I knew it would feel good to receive an updated passport but I didn't understand by how much... just a booklet of paper but I really feel more permanent.
And I can visit Stephanie now! Oh wait, Florida is part of the US.
That's really awesome Kendra! I bet that feels good!
Congratulations Kendra.
Quote from: Kendra on October 27, 2017, 07:05:53 PMAnd I can visit Stephanie now! Oh wait, Florida is part of the US.
As long as you stay North of Lake Ogre Chobee...
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OMG that's so awesome!!! Congrats Kendra!!!
I came home to a random eBay box waiting for me. Inside was a classic Figment from Journey into Imagination. I have no idea who sent it, but they made my day!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on October 27, 2017, 09:14:18 PM
As long as you stay North of Lake Ogre Chobee...
Wrong peninsula, that's in Xanth.
Quote from: Artesia on October 28, 2017, 05:02:26 AM
Wrong peninsula, that's in Xanth.
Ding ding ding! Artesia wins, make no mythtake about it!
And don't call me Skeeve. (It's now Skeph.)
Quote from: Steph2.0 on October 28, 2017, 05:57:39 AM
Ding ding ding! Artesia wins, make no mythtake about it!
And don't call me Skeeve. (It's now Skeph.)
It's been decades since I last read a Piers Anthony book. I think I stopped before the Color of her Panties. His books were a lot of fun to read. Did that one ever get published?
Quote from: Artesia on October 28, 2017, 06:37:13 AM
It's been decades since I last read a Piers Anthony book. I think I stopped before the Color of her Panties. His books were a lot of fun to read. Did that one ever get published?
It did. I stopped when I couldn't take his sour attitude in his afterwards anymore. It's a shame. I always loved his stories. I even knew his full name and still do.
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
Our youngest son had his birthday party today. The whole family joined for the celebration. It was the first time I met them as Johanna. Everything went well. Remember i was thinking a year ago at the same party that they would be so disapointed if they knew about me. Especially my father in law. Today he took me aside and said that he thought that I am brave and that he supports us. My mother in law is also supports us. I'm so glad.
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Piers Anthony, oh god does that bring back memories. When Demons Don't Dream came out there was an old adventure game made based on it that had the book packaged with it. I bought the game not knowing a thing about Xanth, and read everything up until that point and the next few that came out but for whatever reason didn't keep up.
Quote from: Dee Marshall on October 28, 2017, 06:53:50 AM
It did. I stopped when I couldn't take his sour attitude in his afterwards anymore. It's a shame. I always loved his stories. I even knew his full name and still do.
I hated reading the afterwords from the start, something about the way he ranted just bothered me. What did a 12 year old care about a writer's angst I suppose? ;D
had my second laser hair session today! Whooohoooo!
Johanna, so great to hear coming out at your youngest son's birthday party went well - awesome!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on October 27, 2017, 09:14:18 PM
As long as you stay North of Lake Ogre Chobee...
I had no clue where Lake Ogre Chobee was. Really didn't. After reading replies I understand now why Google Maps failed. So I looked up Xanth and found it, apparently the Googly camera car hasn't wandered that far.
I'm heading to Spotsdale Aridzona next week to get a surgical evaluation to build my Gap Chasm now that my eeeklectrologist helped create the Dead Forest down there. Next year after my Forbidden Region heals I'm hoping Mount Parnassus in the northern region can become twin peaks. Couple days ago I was in Bawston seeing the Good Magician (Dr. Seagull) in his stylish new castle for an FFS eval. End of November I'll make a decision after an FFS eval with Swell FoopTeam in Marblea, Dr. Simon says. HRT separated my mind from the Region of Madness. I've been slapping Yaystradiol patches on my Moons of Ida which not many people see unless I thong, therefore I am.
Did I get that right?
Quote from: Steph2.0 on October 28, 2017, 01:28:51 PM
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wait... what?
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Did you worry you just had a stroke too?
Quote from: Roll on October 28, 2017, 01:53:10 PM
Did you worry you just had a stroke too?
Whew! It's not just me!
I started HRT yesterday. The glow of knowing I'm doing something proactive and positive after all this time is still making me very happy today.
Quote from: Doña on October 28, 2017, 02:31:13 PM
I started HRT yesterday. The glow of knowing I'm doing something proactive and positive after all this time is still making me very happy today.
Congrats! And welcome to the site!
Quote from: Doña on October 28, 2017, 02:31:13 PM
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I got my outfit for my female makeover tomorrow, I'm so excited, but also scared. Feels like finding out my gender identify hinges on tomorrow
Saturday but first chance to post, went to Halloween party at drag racing and called in to the pit control office to see the ladies . Was in full attire and said how's the makeup and false lashes, fine they said and you have made a better job of lashes then I can. Thanks girls.Then today kept the wig on and went to the ladies toilets no problem
Started laying the groundwork for coming out to my sister. I've told her I'm removing my beard and seeing three electroligists to do it. This was inbetween painting the final upper wall paint for my gallery and applying vinyl lettering on the wall. That took way more time than expected, but looks amazing. I'm glad I did it with my sister too.
Bari Jo
I have dental appointments booked prior to all my electrolysis appointments this month, so I can get my lips frozen. And the dentist is doing it for free. :D
Kendra, must feel great to have the correct passport now. Good luck in AZ they are all great people there and know what they are doing.
Quote from: NinaW on October 29, 2017, 03:23:21 PM
I got my outfit for my female makeover tomorrow, I'm so excited, but also scared. Feels like finding out my gender identify hinges on tomorrow
Hope it goes well today!!!
Quote from: p on October 30, 2017, 04:24:24 PM
Hope it goes well today!!!
Thank youuuu! It went perfectly today, I really enjoyed the makeup and getting my wig fitted. When it was done and I was female, it felt so natural, so right. I went outside dressed and I felt so comfortable, people were looking at me, but I really didn't care, I've honestly never felt more comfortable in my own skin
Im back in my male guise now, wishing I was a woman and admiring every woman I see on tv or in real life... Very strongly leaning towards being trans, still not 100%, don't know if I ever will be
That's awesome, Nina! My wife has been wanting to take me to get a professional makeup session done, but we haven't had the time, nor the money. Maybe sometime in the near future.
On a different note, Trump's trans ban was partially blocked. Yay! ^_^
I refilled my B12 after being without for two weeks and was astounded by the number of low B12 symptoms I had been having.
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
Well, I had a beautiful day today! For the first time I went to Wal-Mart and felt like just another woman shopping. I've felt a little out of place until today, today was different like walking into another room. Then I posted my new pic on Facebook and discovered I still have family and friends :) Later a friend came by that I haven't seen in 4 months, he's Very right wing, the look on his face was priceless! I was dressed up nice and looking good today. Oh, if life could be this good every day!
Just got insured on my Twin Turbo 6 speed Supra. I can't believe it, I wanna sit down and cry with happiness
Wearing my new short (chin length ) wig and also my new M&S T shirt bra , just got out the shower so slummed it straight into nighty and dressing gown.
I got to pick a date to go to San Antonio for my MMDT appointment to get my transition plan started. I don't know whether to cry or laugh, but I've got that cloud 9 feeling right about now.
Now when I send emails at work they come from Colleen.
Quote from: Rachel_Christina on October 31, 2017, 08:51:32 AM
Just got insured on my Twin Turbo 6 speed Supra. I can't believe it, I wanna sit down and cry with happiness
Vrooooooomm psssshhhh ;D
OMG Colleen, is it not a great feeling! When my email shifted was awesome, but it really was the cats meow when my manager handed me my correct business cards with a smile!
I giggle a little every time I see it at the top of Outlook.
And my business cards should arrive any day now! ;D
I went for an eye exam today in male mode. The young lady doing the initial screening noticed my transgender wristband and said it was pretty. Once in the exam room she asked about medications and I started smiling as I went down the list - Finasteride, Spironolactone... Estradiol. I told her I was transitioning. With a big smile she said she was happy for me! She treated me warmly throughout the exam. It felt awesome to tell a stranger and have her treat me so nicely. I had to sit in my car and cry happy tears for a few minutes before I was able to leave.
I had my first electrolysis session on my upper lip, with the help of a dental anesthetic. My dentist was super excited and happy for me as she numbed my lip. The electrologist was able to do a thorough clearing at high power, since I couldn't feel a thing. My lip is still swollen this morning, but it is nice and smooth!
My money issue was sorted out and I was just able to request my first HRT appointment! Tentatively on the 9th, but still waiting for final confirmation.
Quote from: Roll on November 01, 2017, 09:49:17 AM
My money issue was sorted out and I was just able to request my first HRT appointment! Tentatively on the 9th, but still waiting for final confirmation.
That is so awesome!
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A few good things recently--doc stepped up my HRT and I am fully out to work colleagues now (those who don't work in my office). It's hard to believe that 9 months ago I was thinking that maybe I would wait until my parents died to transition.
I've decided today that I'm not at all bothered about passing as a woman. I felt so comfortable with myself as a woman the other day. I plan to come out and live as a woman as soon as I learn to do make-up and get put on the waiting list to see a gender specialist
Quote from: NinaW on November 01, 2017, 06:16:46 PM
I've decided today that I'm not at all bothered about passing as a woman. I felt so comfortable with myself as a woman the other day. I plan to come out and live as a woman as soon as I learn to do make-up and get put on the waiting list to see a gender specialist
Nina,
That's great. For me that day was a turning point. I was more confident and thus passed better. Strange side-effect. -Denise
P.S. I rarely wear makeup. special occasions but that's about it.
very minimal makeup today, no wig, relax clothes, and still feeling beautiful! very unusual for me :)
Was at the VA today, bummer just a consultation. My first beard removal treatment is December 11th.
The good, I was there early, so went to the cafeteria for lunch. The cashier almost didn't take my ATM card to pay her because I didn't look like a Steve to her.
had another electrolysis session today. i'm now hair free from my neck to my nipples! whooo hoooo!
Quote from: Artesia on November 01, 2017, 06:43:34 PM
The cashier almost didn't take my ATM card to pay her because I didn't look like a Steve to her.
That stuff is amusing at first, but it gets old pretty quickly.
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Customer visit #2 after going full time at work, these are customers I've worked with for several years now and we've always been on great terms. They're just plain old nice people in this lab. The last time I visited was to work on a cryogenic cooling system they have back in February so I had barely started LHR and was still two months from HRT at that point.
And it's like old times with different pronouns and a name I don't hate!
Quote from: amberwaves on November 01, 2017, 07:43:59 PM
That stuff is amusing at first, but it gets old pretty quickly.
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For real, I couldn't wait to get my new driver's license.
The pain is subsiding from BA yesterday. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel for recovery. They say up to 2 weeks for the pain and 6 before 'cleared to resume normal activities'. I hope so. I'm going on vacation to a Florida in 5 weeks.
I can't wait until I can see my girls. Friday at my post-op check up maybe.
Wow, busy day it seems like! Lots of posts. :D
Quote from: Artesia on November 01, 2017, 06:43:34 PM
The cashier almost didn't take my ATM card to pay her because I didn't look like a Steve to her.
Now I'm wondering how many people are out there using people's credit cards/etc. with the opposite gender name on them just saying "Oh, that's my old name, I'm transgender". It would actually be sort of brilliant.
Denise, Glad you are doing better. You will like them more each day as they drop, soften, and begin to bounce a bit. You will have a great looking set of boobs for life now,
Quote from: Roll on November 01, 2017, 09:22:53 PM
Now I'm wondering how many people are out there using people's credit cards/etc. with the opposite gender name on them just saying "Oh, that's my old name, I'm transgender". It would actually be sort of brilliant.
I had to do that a few times. Embarassing, but kinda fun. Just got my credit cards in my new name this week. :)
Quote from: mm on November 01, 2017, 09:40:10 PM
Denise, Glad you are doing better. You will like them more each day as they drop, soften, and begin to bounce a bit. You will have a great looking set of boobs for life now,
thanks. right now i'm sore and BORED!
A note on the credit card thing, my bank and card carrier had no problems issuing me cards with just my initials and last name. Since then no one has questioned me or raised an eyebrow. It is a good holdover until the name change goes through and I may choose to keep it that way after the change (same initials). Seveal cis gals I know just use their first initials on their cards for identity reasons.
Credit card - American Express issued me a new card with my updated name long before I started any legal name change. I did this by adding myself as an additional cardholder. Took one quick phone call.
Quote from: Kendra on November 02, 2017, 03:53:13 PM
Credit card - American Express issued me a new card with my updated name long before I started any legal name change. I did this by adding myself as an additional cardholder. Took one quick phone call.
I did exactly the same thing... *** WARNING *** do not destroy the main card on the account. you need the number, cvv and the three digit security code on the back to do anything with that account.
It's been a challenge to fix this. I now have two cards in the name of Denise C. XXXX and all of my auto payments/withdrawals need to be updated.
I'm take a trip in December to Florida to visit my parents for a few days. This will be the first time I'll be "on their turf" as Denise. I sent them an email earlier today that basically said "if you don't want to introduce me.... eat in your dining hall... " basically giving them an "out" from having to introduce me to their friends.
The response was swift and didn't mince words "We're happy to introduce you as our daughter, as Denise or Dee or whatever you prefer. No explanations are required here...."
Please understand my parents are in their mid/upper 80s. They truly are wonderful people.
Although I didn't tell them that I had BA this week.
My company is having its usual 40% off sale in our company store for the holidays. I looked for a large tea cup and found an adorable girly one. Keep in mind, i am not out at work. I AM using my adorable girly large teacup though now in front of everyone!
Bari Jo
Denise, you are doing great, sounds like your parents are ready to meet their new daughter nice boobs and all.
Feeling very positive about my body, lately. Starting squats again has helped me, tremendously. I want my booty back. lol
In guy mode, I was walking around work. I saw my reflection in some windows and the first thought was, "that's a nice looking woman." Nobody else on earth would say that - certainly not while I'm in guy mode - but *I* am seeing myself as I am. I never thought I would. I was pretty excited the whole day as a result.
Quote from: ToriJo on November 02, 2017, 10:28:02 PM
In guy mode, I was walking around work. I saw my reflection in some windows and the first thought was, "that's a nice looking woman." Nobody else on earth would say that - certainly not while I'm in guy mode - but *I* am seeing myself as I am. I never thought I would. I was pretty excited the whole day as a result.
That's awesome, Tori! :)
At first I thought I'd put this in the happy and sad thread, but ya know what... it's a bit bittersweet, but not truly sad, and I'm going to focus on the happy.
So for the past few years, given my living situation and general lack of socialization, my step-brother has been my one friend to just sort of hang out with, do random stuff like play games with, talk about movies and tv, etc. It has become a tradition for us to go see the new releases of comic book movies the Thursday preview showing, and tonight of course was the release of Thor Ragnarok. Well, my plan is to come out to everyone here in the next week or two as I begin HRT (I've said before I don't want to be doing it in secret), and while I don't expect hostility at all, I do expect a degree of awkwardness when it comes to my step-brother which may very well spell the end of us grabbing food, seeing movies, etc. So this movie may very well be the last of that tradition. But it was a good meal, and an amazing movie, and just was overall a fun time had. I feel like if it is the end... well, it's good to go out on a high note, and this was definitely one, and I'm happy that I had this exceptional normalcy before things really start to go nuts. ;D (Seriously, amazing movie.)
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 02, 2017, 06:30:48 PM
Keep in mind, i am not out at work. I AM using my adorable girly large teacup though now in front of everyone!
The women usually pick up on the clues but probably think you are just gay at this point.
The men on the other hand are clueless and may never notice until you tell them.
I started wearing dresses and makeup and the guys barely noticed. I had to specifically tell them.
Quote from: KarynMcD on November 03, 2017, 05:47:32 AM
The women usually pick up on the clues but probably think you are just gay at this point.
The men on the other hand are clueless and may never notice until you tell them.
I started wearing dresses and makeup and the guys barely noticed. I had to specifically tell them.
Hah, interesting. I have been going out of my way to visit with a group of girls. I bet thats what they think. Im okay with that for now.
You have great hair btw. Im very jealous!
Bari Jo
Yesterday a girl I work with, but haven't seen for a week asked me, "did your face get more feminine since I saw you last?"
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This should technically count as what made me happy yesterday. But I need all the positivity I can get right now.
This is a message I sent to the woman who did my makeup on Monday, and she's posted it to her Instagram account :) (with my permission)
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Quote from: Bari Jo on November 03, 2017, 06:06:54 AM
You have great hair btw. Im very jealous!
I'm cheating. It's a wig.
Quote from: Roll on November 02, 2017, 10:40:39 PM
At first I thought I'd put this in the happy and sad thread, but ya know what... it's a bit bittersweet, but not truly sad, and I'm going to focus on the happy.
So for the past few years, given my living situation and general lack of socialization, my step-brother has been my one friend to just sort of hang out with, do random stuff like play games with, talk about movies and tv, etc. It has become a tradition for us to go see the new releases of comic book movies the Thursday preview showing, and tonight of course was the release of Thor Ragnarok. Well, my plan is to come out to everyone here in the next week or two as I begin HRT (I've said before I don't want to be doing it in secret), and while I don't expect hostility at all, I do expect a degree of awkwardness when it comes to my step-brother which may very well spell the end of us grabbing food, seeing movies, etc. So this movie may very well be the last of that tradition. But it was a good meal, and an amazing movie, and just was overall a fun time had. I feel like if it is the end... well, it's good to go out on a high note, and this was definitely one, and I'm happy that I had this exceptional normalcy before things really start to go nuts. ;D (Seriously, amazing movie.)
I wish I could tell you that things will stay the same (maybe for you they will!), but I've found that even though my (male) friends are very supportive of my transition, there's something that just feels different about hanging out with them now. I still enjoy the same things, I'd like to think my sense of humor is even better since I'm not so depressed anymore, but there's just something there. Pretty sure it's me, and not them, but I'm not certain yet. Maybe it's just a new dynamic to our friendship I'll need to adjust to. It probably doesn't help that I've also come to the realization that I'm attracted to one of them :eusa_shifty: (unfortunately I don't think he's interested in anything beyond friendship, at least for now). :(
Going to see Thor with a bunch of friends tomorrow! Not the one I'm attracted to, though. Glad to hear it's good. I'll try my best not to swoon if / when Hemsworth loses his shirt.... :eusa_drool:
Quote from: Sarah_P on November 03, 2017, 05:31:34 PM
Going to see Thor with a bunch of friends tomorrow! Not the one I'm attracted to, though. Glad to hear it's good. I'll try my best not to swoon if / when Hemsworth loses his shirt.... :eusa_drool:
Oh, he does. ;D Haha, honestly that was actually the first time since being honest with myself I sort of allowed myself to ogle a guy.
A guy yesterday called me she then incorrectly called me he. I guess that was my first male fail, even though I clearly look male so I'm confused lol but I'm not complaining
dist123, that is a great feeling when someone calls as we want to be seen and addressed.
I got my ears pierced today. Then i talked with some neighbors afterwards in our courtyard. My immediate neighbor helps run the local lgbt office. She said it was a good look for me. Another neighbor, guy, said its opening up past metro, and i should be careful. I am not out to any of my neighbors, but i do like their comments:)
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 04, 2017, 12:57:55 AM
I got my ears pierced today. Then i talked with some neighbors afterwards in our courtyard. My immediate neighbor helps run the local lgbt office. She said it was a good look for me. Another neighbor, guy, said its opening up past metro, and i should be careful. I am not out to any of my neighbors, but i do like their comments:)
Bari Jo
What kind did you get? I still haven't had mine done.
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I just finished the paperwork for having my name and gender changed officially [emoji3] and i found my cat spying on me(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171104/2044cf3897fe30f9dfa636984a32448b.jpg)
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Quote from: LadyGreen on November 04, 2017, 02:31:21 AM
I just finished the paperwork for having my name and gender changed officially [emoji3] and i found my cat spying on me(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171104/2044cf3897fe30f9dfa636984a32448b.jpg)
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Congrats! Also, cats are awesome! Haha! I love that look.
Quote from: Megan. on November 04, 2017, 02:25:30 AM
What kind did you get? I still haven't had mine done.
I got white gold, stud, with 3mm fake diamond with round bezel. Here is a link to the pict from claires.
http://www.claires.com/on/demandware.static/-/Library-Sites-claires-library/default/assets/images/ear-piercing-kits/18943_1.jpg
It hurt for about 5 min, then nothing. I have wanted this for a while. Plus its one of those small things i can do while hrt takes forever to do its magic!
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 04, 2017, 05:12:36 AM
I got white gold, stud, with 3mm fake diamond with round bezel. Here is a link to the pict from claires.
http://www.claires.com/on/demandware.static/-/Library-Sites-claires-library/default/assets/images/ear-piercing-kits/18943_1.jpg
It hurt for about 5 min, then nothing. I have wanted this for a while. Plus its one of those small things i can do while hrt takes forever to do its magic!
Bari Jo
Ooo pretty. X
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Quote from: Bari Jo on November 04, 2017, 05:12:36 AM
I got white gold, stud, with 3mm fake diamond with round bezel. Here is a link to the pict from claires.
http://www.claires.com/on/demandware.static/-/Library-Sites-claires-library/default/assets/images/ear-piercing-kits/18943_1.jpg
It hurt for about 5 min, then nothing. I have wanted this for a while. Plus its one of those small things i can do while hrt takes forever to do its magic!
Bari Jo
I used to ration those kinds of steps out for when HRT just seemed to be going soooo slooow.
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 04, 2017, 12:57:55 AM
I got my ears pierced today. Then i talked with some neighbors afterwards in our courtyard. My immediate neighbor helps run the local lgbt office. She said it was a good look for me. Another neighbor, guy, said its opening up past metro, and i should be careful. I am not out to any of my neighbors, but i do like their comments:)
Bari Jo
Nice!
(Now wear your pink ear buds with them, and show your neighbor what's really past metro! ;D)
Quote from: LadyGreen on November 04, 2017, 02:31:21 AM
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I know that look. That's the I'm going to leap on top of you and scratch the crap out of you the second you turn your back look. I've seen it in many a cat, and a handful of particularly vicious children.
Quote from: Doña on October 28, 2017, 02:31:13 PM
I started HRT yesterday. The glow of knowing I'm doing something proactive and positive after all this time is still making me very happy today.
Best first post, I love it!
Moni
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 04, 2017, 12:57:55 AM
I got my ears pierced today. Then i talked with some neighbors afterwards in our courtyard. My immediate neighbor helps run the local lgbt office. She said it was a good look for me. Another neighbor, guy, said its opening up past metro, and i should be careful. I am not out to any of my neighbors, but i do like their comments:)
Wow, we're going at a similar pace in our transitions I think - I just got mine pierced today. (if anyone is worried about the pain, if you survive any electrolysis, this is nothing!) I'm wearing a metal ball in each ear now. :) We'll see if anyone at work notices. But this is my happy thing for today!
Quote from: ToriJo on November 04, 2017, 07:27:03 PM
Wow, we're going at a similar pace in our transitions I think - I just got mine pierced today. (if anyone is worried about the pain, if you survive any electrolysis, this is nothing!) I'm wearing a metal ball in each ear now. :) We'll see if anyone at work notices. But this is my happy thing for today!
Hee hee twinsies!
Ellie, already sporting the pink earbuds with the studs, loving it!
Bari Jo
Male fail for the first time :)
Incredibly, I was in male lycra cycling gear so definitely not a flattering look. The HRT must be doing something!
Had an incredible day flying my KT-110 drone. I built it myself and have been trying to get the settings just right for me. It finally feels really dialed in. I think I have flown about 20 packs this afternoon and it was a blast!
I spent most of the day hanging out at a girl friend's house with her, her husband, and their 3-year old (who apparently now loves me for some reason I can't fathom!).
She asked me if it was OK if they referred to me as 'Aunt Sarah' to their son, since he doesn't actually have any aunts or uncles that actually have anything to do with him. Of course I said yes! I have no idea if I actually am an aunt, since I haven't spoken to either of my sisters in over 20 years.
My Sister used my name immediately after coming out to her today. It's the best present I could ever have asked for. Happy tears now for hours.
Bari Jo
I am so happy for you, Bari Jo! :D
MY S.O. cautioned me about going out in the back yard without a shirt on as we now have new neighbors and my breasts are now nice plump "C" cups. Not something I had to be concerned about at one time.
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 06, 2017, 11:53:27 AM
My Sister used my name immediately after coming out to her today. It's the best present I could ever have asked for. Happy tears now for hours.
That's awesome Bari Jo - really happy for you!
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 06, 2017, 11:53:27 AM
My Sister used my name immediately after coming out to her today. It's the best present I could ever have asked for. Happy tears now for hours.
Bari Jo
MORE EMOJIS!!!! :icon_2gun: :icon_2gun: :icon_2gun: :icon_2gun: (Okay, just going to say, this makes a lot more sense if you read my reploy in your main thread about this first. :D)
Seriously though, you have me in tears right now!
My first meeting at my new trans group, got to be myself in front of other trans people, got called by my female name :), which felt weird at first. Played Bingo, and won, my prize is a makeover next month, can't wait :D
Quote from: Roll on November 06, 2017, 02:46:51 PM
MORE EMOJIS!!!! :icon_2gun: :icon_2gun: :icon_2gun: :icon_2gun: (Okay, just going to say, this makes a lot more sense if you read my reploy in your main thread about this first. :D)
Seriously though, you have me in tears right now!
Yup, saw the other one first. Today will be an amazing day! I feel very much alive!
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 06, 2017, 11:53:27 AM
My Sister used my name immediately after coming out to her today. It's the best present I could ever have asked for. Happy tears now for hours.
Bari Jo
Remember these days. Remember the feelings you are having. They are wonderful memories as you move along the track. I hope you are enjoying your piercings (not that you can/should change the studs). Day 3 post piercing I came to the realization I was doing the right thing.
Take comfort my friend and live.
- Denise
Quote from: Denise on November 06, 2017, 04:23:19 PM
Remember these days. Remember the feelings you are having. They are wonderful memories as you move along the track. I hope you are enjoying your piercings (not that you can/should change the studs). Day 3 post piercing I came to the realization I was doing the right thing.
Take comfort my friend and live.
- Denise
Thanks, yes wonderful memories and feelings. I have no regrets on my piercings. It's helping me on my journey to be Bari Jo. I have always wanted my ears pierced but was always closeted as to why. Now, as my sister knows the truth, I'm happy she knows it's more than decoration. It's gender affirming. So yes, we are the same in knowing this path we take.
Bari Jo
Quote from: NinaW on November 06, 2017, 02:55:05 PM
My first meeting at my new trans group, got to be myself in front of other trans people, got called by my female name :), which felt weird at first. Played Bingo, and won, my prize is a makeover next month, can't wait :D
Congrats on going to your first meeting--and look, you are already seeing the benefits! I am assuming your avatar pic is of your makeover you got a while ago--lookin' fab, hun!
And Bari, congratulations on coming out to your sister! I have been following your story and it seems like you had been dropping hints (the doll, the mask) for a while. Yay!
It makes my heart sing to see so many happy girls here!!!
Quote from: p on November 06, 2017, 04:48:58 PM
Congrats on going to your first meeting--and look, you are already seeing the benefits! I am assuming your avatar pic is of your makeover you got a while ago--lookin' fab, hun!
And Bari, congratulations on coming out to your sister! I have been following your story and it seems like you had been dropping hints (the doll, the mask) for a while. Yay!
It makes my heart sing to see so many happy girls here!!!
Yeah, that photo is from my makeover, in Glasgow Queen St station, out and proud as a woman :). Yeah, I finally have a place I can be myself - this is all happening quicker than I imagined
Quote from: p on November 06, 2017, 04:48:58 PM
Congrats on going to your first meeting--and look, you are already seeing the benefits! I am assuming your avatar pic is of your makeover you got a while ago--lookin' fab, hun!
And Bari, congratulations on coming out to your sister! I have been following your story and it seems like you had been dropping hints (the doll, the mask) for a while. Yay!
It makes my heart sing to see so many happy girls here!!!
Yup, you are right, I've been dropping hints for awhile. I wanted an opening, and finally got it from shear stupidity. Still happy with their outcome.
Nina, congrats on your support group meeting. My first one I was so scared and I'm happy you found a safe place. I'm adding a second support group to my roster. I need the interaction. It keeps me sane, as does being a member here.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 06, 2017, 11:53:27 AM
My Sister used my name immediately after coming out to her today. It's the best present I could ever have asked for. Happy tears now for hours.
Bari Jo
Good on you it feels so good when you can be honest with your family [emoji3] also your sisters a bloody legend [emoji6]
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I received a message from a friend whom I had lost contact with several months ago and she is fine I am so happy
bobbisue :) :) :)
As many of you do, I play video games with only female avatars. One game, which I love so much a coworker made me a sackboy from it. I love the doll. She asked me to take a picture of my in-game avatar. Today I'm greeted with this picture. She's matching the hair from the game. I love my coworkers!
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/7ekcz00u26jqua3/image.jpg?dl=1)
Bari Jo
My friend doesn't hate me! We aren't sure if we can continue being friends, but she doesn't hate me and for the first time in days I am not a miserable train wreck.
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I've been reading Thirteen Reasons Why, it takes a while to get into it, but now I can't put it down. It's serving as a nice distraction from my gender identity issues, just what I need right now
My new wig I tried on Tuesday came in the post today , fits nice but had to lop of the hair that's been growing since last Dec . Kitchen scissors and trimmer on my old elecy shaver !!!!!! Getting a proper hair trimmer tomorrow. What a different look with short hair, with my reading glasses I get the secretary/ librarian look (well to me) suppose you all want a photo then.
Davina, a photo is an absolute must!
I had my two week post op checkup today. The doctor is happy, and I got him to pull the catheter. Goddess be praised, it is good to be rid of that thing!
Now I can wear my skinny jeans and boots! Yaaay!
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Got to tell my commander and first sergeant about my being trans. I don't care how stressful that was, I feel better now. Transition plan will be developed over the week of 3 to 9 December. I'm very excited to finally begin HRT and be on my way to going full time. Squee!
I started organizing pictures of myself from my phone and I'm seeing a lot of pictures from before accepting myself. I really like where I'm headed!
I showed some pictures to coworkers and they can't believe that was really me. I love it!
Bari Jo
I had my appointment with the psychologist/mental health professional today (which was the first step after telling my doctor I thought I might be transgender). It actually felt good speaking to someone about how I'm feeling inside - I've spoken to people on here and by text, but to actually vocalise it was definitely helpful.
I talked about how I was naturally drawn towards transgender women before I found out. How just 'dressing up' and wearing make-up wasn't enough. How intense my dysphoria can get at times, where all I want to do is come out of the closet and start living full time. How much I look at cis-gendered women and get jealous that they're biologically female and I'm not. How bad work can make me feel about myself - dressing male, working in an all male environment, being referred to as male. How I wouldn't want to live anymore if there were no option of transitioning and eventually becoming a woman.
I've been referred to a psychiatrist, which will take about 4-6 weeks, I'm happy that things are progressing, it's beginning to sink in that this is going to be a very long process, and I need to be very patient, I'm not even 100% sure yet in my mind - somehow
Amber, I'm glad that the worst case scenario did not play out with your friend.
Davina, pics are mandatory!!!
Michelle, enjoy your freedom from the cath
Siobhan, wow, huge step, congrats!
Bari, I did that activity with a trans friend recently--it's fun to hear people say, "THAT'S you?!" It makes the changes feel even more real.
Nina, you are at the beginning of a long journey, but it sounds like you are ready. Give yourself the time you need, sister.
Love to all my sisters out there! Checking this thread is the best part of my day ^-^
Quote from: p on November 10, 2017, 11:34:30 AM
Love to all my sisters out there! Checking this thread is the best part of my day ^-^
Me too! Reading about the happy days of all our sisters here just makes me happy. In fact, that's what made me happy today! So meta! ;D
This was yesterday, but still...
A little background: Many years ago, in a playful mood, my wife bought me thong underwear. I loved them and wore them until they were too ragged.
Last week I got a coat in Burlington Coat Factory and noticed that they also had intimates. It got me thinking, "could I"?
Yesterday I went in and bought a three pack. I took them home, took a shower and put a pair on. They fit. They felt comfortable. I checked, my tuck works in them. All I needed was a bit of a razor trim. I'm wearing a pair right now!
Being able to rock a thong is a real dysphoria killer! I bet I could manage a mini-skirt, too!
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
Quote from: Dee Marshall on November 10, 2017, 12:22:27 PM
This was yesterday, but still...
A little background: Many years ago, in a playful mood, my wife bought me thong underwear. I loved them and wore them until they were too ragged.
Last week I got a coat in Burlington Coat Factory and noticed that they also had intimates. It got me thinking, "could I"?
Yesterday I went in and bought a three pack. I took them home, took a shower and put a pair on. They fit. They felt comfortable. I checked, my tuck works in them. All I needed was a bit of a razor trim. I'm wearing a pair right now!
Being able to rock a thong is a real dysphoria killer! I bet I could manage a mini-skirt, too!
Honestly, it's 99% of what I've been wearing myself. I know people complain about them not being comfortable or being unable to tuck, but I've found neither to be true in my case for whatever reason. I just like the feel a lot, and it is definitely a dysphoria killer. All it takes is looking down when I'm going to bed and just feel insanely feminine.
I'm seriously considering a Brazilian because of these panties.
Next up, thigh high socks and a mini!
But I need boots first.
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 09, 2017, 11:33:27 PM
I started organizing pictures of myself from my phone and I'm seeing a lot of pictures from before accepting myself. I really like where I'm headed!
I can relate to that, although nobody gets to see all of the pictures of me!
I was feeling particularly dysphoric at my last therapy session - the therapist assured me that the thing I was feeling dysphoric about wasn't something other people would notice. She reminded me that I've made a ton of change in a short time, to just be patient with the rest, it's happening and it's obvious it is happening. I went home and took a bunch of pictures of myself from the last few months, organized them by date, and clicked through them - and I could see that progress, which is really awesome.
I had the final stitches removed, following my trach shave, today!
All still a little swollen but healing well!
Another step...
So happy!!!! :) :) :)
x
This is one of my favorite threads to read :)
Finally finished epilating (almost) all my body today! It took me for-everrr, few hours over 3 days, because it really hurts... Now I'm hoping it will be less time to maintain since I did it all to start. And I'm hoping HRT really kicks in and stops the growth all together! The pain will have been worth it either way...
This happened last saturday but it makes me happy thinking about it today We had a successful first fundraiser for our newly formed GSA in my home town many great performers a great time was had by all and we raised a little money my new profile pic was taken there
bobbisue :)
Quote from: bobbisue on November 10, 2017, 07:22:46 PM
This happened last saturday but it makes me happy thinking about it today We had a successful first fundraiser for our newly formed GSA in my home town many great performers a great time was had by all and we raised a little money my new profile pic was taken there
bobbisue :)
Bobbisue, love the name. My parents probably knew yours. Let's get a bigger pict of you in there, you are soooo tiny!
Bari Jo
I came out to a friend, i was so nervous but it went fine [emoji3]
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Quote from: Bari Jo on November 10, 2017, 07:33:34 PM
Bobbisue, love the name. My parents probably knew yours. Let's get a bigger pict of you in there, you are soooo tiny!
Bari Jo
Bari Jo I doubt our parents met despite the deep south sound of my chosen name the only thing I live south of is the arctic circle and only 6 degrees at that as for a bigger pic I am planning on doing that when my youngest daughter comes out here to help me with my hair make up and truck that is the first time I have been called tiny in 40 years I know thats not how you meant it but let me enjoy the moment
bobbisue :)
Last night my wife and I went shopping .. with a list! .. for a few necessities. She is enjoying having me along and I find that I really enjoy it as well. It used to be one of the things that I avoided the most. Well, we window-shopped a bit. That's a big mistake. It was too much fun pointing things out and comparing .. we over-spent our budget, so much for the list :/
The good, besides just enjoying our time together, we got matching night clothes. :)
Quote from: Faith on November 11, 2017, 09:15:53 AM
Last night my wife and I went shopping .. with a list! .. for a few necessities. She is enjoying having me along and I find that I really enjoy it as well. It used to be one of the things that I avoided the most. Well, we window-shopped a bit. That's a big mistake. It was too much fun pointing things out and comparing .. we over-spent our budget, so much for the list :/
The good, besides just enjoying our time together, we got matching night clothes. :)
That's adorable!!
I remember hating shopping, now I can't get enough, even just window shopping! :D
Last night I had dinner here in Tokyo with another girl from Susan's. I came away feeling nothing but loved and supported in our journeys. I love that we trans ladies (and men) are everywhere around the globe, and feel the same kinship with one another.
Bari Jo
I had my very first male-fail today!!! A friend & I went to see Thor Ragnarok (again), and since it's in town I was in boy-mode. While sitting in the theater waiting for it to start, a couple walks in, and the man says 'Looks like this is a guy flick!', since it was mostly men there. The woman looks around & says 'No, there's 2 other women here.' - there was only one other woman besides me & her. ;D
As much as I'm trying to not let the cat-girl out of the bag in-town, it still made me feel great. Besides, I didn't recognize anyone in the theater anyway.
😊 Woo hoo, the first is the best. That feeling is incredible.
My first was at a theater too. When I got my snacks, they turned and asked if someone could get "her" popcorn. It's been a couple years but I haven't forgotten.
Congratulations more will come. 😁
There were a lot of women in the theater when I went to see Thor Ragnarok. Chris Hemsworth in Thor get up with short hair.... um, when my boyfriend asked if I wanted to go I was like, "Well, if you really want to." I am not always proud of myself but in my defense I do like superhero movies. A little. Some of them. :angel:
Lets be honest half the audience was only there to oggle hemsworth [emoji3] my local cimema serves beer so we were ah........little bit rowdy
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Well, that IS one of the reasons I didn't mind seeing it again.... :D
There were a hundred little things today that all went right. But the one I'll share here is that I received my U.S. 10-year passport with the correct name and gender.
I started estrogen again after about 8 months away.
I went shopping today with my SIL to an new indoor flea-market kind of thing and finally experienced some thing wonderful. The women all talked to me while the men didn't, just the opposite of the way it used to be. I do believe I'm starting to pass, at least good enough to be on the female side of the scale!!!
Checked into the Marriott in Oakland CA to stay while we go to a concert and we see that the "national transgender health summit" is at our hotel...it was so cool to see the lobby packed with all the happy faces, I felt right at home 😊
Quote from: LadyGreen on November 11, 2017, 09:57:06 PM
Lets be honest half the audience was only there to oggle hemsworth [emoji3] my local cimema serves beer so we were ah........little bit rowdy
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Hemsworth, and Cumberbatch, and Hiddleston. I'm a lesbian and I still oggled Hemsworth, and Cumberbatch, and Hiddleston.
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
Quote from: Dee Marshall on November 12, 2017, 06:47:17 AM
Hemsworth, and Cumberbatch, and Hiddleston. I'm a lesbian and I still ogled Hemsworth, and Cumberbatch, and Hiddleston.
I particularly like the scene in the hot tub where they all play truth or dare. Wait... was that in the movie or a dream I had... a dream would explain why Ronald McDonald and Jar Jar Binks were watching... No, no. I'm pretty sure it was in the movie.
Quote from: Roll on November 12, 2017, 08:50:03 AM
I particularly like the scene in the hot tub where they all play truth or dare. Wait... was that in the movie or a dream I had... a dream would explain why Ronald McDonald and Jar Jar Binks were watching... No, no. I'm pretty sure it was in the movie.
Well, there WAS a hot tub scene... :icon_mrgreen:
I don't mind Tom Hiddleston as Loki but in Kong there were times when I had trouble focusing on the rest of the movie. I'll take one please, two if you have them in stock. Then I felt guilty for objectifying a man, but it was only a little right?
Idris Elba is... Well hot of course, intimidating, confusing. If I met a guy like that, who was interested in me, would I run into his arms or away as fast as I could? Not sure to be honest. Scary and drop dead gorgeous are a heart pounding combination.
I am odd though, I think that Karl Urban is kinda, hmmmmmmm. 😊😊
Well, it's like this; In the Twilight movies I would take Bella's dad over all of them. Probably just my age. 😉
Darn, I missed one, Cumberbatch!
What is it about him that is so attractive?! It drives me mad sometimes. His voice? His eyes, lips? What? What is it?! Maybe it is his hands, they look like they would... Well nevermind but. I find him so attractive and I have no idea why.
Yesterday was one year since I told my girlfriend I was trans and she wrote a facebook post about how glad she was that I came out to her because she is much happier with me then she was with "Him." We can actually live a life and feel close to each other. It put into perspective how much I've changed in a year.
Quote from: EvaMarie on November 12, 2017, 12:59:29 PM
Yesterday was one year since I told my girlfriend I was trans and she wrote a facebook post about how glad she was that I came out to her because she is much happier with me then she was with "Him." We can actually live a life and feel close to each other. It put into perspective how much I've changed in a year.
Now that is happy. 😊
May year two be even happier.
Quote from: FinallyMichelle on November 12, 2017, 12:05:19 PM
Darn, I missed one, Cumberbatch!
What is it about him that is so attractive?! It drives me mad sometimes. His voice? His eyes, lips? What? What is it?! Maybe it is his hands, they look like they would... Well nevermind but. I find him so attractive and I have no idea why.
You know what made me happy today? You saying that so I can post this. ;D
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QPKZg0wnL7U
:D :D Hahaha! Exactly!
Just being Davina since last Friday, worked on the panel van this morning and came home to do house work and cooking, made some more samosas from a different recipe (for the pastry) and they came out ok( no Devlin when I said came out I did not mean they are Trans or gay!!!!)
Quote from: Roll on November 12, 2017, 02:02:59 PM
You know what made me happy today? You saying that so I can post this. ;D
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QPKZg0wnL7U
Omg I just made an ass of myself laughing. "Yes, the balls too." Hahaha dying...
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So I did something today that might out me at work, but I really wanted it, so I did it anyway. We have to wear nametags at work. It shows who the employees are, but also is kind of a comradere type thing. I ordered mine saying Bari Jo, but in katakana, which phonetically spelled is exactly like Bari Jo. Once I saw the spelling is the same in Japanese and English I got so happy and had to order it. It'll be in sometime in December, and then the questions will begin in earnest.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 14, 2017, 02:59:55 AM
So I did something today that might out me at work, but I really wanted it, so I did it anyway. We have to wear nametags at work. It shows who the employees are, but also is kind of a comradere type thing. I ordered mine saying Bari Jo, but in katakana, which phonetically spelled is exactly like Bari Jo. Once I saw the spelling is the same in Japanese and English I got so happy and had to order it. It'll be in sometime in December, and then the questions will begin in earnest.
Bari Jo
バリージョーチャン!
My transition is slow but surely. Every month I'm doing something new that would make me into the person I want to be. This month I grew out my nails and learning to paint them. In the past couple of months I shape my eyebrows, shave my legs, and pierced my ears. I have a year growing out my hair. So I'm happy and hopeful.
Quote from: Roll on November 14, 2017, 08:33:24 AM
バリージョーチャン!
Bari Jo Chan? Hah, I went with..
バリ•ジョ
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 14, 2017, 08:45:20 AM
Bari Jo Chan? Hah, I went with..
バリ•ジョ
Bari Jo
You get the cute feminine honorific! ;D Oh, oh! Or we could go super anime stylish and you can be Bari-hime!
Which... wow, never thought of this. I am going to have to practice Japanese using female speech patterns and pronouns. No more boku for me!
Yeah, that will be fun to practice the female speech patterns.
If someone wants to add Chan when referring to me, fine by me:)
So last night was the big night. My wife and I went to a concert in Dallas to see Imagine Dragons. I went as my true self for the first time in public. I wore a pretty out fit, black pencil skirt, long sleeve maroon top, maroon tights and black knee high boots. Wife did the majority of the makeup and I topped it off with a black head band. It went splendid. I got ma'amed by the guard at the entrance. Maybe a few double stares but no comments that either of us heard. The concert was great, better than the one a couple of years ago. While I'm not ready to go full time at this time I did have a wonderful experience and can't wait to do it again. But I can't wait to go full time and just drop this stupid male persona.
I've written down a list of doubts I have about being trans, i.e I don't experience gender dysphoria all of the time, I don't hate my body, I don't hate being males
All of my answers to those doubts point to being 100% trans... I don't really have a lot to be happy about today, lol
I also can't help but think, in an alternate universe, there's a female version of me, and she's really happy and being herself... admittedly, I've been watching a lot of Stranger Things recently
I went for my weekly electrolysis today. This was the second session on the lower lip using dental anesthetic. My electrologist was really happy with how both it and last week's session went. She says I won't have to shave there again. ;D
I'm not sure I 100% believe her, because won't there be another set of follicles coming out of hibernation in a few months? But anyway, not having to shave a spot, even if it is just for a while, is a good thing.
Quote from: Roll on November 14, 2017, 09:33:05 AM
You get the cute feminine honorific! ;D Oh, oh! Or we could go super anime stylish and you can be Bari-hime!
Which... wow, never thought of this. I am going to have to practice Japanese using female speech patterns and pronouns. No more boku for me!
Even better, if she's a dominatrix type (or royalty), she can be Bari-Joou! ;D
I hadn't thought about that for Japanese. Due to lack of practice, I'm not great at speaking or writing it, but I can understand quite a bit & read it just fine. Let's see.... we get to say 'atashi' referring to ourselves, and use 'gomen', too. That's all I can think of off the top of my head right now, but I know there's a lot more. Oh, and we need to give chocolate to guys we like on Valentine's day.
Quote from: NinaW on November 14, 2017, 12:20:25 PM
I've written down a list of doubts I have about being trans, i.e I don't experience gender dysphoria all of the time, I don't hate my body, I don't hate being males
All of my answers to those doubts point to being 100% trans... I don't really have a lot to be happy about today, lol
I also can't help but think, in an alternate universe, there's a female version of me, and she's really happy and being herself... admittedly, I've been watching a lot of Stranger Things recently
That's not an alternate universe, that's your own future!
Quote from: Sarah_P on November 14, 2017, 01:36:45 PM
Even better, if she's a dominatrix type (or royalty), she can be Bari-Joou! ;D
I hadn't thought about that for Japanese. Due to lack of practice, I'm not great at speaking or writing it, but I can understand quite a bit & read it just fine. Let's see.... we get to say 'atashi' referring to ourselves, and use 'gomen', too. That's all I can think of off the top of my head right now, but I know there's a lot more. Oh, and we need to give chocolate to guys we like on Valentine's day.
I'd love to be a cute dominatrix! I might have to settle for royalty though:)
I never learned that one. That's really cool.
Bari Jo
Quote from: NinaW on November 14, 2017, 12:20:25 PM
I've written down a list of doubts I have about being trans, i.e I don't experience gender dysphoria all of the time, I don't hate my body, I don't hate being males
All of my answers to those doubts point to being 100% trans... I don't really have a lot to be happy about today, lol
I also can't help but think, in an alternate universe, there's a female version of me, and she's really happy and being herself... admittedly, I've been watching a lot of Stranger Things recently
All will be well Nina!!! Amazing things lay ahead!!!
Hugs!!!
Ashley :)
Quote from: NinaW on November 14, 2017, 12:20:25 PM
I've written down a list of doubts I have about being trans, i.e I don't experience gender dysphoria all of the time, I don't hate my body, I don't hate being males
All of my answers to those doubts point to being 100% trans... I don't really have a lot to be happy about today, lol
I also can't help but think, in an alternate universe, there's a female version of me, and she's really happy and being herself... admittedly, I've been watching a lot of Stranger Things recently
Incredible things happen when you put "her" in charge of your life. I now fully live in that alternate universe and it is amazing and yes I am really happy. You can be too.....
Quote from: NinaW on November 14, 2017, 12:20:25 PM
I've written down a list of doubts I have about being trans, i.e I don't experience gender dysphoria all of the time, I don't hate my body, I don't hate being males
All of my answers to those doubts point to being 100% trans... I don't really have a lot to be happy about today, lol
I also can't help but think, in an alternate universe, there's a female version of me, and she's really happy and being herself... admittedly, I've been watching a lot of Stranger Things recently
I was in your same position 27 months ago. Exactly the same. 25 months ago I could think of nothing else but my gender being wrong. I wasn't mad/upset/... about being AMAB I just wanted to be Female. It got so bad that I couldn't concentrate, my work was suffering and even driving was kinda hazardous.
Months of therapy and a lot of tears I started HRT and ... long story.... today I've never been more at peace. I don't think about my gender at all anymore. It's strange. That little voice in my head is totally GONE!
No regrets.
BUT this is my story. Yours may/will be different
Quote from: RobynTx on November 14, 2017, 11:48:13 AM
So last night was the big night. My wife and I went to a concert in Dallas to see Imagine Dragons. I went as my true self for the first time in public. I wore a pretty out fit, black pencil skirt, long sleeve maroon top, maroon tights and black knee high boots. Wife did the majority of the makeup and I topped it off with a black head band. It went splendid. I got ma'amed by the guard at the entrance. Maybe a few double stares but no comments that either of us heard. The concert was great, better than the one a couple of years ago. While I'm not ready to go full time at this time I did have a wonderful experience and can't wait to do it again. But I can't wait to go full time and just drop this stupid male persona.
It sounds like the big night was a big success--congratulations! Your outfit sounds lovely. Isn't getting ma'amed the best?! Savor this great experience as you prepare for full time. Big hugs!
I just had the greatest male fail so far...
A few weeks ago I updated my profile picture on Facebook on my old male account I still use as primary.
Today I posted something in a group I am a member in and 2 minutes later I got a "Thanks you Ms. <last name>."...
Totally made my day!!!
Quote from: Denise on November 15, 2017, 07:21:58 PM
I was in your same position 27 months ago. Exactly the same. 25 months ago I could think of nothing else but my gender being wrong. I wasn't mad/upset/... about being AMAB I just wanted to be Female. It got so bad that I couldn't concentrate, my work was suffering and even driving was kinda hazardous.
Months of therapy and a lot of tears I started HRT and ... long story.... today I've never been more at peace. I don't think about my gender at all anymore. It's strange. That little voice in my head is totally GONE!
No regrets.
BUT this is my story. Yours may/will be different
That's all I want for myself, to be at peace and be 100% sure, I can't wait till that day, I feel so comfortable dressed as a female
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I finally managed to get my ears pierced!
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The lovely lady who was there to get it done with and for me. It was what we did on our date!
The date went well also. It was nice being pampered the way she did for me. We had so much fun!
Almost forgot about one of my coworkers. She told me that she likes me better as a woman than as a man. Apparently I was very off putting as a male. She thinks I'm more personable now.
Yay Artesia, looks like you were happy and wincing there. Did it hurt?
Bari Jo
Artesia, I've never seen someone smile that big while wincing! Congrats on your great day!
Also, I love that necklace!
Yes, pic #4 could be titled "That hurts so good!" Congratulations, Artesia.
What can I say...I'm a special kind of girl.
The necklace was on clearance at Walmart for $3. If your lucky you can still find one.
Yes Bari Jo, I thought it hurt, the first one done more so than the second. The girl doing it said that the second one hurts more.
Yaaay for taking care of yourself and having a special day, Artesia!
I did something like that as well. After a really rough day, I spent a little 'me time' yesterday, and got my nails and brows done properly. It's been a month, and with the hospital stay and home confinement for a while in recovery from my GCS, things were more than a little ragged.
I felt so much better after this, and walking in a little mist and light rain. Plus, boot and sweater season!
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Quote from: p on November 15, 2017, 09:37:29 PM
It sounds like the big night was a big success--congratulations! Your outfit sounds lovely. Isn't getting ma'amed the best?! Savor this great experience as you prepare for full time. Big hugs!
Thanks. Yes the Ma'am caught me off guard but I did smile.
Quote from: Artesia on November 16, 2017, 05:38:48 AMI finally managed to get my ears pierced!
Yay Artesia! Looks like a Piercing Pagoda. That's where I got mine done about a month ago. Other than some misgendering when the lady looked at my driver's license, it was a very cool experience, and something I've been wanting for 50 years. Feels great, doesn't it?
Steph
Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 16, 2017, 09:14:28 AM
Yay Artesia! Looks like a Piercing Pagoda. That's where I got mine done about a month ago. Other than some misgendering when the lady looked at my driver's license, it was a very cool experience, and something I've been wanting for 50 years. Feels great, doesn't it?
Steph
Oh my!! I can't believe I forgot that part of the experience. She used female pronouns the entire time, even after seeing my license. She even put me in the computer as Claire, and let me sign the papers as Claire as well. And, yes, it was the Piercing Pagoda, in the mall in Lafayette Indiana.
And my court date for my name/gender change is in February!
Wow, can I be dingy sometimes.
Quote from: Artesia on November 16, 2017, 10:06:42 AM
Oh my!! I can't believe I forgot that part of the experience. She used female pronouns the entire time, even after seeing my license. She even put me in the computer as Claire, and let me sign the papers as Claire as well. And, yes, it was the Piercing Pagoda, in the mall in Lafayette Indiana.
And my court date for my name/gender change is in February!
Fantastic! The lady who did mine wasn't unfriendly, but she also wasn't as accommodating as yours. Yours was a lot younger, and those generations tend to be much more accepting.
And congratulations on the court date. I've filed the paperwork and am waiting for the background check to complete so I can schedule mine. Sounds like you have to wait a long time. I hear it's about a month here in Florida. We'll see.
Steph
Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 16, 2017, 10:12:03 AM
Fantastic! The lady who did mine wasn't unfriendly, but she also wasn't as accommodating as yours. Yours was a lot younger, and those generations tend to be much more accepting.
And congratulations on the court date. I've filed the paperwork and am waiting for the background check to complete so I can schedule mine. Sounds like you have to wait a long time. I hear it's about a month here in Florida. We'll see.
Steph
I think it's because of the holidays. Fewer days for the government to get anything done, so they push non-essential cases back to get the time sensitive ones done first.
I came out on my old male Facebook and directed folks to my new profile--the requests have been flooding in, and some folks have sent me very nice messages. :)
Well, I've changed my avatar pic to one of me at the concert. Wish the picture was a better one. I don't like doing selfies.
I don't have a 'what', but I'm just happy today. No particular reason but I'm on cloud 9! [emoji4]
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Quote from: Megan. on November 16, 2017, 01:14:28 PM
I don't have a 'what', but I'm just happy today. No particular reason but I'm on cloud 9! [emoji4]
Those are the best kind of happy's!
Bari Jo
Quote from: Megan. on November 16, 2017, 01:14:28 PM
I don't have a 'what', but I'm just happy today. No particular reason but I'm on cloud 9! [emoji4]
Wow, I'm only on Cloud 8, but I think I can see you up there!
Steph
Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 16, 2017, 01:20:24 PM
Wow, I'm only on Cloud 8, but I think I can see you up there!
Steph
I usually hang around Cloud 7, but I can occasionally trick the elevator guy into letting me up a cloud or two. Nice guy, Carl I think? Likes pecan pie.
I'm not saying what I did for Carl to get up here [emoji6]
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Quote from: Sarah_P on November 16, 2017, 01:33:52 PM
I usually hang around Cloud 7, but I can occasionally trick the elevator guy into letting me up a cloud or two. Nice guy, Carl I think? Likes pecan pie.
I don't do clouds personally, I'm just up here wearing a jetpack. That's right, I'm Rockateering this mutha'.
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Quote from: RobynTx on November 16, 2017, 01:05:33 PM
Well, I've changed my avatar pic to one of me at the concert. Wish the picture was a better one. I don't like doing selfies.
You look very pretty!
Got an Email from estate agent lady that did flat inspection to Davina and when I got to work today manager had left envelope with my 6 month report with Davina on it. Megan seeing your new? hair do made me happy.
Quote from: Megan. on November 16, 2017, 01:42:45 PM
I'm not saying what I did for Carl to get up here [emoji6]
Ah. That's why he dropped me off at 8. I have my standards, y'know...
That knowing look that you get from another woman that says - "Girl you are rocking it today"
Quote from: p on November 16, 2017, 03:07:46 PM
You look very pretty!
Thank you, that made my day.
Called my OBGYN (she takes care of my HRT) for the 6 month checkup appointment. Lady scheduling the appointments understood "I am due in January" and immediately asked "So, you are pregnant?".... I actually said "I am due for my checkup in January". Anyways, was a pretty funny moment... I think once she looked up my data she understood why I laughed...
Quote from: Dee Marshall on November 10, 2017, 12:22:27 PM
This was yesterday, but still...
A little background: Many years ago, in a playful mood, my wife bought me thong underwear. I loved them and wore them until they were too ragged.
Last week I got a coat in Burlington Coat Factory and noticed that they also had intimates. It got me thinking, "could I"?
Yesterday I went in and bought a three pack. I took them home, took a shower and put a pair on. They fit. They felt comfortable. I checked, my tuck works in them. All I needed was a bit of a razor trim. I'm wearing a pair right now!
Being able to rock a thong is a real dysphoria killer! I bet I could manage a mini-skirt, too!
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
Follow up to this and my post right after it in this thread. Yesterday a friend gave me a pair of hirajuku thigh high socks that someone had given her. They fit and they're really cute unfortunately I have nothing to wear them with. I have to rectify that.
Second, about the thong underwear and yes you can laugh, I did: I wore them again today after washing them and thought they had shrunk unevenly because they were laying funny. As it turns out I had somehow put them on sideways!
:
April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
Quote from: Dee Marshall on November 16, 2017, 07:41:08 PM
Second, about the thong underwear and yes you can laugh, I did: I wore them again today after washing them and thought they had shrunk unevenly because they were laying funny. As it turns out I had somehow put them on sideways!
I have done that a number of times. ;D I grab them, think "tag goes on left", pull up and then stand there for about 5 seconds in complete confusion before it dawns on me what I did. Again.
Quote from: Roll on November 16, 2017, 07:43:23 PM
I have done that a number of times. ;D I grab them, think "tag goes on left", pull up and then stand there for about 5 seconds in complete confusion before it dawns on me what I did. Again.
Yeah.
I wore them.
I wore them... all... ... day.
I didn't notice what I had done until I took them off to throw them in the hamper.
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
Quote from: Dee Marshall on November 16, 2017, 07:41:08 PM
Second, about the thong underwear and yes you can laugh, I did: I wore them again today after washing them and thought they had shrunk unevenly because they were laying funny. As it turns out I had somehow put them on sideways!
I'm glad I'm not the only one who has done that.
Quote from: Artesia on November 16, 2017, 07:56:51 PM
I'm glad I'm not the only one who has done that.
Frankly I'm even gladder that I'm not the only one.
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
I have two trips planned for December. I got TSA PreCheck today. All in my new legal name. Amazing the government actually works.... sometimes.
Quote from: Denise on November 16, 2017, 10:50:39 PM
I have two trips planned for December. I got TSA PreCheck today. All in my new legal name. Amazing the government actually works.... sometimes.
Hey Denise, I know you're coming to Florida. I'm in the central area north of Tampa. It would be cool to meet up if you end up around here!
Steph
Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 16, 2017, 10:56:46 PM
Hey Denise, I know you're coming to Florida. I'm in the central area north of Tampa. It would be cool to meet up if you end up around here!
Steph
I'd love to meet as well, SW area for me. Unfortunately planning a trip/time north of Tampa may prove unlikely
Quote from: Dee Marshall on November 16, 2017, 07:41:08 PM
Second, about the thong underwear and yes you can laugh, I did: I wore them again today after washing them and thought they had shrunk unevenly because they were laying funny. As it turns out I had somehow put them on sideways!
Why is this leg so wide and the waist so tight?
Meanwhile...
Female Privilege at it finest:
I was late for the train. (It was pulling in to the station.) I was running up a flight of stairs and there was a guy next to me. As we were reaching the top, he says "I'll get the door." Next we are running through an overpass to get to the track. He runs in front of me to get the door and he says "I'll hold the train for you!" as he runs down the two flights of stairs to get to the train first. He blocks the door so it won't close and moments later I jump on. He apologized for not being able to hold the door to the stairs leading to the train, but was able to hold the train.
I said "that's ok. I understand. Thank you."
I still feel all warm and fuzzy thinking about it.
Nice female privilege story. My happy today is a bit more mundane, but still like it. I had an eye doctor appt today, and got a new prescription, but more importantly, New glasses. My old pair is masculine and much bigger. I used them when I was heavy. My face has gotten so much smaller that the old ones looked ridiculous on me. For the new pair, I tried all kinds of gender affirming glasses, but couldn't find one pair I liked. I eventually got a pair of Oliver People's that are really gender neutral. I'd say bordering on femme. Anyway, I got really happy picking out a new pair knowing the old will be retired soon!
Bari Jo
I went into Waterstones and bought a new book today, I was really socially awkward when the assistant was trying to make small talk, which made me cringe, but I'm glad it did. I've been so wrapped up in realising that I'm trans that I've forgotten I'm still the same introverted, social awkward, slightly sassy person I always was
Quote from: NinaW on November 19, 2017, 12:37:22 PM
I went into Waterstones and bought a new book today, I was really socially awkward when the assistant was trying to make small talk, which made me cringe, but I'm glad it did. I've been so wrapped up in realising that I'm trans that I've forgotten I'm still the same introverted, social awkward, slightly sassy person I always was
I've personally found an increased confidence and desire to socialise as my transition has progressed; but there's nothing wrong with a little sass [emoji6]
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Arrived in the mail. Or should I say female.
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Passport was most important. But receiving my updated driver license had an impact I wasn't anticipating... last night at dinner in a restaurant I glanced at it and almost burst into tears. Kinda sunk in, I've crossed the dividing line and everything else is just details.
Yay Kendra congrats, nice to see it like that isn't it [emoji4]
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Quote from: Kendra on November 19, 2017, 02:08:21 PM
Arrived in the mail. Or should I say female.
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Passport was most important. But receiving my updated driver license had an impact I wasn't anticipating... last night at dinner in a restaurant I glanced at it and almost burst into tears. Kinda sunk in, I've crossed the dividing line and everything else is just details.
Congratulations for your affirmation of who you are. I wish a year from now I can get there.
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Sort of made me "happy" as went and collected photo copy of marriage certificate to go with name change paper work, wearing my work wig as of to weld camper and the wifes reaction was Oh God D*** (dead name) and the look on her face!!!! Inside I just thought F you bitch, said thanks for form and left. Best thing I ever did coming out and getting kicked out.
Kinda dumb, but running an errand brought me to an ATT store and I asked to use their bathroom, and they had a big sign on it saying gender neutral with a pict of a man, woman, and a half man/woman. Yes thank you!
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on November 19, 2017, 04:46:23 PM
Kinda dumb, but running an errand brought me to an ATT store and I asked to use their bathroom, and they had a big sign on it saying gender neutral with a pict of a man, woman, and a half man/woman. Yes thank you!
Every time I see those signs I wonder what madman stitched together a pants leg with half a skirt.
Quote from: Kendra on November 19, 2017, 02:08:21 PMlast night at dinner in a restaurant I glanced at it and almost burst into tears. Kinda sunk in, I've crossed the dividing line and everything else is just details.
Kendra Faye, that has to be the best DL picture I've ever seen. They're usually so terrible. I plan to use my current one for my "before" picture in some distant future. Who did you pay to use a studio picture for it?
And your description of dinner just about got me all verklempt, too.
Congratulations. [emoji323][emoji322][emoji324][emoji898]
Stephanie Rhapsody (soon... very soon)
Okay, one more happy. I went for laser today on my chest and decided to add lips and goatie area. All I gotta say is laser is soooo much less painful than electrolysis. I was also told that laser could get over 1/2 0of my beard. So I'm signed up! Yay!
Quote from: Kendra on November 19, 2017, 02:08:21 PM
Passport was most important. But receiving my updated driver license had an impact I wasn't anticipating... last night at dinner in a restaurant I glanced at it and almost burst into tears. Kinda sunk in, I've crossed the dividing line and everything else is just details.
Kendra, congratulations on getting your documentation changed, it is such a big step! I just got my prints sent in to the fibbies through an expeditor and am told to expect paper work back in a couple of weeks. May be able to get court docs by the end of the year.
Congrats Kendra! Getting the docs in order and actually having them in your hands is huge. I certainly remember the moments that I first held them. It was overwhelming! I am curious about the passport card! I have never heard of that before. We do not have that in Canada.
wow! Congratulations Kendra!
Tears of joy I hope...
Hugs, Sarah
Quote from: Kendra on November 19, 2017, 02:08:21 PM
Arrived in the mail. Or should I say female.
Passport was most important. But receiving my updated driver license had an impact I wasn't anticipating... last night at dinner in a restaurant I glanced at it and almost burst into tears. Kinda sunk in, I've crossed the dividing line and everything else is just details.
Yes, tears of joy that I held back. Didn't want to dilute my drink (a glass of water).
Passport Cards are common in several countries, US started offering them as an additional cost option. I use the card inside China and other countries where they recommend foreigners always carry their passport. Some international hotels require a passport for checkin, the card is good enough. For entering and leaving a country the full size passport is required.
I"ll get on the wagon also. Kendra, having your papers is so awesome. Your pictures in both are great too!
Bari Jo
Actually something very simple and it was taking part in a discussion about meringues on here. It's nice to have chat😊.
For me, it was going to my therapist as Sarah. And boots!
Although with as much as that made me happy, needing to change back to go to work was tough. One day at a time, right?(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171120/f55e86a8615ca7a1466082833a677a87.jpg)
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Quote from: Phoenix1742 on November 20, 2017, 07:14:47 AM
For me, it was going to my therapist as Sarah. And boots!
Although with as much as that made me happy, needing to change back to go to work was tough. One day at a time, right?
Congratulations Sarah! Also, congrats on the lovely choice of names. ;D
Yep, once you've had that taste of freedom, it's tough to go back. Hang in there!
Love the boots!
Quote from: Phoenix1742 on November 20, 2017, 07:14:47 AM
For me, it was going to my therapist as Sarah. And boots!
Although with as much as that made me happy, needing to change back to go to work was tough. One day at a time, right?(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171120/f55e86a8615ca7a1466082833a677a87.jpg)
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I'm glad getting out as Sarah was a positive experience, putting that person away after is hard though.
I'll second on those fab boots too. X
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Quote from: Kendra on November 19, 2017, 10:57:31 PM
Yes, tears of joy that I held back. Didn't want to dilute my drink (a glass of water).
Passport Cards are common in several countries, US started offering them as an additional cost option. I use the card inside China and other countries where they recommend foreigners always carry their passport. Some international hotels require a passport for checkin, the card is good enough. For entering and leaving a country the full size passport is required.
Thanks Kendra!
I am going to look into this when I get back home in the spring. I also would like to to see your group play. I will get back to you about that.
I had my first mental health appointment with my base counselor, this morning, and I'm about to embark on my TDY to Lackland in a couple of weeks. Getting closer and closer to new beginnings. *le sigh*
Quote from: islandgirl on November 19, 2017, 08:45:02 PM
Congrats Kendra! Getting the docs in order and actually having them in your hands is huge. I certainly remember the moments that I first held them. It was overwhelming! I am curious about the passport card! I have never heard of that before. We do not have that in Canada.
I'll add one thing to what Kendra had said about cards - to enter the US by ground you can use a card. But if you fly you need the full book. (I don't know why it's just one of those things.)
My sister left her makeup kit for me to play with while she's gone. I'm learning its my makeup kit as nothing was used in it. I did my eyes with it tonight and I didn't do a bad job. Feeling proud of myself.
Quote from: Denise on November 20, 2017, 10:46:58 PM
I'll add one thing to what Kendra had said about cards - to enter the US by ground you can use a card. But if you fly you need the full book. (I don't know why it's just one of those things.)
It's more of an "other way around" thing. The card is good for countries where you don't need a stamp; Canada, Mexico, the Carribbean islands excluding Cuba.
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
I was out shopping with my...wife, ex, close friend. We got called over, "hey ladies" and then the sales pitch, and flirting from the salesman began.
The government are bringing out a new 26-30 railcard (in the UK). I'm currently 25 and my young persons (16-25) railcard runs out in January, so this will be handy for when I'm 26
Happy having accepting customers. I can just be Sarah all day long :-) And they even change my building access badge to reflect Sarah...
Contacted a local all-female chorus group (I was a church chorister for years before my voice broke), to see if they would consider me. Just heard back that they'd be happy for me to try out, and they have female 'base' parts which might be perfect for me [emoji4]
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This is sort of cross-posting, but I don't care.
I have a court date for my name change hearing! December 7th!!!! :D :D :D :D
More on my personal thread: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,228563.msg2052147.html#msg2052147 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,228563.msg2052147.html#msg2052147)
Steph
Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 21, 2017, 01:40:38 PM
This is sort of cross-posting, but I don't care.
I have a court date for my name change hearing! December 7th!!!! :D :D :D :D
More on my personal thread: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,228563.msg2052147.html#msg2052147 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,228563.msg2052147.html#msg2052147)
Steph
Grrrr, now I have to say congrats again! [emoji16]. X
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Everywhere I've been today, women kept staring at me. I was thinking, "great, I keep getting clocked." Then one women, came up to me and said, "oh my god. I love your hair. I wish my hair could do that." I didn't have the heart to tell her it was a wig. I just said "thank you."
They weren't clocking me. They were admiring my hair.
(It's not the one in my photo. I don't have a picture of me in it yet.)
Fitted a headlamp bulb in a ladies car , it was awkward to get to and she said why do they make it hard for mans hands to fit in. Well when she said mans she paused and almost corrected herself ( difficult to describe but I think you will know what I mean) so she noticed. Fed up with being called MATE by male customers but then they are so unobservant
I am legally named Amber as of this morning.
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Quote from: amberwaves on November 22, 2017, 11:02:11 AM
I am legally named Amber as of this morning.
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Well hello Amber * waves * [emoji16]. Congratulations!
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Wonderful! Congratulations! It's a pleasure to meet you, Amber!
🧡[emoji305]
Steph (Court date coming up on 12/7/17)
Quote from: amberwaves on November 22, 2017, 11:02:11 AM
I am legally named Amber as of this morning.
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!!! Congrats!! :)
Congratulations Amber, it must feel sooooo good!
I went to the therapist, in Ellie mode as normal, and a random guy pulls up to me asking for directions. I didn't actually know where to send him but at the end he said "thanks love". Only silly and small but I felt great :-)
Ellie xx
Not transition related in the slightest, but just had a moment of pure unbridled joy and relief. I was taking a final for one of my courses, and I was feeling really, really negative about it. It was asking questions that were either super vague terminology I didn't remember how it was used from the beginning of course, and had a few questions that I'm sure were not addressed during the semester in the slightest. I was fully expecting a failing score, and was just praying it wouldn't be low enough to impact my course grade. ... Turned out, I got 100. How I pulled that off, I have no idea. Yay for lucky guessing! ;D
Quote from: EllieKHoult on November 22, 2017, 01:53:53 PM
I went to the therapist, in Ellie mode as normal, and a random guy pulls up to me asking for directions. I didn't actually know where to send him but at the end he said "thanks love". Only silly and small but I felt great :-)
That doesn't seem silly and small at all!
Quote from: amberwaves on November 22, 2017, 11:02:11 AM
I am legally named Amber as of this morning.
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Congratulations Amber!!!
Quote from: amberwaves on November 22, 2017, 11:02:11 AM
I am legally named Amber as of this morning.
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Another angel gets her wings. ^_^
Congrats AMBER must feel so good, worth the wait
Amber!!!... Congrats Sister!!!!! 😀!!!!!!
Quote from: amberwaves on November 22, 2017, 11:02:11 AM
I am legally named Amber as of this morning.
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Awesome!! Congratulations.
For me, I call it progress. One of my coworkers used Claire and female pronouns about half the time at work today. She used to go out of her way to use male pronouns, and say Steve. She still doesn't get it, but at least she's not trying to undermine me anymore.
Quote from: KarynMcD on November 21, 2017, 02:55:52 PM
Everywhere I've been today, women kept staring at me. I was thinking, "great, I keep getting clocked." Then one women, came up to me and said, "oh my god. I love your hair. I wish my hair could do that." I didn't have the heart to tell her it was a wig. I just said "thank you."
They weren't clocking me. They were admiring my hair.
(It's not the one in my photo. I don't have a picture of me in it yet.)
Awesome, so envious. Keep the good news coming.
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Quote from: amberwaves on November 22, 2017, 11:02:11 AM
I am legally named Amber as of this morning.
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Fantastic, well done Amber.
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Today I worked for a few hours renovating my gallery. It's getting closer to being done, so I can do creative work in it again. Can't wait.
Bari Jo
Today was going to the movies with my wife and son, as Sarah. We watched Coco and Thor (both good movies), but the best part was being out all day, and not being self conscious. Previous times out as Sarah, I was always afraid of being noticed or "found out", but today it just wasn't an issue.
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I havent seen my family in a few months. Everyone commented that i look different somehow and my sister said it looks like I got botox on my cheeks. I guess hrt is doing something for me!
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I got busted for a changed habit: up till last year, the first things I looked through in the stack of Black Friday ads was HomeDepot and Lowe's. This year: Lord and Taylor, Macy's, Kohl's... HD was Last, Lowe's I have not even touched...
My dysphoria seems to be behaving itself today, it's probably helped by the fact I'm wearing leggings today, also, I work as a web designer, so my creativity really comes out when I'm designing and helps distract me from my problems.
Also, my mom's not going to be home tomorrow, so I'll get the chance to wash my wig. I need to wash it for the trans group next week, we will probably be going for a few drinks afterwards, so I'll by out as a woman in my home city for the first time.. eek
Quote from: sarah1972 on November 24, 2017, 06:53:53 AM
I got busted for a changed habit: up till last year, the first things I looked through in the stack of Black Friday ads was HomeDepot and Lowe's. This year: Lord and Taylor, Macy's, Kohl's... HD was Last, Lowe's I have not even touched...
This gave me a little discomfort. My habits like this are not changing nor do I want them to. I got worried about being perceived as not a girl because of it. I started a thread based on your post. Thanks for bringing it up, more therapy for me.
Bari Jo
Quote from: sarah1972 on November 24, 2017, 06:53:53 AM
I got busted for a changed habit: up till last year, the first things I looked through in the stack of Black Friday ads was HomeDepot and Lowe's. This year: Lord and Taylor, Macy's, Kohl's... HD was Last, Lowe's I have not even touched...
Before I ever thought I might transition I looked at the Kohls, Macy's etc ads first, then on to the others.
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Quote from: Bari Jo on November 24, 2017, 08:48:19 AM
This gave me a little discomfort. My habits like this are not changing nor do I want them to. I got worried about being perceived as not a girl because of it. I started a thread based on your post. Thanks for bringing it up, more therapy for me.
Bari Jo
Don't worry about it.
My guess is a lot of those who find their habits like this changing are finally allowing them to.
An example is when I go to a department store with my family. Before if I wasn't looking for anything in particular, I'd waste time in the electronics or hardware or sporting goods. I mostly would have rather been in the women's clothing section, but did not want to get caught. Now that they know, it's usually the first area I'm headed.
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Quote from: Bari Jo on November 24, 2017, 08:48:19 AM
This gave me a little discomfort. My habits like this are not changing nor do I want them to. I got worried about being perceived as not a girl because of it. I started a thread based on your post. Thanks for bringing it up, more therapy for me.
Bari Jo
I know I've run into that - the "I'll be found out" fear. It's actually something my therapist and I talked about.
Her point was that a lot of the things I do to be perceived as "womanly" are overcompensating for the fact that I'm physically a man. I tend to wear heels, dresses, etc, figuring that I need to go extra girly to cover things up. It's not that I think you have to do these things as a woman - if I see a woman in pants with short hair, I don't think of her as a man because of it - it's that I'm self conscious of having male "markers".
But I've also known plenty of women that have "male markers" - the way they walk, a deeper voice, or "manly" hobbies, yet I've never thought of them as men, and they've never been afraid of being thought of as men.
So yeah, I hear what you're saying, and I've gone through a lot of it myself. And for me, a part of getting past it was just being more comfortable in my own skin. The more I'm Sarah, the more natural it feels, and the less I'm worried about seeming "manly".
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Quote from: Phoenix1742 on November 24, 2017, 09:36:38 AM
Her point was that a lot of the things I do to be perceived as "womanly" are overcompensating for the fact that I'm physically a man. I tend to wear heels, dresses, etc, figuring that I need to go extra girly to cover things up. It's not that I think you have to do these things as a woman - if I see a woman in pants with short hair, I don't think of her as a man because of it - it's that I'm self conscious of having male "markers".
Same here, Phoenix. The first couple of times I went out fully dressed, it was skirts and heels. Now that I'm getting more comfortable with my role, I'm ok with women's jeans and nice flats, etc. I do tend to accessorize with scarves, necklaces, earrings, etc. And my wife, who never wears makeup, is the impatient one as I'm working on my face. But I have so much to compensate for so I'm not read as male. What I'm doing seems to be working, so I'll keep it up until HRT does enough magic that it's not necessary any more.
My personal theory is people will make their judgement on your gender in a split second when they first see you, and will stick with that perception unless you do something unusual or flamboyant to change their minds. If you show more feminine cues than masculine, that's how you're read. My wife, of course, has those cues built-in without needing enhancement. I have to work a little harder at it.
And the catalog thing: I would of course look at the tool catalogs when people were looking. When they weren't, it was women's ads. Which ones came first depended on who was around at the moment.
Steph
Quote from: sarah1972 on November 24, 2017, 06:53:53 AM
I got busted for a changed habit: up till last year, the first things I looked through in the stack of Black Friday ads was HomeDepot and Lowe's. This year: Lord and Taylor, Macy's, Kohl's... HD was Last, Lowe's I have not even touched...
Haha, I got called out for looking through the women's catalogs too. ;D
Quote from: Roll on November 24, 2017, 09:56:20 AM
Haha, I got called out for looking through the women's catalogs too. ;D
Along this line of thought, I dreaded those catalogues that would show up in the mail box with my name on them after having ordered something for myself. Magazines like Victoria's secret or Fredrick's of Hollywood. It made me order "gifts" for women in my life to cover my tracks and provide an acceptable excuse. Of course this works best around holidays that gifts are traditionally given.
Now it doesn't matter, which is good since my female gifting pool has shrunk drastically this year. My email is mainly department store and women's store ads now.
I'm not worried about habits. My wife has as many 'manly' habits as I do. She loves mechanic work (just no good at it due to experience, not ability), fixing things. Heck, she rebuilt the picnic table with help from a neighbor (who's good with wood). She looks at my 'man' magazines before I do. It really boils done to what makes you feel good, not what passes. If you're primary concern is passing then you'll always be self-conscience and second guessing yourself. But that's me, I'm all about comfort.
I'm lucky in that if I want a 'girly' magazine, my wife will read it with me.
On to my morning happy moment(s):
T-day: more hair compliments .. I have the benefit of nice hair and the fact I've always preferred it long so they're used to it. It's styled a bit differently now as I work to let my bangs grow out. Odd thing, my wife noticed that my hair seems darker, less gray ... diet change? I wore my girls shoes, no one noticed or they didn't care.
Went to get blood drawn this morning. I put on nice slacks (a pair that my wife shrunk out of ;D), a nice blouse and ... my new boots. They need broken in and I need practice so away I went.
I felt good & comfortable. No issues. I did feel a little off in the boots, part of the learning curve I guess. I think I held my posture pretty good and I didn't clomp as much.
Today I met a friend in town and had a coffee and a look around the clothes shops. First time I've really interacted with people apart from the therapist as Ellie :)
Ellie xx
I went to a relative's house for Thanksgiving, nervous as heck.
She knew about my transition from other family members, but hasn't ever seen me dressed as myself. I was sort of dreading this - yet she did fantastic, using my current name, pronouns, etc, without seemingly missing a beat or being hesitant in the least. She finally did make a comment on my appearance - and even that was wonderful: "You've really lost a lot of weight!"
This relative is 95, and is basically the little old lady that is a staple of every local church. So don't write off people based on stereotypes!
Quote from: Laurie on November 24, 2017, 10:11:05 AM
Along this line of thought, I dreaded those catalogues the would show up in the mail box with my name on them after having ordered something for myself.
Heh. I signed up for the Ulta loyalty program under the masculine version of my name, and their mailing software automatically converted it to the feminine version!
My wife and I found out about a second-hand clothing boutique from a friend. Today, we checked it out, and wow! The owner has an eye for style and colour, and the prices are insanely reasonable. I got a pair of bright blue (not denim) summer-weight jeans that fit me perfectly, and a thick purple cardigan, for $10 each!
looked in the mirror today....had a slight hourglass shape to my body, despite the belly fat. If I lose more weight, it might become more apparent.
Second half of the family had thanksgiving dinner today. Things went well. My 3 year old niece accepted it just fine. No problems with how things progressed.
Had lunch with my mom (actually step-mom, but I call her my mom now) today. It was the first mother-daughter outing we've had, and it felt wonderful. She's the type of person who isn't shy about pointing things out if she sees an issue, but she didn't say anything along those lines - not about my outfit, makeup, voice, mannerisms, etc.. I should have taken a picture. I'm still so bad about that!
Just wish we could have done more than just lunch, but she had some papers to write for her classes. Still, it was a good 2-1/2 hours or so. We're going to be going holiday shopping together in a couple weeks though!
I tried on a bra for the first time in three months. I still don't need one. I bought a 36b a while ago with extenders just to practice. Back then I had to wear an extender and it's was tight, super tight. Today, no extender and it feels comfortable. Weight loss is awesome. But of course no way can I fill these cups. It might be fun to try an a cup though.
Bari Jo
I told my mom i would need help after surgery when i have it and she said she would help. I only told her i want a nose job and liposuction.. i want ffs too
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Where to start.... I spent 12 hours in the kitchen yesterday making a COMPLETE turkey dinner for my-soon-to-be-ex (we get along great), my two kids and the kids' dates. I started at 7am. The arrived between 5:30 and 6:15pm as expected. Dinner went off without a hitch. NO disasters, nothing burned, nothing under cooked, the Turkey was moist and delicious. When I went to bed everything was cleaned up and the dishwasher was running.
It couldn't have gone any better.
Quote from: Denise on November 25, 2017, 09:27:02 AM
Where to start.... I spent 12 hours in the kitchen yesterday making a COMPLETE turkey dinner for my-soon-to-be-ex (we get along great), my two kids and the kids' dates. I started at 7am. The arrived between 5:30 and 6:15pm as expected. Dinner went off without a hitch. NO disasters, nothing burned, nothing under cooked, the Turkey was moist and delicious. When I went to bed everything was cleaned up and the dishwasher was running.
It couldn't have gone any better.
What level of sorcery did you employ?! I've never heard of a Thanksgiving dinner going off without a hitch....
Sitting in the lounge relaxing with my niece while my wife folded the washing. Michele then picks up a black pair of panties and asks if they were mine or Jessica's. We all had a laugh as it is not a normal question for family group.
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Funniest things I heard today were the nicknames people give HRT:
- Tit Tacs
- Fem & M's
- Injectrogen
- Breast mints
- Wh***-moans
- Transquilizers
- Estra-darts
- Anticistamines
Quote from: Sarah_P on November 25, 2017, 09:52:23 AM
What level of sorcery did you employ?! I've never heard of a Thanksgiving dinner going off without a hitch....
As with all things trans... Planning, planning, planning
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Seeing Kendra, we had a nice lunch and went for a walk down to the river. There is photographic evidence.
I've been gendered correctly many times (and not too), but at a market today with my female neighbour, the stallholder addressed us as 'ladies' without a single beat or glance. Gave me a lovely fuzzy feeling [emoji4]
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Quote from: Megan. on November 26, 2017, 12:37:54 PM
I've been gendered correctly many times (and not too), but at a market today with my female neighbour, the stallholder addressed us as 'ladies' without a single beat or glance. Gave me a lovely fuzzy feeling [emoji4]
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That made me smile, that sounds amazing! :)
Hi what makes me happy today is that I have survived having a DVT and all the nurses call me Bobbi and are so nice to me I have chatted extensively with a couple of them about being transgender they are great
bobbisue 😀
Quote from: bobbisue on November 26, 2017, 05:18:13 PM
Hi what makes me happy today is that I have survived having a DVT and all the nurses call me Bobbi and are so nice to me I have chatted extensively with a couple of them about being transgender they are great
bobbisue [emoji3]
Gosh, very glad you are OK, and happy to hear about the respectful treatment. X
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Quote from: Monica Leslie on November 26, 2017, 05:03:34 PM
Hi ladies! I am 68 years old and have been transgendered all of my life but tend to be in the closet. Do you think it is too late to begin hormone therapy and have an orchiectomy? (I'd prefer more, but it may not matter that much.) I'm in Portland, Oregon and am trying to find a surgeon who will perform an orchiectomy. I'm happy today because I'm wearing female attire, something I should do all the time. Monica
It's never too late!
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April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
I now have my birth certificate, driver's license, passport book and passport card all in the name of Denise.
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Quote from: Denise on November 26, 2017, 08:19:57 PM
I now have my birth certificate, driver's license, passport book and passport card all in the name of Denise.
Yeah! Congratulations Denise!
Me too soon...
Steph
Quote from: SiobhánF on November 26, 2017, 02:33:52 AM
Funniest things I heard today were the nicknames people give HRT:
- Tit Tacs
- Fem & M's
- Injectrogen
- Breast mints
- Wh***-moans
- Transquilizers
- Estra-darts
- Anticistamines
Ahhh, I can't stand it! People are so incredibly creative. Fem & M's!! :D :D :D
I went hiking today with a group of friends from "before". There were four photo-ops on the trail and the pictures were posted on Facebook an hour or two ago. When I looked through them at first glance even I thought I was a girl. I needed to look at my clothes before I realized which one was me.
If that's not reaffirming, I'm not sure what is.
Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 26, 2017, 08:28:13 PM
Ahhh, I can't stand it! People are so incredibly creative. Fem & M's!! :D :D :D
My favorite out of them all. Anticistamines comes in second. XD
When I got up today without clothes on and walked past my wardobe (which is a huge mirror on the outside), I felt so exhausted and spent that I forgot to look away (I never look at myself naked unless I have underwear on to cover up dysphoric bits). WOW. My hips.. my body has become so womanly... I always had a girly waist (was on the lower spectrum of normal T levels when I began HRT, so I think that's why), but now it's so much more accentuated.
Almost 2 years on oestrogen is REALLY paying off.
P.S. TBH I was nude and exhausted because I was 'exploring' my body... I'm finally getting into the swing of things but now I can go over and over so much that I lose track of time... I'm talking like a couple hours without even realising... Before HRT it was like one intense orgasm, and it took no longer than 20 mins, then I got on with my day. Those days are gone.. now it's more a series of multiple more 'mellow' orgasms...can't wait to see how it feels after SRS. Sorry if that was TMI.
So maybe that's two things that made me happy today... LOL
Although I have kind of given up on transitioning, I am still growing my hair out and recently I decided to take a little more care in my appearance, shaved off my 'beard' (just long stubble really) and had my hair tied back for the first time since it's finally long enough and I got called 'miss' by a customer lol, they corrected them self after but it did make me laugh and secretly inside kind of happy.
Quote from: SiobhánF on November 26, 2017, 02:33:52 AM
Funniest things I heard today were the nicknames people give HRT:
- Tit Tacs
- Fem & M's
- Injectrogen
- Breast mints
- Wh***-moans
- Transquilizers
- Estra-darts
- Anticistamines
...and for some of us, HRT is indeed a LifeSaver. :)
Follow up letter with a consultant at a hospital, described me as...
"pleasant 40 year old lady"
Well he got my age right [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]
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Awwwesome!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on November 27, 2017, 11:35:28 AM
Awwwesome!
It wasn't a pass, he knew I was trans*, but given I'm not pleasant and certainly ain't no 'lady' it made me laugh. Hehe
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Quote from: Kendra on November 27, 2017, 03:43:57 AM
...and for some of us, HRT is indeed a LifeSaver. :)
Ha! Love it. :)
I'm just in good mood and feeling pretty today, so I updated my profile pic.
Quote from: KarynMcD on November 27, 2017, 03:33:53 PM
I'm just in good mood and feeling pretty today, so I updated my profile pic.
Looking fab hun! X
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Everyone is looking great, jealous or what!
I had several REALLY good days! Despite not having internet.
First, I got to see my new girlfriend. She accepts that my soon to be ex-wife will always be part of my family. My ex-wife wants me to be with my new girlfriend. She even worked the finances so that I could take my girlfriend out this weekend. We had a wonderful time!
I had sex for the first time since beginning to transition. OMG!!!!!!!!!! I don't know how it's supposed to feel, but I've felt it the entire day, since.
Then, this morning I wake up to breakfast in bed and a rose. The rose is beautiful, it is a blend of pink, red, and purple. I'll get a picture of it in the morning.
Is it weird that my ex-wife is giving me dating advice for my new girlfriend?
The bummer part, is that I had to come home so I could go to my psychologist appointment tomorrow, file divorce papers, and apply for a job at a place nearby that has an opening.
I feel all warm and squishy inside. Both my ex and my girlfriend are the best!
Artesia, thanks for your story. It's the one bright spot on my day today.
Bari Jo
Artesia, just reading that makes me happy. To have an ex that still wants you to be happy must be an amazing thing.
I like it. It still feels weird though. My ex wants to meet my girlfriend, and vice versa. Going to be even weirder then. At least they have similar likes, and personality traits. My girlfriend has the benefit of having more personality traits in common with me than with her.
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The rose as promised. to bad my camera sucks.
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Me, no makeup and with my rose.
My wife met Ellie for the first time last night. Went better than I was hoping and I actually think there's a good chance she'll be there when I transition :)
I went to my favorite Soul Food restaurant (had not been in a year) The owner new my partner and I fairly well. Greeted her by name, could not place me but did ask if I had an older brother who he had not seen in a long time. I told him, no he is younger and lives in Texas. He was the dude that would come with your friend, him he's your brother, right? I was no, not my brother just a role I played. He gave me a WTF look and then a hug. He was you look AMAZING. I had to choke back tears of happiness. Oh the reason for the dinner was even better my GCS was n=moved up 5 hours :) less sleep to lose on the evening of 1/4/18
Being woken up by my dog , really early, and really😊
Quote from: EllieKHoult on November 29, 2017, 02:52:40 AM
My wife met Ellie for the first time last night. Went better than I was hoping and I actually think there's a good chance she'll be there when I transition :)
That's wonderful news, very happy for you both. X
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Hair clean check shaved body check listening to feel good playlist (Take On Me is such a great song) check curled up in silk sheats check! Would watch a little slice of life anime but need to sleep some time right?
Sweet dreams!
Quote from: Megan. on November 29, 2017, 04:11:49 AM
That's wonderful news, very happy for you both. X
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Thanks Megan. Might not be on my own after all :)
Ellie xx
I love reading this thread to start my day. So many happy stories!
Mine is that my electrologist has declared my upper and lower lips cleared (for now). We might have to come back to them in time, but not with the heavy-duty flame-thrower.
Birth registration and legal name change received in the mail..
Now to update EVERYTHING with the correct information...
Oh and still waiting for the actual pocket sized birth certificate, but thats not required for everything else...
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What made me happy today was that was hanging with my roommates and as we where getting out of the ttuck one said "after you my lady". Made my day. Getting happy when people purposely misgender me is weird I use to get so violent. So far in the closet Im in Narnia.
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For my happy today, I'm going with a Black Friday self splurge - a good corset.
As a general medieval history guy, and someone that loves a Renaissance Festival, I *adore* corsetry. It's always been one of those mental images that I've associated with the female form, and something I've desperately wanted to have - that figure that only a good corset can give you.
I used to hope that I could buy one and just squish myself into the right shape but it never worked out - corsets are built to give a woman's body more shape, not to squeeze a beer belly into an hourglass. But for the past year or so I've worked hard to lose weight, gone down from a men's 40 pant to a 34, and finally treated myself to a good quality corset.
Getting a corset on is always tricky, but once it was on and I had everything tightened - Er. Mah. Gerd. [emoji7]
Sure, breathing and bending are harder to do, but who needs that anyway? [emoji28]
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This happened a couple evenings ago but thinking about it today is still making me happy.
Those that have read previous postings by me know, my wife and I are now in the habit of making small talk in bed before sleep. Whatever pops into our heads, we spit out and discuss it.
Sunday night, I think, I brought up how much harder some of you have/had it with dealing with the different issues and life circumstances in general. Specifically Gender Dysphoria and severity. She gets up on one elbow, looks me in the eye and says, "If it ever gets that bad for you, tell me. We'll find a way to take care of it. I'd rather have you be 100% a girl than to have you go through that.".
Have I mentioned how much I love my wife? Not today, and never enough ;D
Changed my name and gender on works intranet and got a letter from them TO Miss Davina B----------.
Today I've been out round the city centre clothes shopping with my wife. First time she's been out with me after meeting Ellie the other day. Found a really pretty outfit and she wanted to hold hands whilst we were walking around. Got a few stares as normal but overall a really good day :)
Ellie xx
I'm now down over 44 lbs since starting my diet earlier this year and within 8 pounds of the goal weight I set when I started. I'm thinking of raising the bar a little higher and going for an additional 5 pound loss. I'm now the lowest weight I've been since finding out my ex-wife was cheating on me in 2009 and I'm only a few pounds away from that.
I picked up my clothes I ordered from Penney's. 9 items. AND EVERY ITEM FIT and fit well. I couldn't even do that with guy clothes. :) Pant's 2. Blouses 3, dress 1, underwear 2, even the bra fit properly. Woohoo.
I came out to my boss two weeks ago and he handled things better than expected.
Today he walked in my office and says he doesn't know how I do it. How I do my job to the level I do while transitioning while keeping the family together and running and while doing all these things.
He also informed me that anyone in our department who gives me a hard time will have hell to pay.
All made me feel really good about where things are headed.
Plus yesterday I had dinner with a long time friend. We were in each other's weddings kind of friend but haven't really talked a lot lately. She sort of guessed what's going on and is really supportive and looking forward to her new girlfriend.
Overall a really amazing few days!
Quote from: DawnOday on November 30, 2017, 06:49:15 PM
I picked up my clothes I ordered from Penney's. 9 items. AND EVERY ITEM FIT and fit well. I couldn't even do that with guy clothes. :) Pant's 2. Blouses 3, dress 1, underwear 2, even the bra fit properly. Woohoo.
Congrats and whoa, how'd you manage that?
Quote from: jill610 on November 30, 2017, 09:55:27 PM
Congrats and whoa, how'd you manage that?
I've been practicing a very long time. But, like driving thru McDonalds they screw up just about every third item.
I had an awesome airport experience. I can't wear makeup today but because of the electrology, I'm very temporarily without facial hair (and bright red with swelling!), but since the facial hair is my #1 hangup, I figured I can't waste a day when I don't have it, and decided to fly as myself.
I get to the airport and the ticket agent's very first words towards me are "young lady." Since I started transitioning in August, nobody that doesn't know me has properly gendered me - until today. I don't get a lot of misgendering, just a lot of frantic searching for non-gendered ways to greet me and such. So I was really really looking forward to someonoe actually noticing I'm a woman and commenting to me, in any small way, about it. That happened within a few minutes of me arriving at the airport! It is so validating to have someone, anyone, recognize who you've been working so hard to show the world you are. I'll be happy for a week!!!
Quote from: ToriJo on December 01, 2017, 02:36:16 AMIt is so validating to have someone, anyone, recognize who you've been working so hard to show the world you are. I'll be happy for a week!!!
ToriJo,
That is so cool! I still get those warm fuzzies when it happens, but to do it with no makeup? Wow! Happy dance!
Steph
My happy day maker started out as a downer yesterday as it was my last day of shaving until my electrolysis session next Wednesday. I had planned hiding out for the duration but the mail brought in my background check papers needed for my name change.....this morning my partner and I were able to file court papers for my formal name change, going out with a day of beard growth did not even slow me down! They tell me that I should be officially me in about two weeks! I so look forward to doing the new year as me!
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on December 01, 2017, 03:26:55 PM
My happy day maker started out as a downer yesterday as it was my last day of shaving until my electrolysis session next Wednesday. I had planned hiding out for the duration but the mail brought in my background check papers needed for my name change.....this morning my partner and I were able to file court papers for my formal name change, going out with a day of beard growth did not even slow me down! They tell me that I should be officially me in about two weeks! I so look forward to doing the new year as me!
Tia Anne
Yay, Tia Anne! My court date is next Thursday! We're all going to be official!
Quote from: ToriJo on December 01, 2017, 02:36:16 AM
I get to the airport and the ticket agent's very first words towards me are "young lady." Since I started transitioning in August, nobody that doesn't know me has properly gendered me - until today.
It happened *AGAIN* today. Two days in a row! :) This time at a fast food restaurant, I was "miss". I can handle that!
This won't last long but I'm really enjoying being seen as I am for a bit. I never thought I'd get to this point.
Quote from: Anne Blake on December 01, 2017, 03:26:55 PM
My happy day maker started out as a downer yesterday as it was my last day of shaving until my electrolysis session next Wednesday. I had planned hiding out for the duration but the mail brought in my background check papers needed for my name change.....this morning my partner and I were able to file court papers for my formal name change, going out with a day of beard growth did not even slow me down! They tell me that I should be officially me in about two weeks! I so look forward to doing the new year as me!
Tia Anne
Congratulations Tia,
That will be a day to celebrate and I hope you and Deb do just that You deserve it Tia. Please give Deb a good hug for me and have here do the same to you for me too. I have very fond memories with the two of you.
Hugs,
Laurie
The best thing happened to me today... I was in with my therapist last week and she suggested that I try feminine stuff like women's clothes, wigs, voice pitch change etc when I'm at home, to begin with, and see how I feel abt it. so I decided to wait until my paycheque to order some clothes online. but I don't know what got over me today (maybe because I am impatient) and I went into a store and bought 2 pairs of tights a couple of leggings, 3 different bralettes a pair of thigh highs and 2 packs of panties. There was a lot of staring by store employees as I still definitely look like a guy coz I have facial hair and stuff, but surprisingly it didn't bother me. That is not even the best part. The best part is when I got home and tried all that stuff on and was walking around the house in a bralette and leggings. I have no words for that feeling; except that it felt so "like myself" and awesome that I decided to start wearing tights and panties under my work clothes starting Monday. that is a step I never thought I would ever take.
Quote from: coconutballoon on December 02, 2017, 02:12:29 AM
The best thing happened to me today... I was in with my therapist last week and she suggested that I try feminine stuff like women's clothes, wigs, voice pitch change etc when I'm at home, to begin with, and see how I feel abt it. so I decided to wait until my paycheque to order some clothes online. but I don't know what got over me today (maybe because I am impatient) and I went into a store and bought 2 pairs of tights a couple of leggings, 3 different bralettes a pair of thigh highs and 2 packs of panties. There was a lot of staring by store employees as I still definitely look like a guy coz I have facial hair and stuff, but surprisingly it didn't bother me. That is not even the best part. The best part is when I got home and tried all that stuff on and was walking around the house in a bralette and leggings. I have no words for that feeling; except that it felt so "like myself" and awesome that I decided to start wearing tights and panties under my work clothes starting Monday. that is a step I never thought I would ever take.
Finally discovering what feels 'right' can be quite a revelation, I'm happy for you. X
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Looking down at my camisole and seeing boobs every morning when I wake up. Verifies that this all wasn't just a good dream.
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Quote from: coconutballoon on December 02, 2017, 02:12:29 AM
I have no words for that feeling; except that it felt so "like myself" and awesome that I decided to start wearing tights and panties under my work clothes starting Monday. that is a step I never thought I would ever take.
That feeling after truly dressing feminine for the first time was my huge "Oh. Well, damn. This is happening." moment.
It's like the old saying goes, "the clothes make the man... realize she's a woman".
Quote from: coconutballoon on December 02, 2017, 02:12:29 AM
The best thing happened to me today... I was in with my therapist last week and she suggested that I try feminine stuff like women's clothes, wigs, voice pitch change etc when I'm at home, to begin with, and see how I feel abt it. so I decided to wait until my paycheque to order some clothes online. but I don't know what got over me today (maybe because I am impatient) and I went into a store and bought 2 pairs of tights a couple of leggings, 3 different bralettes a pair of thigh highs and 2 packs of panties. There was a lot of staring by store employees as I still definitely look like a guy coz I have facial hair and stuff, but surprisingly it didn't bother me. That is not even the best part. The best part is when I got home and tried all that stuff on and was walking around the house in a bralette and leggings. I have no words for that feeling; except that it felt so "like myself" and awesome that I decided to start wearing tights and panties under my work clothes starting Monday. that is a step I never thought I would ever take.
Christmas is the best time of year for buying women's clothes - just look lost and people will assume you're buying clothes as a gift. :-)
But it really is true that it can make such a difference. For me, it's the wig that really puts it over the top - seeing myself (with usually very short hair) with something long and feminine just feels so good. I'd also recommend cleaning up or shaping your eyebrows - it's the sort of thing most people won't notice, but can have a dramatic effect.
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Yesterday, I went to the local library. I was doing homework, and my girlfriend doesn't have internet at her place, kind of really important for online classes. Anywho, the place had an elevator to the second floor, where I planned on hiding to get it done, and avoid the stares of the local conservative crowd. Oddly enough, one of the local guys held the elevator door for me, and then motioned for me to get off the elevator before him, and said good day ma'am. Apparently, I'm a touch more passable than I think I am. Even in my unisex work uniform. The ma'am's are starting to come a lot more frequently. Still none when without makeup.
I also received a phone call, from a place closer to home, for an interview. It is for a home for distressed children. I applied as Claire, and even in the cover letter for this place I disclosed that I am a transwoman. Right after the part where I told them I am going to college to become a clinical psychologist, with a focus on gender studies.
I went into one of the highest testosterone laden stores today (Ice Hockey Supply center) after paying for my skate sharpening the nice young clerk handed me my skates and said "Here you go miss. have a nice day." The best part was MISS not MA'AM!
Quote from: Denise on December 02, 2017, 11:15:51 AM
The best part was MISS not MA'AM!
Here's a question... why is calling someone "miss" the preferred thing to do in society at large, but calling someone just "mister" makes you sound like you are a 1920's street urchin hawking newspapers?
Quote from: Roll on December 02, 2017, 12:53:31 PM
Here's a question... why is calling someone "miss" the preferred thing to do in society at large, but calling someone just "mister" makes you sound like you are a 1920's street urchin hawking newspapers?
Ma'am was my mother or grandmother. Okay, I'm old too, now. But I never had the opportunity for the Miss years. It's just nice.
BTW - about your tickler.... how about a count up tickler "since last tickler event" So start a count up since 11/20
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BTW - about your tickler.... how about a count up tickler "since last tickler event" So start a count up since 11/20
I think you were just struck by the best auto correct I've seen in a while. ;D
Just painted my nails i think it looks kinda cute lol idk (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171203/6a1a7389f8f68293993563d88be1fe41.jpg)
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I had dinner with both my parents tonight. They got along and it was pleasant. This, Btw, is the first dinner since I came out to both of them. I am home now, and am a wreck. I'm second guessing everything. In the moment of dinner, drinks, dessert, everything seemed like a normal parents with child dinner out, that part made me happy.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 02, 2017, 11:44:25 PM
I had dinner with both my parents tonight. They got along and it was pleasant. This, Btw, is the first dinner since I came out to both of them. I am home now, and am a wreck. I'm second guessing everything. In the moment of dinner, drinks, dessert, everything seemed like a normal parents with child dinner out, that part made me happy.
Bari Jo
Yay! See, the sky didn't fall in! [emoji3]
Can i ask how you were presenting? X
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Quote from: Megan. on December 03, 2017, 01:24:00 AM
Yay! See, the sky didn't fall in! [emoji3]
Can i ask how you were presenting? X
I was in boy mode. I thought about doing my eyes, but was afraid. I'm not ready for presenting as full girl yet.
Bari Jo
Quote from: dist123 on December 02, 2017, 07:13:19 PM
Just painted my nails i think it looks kinda cute lol idk (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20171203/6a1a7389f8f68293993563d88be1fe41.jpg)
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Gorgeous nails! I love the color & accent you picked out.
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 02, 2017, 11:44:25 PM
I had dinner with both my parents tonight. They got along and it was pleasant. This, Btw, is the first dinner since I came out to both of them. I am home now, and am a wreck. I'm second guessing everything. In the moment of dinner, drinks, dessert, everything seemed like a normal parents with child dinner out, that part made me happy.
Bari Jo
I hope you are doing OK. Sometimes feelings surface during your transition that are difficult to process--and they will sometimes take you by surprise! Big hugs!! :-*
Bari Joe, you're doing great. Be happy for small successes, sometimes that's all we seem to get, but they all add up and suddenly we become aware of just how much has been accomplished and wonder "how the hell did that happen?" Keep smiling!
I just wanted to mention a couple of good things I felt I was given today.
First, I'm doing SRS in Feb. and maybe some FFS with it, or very near to it. The SRS in no issue anymore, but the FFS bothered me when I started to really realize the no return label on who I will be. I turned to someone on the forum who had been kind enough to give me some sound advice before and sort of aired my fears. She responded in a way that gave me just what I needed and I think I've gotten my head around this and moving forward with confidence as a result. She knows how grateful I am to have just a little help when I needed it. A gift of friendship, a gift of caring.
Second thing was a gift from a male friend that I have done a lot of heavy male type work with as well as a lot of talking. He's a real guy and in spite of being a hunter, biker, mountain man is also strong enough to be kind and understanding. He knows what I'm going through and I still help him a lot with stuff he does, though it's now mostly brain work and a lot less physical. He was over today and picking up some stuff I was getting rid of and before we finished he kind of lowered his eyes to the ground and got low voiced and stammered a bit and said "there's something I gotta ask you, I told Felicia (his wife) I was going to ask and she laughed and said "Oh, you're not really going to do that, are you?" and I told her hell yes I was, so here goes. When you get back from all your remake and are who you gotta be, do I shake your hand or give you a kiss?" He said it with a little grin and a twinkle in his eye. I answered "you sure as hell better give me a kiss!" He said "that's the answer I was looking for!" with a great big smile and we both laughed so hard and he just gave me a big hug before he left. The gift of true friendship, the gift of laughter.
Wish all of you could experience these sort of things, I'm sure you will in time if you haven't already. A good day for me. Toni
Quote from: Toni on December 04, 2017, 03:57:27 PM
Second thing was a gift from a male friend that I have done a lot of heavy male type work with as well as a lot of talking. He's a real guy and in spite of being a hunter, biker, mountain man is also strong enough to be kind and understanding. He knows what I'm going through and I still help him a lot with stuff he does, though it's now mostly brain work and a lot less physical. He was over today and picking up some stuff I was getting rid of and before we finished he kind of lowered his eyes to the ground and got low voiced and stammered a bit and said "there's something I gotta ask you, I told Felicia (his wife) I was going to ask and she laughed and said "Oh, you're not really going to do that, are you?" and I told her hell yes I was, so here goes. When you get back from all your remake and are who you gotta be, do I shake your hand or give you a kiss?" He said it with a little grin and a twinkle in his eye. I answered "you sure as hell better give me a kiss!" He said "that's the answer I was looking for!" with a great big smile and we both laughed so hard and he just gave me a big hug before he left. The gift of true friendship, the gift of laughter.
Wish all of you could experience these sort of things, I'm sure you will in time if you haven't already. A good day for me. Toni
OK, this brought tears to my eyes. That's so awesome!!
And congrats on the upcoming surgeries!
Toni, I had a tear in my eye too. Wow, you have a very good couple of friends :)
I am happy I transitioned. I lost a lot but I gained a lot too. I do not have GD any more and I do not want to kill myself. I stood on a bridge at age 11 but now I do not have suicidal ideation. I want to look to the future and start over.
Yeah, I am so fortunate to have quite a few wonderful people helping me. Not boasting, I feel incredibly humbled by them and at times am moved to tears because I find it difficult to understand their kindness. All I can say is that we are all persons worthy of being loved. Heartbreaks abound, I've had my share, but if you believe you are a person of value and act like you are, eventually good things WILL find you. With all my heart I wish this for ALL my sisters. Toni
Quote from: Toni on December 04, 2017, 03:57:27 PM
Bari Joe, you're doing great. Be happy for small successes, sometimes that's all we seem to get, but they all add up and suddenly we become aware of just how much has been accomplished and wonder "how the hell did that happen?" Keep smiling!
I just wanted to mention a couple of good things I felt I was given today.
First, I'm doing SRS in Feb. and maybe some FFS with it, or very near to it. The SRS in no issue anymore, but the FFS bothered me when I started to really realize the no return label on who I will be. I turned to someone on the forum who had been kind enough to give me some sound advice before and sort of aired my fears. She responded in a way that gave me just what I needed and I think I've gotten my head around this and moving forward with confidence as a result. She knows how grateful I am to have just a little help when I needed it. A gift of friendship, a gift of caring.
Second thing was a gift from a male friend that I have done a lot of heavy male type work with as well as a lot of talking. He's a real guy and in spite of being a hunter, biker, mountain man is also strong enough to be kind and understanding. He knows what I'm going through and I still help him a lot with stuff he does, though it's now mostly brain work and a lot less physical. He was over today and picking up some stuff I was getting rid of and before we finished he kind of lowered his eyes to the ground and got low voiced and stammered a bit and said "there's something I gotta ask you, I told Felicia (his wife) I was going to ask and she laughed and said "Oh, you're not really going to do that, are you?" and I told her hell yes I was, so here goes. When you get back from all your remake and are who you gotta be, do I shake your hand or give you a kiss?" He said it with a little grin and a twinkle in his eye. I answered "you sure as hell better give me a kiss!" He said "that's the answer I was looking for!" with a great big smile and we both laughed so hard and he just gave me a big hug before he left. The gift of true friendship, the gift of laughter.
Wish all of you could experience these sort of things, I'm sure you will in time if you haven't already. A good day for me. Toni
That's beautiful! Omg, that made me a little jealous. I need a friend like that. That's true friendship at its finest. :)
Today was the first day at Wilford Hall at Lackland. Got my blood drawn and got some briefings on things I already knew and some I didn't know. Last part of the day, I got to talk with the head of trans-related mental health for the MMDT. Also, I got to meet a few other trans brothers and sister. What beautiful people. I can't wait to interact with them again. ^_^
Rocking my pink star wars pajama bottoms at work.
>.>
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I threw out all my male underwear.
Never again!
Picked up my kid at daycare and she had a little gift box in your hand. The lady running the daycare said: This is for you and your MOMS!!! in plural !! Still having a happy face :-)
Quote from: sarah1972 on December 05, 2017, 07:07:17 PM
Picked up my kid at daycare and she had a little gift box in your hand. The lady running the daycare said: This is for you and your MOMS!!! in plural !! Still having a happy face :-)
Yays! I didn't reply to your other post because I couldn't figure out the unhappy part! :laugh:
Hugs, Devlyn
I got happy today and now also landed in a strange state. I've had my Mom visit for the past week. On the very first night I came out to her, and we had long talks about my feelings and history. The whole time I was sure she was supportive and confirmed that this morning. She hugged me before she left and said I should transition and she's glad I am deciding to work toward my own happiness. This is all good. I got a bit choked up. What kills me is I'm entering a phase of questioning if I'm doing the right thing. I honestly can't imagine not doing it now, but I'm questioning my end result. Argh, this ride sometimes sucks and is sometimes awesome. At least I can say my mom is firmly in my corner. Where's my magic wand dammit.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on December 05, 2017, 07:16:19 PM
Yays! I didn't reply to your other post because I couldn't figure out the unhappy part! :laugh:
Hugs, Devlyn
Too excited so I picked the first thread with "happy" in it [emoji23]
Bari Jo,
I read your post and smiled at the part where you said your mom is firmly in your corner. That should make you happy. It's wonderful. That questioning however is never a fun part and unfortunately a lot of us fight internal wars with ourselves because of it. The trick it to know you are doing what is right and those doubts will go away. Unfortunately there is no magic wand but rest assured the if there was I would pass it on to you once it worked it's magic on me. lol How I wish there were a land of rainbows and stars and unicorns where everyone could live out their dreams.
Quote from: sarah1972 on December 05, 2017, 07:48:54 PM
Too excited so I picked the first thread with "happy" in it [emoji23]
It's good to be happy, Sarah.
So happy for you accepting mom Bari Jo!
We all have these doubt phases. You are on the right track!
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 05, 2017, 07:39:23 PM
I got happy today and now also landed in a strange state. I've had my Mom visit for the past week. On the very first night I came out to her, and we had long talks about my feelings and history. The whole time I was sure she was supportive and confirmed that this morning. She hugged me before she left and said I should transition and she's glad I am deciding to work toward my own happiness. This is all good. I got a bit choked up. What kills me is I'm entering a phase of questioning if I'm doing the right thing. I honestly can't imagine not doing it now, but I'm questioning my end result. Argh, this ride sometimes sucks and is sometimes awesome. At least I can say my mom is firmly in my corner. Where's my magic wand dammit.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 05, 2017, 07:39:23 PMWhat kills me is I'm entering a phase of questioning if I'm doing the right thing.
Hi Bari Jo,
I know exactly what you're saying. BTDT. I don't know why it took me so long to figure it out, though, because the answer was so simple. After a while I realized all I have to do is ask myself, would I be happy if I went back to the way I was? The answer is always such a resounding NO that the doubts are squashed right now! That sad, dysphoric person is in my past, and that's where he's staying.
So listen to your mother! She knows best (and is awesomely cool, too)!
Steph
I was at a support group and one of the leaders had missed a few meetings. She came up to me afterwards and said "I didn't recognize you."
Sometimes changes come in phases/spurts.
Very affirming.
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I got the opportunity to go out with some trans brothers and sister today, en femme. I was suuuuuuper nervous. So nervous that I was shaking while applying my mascara (dangerous. don't do that. calm down first! XD ). But, yeah, anyway, it was a great experience. I got stares, but I quickly got over it because I remembered that I wasn't alone (whew!). Baby steps, but that was awesome. One of the guys is super awesome. He'd used makeup in the past and was really good at it, so he offered to help me pick out some makeup tomorrow. I'm super stoked. ^_^
Quote from: SiobhánF on December 05, 2017, 10:10:53 PM
I got the opportunity to go out with some trans brothers and sister today, en femme. I was suuuuuuper nervous. So nervous that I was shaking while applying my mascara (dangerous. don't do that. calm down first! XD ). But, yeah, anyway, it was a great experience. I got stares, but I quickly got over it because I remembered that I wasn't alone (whew!). Baby steps, but that was awesome. One of the guys is super awesome. He'd used makeup in the past and was really good at it, so he offered to help me pick out some makeup tomorrow. I'm super stoked. ^_^
Nice. Having support in choosing colors is very helpful. Have a good time tomorrow. Going out gets easier as you go.
As a side note, don't put on eyeliner while shaking either. That sucker hurts when you miss.
Quote from: Artesia on December 05, 2017, 10:24:01 PM
Nice. Having support in choosing colors is very helpful. Have a good time tomorrow. Going out gets easier as you go.
That's good to know.
Quote from: Artesia on December 05, 2017, 10:24:01 PM
That sucker hurts when you miss.
Don't I know it! Ouch! I did it a couple of times and had to breathe and calm myself enough to hold a steady hand. :)
Quote from: SiobhánF on December 05, 2017, 10:47:13 PM
That's good to know.
Don't I know it! Ouch! I did it a couple of times and had to breathe and calm myself enough to hold a steady hand. :)
I have difficulty distinguishing colors. I'm glad that I've had support from my soon to be ex wife, and my girlfriend.
I've used the counter as support under my elbow to steady it a bit, when I'm having a shaky day.
I convinced myself to not stop for alcohol on my way home after work. Staying sober is hard, but it feels good!
Quote from: Rebecca W on December 05, 2017, 11:01:08 PM
I convinced myself to not stop for alcohol on my way home after work. Staying sober is hard, but it feels good!
There are lots of happy events on this thread to celebrate, but this one stands out. Well done, sister!
After dragging my feet for month... finally... first laser hair removal today. OMG... it hurts... But happy I got my act together and started.
Quote from: sarah1972 on December 06, 2017, 01:54:11 PM
After dragging my feet for month... finally... first laser hair removal today. OMG... it hurts... But happy I got my act together and started.
Just think each zap all those nasty follicles getting cooked. Keep strong, it's worth it. X
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Be glad it's not electrolysis. Laser you light up the hair folical and after a few days the hair falls out temporarily. In Electrolysis it's a double whammy. First they use a probe to light up the root and then they pull it out. On the bright side they only have to do it once 80% of the time.
Prescription for HRT came through
Quote from: davina61 on December 06, 2017, 03:52:09 PM
Prescription for HRT came through
Woop yay! X
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With the amount of grey hair I still have 6 - 9 month of electrolysis ahead of me...
Quote from: DawnOday on December 06, 2017, 02:53:11 PM
Be glad it's not electrolysis. Laser you light up the hair folical and after a few days the hair falls out temporarily. In Electrolysis it's a double whammy. First they use a probe to light up the root and then they pull it out. On the bright side they only have to do it once 80% of the time.
Quote from: sarah1972 on December 06, 2017, 04:57:39 PM
With the amount of grey hair I still have 6 - 9 month of electrolysis ahead of me...
I'm about 30 sessions into it, with about 15-20 to go. We have most my chin and a good portion of my neck done. Never had much hair on my cheeks anyway. Take a strip of rawhide with you to bite down on. Does better than lidocaine.
Quote from: davina61 on December 06, 2017, 03:52:09 PM
Prescription for HRT came through
Outstanding! Enjoy the ride!
just made it through another round of electrolysis, full clearing of both top and bottom. Even with lidocaine injections a full day with two technicians took a lot out of me; but it is over and I am another day closer to being free of beard and groin hair. Sore, tired but no shaving for a couple of weeks. And each session is getting easier.
I just flew home from Dallas and found a letter received today from the local county court. I am now officially Tia Anne Blake Smith! Hurray, now I am certifiably real.....WOW, and I am crying for some silly reason! My path has been a short one compared to many, just over 32 months from the first time ever trying on a skirt or having any idea about gender identity to being fully, totally, completely me; and yes, I am stupidly, ecstaticly happy.
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on December 07, 2017, 04:42:28 PM
I just flew home from Dallas and found a letter received today from the local county court. I am now officially Tia Anne Blake Smith! Hurray, now I am certifiably real.....WOW, and I am crying for some silly reason! My path has been a short one compared to many, just over 32 months from the first time ever trying on a skirt or having any idea about gender identity to being fully, totally, completely me; and yes, I am stupidly, ecstaticly happy.
Dear Ms. Tia Anne Blake Smith,
I am also ecstatically happy for you! And as you know, I'm not far behind, at least in the name change department. I expect to see my papers on Monday or Tuesday. Of course, you're much further along in other aspects, but I'll catch up some day on those, too!
Warm congratulations, sister!
Stephanie
Yay! Congratulations, Tia Anne!
And to you, Stephanie. I take it your hearing went well?
Quote from: KathyLauren on December 07, 2017, 05:11:50 PM
Yay! Congratulations, Tia Anne!
And to you, Stephanie. I take it your hearing went well?
It went perfectly! I'm writing a report for my personal thread now.
Steph
Tia Anne, and also Stephanie, Congrats! Sounds like both of your hearings went well. So I heard.
Add my congratulations for two wonderful friends on your official name changes.
Thank you all, I must admit that that was the kind of news that is a joy to share with family. And what better family than those on Susan's Place.
So many good feels. Lemme add to it. I got to go out again as myself and it was even better. One of the trans men defended me from one evil stare. LMAO! That someone was staring at me as I was making my exit and my friend flipped him off, making that person get all startled. I felt so happy to have such a great friend. Also, I got my transition plan drafted and signed by the medical team, here at Lackland. When I start HRT, I'll be using the patch, taking spiro, and finasteride. I hope my commander approves it fast and my PCM doesn't take her time with it. More to come. :)
I'm actually having one of those rare days where I feel ok, not great, but ok. The regular top ups of Earl Grey tea and (strangely) listening to emo music which was regularly on my playlist 5-6 years ago is helping.
I'm also feeling really surprised when I look in the mirror and there's a male body looking back at me. I feel completely female in my mind
Later this morning I'll be picking up two pairs of reading glasses that are obviously feminine. I've been waiting two weeks and can't wait to wear them. One pair is a soft red, the other black.
I'm sure the woman in me will be very very happy :)
I'm spending two full days with my parents (mid 80's) and they are doing so well on gender/name. I'm shocked.
Okay, the occasional "he" in the middle of a sentence and the one or two slips of "<old name>" from my mom. BUT overall a very positive experience. Although we don't talk about the transition at all.
Sounds pretty cool, Denise! But I kinda wish you hadn't dragged that cold weather they're forecasting down with you.
See ya on Sunday!
Steph
I don't have them in hand yet, and probably won't for a few more days since I'm using an online pharmacy (so, so much cheaper), BUT MY HRT PRESCRIPTION IS BEING SENT IN RIGHT NOW!
I was in a pretty bad depressive spell lately waiting on everything to be sorted out, but now I'm a flying high again! I have this amazingly warm feeling just thinking about it. A little nervous too, but mostly the warm fuzzies.
Quote from: Denise on December 08, 2017, 01:02:52 PM
I'm spending two full days with my parents (mid 80's) and they are doing so well on gender/name. I'm shocked.
Okay, the occasional "he" in the middle of a sentence and the one or two slips of "<old name>" from my mom. BUT overall a very positive experience. Although we don't talk about the transition at all.
Very cool parents, Denise!
I was similarly impressed with my parents-in-law. Both were in their 90s when we told them. They got my name right from day one, and only made a couple of slips with pronouns. My MIL has since passed away, but my FIL makes a point of calling me by name if I answer the phone when he calls.
Today I shaved my legs, took me ages but now they're nice and smooth ;) Hopefully now I can keep doing it more regularly!! :)
Transfered all the car titles to my new name. The lady at the licensing place was ...are you serious, 9 titles? Yeah but some of these are pretty cheap vehicles. 1970 Ford truck, paid $450 USD (previous owner didn't know how to adjust the ignition - I fixed it in 10 minutes and drove it home). And another 1970 F250 with 4 wheel drive, paid fifty bucks more for that one. An ancient Suburban, band rig, driven about once every 4 months. An odd micro-car, Subaru 360. Etc.
She got quite a laugh out of the license plate on my Fiat convertible. It is grey with license plate 50SHADE
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/em0typdv666rj7x/File%20Dec%2008%2C%205%2019%2036%20PM.jpeg?raw=1)
Went to a local holiday party and bumped into Gavin Grimm and Danica Roehm... what great role models! Completely star struck...
I'm officially out now. I came out on Facebook, and have had great responses so far.
It's amazing, I was sick with worry all last month and I finally did it :')
Quote from: Rachel_Christina on December 09, 2017, 02:04:14 AM
I'm officially out now. I came out on Facebook, and have had great responses so far.
It's amazing, I was sick with worry all last month and I finally did it :')
Congrats! That must feel so freeing. Maybe in a year I'll follow, gotta wait till I can go full time.
Quote from: Rachel_Christina on December 09, 2017, 02:04:14 AM
I'm officially out now. I came out on Facebook, and have had great responses so far.
It's amazing, I was sick with worry all last month and I finally did it :')
Congratulations Rachel!!
Quote from: Kendra on December 08, 2017, 07:39:32 PM
Transfered all the car titles to my new name. The lady at the licensing place was ...are you serious, 9 titles? Yeah but some of these are pretty cheap vehicles. 1970 Ford truck, paid $450 USD (previous owner didn't know how to adjust the ignition - I fixed it in 10 minutes and drove it home). And another 1970 F250 with 4 wheel drive, paid fifty bucks more for that one. An ancient Suburban, band rig, driven about once every 4 months. An odd micro-car, Subaru 360. Etc.
She got quite a laugh out of the license plate on my Fiat convertible. It is grey with license plate 50SHADE
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/em0typdv666rj7x/File%20Dec%2008%2C%205%2019%2036%20PM.jpeg?raw=1)
This story is so fun. I can well imagine all that paperwork, but getting you'd true name on each one, must have felt better each time!
I gotta say these threads are probably my favourite, at least right now. I can share in others joy, even if I am joyless myself.
Bari Jo
Got my first checkup at the gender-clinic yesterday. Everything was a-okay, so I went home with a fresh set of estrogen band-aids and Cyproterone. I came home with a whole bag full of them. XD
Quote from: Rachel_Christina on December 09, 2017, 02:04:14 AM
I'm officially out now. I came out on Facebook, and have had great responses so far.
It's amazing, I was sick with worry all last month and I finally did it :')
Wow, congratulations! I remember when all that weight was lifted off of me. I'll bet you feel a lot lighter. And the positive reactions were a surprise to me, too. It turns out that people are pretty cool, and our fears are usually way overblown.
Happy for you!
Steph
Quote from: Kendra on December 08, 2017, 07:39:32 PMShe got quite a laugh out of the license plate on my Fiat convertible. It is grey with license plate 50SHADE
I once saw an old Plymouth Horizon in blue, with the license, "BEYOND."
I never get misgendered in public but I ALWAYS get misgendered on the phone. Surprise, not today!
:
April 22, 2015, the day of my first face to face pass in gender neutral clothes and no makeup. It may be months to the next one, but I'm good with that!
Being transgender is just a phase. It hardly ever starts before conception and always ends promptly at death.
They say the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train. I say, climb aboard!
Think outside the voice box!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on December 09, 2017, 09:12:32 AM
Wow, congratulations! I remember when all that weight was lifted off of me. I'll bet you feel a lot lighter. And the positive reactions were a surprise to me, too. It turns out that people are pretty cool, and our fears are usually way overblown.
Happy for you!
Steph
[/quoteway overvlown. And yes I think I'm slightly floating above the ground :'3
Thank you all :'3
Quote from: Kendra on December 08, 2017, 07:39:32 PM
Transfered all the car titles to my new name. The lady at the licensing place was ...are you serious, 9 titles? Yeah but some of these are pretty cheap vehicles. 1970 Ford truck, paid $450 USD (previous owner didn't know how to adjust the ignition - I fixed it in 10 minutes and drove it home). And another 1970 F250 with 4 wheel drive, paid fifty bucks more for that one. An ancient Suburban, band rig, driven about once every 4 months. An odd micro-car, Subaru 360. Etc.
She got quite a laugh out of the license plate on my Fiat convertible. It is grey with license plate 50SHADE
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/em0typdv666rj7x/File%20Dec%2008%2C%205%2019%2036%20PM.jpeg?raw=1)
Wow, I can barely keep up with one car, much less 9!
Quote from: Rachel_Christina on December 09, 2017, 02:04:14 AM
I'm officially out now. I came out on Facebook, and have had great responses so far.
It's amazing, I was sick with worry all last month and I finally did it :')
Yay, wonderful news, glad it's going well. X
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When purplewolf gave me a compliment on the (do I pass) thread. Thank you :) you made my day
Yesterday I took my wife to a spa to get a bit of a "tune up". After all, I'm spending tons on a whole new me so I figured that if she wants a little time roll back how can I argue. After, we headed for the mall and stopped for lunch at a new place we hadn't tried before and were surprised to find it full of blue collar construction and utility workers, a few couples and, of course, me in full femme and my cis wife. We both rolled our eyes at each other but just played the part of two ladies out for lunch perfectly, Several glances that said "hmmm, I wonder" and then back to their eating and nothing more, but I was nervous as a cat. Then at the mall I treated us to a mani for me (first time) and a pedi for my wife that she had wanted for awhile. A very wonderful thing for me then happened. My wife's pedi girl asked her if "he" was going to pay for her as well as my mani. My wife very clearly said "yes, give HER the bill, SHE will pay". First time my wife sort of defended me and very clearly acknowledged me as female. She has been pretty damn good in spite of the difficulty of the things she is dealing with regarding my being trans, but I always wondered if she could ever see me as who I am. I told her how much that meant to me and she just said "I know" and smiled and we had a wonderful rest of the day. Toni
today i went out and bought some Basic girl clothes! I just walked in like i didn't care and took my time and got what i wanted.
A small victory ;)
I ran a race this morning in clothing that fit me both inside and out. I felt more feminine and was comfortable in being who I am. I looked in the mirror afterwards and saw a woman looking back smiling. I got emotional and tears of joy erupted. I wasn't sure I would get this far. I look forward to the future.
Happy, Jess
My friend came over last night and we ended up trying out different looks! She gave me a load of tips as well [emoji38] xx
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Squeezed into some fairly sturdy control wear and my party dress (for the works Xmas dinner), I caught a glimpse of a tiny amount of cleavage. [emoji16]
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Quote from: Megan. on December 10, 2017, 07:41:43 AM
I caught a glimpse of a tiny amount of cleavage. [emoji16]
Squee! Joy!
I had a happy last night. I sat with my sister and her husband at my bar for a couple drinks. They were keenly interested in my journey and supportive. They are even getting me a purse (coach of course) for Xmas, squee!
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 10, 2017, 08:46:18 AM
They are even getting me a purse (coach of course) for Xmas, squee!
I know nothing about purses, what does coach mean? (Style/brand/horse-drawn/etc)
Girlfriend said I've got a cute but, and some curves going on!
Wife wants to meet my girlfriend. She's happy that we are getting long so well.
One of my coworkers is actually using Claire now.
Tomorrow, I get my beard burned off with a laser, for the first time.
Tomorrow, I have a second interview at the home for distressed children. They know I'm trans, and apparently don't care!
Worried, I'll have a bit of laser burn going, and a bit of beard that hasn't come off.
Quote from: Roll on December 10, 2017, 09:48:49 AM
I know nothing about purses, what does coach mean? (Style/brand/horse-drawn/etc)
Girl, we need to take you shopping! Coach is probably the definitive brand for ladies purses. I wear the coach perfume too.
http://www.coach.com
Bari Jo
Quote from: Megan. on December 10, 2017, 07:41:43 AM
Squeezed into some fairly sturdy control wear and my party dress (for the works Xmas dinner), I caught a glimpse of a tiny amount of cleavage. [emoji16]
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Yey for cleavage, I can sort of make some too now. Sort of.. :')
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 10, 2017, 11:51:42 AM
Girl, we need to take you shopping! Coach is probably the definitive brand for ladies purses. I wear the coach perfume too.
http://www.coach.com
Bari Jo
I'd not heard of them either, but now I want!
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Gonna be honest, not looking forward to having to use purses. I don't like carrying things. ;D
Anywho, what made me happy today... So as Monday came I received my order confirmation on HRT meds. That alone is good, but obviously just another tiny little step and not really worth a mention on its own. What is worth a mention however is that for whatever reason, it triggered a moment of pure clarity, and I thought "this is really happening". And my reaction? Unadulterated joy. Any doubts that had been building up over the past month just washed away, and I have this incredible, warm feeling all over my body that isn't going away (nor do I want it to of course :D).
Quote from: Roll on December 11, 2017, 10:51:11 AM
Gonna be honest, not looking forward to having to use purses. I don't like carrying things. ;D
Anywho, what made me happy today... So as Monday came I received my order confirmation on HRT meds. That alone is good, but obviously just another tiny little step and not really worth a mention on its own. What is worth a mention however is that for whatever reason, it triggered a moment of pure clarity, and I thought "this is really happening". And my reaction? Unadulterated joy. Any doubts that had been building up over the past month just washed away, and I have this incredible, warm feeling all over my body that isn't going away (nor do I want it to of course :D).
woohoo, good for you. I can't wait. 1st step DR. appt coming up Thursday. I don't expect any prescriptions but anything that gets me one step closer is a plus.
purse, Get a smaller one with a shoulder strap. I've been carrying a wallet and phone around forever (I hate a wallet in my pocket). I recently got a clutch that is big enough for my phone, several zipper pockets for goodies, and a shoulder strap. I'm set.
Quote from: Roll on December 11, 2017, 10:51:11 AMAnd my reaction? Unadulterated joy. Any doubts that had been building up over the past month just washed away, and I have this incredible, warm feeling all over my body that isn't going away (nor do I want it to of course :D).
Yay!! Ain't it great? Enjoy the feeling. ;D
For purses, I only use over-the-shoulder types. They are so convenient, I don't know why I didn't start using one years ago. (Well, okay, I do: it would have spoiled the illusion of being male that I was trying to project.) I have everything right there, and it's hands-free.
Quote from: KathyLauren on December 11, 2017, 11:23:15 AM
Yay!! Ain't it great? Enjoy the feeling. ;D
For purses, I only use over-the-shoulder types. They are so convenient, I don't know why I didn't start using one years ago. (Well, okay, I do: it would have spoiled the illusion of being male that I was trying to project.) I have everything right there, and it's hands-free.
Purses are so dang handy! Of course, since women's clothes have tiny pockets or none at all, they're pretty much required. For years I carried a green Eagle Creek shoulder bag I jokingly called my "power purse" since as a cover I'd carry my tablet, camera, etc in it. But I think we all know what I was doing.
Congrats on the HRT anticipation! I remember it well. And wait until you hold that first dose in your hand. It's a powerful moment!
Steph
Quote from: Roll on December 11, 2017, 10:51:11 AM
Gonna be honest, not looking forward to having to use purses. I don't like carrying things. ;D
Anywho, what made me happy today... So as Monday came I received my order confirmation on HRT meds. That alone is good, but obviously just another tiny little step and not really worth a mention on its own. What is worth a mention however is that for whatever reason, it triggered a moment of pure clarity, and I thought "this is really happening". And my reaction? Unadulterated joy. Any doubts that had been building up over the past month just washed away, and I have this incredible, warm feeling all over my body that isn't going away (nor do I want it to of course :D).
Only being part-time, I've come to seriously miss having a purse when I'm pretending to be male. 'Do you have _____?' Yeah, in my purse at home.... :-\
I was SOOOO excited on the drive home from the Doctor with my 2 sheets of paper that might as well have been printed on solid gold. Then I had to wait until the next morning to actually start them!
Went shopping and got a lovely smile from a lady as she walked towards me , oh yes and stuck my first patch on tonight
I had a mixed experience the other day:
I had an appointment with my therapist, and went as Sarah (as I have been doing regularly). I knew I also needed to hit they pet store while I was out, so decided to go there before I de-Sarah'd to go back to work. The trip was completely uneventful, but after I paid, the cashier said "have a good day, ma'am".
At first I was all [emoji2] because I wasn't misgendered, but then I was all [emoji35], because I'm not old enough to be ma'am!!! 🤣
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Great !! And so it really begins. Please return you seats to the full upright position and fasten your seat belts and prepare for take-off.
Enjoy the ride Davina, dear.
((Hugs)),
Laurie
I was playing around with some makeup today and I came up with a good night look for me! Kat Von D's nahz fur atoo (semi dark red) lipstick and Too Faced's "I want it All" eyeshadow, which is a lighter metallic brown. Maybe I'll take some pics soon :)
Quote from: davina61 on December 11, 2017, 12:33:11 PM
Went shopping and got a lovely smile from a lady as she walked towards me , oh yes and stuck my first patch on tonight
Patches away! enjoy the ride honey. X
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Phoenix,
I wouldn't let the "ma'am" bother me at all as I view it as respectful politeness. I'll take all of them that I can get. I do know there are those like you who take it as a response for older women but I chose to look at it as just being polite. I sure would let it ruin my enjoyment of being gendered correctly. I hope you won't either.
Hugs,
Laurie
Quote from: Phoenix1742 on December 11, 2017, 12:38:02 PMAt first I was all [emoji2] because I wasn't misgendered, but then I was all [emoji35], because I'm not old enough to be ma'am!!!
Much better than my recent experience. Walking through the mall a worker jumped out from her kiosk with a sample of moisturizer.
"Excuse me ma'am, would you like a free sample?"
"Why yes, thank you."
"Oh, and can I demonstrate our new anti-wrinkle cream?"
"AAARGGGH!"
59 year old Steph
wrinkles .. arrghh .. the main reason that my profile pic is not really me .....
Don't have any wrinkles, creases yes
Just had a really good phone interview with a library, for doing the same job I'm doing now for way more pay. Fingers crossed I get it!!!
Also, my mom just passed her last class for her nursing degree (at 64)!
Official name change court order received today. I am now officially Stephanie Rhapsody Bensinger.
(Sorry for the cross-posting, mods. I'm just bursting with the news.)
Bust away Stephanie , cheer leaders, bunting the works.
I just love this thread it give me a reason to smile today I have one to add
I went to vote and the lady looked at my registration card and said this is wrong it says [male name] I haven't quit smiling yet
bobbisue :)
Quote from: Faith on December 11, 2017, 01:08:25 PM
wrinkles .. arrghh .. the main reason that my profile pic is not really me .....
"Wrinkles should merely indicate where the smiles have been"
- Mark Twain
"Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul."
- Samuel Ullman
"With mirth and laughter let old wrinkles come."
- William Shakespeare
They're badges of honor, Faith.
Steph
therapy appointment today. Phew. Feel better now! :)
I got my new drivers license with my name on it today. The woman behind the counter is a friend and mentor, after I received the license she came around the counter for an extended hug; we both left crying....the great kind of tears.
Tia Anne
I smell like burnt hair. AKA lost some beard to a laser weapon today.
The second interview seems to have gone well. The interviewer seemed to like me, and my answers. They have some trans children at the facility, so I may be exactly what they are looking for.
The bus ride to and from Chicago was interesting. Had a gentleman talk, and flirt, with me a bit. He had some derogatory things to say about transgender people. After a bit of me defending being trans, it dawned on him that I was trans. We had a real long conversation afterwards. He may now be, at least, indeferent rather than anti trans. He did stop flirting though.
Had to go to the hardware store today and ran into an old surfing buddy from the days of male life gone by who was working there... Hadn't seen him for 4+ years... I needed help because what I needed was locked in a case.... He came over and asked "what can I help you with honey?" ... I giggled and said " you don't remember me do ya?" ... Once I told him who I was he gave me a hug ... Told me I looked great and happy...we caught up and resolved to get back out and do some surfing soon.... Coincidently... Last week, my doctor said I was all cleared to start surfing again because my post FFS frontal sinus complication seems to be well resolved ( after 4 procedures!!!! )
Onward we surf!!!!
Ashley 😀❤️🌻
Awesome 3x!
And Tia Anne, here's another hug - congratulations!
Tonight I found out my insurance approval for me to see Endocrine my Therapist and Doctor prefers. I also have my ears pierced.
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Quote from: Anne Blake on December 11, 2017, 06:53:15 PM
I got my new drivers license with my name on it today. The woman behind the counter is a friend and mentor, after I received the license she came around the counter for an extended hug; we both left crying....the great kind of tears.
Wow. So many feels today! Happiness around every corner. Congratulations Tia Anne!!
Steph
I came out to my cousin who has not seen me in 4 years and she did not recognize me, things so far did go well
Congratulations 4 times. Tia, Artesia, Ashley and Meghan you all get (((HUGS)))
Laurie
Congrats you you also Natalie
Hugs,
Laurie
Quote from: Anne Blake on December 11, 2017, 06:53:15 PM
she came around the counter for an extended hug; we both left crying....the great kind of tears.
That's awesome!
Look at all of the wonderful news--I am so happy for everyone! Claire, congrats on laser and your 2nd round interview--a double dose of good news! Tia, what a wonderful experience to have a friend behind the desk at DMV to celebrate with you! Ashley, congrats on the all clear to surf--cowabunga! Meghan, awesome news on your endo and your ear piercing--aren't they fun?! Natalie, congrats on coming out to your cousin!
I am running out of exclamation points here, ladies! Hugs :-*
Quote from: Laurie on December 11, 2017, 12:46:28 PM
Phoenix,
I wouldn't let the "ma'am" bother me at all as I view it as respectful politeness. I'll take all of them that I can get. I do know there are those like you who take it as a response for older women but I chose to look at it as just being polite. I sure would let it ruin my enjoyment of being gendered correctly. I hope you won't either.
Hugs,
Laurie
It's more faux offense - we're southern enough that ma'am as politeness is a thing.
Now having someone ask if you were interested in some color while you're getting your haircut - that's an entirely different story! [emoji4]
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I want to say thank yoh to all of you for all of your words of encouragement it has helped me so much over the past year that i have been able to be happy and my true self you are all amazing. I never meet anyone here and you all are very helpful and wonderful people
Natalie's post reminded me that I've been wanting to write this somewhere. I guess this is as good a place as any.
What makes me happy every day is just what Natalie mentioned. The helpful, caring interactions we have here on Susan's are unprecedented on the Internet as far as I can tell. I can't overstate the value of all the people here who support each other. It's an incredible testament to Susan and all the wonderful moderators, that we have such a safe space to be ourselves in.
When I told my therapist that I had started getting active in an online support forum, she sternly warned me to be very careful because of all the toxic people out there. She really needs to spend some time here so she can understand.
So thank you Susan, and mods, and all you good people.
Steph
Quote from: Steph2.0 on December 12, 2017, 01:46:49 PM
When I told my therapist that I had started getting active in an online support forum, she sternly warned me to be very careful because of all the toxic people out there. She really needs to spend some time here so she can understand.
So thank you Susan, and mods, and all you good people.
Steph
It sounds to me that you need to be doing more educating of your therapist. Mine at least had heard of it and has mentioned several times that I am an active participate in an online forum and that I get good support online. My speech was aware of Susan's Place. I talk to my electrocutioner about Susan's during facial torture sessions And have mentioned it to my GP and my Oncologist.
See? I have a big mouth everywhere and sing the praises of Susan's Place and how everyone here helps me with my problems.
Hugs,
Laurie
Quote from: Laurie on December 12, 2017, 03:42:17 PM
I talk to my electrocutioner
This made me happy.
Seriously though Susan's is worth every penny of my monthly subscription. My doctor and family refer to it now.
Bari Jo
QuoteI talk to my electrocutioner about Susan's during facial torture sessions.
Laurie and I go to the same sadistic monster for beard clearance. She's never at a loss for words, thankfully; between the agony and my mild stammer making my jaw occasionally convulse I'm more than content to let her talk about remodeling her bathroom. Sometimes I mention stuff I've learned from "the website."
Have had various happy moments in the last few months on HRT, upper lip clear yay! but for about 5 days straight I've been feeling nigh unto exuberant, along with things having noticeably shrunk down below and grown up top, and that rasically ol' libido suddenly vanishing in a puff of smoke. This must be a hormonal tipping point, in a big way, just an awesome feeling all around. I feel like going out and just talking with whoever too, which is unusual for a hermetic type such as myself. I'm not down in the dumps and have friends, but mostly keep my own company, and have never minded it that way; but suddenly have this urge to get out of the house ASAP, which is completely out of the blue.
I feel like posting about my every last thought on Susan's, too, apologies in advance! ;D Just figured out how to type on this stupid phone, too...
Quote from: Lucy Ross on December 13, 2017, 06:44:54 AMThis must be a hormonal tipping point, in a big way, just an awesome feeling all around.
Me too, Lucy! I've been riding the crest of a tall wave ever since I got my finalized name change court order on Monday. And there've been so many happy posts on this thread lately, I'm beginning to wonder if there's something in the air.
QuoteI feel like posting about my every last thought on Susan's, too, apologies in advance! ;D
Oh my gosh, don't apologize! Start up your own thread and cut loose. I'll buy a ticket for the front row!
Steph
Getting stabbed in the arse and hardly felt it
I had my first, "how you doin'?" from a random guy on the street.
Yes, I was in NY city at the time. Why do you ask?
(One of these days I'm going to truly believe that I pass just fine.)
Quote from: KarynMcD on December 13, 2017, 03:31:03 PM
One of these days I'm going to truly believe that I pass just fine.
I just looked at your avatar.
To quote Maxwell Smart (who you may be too young to remember):
"Well, believe it!"
concerned friends, no more needs said.
Tonight I had dinner with my dad for the first time since company left. We talked about me, my history. We talked about my doctor and her next step (increase in e in Jan). He wants to follow along with me by watching my labs. I showed him my avatar pict and my pict from Japan. He said the avatar looks like me. I would not say he's supportive, but it's accepting. Still though I cried a little after dropping him off. Even this level of support touched me deeply
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 14, 2017, 12:02:15 AM
Tonight I had dinner with my dad for the first time since company left. We talked about me, my history. We talked about my doctor and her next step (increase in e in Jan). He wants to follow along with me by watching my labs. I showed him my avatar pict and my pict from Japan. He said the avatar looks like me. I would not say he's supportive, but it's accepting. Still though I cried a little after dropping him off. Even this level of support touched me deeply
Bari Jo
From what you said I think the more he starts to see this is what will be good for you as his child he will move more and more towards supportive. He obviously genuinely loves you (it's sad I feel like that doesn't go without saying for some fathers), and I think that love can win him over.
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 14, 2017, 12:02:15 AM
Tonight I had dinner with my dad for the first time since company left. We talked about me, my history. We talked about my doctor and her next step (increase in e in Jan). He wants to follow along with me by watching my labs. I showed him my avatar pict and my pict from Japan. He said the avatar looks like me. I would not say he's supportive, but it's accepting. Still though I cried a little after dropping him off. Even this level of support touched me deeply
Bari Jo
This sounds good to me. I'd feel very wary about anyone actively encouraging me, so may be he's just taking a measured approach. Very happy for you. X
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Quote from: Steph2.0 on December 13, 2017, 05:59:02 PM
I just looked at your avatar.
To quote Maxwell Smart (who you may be too young to remember):
"Well, believe it!"
"And, loving it."
(I turned 50 back in October.)
Quote from: KarynMcD on December 14, 2017, 05:51:38 AM
"And, loving it."
(I turned 50 back in October.)
"Sorry about that, Chief."
Good memories!!!... I always enjoyed "the cone of silence" and the bit with the CHAOS villain " .... "the claw!!!!"
Hugs!!!
Ashley 😀💗🌻
Quote from: tgirlamc on December 14, 2017, 10:25:14 AM
Good memories!!!... I always enjoyed "the cone of silence" and the bit with the CHAOS villain " .... "the claw!!!!"
Hugs!!!
Ashley 😀💗🌻
'Not the Craw, The Craw!'
I wanted to be "99" as she was always getting Max out of jams ;D ;D ;D
Quote from: Tessa James on December 14, 2017, 01:35:11 PM
I wanted to be "99" as she was always getting Max out of jams ;D ;D ;D
Plus she was kinda cute. :)
Quote from: Tessa James on December 14, 2017, 01:35:11 PM
I wanted to be "99" as she was always getting Max out of jams ;D ;D ;D
Me Too!!!! 😀
Today my wife and I went to my Dr's appointment (different story)
As we sat in the waiting room my mind wandered too much. My wife looked at me and told me to let it out, so I did. I've made a point of telling how I feel and what I want to do. I've stated many times about my feminine feelings and desires, I always stopped short of actually saying that I wanted to be a woman. This time I said it right out, right down to wanting girl bits (even though that is an unreachable goal at this time).
My wife, who stated first thing that she 'didn't marry a woman', looked me straight in the eyes and said:
"Do you want me to start calling you Faith? I will if you want me to, I don't mind"
I love my wife.
I did tell her that at this time the he/she/they and personal name is not an issue for me, she can call me whatever she feels comfortable with. Just the fact that she is willing is all I need.
I love my wife.
Quote from: Faith on December 14, 2017, 08:35:29 PM
Today my wife and I went to my Dr's appointment (different story)
As we sat in the waiting room my mind wandered too much. My wife looked at me and told me to let it out, so I did. I've made a point of telling how I feel and what I want to do. I've stated many times about my feminine feelings and desires, I always stopped short of actually saying that I wanted to be a woman. This time I said it right out, right down to wanting girl bits (even though that is an unreachable goal at this time).
My wife, who stated first thing that she 'didn't marry a woman', looked me straight in the eyes and said:
"Do you want me to start calling you Faith? I will if you want me to, I don't mind"
I love my wife.
I did tell her that at this time the he/she/they and personal name is not an issue for me, she can call me whatever she feels comfortable with. Just the fact that she is willing is all I need.
I love my wife.
I am happy for you that you have a supporting wife that is so great.
Got told there are women would kill for my hair. Jokes on you I'm one of them! >:-)
I posted a pic of me for onision to say if he would date me he said NO but I was not expecting him to say yes I just wanted my pic on the youtube channel and it was so that made me happy I just was i did a better pic I did that months ago I am the first one in the video
If link is not aloud please remove and I am sorry
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qrv9Xy8jCyE&t=24s
My boss told me that my eyes look more alive than she has ever seen them.
One of my residents family members has offered to write me a letter of recommendation to get into the Doctorate program for psychology when I get my bachelor's degree.
My manager keeps begging me to stay at the nursing home.
I was told by several staff members that I am loved there.
Have another interview for a different job.
2 months and 1 week until my court date for my name change.
Saw the new Star Wars, performed in an improv show...
Oh, and started HRT!
Quote from: maraesque on December 15, 2017, 05:30:41 AM
Saw the new Star Wars, performed in an improv show...
Oh, and started HRT!
Now that's a good day! Enjoy the ride hun. X
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Had my trolley, bag, purse and shopping stolen at the supermarket...
...You're thinking this the wrong thread...
... Then found the slightly confused and very apologetic old man who'd mistakenly taken my trolley instead of his own. [emoji16]
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I'm still stealth, but I looked in the mirror this morning and saw her looking back at me. What a glorious way to start the day!
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on December 15, 2017, 06:43:49 AM
I'm still stealth, but I looked in the mirror this morning and saw her looking back at me. What a glorious way to start the day!
That's awesome. I'm still waiting for that day. Enjoy floating through the rest of the day
Just got dolled up for my therapy appointment (last of the year with christmas hustle probably), looked in the mirror and realized again that even pre HRT(still waiting on shipment, it's a great time of year to be ordering meds ;D), I have a shockingly feminine figure (overweight, but still feminine). Though I am hoping I lose some thigh fat still, without male clothes that hang off me weird straightening my profile I have hip curves and stuff! Just a nice little reminder that I'm not a lost cause, because sometimes it's hard to not feel like it. ;D
Well last night I talked with my cousin for 3.5 hours we talked about everything in our lives and she is happy with me and accepts me for who I am and has no issues. We talked till 2:30 this morning and she thinks thank I have a lot of my moms features and she loves the name I picked out Natalie Ashlyne Brooke and I took my moms maiden name as well.
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on December 14, 2017, 09:39:19 PM
I posted a pic of me for onision to say if he would date me he said NO but I was not expecting him to say yes I just wanted my pic on the youtube channel and it was so that made me happy I just was i did a better pic I did that months ago I am the first one in the video
If link is not aloud please remove and I am sorry
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qrv9Xy8jCyE&t=24s
Lol you were the very first one! Do you really post on like every forum? [emoji23]
Also would YOU date Onision? Given that you would choose before he made this video
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Quote from: dist123 on December 15, 2017, 10:39:11 AM
Lol you were the very first one! Do you really post on like every forum? [emoji23]
Also would YOU date Onision? Given that you would choose before he made this video
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Lol I posted on a few but I wish I had a better pic I totally forgot that I did that as I posted those in may I think. I have change a lot since than and better with make up. Would I date Onision I don't think so he is cute but married lol I don't like to share. I did it just to see if I can get a pic on his channel and I did so I was happy just for that. :)
The one co-worker who knows my secret took me out to lunch at a Japanese restaurant. The last time I ate at a Japanese restaurant was...never. The food was good, but my fortune cookie was even better. It said 'An investment in yourself will pay dividends for the rest of your life.'
A week in Orlando, Florida and gendered correctly 100% of the time. NO mistakes. YIPPEE!
Now back to COLD Chicago :( (okay I'm not happy about that part.)
My happy is not tg related, but it's my happy nonetheless. I collect videogames and today two were released as limited runs. I had forgotten about it. when I remembered, I got a copy of each minutes before they were sold out. whew! Now happy:)
I went to my interview today. It was at a place that I had previously interviewed as Steve. I walked through the door, and the executive director didn't even bat an eye at my make up, or the fact that all but my shoes were female attire. Also....it wasn't an interview; it was to receive the job offer! Still got offered the job.....as Claire!
I know you can't see it, but I've got one giant grin going. No wincing this time either.
Quote from: Artesia on December 15, 2017, 08:07:52 PM
I went to my interview today. It was at a place that I had previously interviewed as Steve. I walked through the door, and the executive director didn't even bat an eye at my make up, or the fact that all but my shoes were female attire. Also....it wasn't an interview; it was to receive the job offer! Still got offered the job.....as Claire!
I know you can't see it, but I've got one giant grin going. No wincing this time either.
Artesia, or should I say Claire? That is fantastic. That makes me happy too!
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 15, 2017, 08:11:20 PM
Artesia, or should I say Claire? That is fantastic. That makes me happy too!
Bari Jo
I'll answer to both. I am using Artesia for most of my online forum names now. You can also find me on tabletop gaming forums as Megatrons2nd or video game forums as ZakuBeta.
Yesterday I reached out to an old friend that had shut me out well over a year ago, he and his wife could not handle the changes in our lives. They stopped by this afternoon to chat a bit...don't know where this may lead but it is bringing tears as I write this.
Quote from: Artesia on December 15, 2017, 08:07:52 PM
I went to my interview today. It was at a place that I had previously interviewed as Steve. I walked through the door, and the executive director didn't even bat an eye at my make up, or the fact that all but my shoes were female attire. Also....it wasn't an interview; it was to receive the job offer! Still got offered the job.....as Claire!
I know you can't see it, but I've got one giant grin going. No wincing this time either.
A well-deserved grin! Congrats!
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 15, 2017, 07:34:51 PM
My happy is not tg related, but it's my happy nonetheless. I collect videogames and today two were released as limited runs. I had forgotten about it. when I remembered, I got a copy of each minutes before they were sold out. whew! Now happy:)
Ohhh, what games?
Quote from: Roll on December 15, 2017, 11:04:05 PM
Ohhh, what games?
Steamworld Dig abd Steamworld Heist
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 15, 2017, 11:07:22 PM
Steamworld Dig abd Steamworld Heist
Bari Jo
Very nice! I still need to play through Heist, been through Dig a few times now.
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on December 15, 2017, 04:00:44 PM
The one co-worker who knows my secret took me out to lunch at a Japanese restaurant. The last time I ate at a Japanese restaurant was...never. The food was good, but my fortune cookie was even better. It said 'An investment in yourself will pay dividends for the rest of your life.'
I've never seen a Japanese place with fortune cookies before, the world as I know it no longer makes sense. ;D
Quote from: Artesia on December 15, 2017, 08:07:52 PM
I went to my interview today. It was at a place that I had previously interviewed as Steve. I walked through the door, and the executive director didn't even bat an eye at my make up, or the fact that all but my shoes were female attire. Also....it wasn't an interview; it was to receive the job offer! Still got offered the job.....as Claire!
I know you can't see it, but I've got one giant grin going. No wincing this time either.
That is awesome Claire!! This is the sort of story that gives the rest of us hope.
Went and saw a friend in hospice, had an average game of golf then got a full evening of being Sue. Sad start but geat finish. Goodbye Kev, love you mate. ❤️❤️
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Got Sir'ed today.
I was about to get all annoyed when I remembered that I was in guy mode.
"Oh! Never mind."
It made me laugh.
My electrocutionist told me my features are like Emma Watson today. Um, I don't know what she's on, but I'll take the compliment!
Bari Jo
JUST TOOK MY FIRST DOSE OF HRT TONIGHT!!!!!!!!
Quote from: Roll on December 16, 2017, 08:26:55 PM
JUST TOOK MY FIRST DOSE OF HRT TONIGHT!!!!!!!!
:eusa_clap: :eusa_clap: :icon_dance: :icon_dance: :icon_dance:
Wahoo!!! That's how we Roll. ;)
Roll on !
:icon_female: :icon_female: :icon_female:
Oh wait isn't that a type of deodorant? Sorry
Hugs,
Laurie
Quote from: Roll on December 16, 2017, 08:26:55 PM
JUST TOOK MY FIRST DOSE OF HRT TONIGHT!!!!!!!!
Yahoooooo!!! :icon_joy: :icon_boogy: :icon_joy:
Quote from: Roll on December 16, 2017, 08:26:55 PM
JUST TOOK MY FIRST DOSE OF HRT TONIGHT!!!!!!!!
congatulations
Picked up the family Christmas cards with "Sarah" printed on them [emoji56]
Quote from: Roll on December 16, 2017, 08:26:55 PM
JUST TOOK MY FIRST DOSE OF HRT TONIGHT!!!!!!!!
Yahoo!! Keep you arms and legs in the car at all times!
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Quote from: Roll on December 16, 2017, 08:26:55 PM
JUST TOOK MY FIRST DOSE OF HRT TONIGHT!!!!!!!!
Hurray!!!
So happy for you. :)
Roll, congratulations. Get ready for a roller coaster ride.
Congrats again Ellie, you gotta post your first cry after:) I love the emotions!
Today what made me happy is wiring up my gallery bar for lighting, wiring the lights, then attaching the lights. Whew lots of work, and I feel good about the result! I should have a ladies night here to celebrate when totally finished. I don't know if there are any local OC ladies though.
Bari Jo
Claire -- so glad to hear about your job offer, wonderful news! Ellie, congrats on your HRT! Sarah, so cool to see your name in print--is this the first year of Xmas cards as Sarah? Bari Jo congrats on getting so much work done on your gallery bar!
Yesterday I attended my local support group meeting and was feeling so loved by my trans family.
I dumped my slow internet, going from less than 1 Mbps to 20 Mbps for just a little more than I was already paying. The lady I spoke to (when cancelling the old account) was as sweet as could be, and very understanding.
To top it off, my hubby got a huge bonus, bought a decent pickup truck, and is walking prouder than ever before.
Santa is definitely being good to us.
I have my best friend back. It was very expensive and may not yet be out of the woods, but he doesn't have cancer or tumors. Here's a pict which prompted his going to the vet. I'm so happy I can afford his treatment. He's my best and most favorite person out there.
Bari Jo
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Glad to see your buddy home with you again.
Hugs,
Laurie
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 18, 2017, 08:51:48 PM
I have my best friend back. It was very expensive and may not yet be out of the woods, but he doesn't have cancer or tumors. Here's a pict which promoted his going to the vet. I'm so happy I can afford his treatment. He's my best and most favorite person out there.
Poor guy. I hope he gets to feeling better. You, too.
Steph
Quote from: Steph2.0 on December 18, 2017, 09:27:16 PM
Poor guy. I hope he gets to feeling better. You, too.
Steph
I'm better. I'm still amazed how much I can cry. Right now he's in my lap after eating a meal with his new diet.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 18, 2017, 08:51:48 PM
I have my best friend back. It was very expensive and may not yet be out of the woods, but he doesn't have cancer or tumors. Here's a pict which prompted his going to the vet. I'm so happy I can afford his treatment. He's my best and most favorite person out there.
Bari Jo
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He is adorable, I'm so glad he (and you) are going to be okay!
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 18, 2017, 09:39:28 PM
I'm better. I'm still amazed how much I can cry. Right now he's in my lap after eating a meal with his new diet.
Good, I'm glad you're both doing better. I think I'll go give Maggie a hug.
Steph
Yesterday was tough. But today was awesome.
I smiled in a photograph today. I haven't smiled in a photograph for years. It is wonderful to be myself, and I actually like the face I see in the picture! The outside hasn't changed that much, but the inside is in such a better place than it was even 6 months ago.
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 18, 2017, 08:51:48 PM
I have my best friend back. It was very expensive and may not yet be out of the woods, but he doesn't have cancer or tumors. Here's a pict which prompted his going to the vet. I'm so happy I can afford his treatment. He's my best and most favorite person out there.
Bari Jo
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/f6jrlf07yx59mvb/IMAG2995-20171212-123021217.jpg?dl=1)
Awsome news! Give him a big hug from me. X
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T levels are 34 whatevers per thingamawoppers. :D ng/l? You know what I mean. Important thing is I'm unquestionably not a dude in the bloodstream!
Happy moment #B was coming up with the idea of cutting the toe off the end of a sock and using this as a really thick wristband for my left arm, which has given me twice the power and control over the accordions I play folk music on. This is something I've been struggling with for 6 years! I've put I don't know how many hours into this problem; finding this simple solution is a massive relief, boost for my self esteem, and confirmation that all that time and money wasn't in vain. Music is such a huge part of my life, I wouldn't be here without it, seriously.
This whole month has kinda rocked for me, really. :angel: Hope everyone's days and months and years work out for the best!
I had a great weigh in this morning! I am officially down to 100lbs lost since last December!!!
Quote from: Maddie86 on December 19, 2017, 12:34:56 PM
I had a great weigh in this morning! I am officially down to 100lbs lost since last December!!!
That's amazing, well done you! X
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Quote from: Bari Jo on December 18, 2017, 08:51:48 PM
I have my best friend back. It was very expensive and may not yet be out of the woods, but he doesn't have cancer or tumors. Here's a pict which prompted his going to the vet. I'm so happy I can afford his treatment. He's my best and most favorite person out there.
Bari Jo
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Oh wow he's gorgeous! X
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It was at the weekend so sorry for cheating slightly! I had my first dinner party as Molly and it was great! We had such a laugh and my friends didn't bat an eyelid! X
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Good job Maddie, 100 pounds down....wow! Does this mean that new outfits were atop you Christmas wish list?
Quote from: Megan. on December 19, 2017, 12:50:36 PM
That's amazing, well done you! X
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Quote from: Anne Blake on December 19, 2017, 12:56:36 PM
Good job Maddie, 100 pounds down....wow! Does this mean that new outfits were atop you Christmas wish list?
thank you!!
no clothes on my xmas list lol, I did get some cute stuff recently though, and hopefully I'll go on a nice little shopping trip once I get my tax return in February :)
Hi, I am in such a good place today mentally, as last night I :angel: :angel: went out with my Friend to a pub as me. First time out in public. And and the 'audience' were static, i.e. meals and chatting in the bar area, brightly lit, a few looks but nothing more, so cool. Another milestone passed, but long way to go. So very pleased with myself, just got ready and went for it. Having a friend who talks non stop and is in the middle of her Real life experience helps) Had a really good 2-3 hours there and got a welcome back at the end when we left - that's started to get rid of a few of my transphobia issues). They will see me again I'm sure.
Next milestone please...
Hugz Katie :angel:
I got my latest blood work back: T is off the scale low, and E is right in the range it should be. ;D HRT script renewed for 6 months. Yippee!
Quote from: Katie Again on December 19, 2017, 03:52:09 PM
Hi, I am in such a good place today mentally, as last night I :angel: :angel: went out with my Friend to a pub as me. First time out in public. And and the 'audience' were static, i.e. meals and chatting in the bar area, brightly lit, a few looks but nothing more, so cool. Another milestone passed, but long way to go. So very pleased with myself, just got ready and went for it. Having a friend who talks non stop and is in the middle of her Real life experience helps) Had a really good 2-3 hours there and got a welcome back at the end when we left - that's started to get rid of a few of my transphobia issues). They will see me again I'm sure.
Next milestone please...
Hugz Katie :angel:
Way to go, Katie! Nothing like a night out with friends to build the confidence.
Quote from: Maddie86 on December 19, 2017, 12:34:56 PM
I had a great weigh in this morning! I am officially down to 100lbs lost since last December!!!
I shed about 60 lbs last winter too, it's a great feeling to be rid of bulk like that. Congrats!
And booked my non-human best friend in for a full grooming tonight - not certain how to post a pic of my Rough Collie - Elle, she's getting old now but the gentlest of dogs I know, so love her.
She so chose my as I went to the breeder (I have full champions and Crufts or whatever history for her - Her name is Tiganlee Last Chance) - Loads of dog puppies but she came up to me and weed on my foot - so cute I was marked by her...
Lover her so - Ill have to look up how to post pics here or just put her as Avatar
Love Katie :angel: :angel:
OMG - only 42 LB lost... need to get moving I think
Katie >:-) >:-) >:-) >:-) :angel: >:-) >:-) >:-)
Congratulations on the weight loss and non-human best friend :)
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 18, 2017, 08:51:48 PM
I have my best friend back. It was very expensive and may not yet be out of the woods, but he doesn't have cancer or tumors. Here's a pict which prompted his going to the vet. I'm so happy I can afford his treatment. He's my best and most favorite person out there.
Bari Jo
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/f6jrlf07yx59mvb/IMAG2995-20171212-123021217.jpg?dl=1)
I'm so happy for you, that's just fantastic news!.
Fanta (my dog) continues to get better. He was very interested in food tonight. I got choked up watching him eat:)
I had another happy today too. We had a discussion about the bromance from force awakens, and I realized I'm drinking tea from my mini mouse cup, have clear painted nails, an wearing a pink and blue jacket discussing gay love and nobody batted an eye that I was an anomaly. I think it might be easy to out myself at work. Nobody cares:)
Bari Jo
My tiny boobs [emoji14]
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I don't know if it is psychological or physical, but I'm definitely having quick turn around on some HRT effects! Saw Star Wars episode 8 today and was crying at the stupidest stuff. ;D
Quote from: Roll on December 20, 2017, 06:57:20 PM
I don't know if it is psychological or physical, but I'm definitely having quick turn around on some HRT effects! Saw Star Wars episode 8 today and was crying at the stupidest stuff. ;D
I'm happy today because the women were awesome in episode 8!!
Time with mom,went to a nail salon she goes to and had our nails done.I went to so many I was mistreated at until this one.I was treated like one of the ladies.Finally getting rid of the last of my male wardrobe,a second hand store took it away.
Today was my final day of grand jury duty. I am so relieved I cannot be called back until 2019, I just wanna cheer. :D
I had my pre-op appointment for a trachea shave! It is scheduled for January 4 at 8:00am. I guess I am a bit scared and happy at the same time. This will be the first surgery I have ever had.
Quote from: Roll on December 20, 2017, 06:57:20 PM
I don't know if it is psychological or physical, but I'm definitely having quick turn around on some HRT effects! Saw Star Wars episode 8 today and was crying at the stupidest stuff. ;D
I had to choke back a few tears when we first see Carrie Fisher. There are definitely a few cryable moments in there.
BTW - I LOVED Last Jedi! One of my favorite Star Wars movies of all time.
As much as I want to move into my own apartment it's nice to be content with the room I'm renting for now. I have my days lol
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Saw my commander today and he'll be signing my approval letter for the timeline of my medical treatment plan. I may be starting HRT sooner than I thought. ^_^
Quote from: SiobhánF on December 21, 2017, 04:09:00 AM
Saw my commander today and he'll be signing my approval letter for the timeline of my medical treatment plan. I may be starting HRT sooner than I thought. ^_^
Great news! X
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First day at work with eyes officially 'made up' (previously only light mascara for the lashes)
I noticed one of the ladies here had seen and was looking, I made a point of mentioning it and asked her opinion:
I got a full thumbs-up well done. The reason she was staring was because she liked it. WOOT!
Quote from: Faith on December 21, 2017, 09:02:38 AM
First day at work with eyes officially 'made up' (previously only light mascara for the lashes)
I noticed one of the ladies here had seen and was looking, I made a point of mentioning it and asked her opinion:
I got a full thumbs-up well done. The reason she was staring was because she liked it. WOOT!
YES! See what happens when you have Faith in yourself?!
Be prepared. You're gonna get that a lot...
Steph
I am getting my vacation pay tomorrow which is about an extra $1500 after taxes so I can pay off some bills now yaaa
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Parents put up the stockings today!
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Mom gave me a ring!
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My girlfriend accidentally sent this to her boss, my former coworker, who is not a fan of my transition. And didn't get in trouble for it.
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This is how I show up on my moms phone when I call her. And it pops up as Claire!
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I just like this one, the build a bear my exwife got me, unstuffed, with my dog who's sad she's not allowed to play with it.
I got to hang out with one of my best friends tonight and make cookies! we made walnut kolacky, which are my favorite holiday cookies! A lot of mine burst open because I used too much filling, oops, they still taste great though! We exchanged our x-mas gifts too, and it was really funny because we actually shopped for eachother at the same store lol, I got her a gift card for the place and she bought me coffee (and some mini bottles of baileys to mix in!)
I also love how excited her dogs get when I come over, it's so cute!! They go crazy and give me so many hugs and kisses and one of them even dances because he can't contain himself! The other one has a chewed up blanket that's like her favorite thing ever and she always runs over and brings it to me when I see her, those pups make me feel super loved! :angel:
Well today is the one year ago today that I drove 3 hours away to london where the doctor handed me a prescription for hrt and was happy than and still today
Had lots of Xmas cards, all in my chosen name, and the majority from other women, this certainly differs totally from last year [emoji5]
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Quote from: Megan. on December 22, 2017, 03:56:52 AM
Had lots of Xmas cards, all in my chosen name, and the majority from other women, this certainly differs totally from last year [emoji5]
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Yeah Megan! It's the little things that count...
A few things!
1) My younger brother confirmed he is coming for Christmas, which is rare. He also asked if I had a recipe for some unique chocolate chip cookies that a friend of my mom's (who also babysat for us for years when we were little) used to make for everyone during the holidays. Getting those cookies each year as kids was a huge deal for us. Unfortunately, she passed away many years ago now, and no one I know living would have her recipe. However... I think I've garnered enough skill in the kitchen to replicate them pretty closely, and am going to do some tests today to try to make a close approximation for a present for him. (The cookie part itself was soft but very thin, with a huge chocolate chip proportion. This created mountains of chocolate chips in the cookie that because the thin dough didn't take long to cook on account of the thin dough, would keep their shape. They also had a strong flavor. My guess is that it is a very buttery, room temperature dough with probably triple the usual amount of chocolate chips to dough proportionally, making the dough "melt" out into the thinned wafer edges quickly. Probably with extra vanilla extract, and brown sugar over white.)
2) My hair has filled in significantly now! Only 4 months on the typical regimen, and I have no truly barren spots. All of a sudden in the past day or two, my thin, wispy hairs on crown darkened filling in the area. My hair on top and on crown is still noticeably, severely thinned, at least in contrast to my thick hair on sides, so it's not great still, but I am more hopeful than I ever been I will be able to get a full head of hair with only some light transplants (the cost of which has always stressed me out, so the more I grow the more I save!). I have an unrealistic hope as well that by the time I am on the hair meds and now with HRT added for the recommended 1-2 years that this early turnaround can only mean even more dramatic results down the line. ;D
3) Today ends my first week worth of HRT, and I am ecstatic every time I take the pills. It just all feels so wonderful and right, and I've never been so confident in myself!
In three hours I pick up my son at the airport! Yaaay!
Started a Keto lifestyle change and have lost 18 lbs in the first month! And haven't been hungry at all! Started at 310 and want to get to 180-200 range.
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is 'feel good' close enough to happy?
I was walking down the hallway (at work) when one of the ladies yelled down to me to come. I figured, broken computer or something that I didn't want to deal with yet. She's pleasant though so I put on my smile and went into her office. I'm ready to spout gibberish & small talk about 'what's the problem' and all that. She's knelt down behind her desk, rummaging around. Turned out to be her purse. She handed me several samples of different foundations to try under my eye makeup.
I think I have someone I can talk to about how to do makeup without becoming a clown-face. Clowns are scary ;D
Got a referral to see an endo that specializes in trans health. (n'∀')η
Quote from: Faith on December 22, 2017, 11:57:20 AM
... Clowns are scary ;D
Yes... Yes the are.
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Just picked up my femme&M's after 3 days without due to a mix up.
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Adoption of pair of sisters,14 and 16 years old decided to take into my life became final.We hugged and know they have a forever home now as an early Christmas present
Today I am at 14 days well 13.5 days now until GCS. That makes me happy :) What really made me happy was getting the kid off to see the Ex and his return with my youngest on the 28th.
Congratulations to all that have something which has made them happy.
My boobs were sore last night and again this morning. And they might be a tad bigger. Woo-hoo! Growth spurt! Not going to jinx it by getting out the tape measure yet.
I hung out with some friends last night. I'm still presenting as male and I think they still kinda consider me an in between, but I think they're starting to lean towards seeing me as one of the girls :) My one friend posted a pic of herself with 2 of my male friends and said they were her favorite dudes. there were lots of pics taken that night and I wasn't included in any of the guy pics, the group shots I was in were all pics with the girls, aside from one shot of the whole party :) Anytime I'm with a group of friends now I pretty much just gravitate to the girls. I've been doing this for a while actually but no one really seems to make anything of it, it's just natural to me now
I was talking to one girl about how I didn't think my brows looked good and she actually said that I have great brows for a natural look and that she doesn't think I need to trim them at all, just maybe add a little darker brow filler to them (I've worked on them more since I took my profile pic, I don't think they look good in that). She also complimented me on a facebook pic that I posted where she said I look feminine and I said that I feel like my boobs are really starting to show and she agreed lol. Then she took a snapchat selfie of us and it came out sooooooo cute!
My other friend was being really nice to me last night too and kept saying that I'm such a good friend, she's such a sweetheart. She made me shotgun a beer with her lol, it was my first time ever doing that!
I also got a kiss attack from my friend's dog :laugh:
It's my one year Karyniversary.
Woo Hoo!!
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Quote from: KathyLauren on December 23, 2017, 06:31:26 AM
My boobs were sore last night and again this morning. And they might be a tad bigger. Woo-hoo! Growth spurt! Not going to jinx it by getting out the tape measure yet.
What a nice Christmas present! Only in this wonderful world we all share could someone write how happy they were because their boobs hurt! I truly hope it's a growth spurt. Every little bit helps. I started Finesteride yesterday, my first test medication. If I can tolerate it, I'm on my way to a full HRT referral. Yipee!
It's heartwarming to read this thread before Christmas.
Hugs to everyone
Lindy Lou
Quote from: amberwaves on December 22, 2017, 05:53:44 PM
Just picked up my femme&M's after 3 days without due to a mix up.
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Femme&M's wins the internet! ;D
Quote from: KarynMcD on December 23, 2017, 07:53:36 AM
It's my one year Karyniversary.
Woo Hoo!!
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So does that! ;D
Hugs, Devlyn
When I realized I had survived work and successfully made it to our holiday weekend...HAPPY!
Despite the thinness on top and in crown, I've been letting my hair grow out a bit as an experiment. Nothing major, but longer than it has been in 15+ years. I actually forgot my hair was curly. My sister and step-mother independently commented on how curly it was, literally in awe, and I was told it is going to have amazing body the way it is growing. So yeah. A feminine compliment when I am nowhere near presenting from two classically feminine women was a pretty freakin' big deal to me. :D
I think I'm going to get a good girlie hat and try to fully dress without using a wig, just covering thinned hair and see what it looks like.
I am Happy I hit the 1 year mark on HRT today
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on December 24, 2017, 03:59:53 AM
I am Happy I hit the 1 year mark on HRT today
Yay, happy BirHRTday. X
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Quote from: KathyLauren on December 23, 2017, 06:31:26 AM
My boobs were sore last night and again this morning. And they might be a tad bigger. Woo-hoo! Growth spurt! Not going to jinx it by getting out the tape measure yet.
I broke down and got out the tape measure. HALF AN INCH!!! ;D Okay, maybe only 3/8 of an inch, but I'm calling it a half. Yippee!!
Quote from: KathyLauren on December 24, 2017, 06:32:56 AM
I broke down and got out the tape measure. HALF AN INCH!!! ;D Okay, maybe only 3/8 of an inch, but I'm calling it a half. Yippee!!
HAPPY BOOB SWELL !!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UBfsS1EGyWc
Hope the link works, but Mozart/Metallica made me happy this morning!
Quote from: Artesia on December 24, 2017, 10:25:07 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UBfsS1EGyWc
Hope the link works, but Mozart/Metallica made me happy this morning!
The you would love David Garrett!
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Quote from: Dee Marshall on December 24, 2017, 11:03:13 AM
The you would love David Garrett!
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Thanks Dee! Listening to him now. Wonderful!
getting a BIG hug from my daughter and a sweet kiss on the cheek from grandson.
One word - veet (even though it stinks like fish bones or something!)
Quote from: Megan. on December 24, 2017, 04:36:37 AM
Yay, happy BirHRTday. X
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Thank you :) it was a great day
I'm in Tahoe and I hate cold. My feet are icicles. I decided to look for a warm pair of boots, and had great fun boot shopping. I went to three stores, went directly to the ladies boots and gave the sales people my sizes. Nobody bat an eye or acted like anything was out of place. I ended up with a nice pair of ugg boots. My sales girl told me they look cute on me. I know they are paid to sell, but I felt cute in them too. I hate that my last few things that made me happy were shopping, but it's therapy at the moment, and I need it
Bari Jo
What made me happy today?
It's Christmas, and I woke up happy!
Merry Christmas to all!!!!
Quote from: Artesia on December 25, 2017, 07:17:03 AM
What made me happy today?
It's Christmas, and I woke up happy!
Merry Christmas to all!!!!
Merry Christmas, Artesia! Here's to many many more.
Stephanie
It is a beautiful, cold Christmas morning. The house is quiet for now, it is still dark, the Christmas lights are on, my daughters are home, the turkey is in the oven, and HRT has silenced my anger. Although this is my last Christmas as 'him', in a way it is also my first Christmas as 'her'. Everything just feels right this morning. I think it will be an awesome day.
I want to thank all of you for the support you have provided this year, and I wish everyone a Merry Christmas!
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 25, 2017, 12:16:30 AM
I'm in Tahoe and I hate cold. My feet are icicles. I decided to look for a warm pair of boots, and had great fun boot shopping. I went to three stores, went directly to the ladies boots and gave the sales people my sizes. Nobody bat an eye or acted like anything was out of place. I ended up with a nice pair of ugg boots. My sales girl told me they look cute on me. I know they are paid to sell, but I felt cute in them too. I hate that my last few things that made me happy were shopping, but it's therapy at the moment, and I need it
Bari Jo
Omg, I'd love a pair of Uggs! Lucky girl! X
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Quote from: Jessica_Rose on December 25, 2017, 07:52:11 AM
It is a beautiful, cold Christmas morning. The house is quiet for now, it is still dark, the Christmas lights are on, my daughters are home, the turkey is in the oven, and HRT has silenced my anger. Although this is my last Christmas as 'him', in a way it is also my first Christmas as 'her'. Everything just feel right this morning. I think it will be an awesome day.
I want to thank all of you for the support you have provided this year, and I wish everyone a Merry Christmas!
Sounds nice. The early peace of the holiday, and the peace of knowing who you are and where you're going.
Merry Christmas, Ms. Jessica Rose.
Stephanie
A life with good and true friends and loved ones home and abroad. [emoji4]
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Out for a morning walk with my wife in our matching pink jammies. I got my 1st "good morning ladies" ...I grinned, my wife grinned.
Ok, granted it was from a bit of distance, but still ... ;D
Quote from: Megan. on December 25, 2017, 08:24:15 AMabroad
What did you call me?
Seriously, Megan, a very Merry Christmas to you, too! I have never had this many friends, in such far flung places before. What a wonderful gift!
- Stephanie
Quote from: Faith on December 25, 2017, 08:31:45 AM
Out for a morning walk with my wife in our matching pink jammies. I got my 1st "good morning ladies" ...I grinned, my wife grinned.
Ok, granted it was from a bit of distance, but still ... ;D
And now I'm grinning, too! Congratulations!
- Stephanie
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on December 25, 2017, 07:52:11 AM
It is a beautiful, cold Christmas morning. The house is quiet for now, it is still dark, the Christmas lights are on, my daughters are home, the turkey is in the oven, and HRT has silenced my anger. Although this is my last Christmas as 'him', in a way it is also my first Christmas as 'her'. Everything just feels right this morning. I think it will be an awesome day.
I want to thank all of you for the support you have provided this year, and I wish everyone a Merry Christmas!
That sounds really magical. I hope you have a beautiful day. Xx
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Cooking Christmas dinner and it all came out fine apart from the gravy, I like thick gravy but when I scrapped the left over into a dish it was like bread sauce. Mum is sat here with me knitting, she's a serial knitter!!!!!!!
I was having a pretty hard time yesterday dealing with holiday stuff. I had an overwhelming urge to drink. I hate feeling the need to drink, I haven't felt that since over the summer when I had a few really bad days at work. I promised myself that I wouldn't drink out of sadness again, and never drink alone, only drink when I'm celebrating something. A lot of stuff has been piling up lately and I've been feeling pretty depressed. well, I made it without drinking last night!
Managed to cook everything on time and nothing was burned! Even better the dog didn't manage to pinch anything! This is the first Christmas that I have done the cooking all on my own for xx
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Quote from: Maddie86 on December 25, 2017, 08:54:00 AM
I was having a pretty hard time yesterday dealing with holiday stuff. I had an overwhelming urge to drink. I hate feeling the need to drink, I haven't felt that since over the summer when I had a few really bad days at work. I promised myself that I wouldn't drink out of sadness again, and never drink alone, only drink when I'm celebrating something. A lot of stuff has been piling up lately and I've been feeling pretty depressed. well, I made it without drinking last night!
Congratulations, Maddie! That is not an easy thing to do. Just one day at a time...
I'm cooking already (8 AM here). Two friends who won't have family to spend Christmas with are coming over later for dinner with me. I'm doing the works, a turkey, garnet yams and other sides, cranberry walnut bread, and an apple crisp with vanilla bean ice cream for dessert. ALmost all the dishes are gluten free for one friend.
Alcohol figures into this. One of my friends can't be with family for the holidays as they tend to turn the day into a drinking competition. My friend has been clean and sober for a long, long time, but the temptations are still strong, of course. Instead of each of us spending the day alone with a turkey sandwich, we will be hanging out together, and joined by another friend this afternoon.
We'll play games or watch a movie while the turkey roasts. ;D The yams are in the oven for their first pass, baking til tender so I can slice and dice into a pan, to be topped with a sort of 'crisp' crust built from maple syrup, brown sugar, almond meal, and rolled oats. While the turkey is roasting I'll do the sesame roasted asparagus and a few other goodies. A friend is bringing salad and squash soup. We'll have the cranberry walnut bread and of course a cranberry-orange relish on the side.
Sometimes we have to build our own family. I'm so glad I have my new sisters.
❤️❤️❤️
Quote from: Maddie86 on December 25, 2017, 08:54:00 AM
I was having a pretty hard time yesterday dealing with holiday stuff. I had an overwhelming urge to drink. I hate feeling the need to drink, I haven't felt that since over the summer when I had a few really bad days at work. I promised myself that I wouldn't drink out of sadness again, and never drink alone, only drink when I'm celebrating something. A lot of stuff has been piling up lately and I've been feeling pretty depressed. well, I made it without drinking last night!
Maddie, I'm proud of you. Last night was tough for many of us I'm sure. But you did it right! Good girl.
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I gave one of my daughters an idea for a gift about a month ago. She is very artistic, and it was something she would have to make. She did make it, and it is beautiful. I think it is the only Christmas gift I have ever received that made me cry tears of joy.
In script she wrote the 'My shoes are too tight' quote from the bottom of my posts, and on the left side she drew a monarch butterfly sitting on some small lavender flowers. She mounted it in a see-through glass frame (both the front and back of the frame are glass). I think it may be the best gift I have ever received. I will cherish it forever.
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on December 25, 2017, 12:34:31 PM
I gave one of my daughters an idea for a gift about a month ago. She is very artistic, and it was something she would have to make. She did make it, and it is beautiful. I think it is the only Christmas gift I have ever received that made me cry tears of joy.
In script she wrote the 'My shoes are too tight' quote from the bottom of my posts, and on the left side she drew a monarch butterfly sitting on some small lavender flowers. She mounted it in a see-through glass frame (both the front and back of the frame are glass). I think it may be the best gift I have ever received. I will cherish it forever.
I love this, she will love you forever too.
Bari Jo
Maddie, congratulations - alcohol can be very difficult to avoid at times. I had my last drink in 2003. At first I felt like I'd quit something - but then realized I had joined something. A decade and a half without a hangover.
And for all, so many great accomplishements here!
Maddie, so proud of you for not giving in to that drink! I know from personal experience that is not an easy thing to do. Christmas is a hard time for most of us.
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aw thank you everyone! I haven't totally given up drinking, I just don't do it very often. I had a couple a few nights ago to celebrate my friend's birthday. I might have a couple on new year's eve but then after that probably not for a while. I just can't let myself fall back into old habits!
I've been trying to manage my drinking too. I had a glass and a half of wine. Next time will be new years for me too when I drink maybe
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Haven't had a moment to myself or any privacy to post or answer a few e-mails all day, been going at it non stop since yesterday preparing food. But I'm happy because it all turned out amazing and I survived!
I just had a chance encounter at the coffee counter. Both pots empty, of course. I was cleaning and filling them (so many employees seem to have an aversion). Anyways, this gal struck up a conversation about it with me, gave me a high-five (in relation to our conversation, not the coffee).
This may seem like nothing, to me it's a lot. I was never one that people would just start talking to. Quiet nods, missed eye contact, outright avoidance, that's all I'm used to. This is happening more often. Subconsciously, I am being noticed as being approachable, if not the 'why'.
This is a good thing ... I think ...
Last Saturday evening I was at a friend's house processing some pain stuff with a neat young lady. She brought up the well understood point of all of us needing to find our tribe, that group of folks that help us feel more full, complete and safe. Pondering that I realized that my friend's house was a safe place and they provided a big part of my "Tribe". I have also appreciated that you here at Susan's Place are all a big part of my tribe and help me to feel full and complete.....Thank you all.
Tia Anne
Wow, twice in a row, this must be a great day. I went to the mail this afternoon and found both my new passport and my new Medicare card.....if this keeps up I may just become official!
Tia Anne
I'm almost finished with yet another long day at work from 8:30 am to 8 pm!! Can't wait
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Today was GREAT!
First, emptied out my storage unit, saving money next month. Had to inform them of my leaving. The lady at the desk told me to tell Steve thank you for using our storage area. She didn't recognize me as Steve, so YAY!!!!! She thought I was my wife Shelly, also on the lease.
Second, went to an old job, previous to where I just left, and reintroduced myself to my former coworkers. I had one person recognize me immediately. A couple say I looked familiar, but couldn't place me. Most didn't recognize me at all. The ones who thought I looked familiar were shocked at who I was. All of the ones who knew me before said I look good, and happier than they've ever seen me.
Only one seemed to activly dislike my transition, my former supervisor. Everyone else seemed to keep an open mind.
Quote from: Anne Blake on December 26, 2017, 05:23:57 PM
Wow, twice in a row, this must be a great day. I went to the mail this afternoon and found both my new passport and my new Medicare card.....if this keeps up I may just become official!
Tia Anne
It must feel great to have all documentation conforming to and confirming your true self.
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Hearing this from my parents this morning,happy birthday Liz for the first time and it felt great.They called me this morning.39 today including my 2 brothers,my brothers and I are triplets.My parents are taking my brothers and I out for our birthday tonight.
Quote from: Roll on December 25, 2017, 09:13:40 PM
Haven't had a moment to myself or any privacy to post or answer a few e-mails all day, been going at it non stop since yesterday preparing food. But I'm happy because it all turned out amazing and I survived!
Congrats Ellie, of course this means you are doing the cooking for all reunions now too!
Bari Jo
Quote from: Anne Blake on December 26, 2017, 05:23:57 PM
Wow, twice in a row, this must be a great day. I went to the mail this afternoon and found both my new passport and my new Medicare card.....if this keeps up I may just become official!
Tia Anne
Congrats Anne! Feels so good to have that ID to support who you are!
I found a very cute peach-colored, cotton skirt at a secondhand store today for only $4.50. It's very full with pleats, just what I've been looking for for :) :)
Lindy
pumped up a customers flat tyre last thing at work and he said thanks LOVE, no he wasn't wearing glasses maybe he should!!!!!!
My first birthday out as Liz went great tonight.My mom did get me a pair of hoop earrings for my birthday.My 2 brothers and I are now 39 years old,triplets.My parents know they have two sons left and now a daughter that used to be their son.They know what is next,the gender corrective surgery next year if I get approved for it.
I just got home from a nice dinner with a trans woman I'd met at my first group session on June 21, the day I started HRT. We finally had a chance to get together. She'd transitioned 25 years ago and had such cool stories. It was so comfortable hanging with her, with the sure knowledge that I wasn't going to be misgendered and was just another woman to her. She had such nice things to say about how my transition is going. My confidence is sky high. It's like hanging out with you all, but face to face. Feeling really good now.
- Stephanie
Steph, that sounded like a great evening. I am all for going stealth with the general public but there is such a rewarding feeling finding a new person to add to you tribe. Time with those folks, tribe members, is just so fun, comfortable and safe. You are really doing well aren't you girl, good on you!
Tia Anne
Quote from: davina61 on December 27, 2017, 03:21:25 PM
pumped up a customers flat tyre last thing at work and he said thanks LOVE, no he wasn't wearing glasses maybe he should!!!!!!
I can really understand the power of this. I was at the grocery store last week and a cashier called me "darling" - the word stayed with me for hours :)
Met up with a friend that I haven't seen in 11.5 years. He was very curious about what it means to be transgender. I was very patient with his questions and I just love that I was able to speak to him very easily, even though we were sitting outside a Starbucks in lower temperatures. I've really got to see him and his wife more often. Such a positive experience. :)
Quote from: Lindy on December 28, 2017, 08:38:24 AM
I can really understand the power of this. I was at the grocery store last week and a cashier called me "darling" - the word stayed with me for hours :)
I went to the county courthouse yesterday (the same place where my name change hearing was) to work on my passport paperwork, and the security guys were smiling and nice as always. I always set off the metal detector, so I have to get "wanded" and was asked to step over here, ma'am. Then upstairs in the office the clerk was busy with another customer, and when she was done, she called out, "are you ready, sweetie?" [emoji5]
- Stephanie
I was asked out on a date on New years eve, by a really hot guy that visits his family where I work, The girls at work said they are jealous and to go on the date but I am working. I am not sure if I am ready to go on my first date with a guy yet.
first off, reading this thread today is making me happy, congrats everyone! :)
as for me, I'm going out in public tonight dressed as myself for the first time in like 3 months! i'm nervous but excited, I'm going to a drag show with a few girlfriends, we are celebrating my one friend passing some test she needed to get certified to work clinicals with her new degree! she passed it this morning and I'm super happy for her! I also got some new clothes today and I got a top that really ties together a few outfits I have, I feel way more confident in my clothes for tonight now!
Quote from: Maddie86 on December 28, 2017, 04:18:53 PM
first off, reading this thread today is making me happy, congrats everyone! :)
as for me, I'm going out in public tonight dressed as myself for the first time in like 3 months! i'm nervous but excited, I'm going to a drag show with a few girlfriends, we are celebrating my one friend passing some test she needed to get certified to work clinicals with her new degree! she passed it this morning and I'm super happy for her! I also got some new clothes today and I got a top that really ties together a few outfits I have, I feel way more confident in my clothes for tonight now!
Have a fabulous time and enjoy being you!! ;) ;D
I'm not feeling well today, someone at work shared a cold with everyone. However, I am wearing my first piece of jewelry. It is a small (1/4 inch wide) silver bracelet that says 'Find Joy in the Journey'. Feeling it on my wrist and reading the inscription makes me happy.
I had an amazing time last night!! I had a few glasses of wine (I know I posted about having issues with this recently, but I was having fun and celebrating last night) and I think I'm done with drinking for a while. I drank slow but it still ended up giving me a stomach ache and I couldn't sleep well, and I didn't even really catch much of a buzz. Anyways, I had a great time at the drag show I went to, I had no issues from anyone there and I didn't run into anyone I know (aside from my friends of course), and I think my makeup is the best it ever looked! I'm gunna post pics in my HRT thread!
Meeting someone last night and we are going on our first date January 2,2018.Her name is Korey and met her through my brother Bobby.She is a lesbian,a genetic female and I asked her on a date which she said yes.She knows I am a pre op and will have the gender corrective surgery when it happens.I am her first transsexual girlfriend and we are both excited about our first date.
I woke up happy. Just... really, really happy. That is all. :D
Quote from: Roll on December 29, 2017, 09:00:03 AM
I woke up happy. Just... really, really happy. That is all. :D
And that is enough! [emoji3]
Just this morning, I'm at work, wife's at work. A couple texts back and forth. It's this last one. I teared up like crazy, had to choke back the water-works.
verbatim, as typed:
I have "Faith". Love you. Have a great day.
:icon_biggrin:
Quote from: Faith on December 29, 2017, 10:40:23 AM
Just this morning, I'm at work, wife's at work. A couple texts back and forth. It's this last one. I teared up like crazy, had to choke back the water-works.
verbatim, as typed:
I have "Faith". Love you. Have a great day.
:icon_biggrin:
Wonderful!
You may have seen this when I mentioned it elsewhere, but my anthem and inspiration while coming out was the theme song from Star Trek Enterprise,
Faith of the Heart. Enough said.
Stephanie
My blood tests didn't hurt this morning! Yay!
Quote from: liz bren on December 29, 2017, 08:42:44 AM
Meeting someone last night and we are going on our first date January 2,2018.Her name is Korey and met her through my brother Bobby.She is a lesbian,a genetic female and I asked her on a date which she said yes.She knows I am a pre op and will have the gender corrective surgery when it happens.I am her first transsexual girlfriend and we are both excited about our first date.
Congratulations! I hope it goes well. I'm still not into the dating scene just yet (though I want to be).
Quote from: Sarah_P on December 29, 2017, 12:39:36 PM
Congratulations! I hope it goes well. I'm still not into the dating scene just yet (though I want to be).
I'm in the same boat. Just not feeling up to it yet even though emotionally I've been craving companionship and closeness. I feel like I'm frustrated sexually in a way now lol
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My understanding sister bought me a new black plunge bra for Christmas, the one I wanted with a wide 3 hook deep back band and wide straps.
It wasn't available in A cup, so she got it in B cup, plus a pair of silicone cleavage enhancers to make up any voids.
But after swooping and scooping, I can easily fill the B cups with my own boobs!
Quote from: Sarah_P on December 29, 2017, 12:39:36 PM
Congratulations! I hope it goes well. I'm still not into the dating scene just yet (though I want to be).
Thanks and Korey also knows I have been transitioning for a year.She has the huge heart for transsexual women knows I made my decision liking women only
I had this dream last night, well its more of a recurring dream actually
i ended up in my body from a parallel universe, where i was born female, but i read my journal and spent a day there and it seemed like everything was the same, even down to the dysphoria (ie same people,family, situation, etc wanting to be a guy, feeling trapt, alone etc, i was just as geeky as i am here), the only difference being is that i was born female in this universe, and somehow i was able to chat with her/him and we agreed to stay in our swapt universes and then i woke up
made me feel really happy :) until i realized im a boy again when i woke up
While I was out I got my first phone call for Stephanie, from a florist advising that they'd made a delivery to my home. It was a bouquet from my little sister to her big sister.
- Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on December 29, 2017, 07:40:51 PM
While I was out I got my first phone call for Stephanie, from a florist advising that they'd made a delivery to my home. It was a bouquet from my little sister to her big sister.
- Stephanie
aaawwwwwhhhhh...how sweet was that
I got commissioned to make a copy of a sculpture I designed years ago. It feels good to cap off 2017 with a sale.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on December 31, 2017, 01:15:23 AM
I got commissioned to make a copy of a sculpture I designed years ago. It feels good to cap off 2017 with a sale.
Bari Jo
Pictures please!
Don't out yourself, I've removed the post. Plenty of time in the future
Quote from: Cindy on December 31, 2017, 01:45:42 AM
Don't out yourself, I've removed the post. Plenty of time in the future
Thanks, sometimes my enthusiasm gets the better of me. For those interested I'll just give a more generic description. The commission is for a set of six sci fi panels milled in hard maple. The set measures 24" x 16" in solid wood. Once I'm out to the world I can post links/pictures. Cindy is right I'm not ready for that yet.
Bari Jo
I woke up breathing this morning. Spent half my day on others and had a relaxing evening. Not a bad way to end a chaotic year. Happy New Year and may it be free of negative thoughts. Thank you to everyone here for helping me through an awareness year. XO
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I am ending the year as me; virtually complete body, fully named and government certified. This is something that I did not believe could or ever would happen!
Next years goal is to figure out just what living as me is all about.
Happy New Year to you all,
Tia Anne
After an insane rollercoaster of a year I am full time a year ahead of schedule out to nearly all the people who matter including old friends I havent seen in years Oh yes I survived everything and have a whole new outlook on life
bobbisue :)
Actually had a decent time at a family party.
All it took was telling a family member to shut up [emoji23].
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So I just found out something that will probably either help me or bite me in the behind. Either way I'm pursing what I need and nothing will stop me
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I almost have full female wardrobe just a few things left to get so I am not wearing same things over and over again
I have a trachea shave scheduled on 4 Jan. Today while we were out shopping one of my daughters picked out some concealer for me.
I was texting my friend this morning and she asked me if I've thought about a last name yet because she wanted to change my name in her phone :) I told her I didn't have one yet but I did pick out a middle name so I told her to use that. She changed it and sent me a screen shot <3 <3 <3
Starting the new year realizing - in addition to great friendships and relationships, as long a Susan's remains Susan's I will never again be alone in this world.
This has been the most educational year of my life. I found me and am trying to send old me to the boneyard. Who say's you can't teach an old dog? My wish for 2018. No murders or assaults for our people. Let's take the word of the Bible to "Love thy Neighbor". Besides loving God there are no commandments greater than these. Educate, educate, educate.
Had a lovely New Years dinner with a lady friend & her family. We also played some board games, which went surprisingly well considering one of the participants was 3 years old. :D
Thanks for asking! :) What made me happy today had nothing to do with my gender; I hope it's OK to post it.
A few years ago or so, I discovered a snack called "Kar's Sweet 'n Salty Mix" in a vending machine. It had a very unusual property: after eating a 1.75 oz bag, you felt like you had some missing need that could only be satisfied by eating more. I know that sounds funny, but it was true. I almost always ended up buying at least two when I could.
I never saw this stuff for individual sale anywhere but this one particular vending machine. However, I did find it at Walmart in boxes containing 20 individual 1.75 oz bags. Naturally, I bought a few boxes. Bad idea. On more than one occasion, I sat on the sofa and ate 10 bags or more. So, I quit buying it.
Early on, I got the idea to reverse engineer this mix and make it myself. I made an attempt about a year ago, I guess, but found that a few of the ingredients were non-standard in size. This meant I had to portion by relative weight, and I didn't have a digital scale. So, I shelved the project. Recently, however, I happened to acquire a digital kitchen scale for measuring ingredients for another pet project of mine (pizza); and today I got a wild hair to try again. And I did. The reproduction is almost perfect; the original uses sugared raisins, and mine does not -- couldn't find any at the grocery store -- which may account for the fact that 1.75 oz of my reproduction is 20 calories less than the original. But I'm now the proud owner of 5+ lbs of their mix, which is sitting in my freezer. It may stay in my freezer for some time, because I'm still on a diet. I don't dare touch the stuff. I can resist starting; but once I start eating it I'm afraid I won't be able to stop. A decent-sized ziplock baggie -- sandwich size, about half-full -- is a thousand calories. I don't dare.
Anyway, accomplishing this long-anticipated project made me feel good today. Oh, and it cost me less than half to make what it costs to buy.
I just woke up happy today, seam to be in a terrible mood when the day is going to be ok but happy when i know its going to be a long one and busy. Think im a sadist (is that even the right word?!)
Quote from: Shambles on January 02, 2018, 04:05:42 AM
I just woke up happy today, seam to be in a terrible mood when the day is going to be ok but happy when i know its going to be a long one and busy. Think im a sadist (is that even the right word?!)
Masochist would be right. It could also be, more charitably, that you enjoy a challenge and easy days bore you. (Raises hand.)
Yesterday we arrived at our son's after an all day drive. I'm bringing Randi out to drive down with him to our niece's wedding. Today I have to drive back, 6 to 8 hours alone. So far all sad making stuff.
However, when we got here he had holiday gifts for us. Mine was a new pocket book that Randi helped him pick out!
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The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Well, no two ways about it, it's definitely not my imagination at this point. My breasts are extremely sore. Only just over two weeks in, and it has been building steadily for days along with itchiness. So that was way faster than expected. And I love it because stuff is happening.
Well, I have been excited and anxious regarding the beginning of HRT tomorrow. And as I have come to grips with who I am, I have worn femine clothes around the apartment. Femine as in jeans and tank top and earrings.
My daughter who I share the place with has always been at work or off doing something and she has been one of my concerns on coming out. I had married her mom when she was 4 or 5 (so long ago she'll be 23 in March) and after her mom passed away in 09' I became her legal guardian and continued to raise her and oh what fun that was. However, she has become a very intelligent and compassionate woman.
This said, I was talking to the VA on the phone in my attire when she unexpectedly came home. I rushed to get away to get the earrings off and to reduce what she saw.
However, she comes up and says is there something you want to tell me? I was in total panic mode. Then she says, I have been noticing stuff around the house that isn't mine and asks are you becoming Bruce Jenner referrring to Caitlyn and I said, no a better version, myself. I asked if it bothered her and she said no, as long as you are happy.
I can only imagine how this would have felt had I already started HRT because I'm almost all wound up with tears as I type this.
Cali
That's wonderful news Cali!!
Yes, and I'm still kinda shak'n :)
Quote from: Roll on January 02, 2018, 10:52:53 AM
Well, no two ways about it, it's definitely not my imagination at this point. My breasts are extremely sore. Only just over two weeks in, and it has been building steadily for days along with itchiness. So that was way faster than expected. And I love it because stuff is happening.
We have liftoff!!
That's great Cali. I still tear up with the coming out stories. Glad your daughter is understanding and loves you.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Roll on January 02, 2018, 10:52:53 AM
Well, no two ways about it, it's definitely not my imagination at this point. My breasts are extremely sore. Only just over two weeks in, and it has been building steadily for days along with itchiness. So that was way faster than expected. And I love it because stuff is happening.
Woop! Wait till you try running, ouch!
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Quote from: Cali on January 02, 2018, 11:00:54 AM
Well, I have been excited and anxious regarding the beginning of HRT tomorrow. And as I have come to grips with who I am, I have worn femine clothes around the apartment. Femine as in jeans and tank top and earrings.
My daughter who I share the place with has always been at work or off doing something and she has been one of my concerns on coming out. I had married her mom when she was 4 or 5 (so long ago she'll be 23 in March) and after her mom passed away in 09' I became her legal guardian and continued to raise her and oh what fun that was. However, she has become a very intelligent and compassionate woman.
This said, I was talking to the VA on the phone in my attire when she unexpectedly came home. I rushed to get away to get the earrings off and to reduce what she saw.
However, she comes up and says is there something you want to tell me? I was in total panic mode. Then she says, I have been noticing stuff around the house that isn't mine and asks are you becoming Bruce Jenner referrring to Caitlyn and I said, no a better version, myself. I asked if it bothered her and she said no, as long as you are happy.
I can only imagine how this would have felt had I already started HRT because I'm almost all wound up with tears as I type this.
Cali
Yay, for you and your wonderful daughter! X
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Cali - I am so glad for you because of the good outcome Cali. Hugs
Ellie - Sore and itchy already? Cooool Wait until you roll over in bed and you feel it... I've managed to not bump mine on corners or doors so far and I am too out of shape to even try jogging. So I'm good but you, youngin best watch out.
Hugs for both of you,
Laurie
Ellie, totally missed your buds post. It's a great feeling. Whenever I bump into something, or wear a heavy shirt, I feel awesome. You will to.
Bari Jo
Cali - Reading you post brought a smile to my face and a tear to my eyes! Congrats in starting HRT and coming out to your daughter. You are fortunate to have a daughter who is accepting. Enjoy the ride on HRT with its ups and downs. I know that for me, starting HRT was both exciting and a little scary as I did not know what to expect. All I knew was that it was an important step in becoming who I always knew I was. Look forward to hear more from you as you continue your journey along your path! Hugs
Back to work today from vacation. It made me really happy to reflect on how wonderful the time with family was. I celebrated a birthday while at home. After dinner, my mom brought out a pink cake with one candle on it because it was my first birthday as a girl. Needless to say, that made me cry buckets. Another highlight that keeps making me smile is that I attended a New Year's Eve party with my parents and their friends, and I received some very lovely compliments on my appearance and how well my transition is progressing. I have known most of the attendees for my whole life, so it was really special to have loving and supportive interactions with them. Thanks to all of my Susan's family for helping me decide to be myself! Wishing you all the best life has to offer in 2018!
10 days since my last laser session. Most of the hair has disappeared. My face is very smooth. :)
Today Michelle moved into her first home. Her name on the deed[emoji4], her name on the mortgage. [emoji849]
Better late than never, eh?
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Ellie - YAY!! My first real pain came from the shower and having the water hit my nipples directly. I'd been sore for a week or so before hand, but that really stung (and made me smile like a goofball)!
Cali - That's wonderful news all around! Your daughter is awesome! Don't worry, many of us are tearing up for you!
Patti - That's great! I'd be crying buckets too.... :icon_birthday:
Becca - Congratulations! I wish laser had been all I needed, but too much gray already.
Michelle - WOOHOO!!! :icon_dance: HOUSE PARTY AT MICHELLE'S!!!! :icon_dance:
:icon_wave-nerd:
Thank ya Miss Sarah
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I let my doctor know that I was going to try and get my name legally changed sometime in March. I asked her what I would need to do for her to be comfortable filling out a gender change form. She said to send her a reminder note at that time and she would provide the certification! At first I cried happy tears, now I am shaking...it is frightening and awesome at the same time!
That's sooooooooooooooo kewl!!!!
I was working with a co-worker that I have not worked with since may and she asked me if I had any surgeries on my face. She did not realize it was me. I did not think I changed that much. She said I looked better as female
So nice.
I've been so excited about my re-birth day today that I just couldn't sleep. Kept waking up and looking at the clock. Finally just got out of bed at 4am. Kind of reminds me as a kid when we were going to go on a trip the next day and would be so excited that I couldn't sleep then. Wow, that hasn't happened to me in ages.
I also noticed my ticker is at zero so I get to say Houston, we have lift-off :)
Have a wonderful day, Cali, & take a nap if you can!
Thank you Patti!
I'll probably take a nap once I've visited the doctor's and obtained the prescriptions. Right now I'm so wound up between excitement and anxiety that it's almost funny.
Cali
Got some positive feedback at work today, which is always surprising, I don't feel I'm anything special when it comes to job performance (I'm a Web Designer btw), apparently I'm better than I think I am at my job.
I was able to wear a bra under my guy clothes this evening, which makes me feel a bit more like myself/helps with dysphoria
:eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance:
1 year and 1 day on hormones [emoji56] and 6 month full time...
Congrats Sarah. You are closely behind me. Given a little mor time and you will probably pass me .
I missed a game when it was released, but was able to get it on eBay. As much as I despise eBay, for the rare stuff, it does work!
Bari Jo
Quote from: Cali on January 04, 2018, 05:59:49 PM
:eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance:
Awesome, enjoy. I am sooo pleased for you.
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What made me happy today?[emoji848]
- knowing I've started my journey-
-Being able to come here and read the words of wisdom from you fine ladies
- Set up a meeting for today to have a chat with a woman who transitioned at my work recently, so I know what to expect.
It's a good day so far and it's only 6am. [emoji1380]
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I had to go to several stores today and got gendered correctly at all of them, despite my 4-day beard growth for electrolysis.
Spoke to the lady in local store to night and was told looking good , are you wearing makeup?? told her it was moisturiser with foundation, yes she said she had some for Christmas. She also had this chest infection, bet that's where I got it!!!
No words, just had this made and I'm happy.
Bari Jo
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My just started dreadlocks survived the first wash! And they looked freaking amazing this morning!
Of course I had to ruin them by wearing a hat because it was -8 this morning.
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Congratulations! It is these little things which bring the most joy.
Hugs
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 05, 2018, 07:30:34 PM
No words, just had this made and I'm happy.
Bari Jo
Quote from: sarah1972 on January 05, 2018, 08:22:28 PM
Congratulations! It is these little things which bring the most joy.
Hugs
Yeah, little things like this make my day. I'll overlook that it's not centered even:)
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 05, 2018, 07:30:34 PM
No words, just had this made and I'm happy.
Bari Jo
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I like that! I think that looks amazing, and having your name on it is even better!
It's better than mine:
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First day on the job, only 3 he's all day long; everyone else got it right, without my input to boot!
My gut isn't the first thing I see when I look down.
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I had a fantastic day. I'm now living in girl mode basically most of the time, only putting on the boy costume when I have to go into work physically. When I started doing this, I stopped going to a certain place to eat because they knew me as a regular there, and I knew it would be an awkward conversation.
Today I decided I'm going there - that I didn't start transitioning to keep hiding from the world. I ran some errands, and then went there. Before I went in, I checked out my face in the mirror - and wasn't super happy about what I saw, but decided to go in anyway - they were going to figure out I was trans at some point anyhow.
So I go in, and instead of them starting to make my regular order, I'm greeted with, "Hello, ma'am! What would you like us to make for you?" They probably figured it out once I started talking, but it was such a wonderful feeling to be properly gendered, even with myself not feeling like I looked my best today.
I know it is a really good day if I can look at myself in the mirror at the end of the day and not want to cry. Today, Tori saw a really huge smile looking back at her in that mirror!
Quote from: Sinead on January 04, 2018, 05:48:22 PM
Got some positive feedback at work today, which is always surprising, I don't feel I'm anything special when it comes to job performance (I'm a Web Designer btw), apparently I'm better than I think I am at my job.
I was able to wear a bra under my guy clothes this evening, which makes me feel a bit more like myself/helps with dysphoria
Awesome news!
I used to be a web designer/developer, myself, so I know the feeling.
It's great to be able to use the small things to make ourselves feel a little more whole. :)
Quote from: Sinead on January 04, 2018, 05:48:22 PM
apparently I'm better than I think I am at my job.
I love this feeling. Like you ive felt I'm nothing special, but others tell me different occasionally.
Congrats, great day indeed.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 06, 2018, 01:44:18 AM
I love this feeling. Like you ive felt I'm nothing special, but others tell me different occasionally.
Me too. I feel like I do very little but screw up things all the time, but people keep reminding me how much they depend on me, so I guess I must be doing something right.
Quote from: ToriJo on January 05, 2018, 11:44:58 PMI didn't start transitioning to keep hiding from the world.
...[snip]...
Today, Tori saw a really huge smile looking back at her in that mirror!
Yay! That sounds like an awesome day!
Some friends that could not make it here over the holidays proper were able to make a belated appearance with their newborn! Forgot what it was like to have a several month old in the house :)
Also received two more LIPO batteries for my drone! I might be able to start flying in races someday :D
Back on eating Keto and have lost 20 lbs so far in about a month! Also had two people mention that I looked thinner!
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Quote from: Cheaney on January 06, 2018, 12:34:29 PM
Back on eating Keto and have lost 20 lbs so far in about a month! Also had two people mention that I looked thinner!
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What's Keto?
Keto = ketogenic diet. High-fat, low-carbohydrate.
Thanks
Yep. Keeping carbs to under 50 a day. Don't always succeed but it's been the easiest "diet" I've done.
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Mine is different - I am on the chestro diet. Chocolate and estrogen.
Quote from: Kendra on January 06, 2018, 12:48:02 PM
Mine is different - I am on the chestro diet. Chocolate and estrogen.
Haha that's awesome! I snuck pb/jelly fudge last night!
I still have a couple of months before I start kestro [emoji23]
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Quote from: Kendra on January 06, 2018, 12:48:02 PM
Mine is different - I am on the chestro diet. Chocolate and estrogen.
Now I know why I like you!
Quote from: Kendra on January 06, 2018, 12:48:02 PM
Mine is different - I am on the chestro diet. Chocolate and estrogen.
Ah. Well, I'm on the Kendro diet. You don't even know you're going to get a meal, then you're left hungry for more.
- Stephanie
Quote from: Kendra on January 06, 2018, 12:48:02 PM
Mine is different - I am on the chestro diet. Chocolate and estrogen.
I think that would be one I could stick to for more than 2 days. Can I wash those down with some pinot noir?
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Quote from: TonyaW on January 06, 2018, 05:01:01 PM
I think that would be one I could stick to for more than 2 days. Can I wash those down with some pinot noir?
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Yes. Oh, yes! OMG, YES!!! :D
Quote from: KathyLauren on January 06, 2018, 05:06:53 PM
Yes. Oh, yes! OMG, YES!!! :D
I'll have what she's having.
Stephanie
Here you go, Steph: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=221364.0 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?topic=221364.0)
I sold my scary dangerous treadmill and bought a nice desk peddler thingie. It arrived today and it is just perfect. Playing video games and watching a movie I've burned (according to it) almost a full 1000 calories extra today. I've felt it too in a weird way, where it doesn't feel like I've been exercising in terms of soreness and what not, but I am starving and feel exhausted. No conscious effort required, which is the greatest.
I'm hoping it will also prove to be an effective method to build leaner, more feminine leg muscles than the disproportionately large quads I come by naturally, particularly if at one point I do the amazing cookie only diet to give a chance for the old muscle to be broken down. ............................................... I think tomorrow I start the cookie diet..
Quote from: Roll on January 06, 2018, 11:08:22 PM
I sold my scary dangerous treadmill and bought a nice desk peddler thingie. It arrived today and it is just perfect. Playing video games and watching a movie I've burned (according to it) almost a full 1000 calories extra today. I've felt it too in a weird way, where it doesn't feel like I've been exercising in terms of soreness and what not, but I am starving and feel exhausted. No conscious effort required, which is the greatest.
I'm hoping it will also prove to be an effective method to build leaner, more feminine leg muscles than the disproportionately large quads I come by naturally, particularly if at one point I do the amazing cookie only diet to give a chance for the old muscle to be broken down. ............................................... I think tomorrow I start the cookie diet..
Oh wow that sounds like a great way to exercise! I have to sort of balance a tablet on my cross trainer and hope it doesn't fall off!
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Quote from: MollyPants on January 07, 2018, 03:17:02 AM
Oh wow that sounds like a great way to exercise! I have to sort of balance a tablet on my cross trainer and hope it doesn't fall off!
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I was literally just laid back on a couch peddling for the better part of an hour half asleep. Can't be good for keeping heart rate up for burning calories, but still. ;D
When watching a movie with my sister, she got super irritated and jealous so I had to let her use it for the last half of the movie. ;D At some point I plan to break the space time continuum by peddling from a massage chair while eating Cheetos.
My new relationship with my girlfriend Korey going well so far.She is a great supportive SO and we started dating on the 2nd.Korey is glad I am open to her about my past and see me as female.Also still happy hearing I was approved for the gender corrective surgery last week,two years of my transition has paid off.Korey is going to be there when I have this done.
I am lazy, so I seldom think about my voice when I am at home. Tonight, I was talking to my wife about something inconsequential, and I suddenly realized that I was talking in my girl voice without even thinking about it. ;D
Cooking a bacon sandwich and realising.... i can put an egg on that
Sneaking alittle girls bodyspray on chest so i can sniff it though the day
Quote from: Roll on January 07, 2018, 07:44:41 AM
I was literally just laid back on a couch peddling for the better part of an hour half asleep. Can't be good for keeping heart rate up for burning calories, but still. ;D
When watching a movie with my sister, she got super irritated and jealous so I had to let her use it for the last half of the movie. ;D At some point I plan to break the space time continuum by peddling from a massage chair while eating Cheetos.
Dont get too good at this yout might hit 88 miles an hour
Quote from: Shambles on January 08, 2018, 02:00:57 AM
Dont get too good at this yout might hit 88 miles an hour
Don't be ridiculous! If she goes back in time maybe she can start her transition sooner.
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Good point ! And rock an 80s perm !
Quote from: Shambles on January 08, 2018, 05:29:47 AM
Good point ! And rock an 80s perm !
I'd be a toddler, that might look awkward. ;D
Anywho, for the thread in general... Just worked up the courage to call local dermatologist to ask about cost for laser hair removal of beard area. She said outright they've never done it before and would have to ask. Sooooooooo. Yeah. Was really, really awkward, but I made myself do it and survived. Even had the courage to leave my name for them to get back to me.
I'm not too worried about the facial hair removal people. From what I've looked at as far as advertising here in Vegas, they have women and men's service so some guy calling or coming in isn't a big issue. And that brings to mind a question. If that's so, how many closet cis men get the hair removed?
Ellie, a word of caution for having inexperienced hair removal technicians (inexperienced as in not having worked with a masculine beard) working on your face. It costs lots of money and a skilled technician can do wonders. An inexperienced one will cost just as much and may either be ineffective or possibly damaging. Good luck with your choices. You may want to seek some guidance from local transgender support groups for who has been good and who hasn't.
Quote from: Roll on January 08, 2018, 01:39:54 PM
I'd be a toddler, that might look awkward. ;D
Anywho, for the thread in general... Just worked up the courage to call local dermatologist to ask about cost for laser hair removal of beard area. She said outright they've never done it before and would have to ask. Sooooooooo. Yeah. Was really, really awkward, but I made myself do it and survived. Even had the courage to leave my name for them to get back to me.
Yeah, I felt really awkward making that appointment too! They didn't sound at all confused though, since there are cis men who get lasered just so they don't have to shave anymore. Not every guy likes having facial hair! They knew exactly why I was getting it done though on the last 2 appointments, since it was Sarah that showed up(they were very cool about it, and happily changed my name in the system).
Just did a little searching (I'm sure you already have though), and I don't see any laser specialists much closer to you than Atlanta or Jacksonville. Anne is right, if they haven't worked with facial hair, they may not understand that it's much different than body hair (and much more stubborn!). Maybe they can at least give you a discount for being a
guinea pig test subject? :D
There aren't any local support groups and it is the only place not a 90 minute drive unfortunately. :/ I'm in beggars can't be choosers territory at the moment unfortunately. It is however an actual dermatologist, not just a laser clinic, so that's a plus I guess.
Hi,
You may want to google laser hair removal and your location and see what pops up.
Quote from: Rachel on January 08, 2018, 06:30:38 PM
Hi,
You may want to google laser hair removal and your location and see what pops up.
That was how I found this place. :D Only other one in the area is just IPL. Though if the cost is high (which it will almost certainly be) I probably will just do one session here to get the ball rolling and then groupon something in the larger markets.
Found a £20 note in my coat pocket, good thing it's getting very cold in the UK otherwise I would have never found it... ;D
1 year on my HRT, leads to a blood work for a 1 year thing. Doc says you look great because I lost over 80+lbs from July till today and was very amazed.
My girlfriends daughters like me!! They accept me!
An old friend I played games with for years contacted me after we haven't really spoke in a few years. He asked what's up, I got to answer "Well, I'm transitioning into a woman.". It amused me.
Quote from: Roll on January 09, 2018, 03:33:33 PM
An old friend I played games with for years contacted me after we haven't really spoke in a few years. He asked what's up, I got to answer "Well, I'm transitioning into a woman.". It amused me.
And.................................
Quote from: Cali on January 09, 2018, 03:51:17 PM
And.................................
The "and ..." was depressing (not in a anti trans way, other stuff), so I left it out. ;D Actually gonna mention it in the happy/unhappy thread.
I had a videoconferencing meeting today with another of our partners. the partners meeting room was ran by someone I have worked with extensively, but it had been about a year. he asked us to introduce ourselves around the table since heh not met all of us. I realized half way through it was me he didn't recognize. I looked at the video feed and I didn't recognize myself. I wouldn't say passing, but definitely some female characteristics. That made me super happy today. Now if only I can get my hairline fixed, I may be closer to passing!
Bari Jo
Most if not ALL of works systems are updated with my correct name/gender for the new year.
lots of little things today!
I saw my old boss at work and I told him I was going to look for a new job and I asked if I could use him as a reference and he said yes
I confirmed with my union that I am vested, so I can quit and find a new job and still keep my annuity and pension
I looked at some bills and found that I will have 2 big ones paid off by the middle of next year
I found out that my younger sister isn't moving back until April now, which is a relief because now I don't have to rush to move out of my mom's, I have an extra month or so now to save up for my own apartment
My older sister called me just to shoot the breeze and we ended up talking for 20 minutes. We've gotten closer this year after my grandma passed away and I think this weekend I'm finally going to come out to her
I had electrolysis tonight and she finally started working on my mustache, I can see the progress on it already!
and one of my best friends sent me a pic of the first ultrasound of her baby!!!!
I lost 5 pounds in a 10 days 20 more to go
Quote from: Kc1058 on January 05, 2018, 05:02:00 AM
What made me happy today?[emoji848]
- knowing I've started my journey-
-Being able to come here and read the words of wisdom from you fine ladies
- Set up a meeting for today to have a chat with a woman who transitioned at my work recently, so I know what to expect.
It's a good day so far and it's only 6am. [emoji1380]
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I'm just catching up on this thread. I'm excited that there is so much to be happy about.
When I met with THE other out-transgender woman at my company (she has since retired :( ) she said "it will be the biggest non-event day off your life." She was right.
Only my HR rep and my manager of 10 years stopped by to make sure I was okay. For everyone else (at least on the outside) no change, I was just Denise. It took one full well before the first "... And he..." was uttered. Which to me meant they staying to get comfortable. I was okay with it.
After 10 months, I'm just one of the girls.
I hope your meeting went well.
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I typically go for subtle. I typically go very light on makeup. But recently I found a lip color (Revlon ultra HD matte lipcolor) that I like very much. It just makes the lips more pronounced but not in your face.
Today I saw the color transferred to my drinking glass for the first time.
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I have been wearing lipstick for just under three years now and been out full time for fifteen months and I still find smiles and joy whenever I see the color and shape on a glass or perhaps more so, on a coffee cup. I hope that I never tire of it.
Tia Anne
I love seeing the lipstick on bottles. What I don't like is that since I have to go a bit heavy to cover beard shadow, it smudges on my phone screen if I have to take a call. ;D
I went to court and did not get evicted.
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Quote from: Dee Marshall on January 11, 2018, 07:55:28 PM
I went to court and did not get evicted.
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Dee,
That is good news for sure. I hope your situation doesn't take too long to get resolved in a manner that is good for you. All I can do is send you some virtual hugs ((hug)) ((hug)) ((hugs)) Hang in there girl.
Hugs,
Laurie
Today, 1/12/18 at 8:45 am pst, I was gendered correctly for the first time since coming out to myself. I think it was just being polite, but I'll take it. I was frantically buying nail polish remover pads just before work at a Walgreen's. The cashier told me have a nice day ma'am. I couldn't believe it. I'm not passable yet, but still it made me super happy.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 12, 2018, 11:10:29 AM
Today, 1/12/18 at 8:45 am pst, I was gendered correctly for the first time since coming out to myself. I think it was just being polite, but I'll take it. I was frantically buying nail polish remover pads just before work at a Walgreen's. The cashier told me have a nice day ma'am. I couldn't believe it. I'm not passable yet, but still it made me super happy.
Bari Jo
And lots more to come! I was going to say "get used to it" but I'm not sure that's possible.
Stephanie
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 12, 2018, 11:10:29 AM
Today, 1/12/18 at 8:45 am pst, I was gendered correctly for the first time since coming out to myself. I think it was just being polite, but I'll take it. I was frantically buying nail polish remover pads just before work at a Walgreen's. The cashier told me have a nice day ma'am. I couldn't believe it. I'm not passable yet, but still it made me super happy.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 12, 2018, 11:16:08 AM
And lots more to come! I was going to say "get used to it" but I'm not sure that's possible.
Stephanie
How about .. revel in it every time :)
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 12, 2018, 11:10:29 AM
Today, 1/12/18 at 8:45 am pst, I was gendered correctly for the first time since coming out to myself. I think it was just being polite, but I'll take it. I was frantically buying nail polish remover pads just before work at a Walgreen's. The cashier told me have a nice day ma'am. I couldn't believe it. I'm not passable yet, but still it made me super happy.
Bari Jo
That is awesome!
Bari Jo, that is wonderful! Being correctly gendered. Reading that made my day.
at the hockey game tonight the guy serving beer called me Ma'am. I wasn't even trying to present female. :)
Nice Becca. It feels good doesn't it?
You too Bari Jo.
Both of you enjoy it. I'm sure it will happen again but when is the question. Let hope it begins to happen more frequently.
Hugs,
Laurie
Was trying on a top a Target and when looked at the back I saw a woman's butt in the mirror. Didn't see that anyone else had snuck in to the fitting room so evidence would point to it being mine. Still not sure if I believe it though.
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Looking down at my legs honestly made me happy [emoji4]
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I am have almost graduated to a B cup
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on January 14, 2018, 10:53:53 PM
I am have almost graduated to a B cup
wow,,this post makes me happy, and jealous:)
seriously though, today I made spicy Korean BBQ pork jerky for the first time and it's amazing!
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 14, 2018, 11:00:29 PM
wow,,this post makes me happy, and jealous:)
seriously though, today I made spicy Korean BBQ pork jerky for the first time and it's amazing!
Bari Jo
Thanks I have bigger boobs than a few cis girls where i work they tell me it is not fair, and that sounds yummy you should share
My wife and I both are trans - so we both freak out when we go out, and we don't typically go out that much. And we both expect of even more "sir's" when we do. So we were nervous, but both tried to look our best for a nice meal out together.
In that one meal, I doubled the number of times I've been gendered properly in my life - 3 separate times, by three separate people, we were "you ladies."
It was kind of hard to sit there and act like that was the most natural thing to say to us in the world. But inside we were both celebrating, and the smile on my wife's face made my day (I suspect mine made hers too).
Quote from: ToriJo on January 14, 2018, 11:44:38 PM
My wife and I both are trans - so we both freak out when we go out, and we don't typically go out that much. And we both expect of even more "sir's" when we do. So we were nervous, but both tried to look our best for a nice meal out together.
In that one meal, I doubled the number of times I've been gendered properly in my life - 3 separate times, by three separate people, we were "you ladies."
It was kind of hard to sit there and act like that was the most natural thing to say to us in the world. But inside we were both celebrating, and the smile on my wife's face made my day (I suspect mine made hers too).
Fantastic, what an awesome share. Great courage and keep it going. I am jealous as hell.
It snowed here yesterday, and we had a few cardinal couples flitting about. Sorry for the screen....
(https://i.imgur.com/4KvxMZ2.jpg)
...after getting my first wig nearly almost a week ago I was finally able to take a decent pic of myself wearing it. My wife and I stay with my brother-in-law, her brother, and I'm only "out" to my wife so it's been difficult and tricky trying to find the right moment(s) to even wear my wig. So I was actually happy that I was able to get a nice pic of myself in it ;D
Quote from: ToriJo on January 14, 2018, 11:44:38 PM
My wife and I both are trans - so we both freak out when we go out, and we don't typically go out that much. And we both expect of even more "sir's" when we do. So we were nervous, but both tried to look our best for a nice meal out together.
In that one meal, I doubled the number of times I've been gendered properly in my life - 3 separate times, by three separate people, we were "you ladies."
It was kind of hard to sit there and act like that was the most natural thing to say to us in the world. But inside we were both celebrating, and the smile on my wife's face made my day (I suspect mine made hers too).
That's great. It's definitely smile rising.
All of my social friends are women and I often wonder what they think when it's "...ladies..." I should ask one of them.
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Quote from: Sarah_P on January 15, 2018, 10:00:46 AM
It snowed here yesterday, and we had a few cardinal couples flitting about. Sorry for the screen....
(https://i.imgur.com/4KvxMZ2.jpg)
That is beautiful I love cardinals
Quote from: Sarah_P on January 15, 2018, 10:00:46 AM
It snowed here yesterday, and we had a few cardinal couples flitting about. Sorry for the screen....
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I'm obsessed with cardinals. Pretttttttttty.
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on January 15, 2018, 10:48:20 AM
That is beautiful I love cardinals
Quote from: Roll on January 15, 2018, 10:49:18 AM
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I'm obsessed with cardinals. Pretttttttttty.
They're so pretty under normal circumstances, but against the white snow they're gorgeous!
got a job offer today. i'm moving to D.C.!
I've been working on a whole victorian theme for my gallery and I'm getting down to the final bits. I put in fabric behind my the bar today. one of these days I would like to host ladies night here. the dog is mine though, no tucking him in your purse. doesn't this space make you happy too?
Bari Jo
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/06gc2quk37necfu/IMAG3058.jpg?raw=1)
Quote from: Becca Kay on January 15, 2018, 09:18:54 PM
got a job offer today. i'm moving to D.C.!
That's great! Can you fill in some details?
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Yeah! Welcome to crazy D.C.!
Let me know, I may be able to give you a few hints for TG related services :-) (I live in the suburbs of D.C.)
Quote from: Becca Kay on January 15, 2018, 09:18:54 PM
got a job offer today. i'm moving to D.C.!
Had a lovely lunch with Megan. :)
It looks real nice Bari Jo. Nice work. Ladies night huh?
Sarah you live near DC and didn't speak up when I was out there? Well! I'm going to remember that you know?
Quote from: Laurie on January 15, 2018, 09:52:09 PM
It looks real nice Bari Jo. Nice work. Ladies night huh?
Yeah, kind of my own little support group, maybe a knitting circle.
Bari Jo
Knit one, pearl two, knit one, ,pearl... dang it, I dropped a stitch 2 rows back. mutter mutter
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 15, 2018, 09:57:51 PM
Yeah, kind of my own little support group, maybe a knitting circle.
Bari Jo
Knitting sounds sooooooooooooo old fashion, how about a crap game?
Quote from: Becca Kay on January 15, 2018, 09:18:54 PM
got a job offer today. i'm moving to D.C.!
Congratulations!!!!
Quote from: Cali on January 15, 2018, 10:02:50 PM
Knitting sounds sooooooooooooo old fashion, how about a crap game?
I'm an old fashioned gal, but there will be wine:)
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 15, 2018, 09:42:54 PM
I've been working on a whole victorian theme for my gallery and I'm getting down to the final bits. I put in fabric behind my the bar today. one of these days I would like to host ladies night here. the dog is mine though, no tucking him in your purse. doesn't this space make you happy too?
Bari Jo
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/06gc2quk37necfu/IMAG3058.jpg?raw=1)
I love it! He looks a touch big for my purse....and mine would hate me for bringing another puppy home, so he's safe from me.
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 15, 2018, 10:12:40 PM
I'm an old fashioned gal, but there will be wine:)
Bari Jo
Only allowed wine if my girlfriend is there.....and we have a designated driver. One glass and this girl is a bit.....giggly, tipsy, or free from restraint. I'm apparently pretty funny after 2 glasses.
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 15, 2018, 09:42:54 PM
I've been working on a whole victorian theme for my gallery and I'm getting down to the final bits. I put in fabric behind my the bar today. one of these days I would like to host ladies night here. the dog is mine though, no tucking him in your purse. doesn't this space make you happy too?
Very cool!
Hi Fanta! Maggie sends a tail wag your way!
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 15, 2018, 09:42:54 PM
I've been working on a whole victorian theme for my gallery and I'm getting down to the final bits. I put in fabric behind my the bar today. one of these days I would like to host ladies night here. the dog is mine though, no tucking him in your purse. doesn't this space make you happy too?
Bari Jo
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/06gc2quk37necfu/IMAG3058.jpg?raw=1)
Very nice!
Just one question... Are those white squares the surface of the death star next to train tracks?
Quote from: Roll on January 16, 2018, 12:43:34 AM
Very nice!
Just one question... Are those white squares the surface of the death star next to train tracks?
Hah, we do have a nerd in the audiencw:). Yes, yes the are!
Bari Jo
Had the most amazing girls night in with my partner and her friend. We did our make up drank far too much wine and danced all night :)
My partner's friend was just so supportive which really make such a huge difference and there wasn't any awkwardness!
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Quote from: MollyPants on January 16, 2018, 06:09:07 AM
Had the most amazing girls night in with my partner and her friend. We did our make up drank far too much wine and danced all night :)
My partner's friend was just so supportive which really make such a huge difference and there wasn't any awkwardness!
That's a blast, isn't it? Hope to do that this coming weekend.
Today is day number 317 (calendar days) since Denise went to work. Today marks the first day I actually wore a dress to work! It's a sweater dress the I picked up on Friday ($34). It fits like a nice glove! Let's see if anyone says anything. (I doubt it.)
Quote from: Denise on January 16, 2018, 08:05:34 AM
That's a blast, isn't it? Hope to do that this coming weekend.
Today is day number 317 (calendar days) since Denise went to work. Today marks the first day I actually wore a dress to work! It's a sweater dress the I picked up on Friday ($34). It fits like a nice glove! Let's see if anyone says anything. (I doubt it.)
I hope my figure is at least half as awesome as your's!
Just came out to the rest of my coworkers today (there are only 2 other than the 2 directors who already knew), and they both basically said 'It's about time!' :D Big hugs all around.
Doc added Finateride to the Evorel patch and Decapeptyl injections so I think I'm on full whack meds now. Feeling really in a nice place, thinking extremely clearly and so very relaxed about everything. Just waiting now...
Oh and lost another 2 Lb as well..
Hugz
Katie :angel: :angel: :angel: >:-) :angel: :angel:
I got a call during breakfast, a woman I met a while ago wanted me to join her for coffee, this was the first time we had a chance to meet and talk just the two of us. We met at a local coffee shop and talked for an hour and a half. We talked life stuff, family, kids, spiritual stuff, some really deep heart stuff that had both of us crying from time to time. I can't think of a more validating experience in being a woman, not a trans woman, just a woman.......and I loved it!
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on January 16, 2018, 03:43:09 PM
I got a call during breakfast, a woman I met a while ago wanted me to join her for coffee, this was the first time we had a chance to meet and talk just the two of us. We met at a local coffee shop and talked for an hour and a half. We talked life stuff, family, kids, spiritual stuff, some really deep heart stuff that had both of us crying from time to time. I can't think of a more validating experience in being a woman, not a trans woman, just a woman.......and I loved it!
Tia Anne
Lovely
Yesterday after a therapy session with my spouse where it came out that she announced I'm her best friend but plans to leave after I'm fully transitioned, I took my daughter out and we both got our ears pierced, which was great though hurts a bit today. Only a few comments at work today, all which were good. I also started the process to change my name.
I feel like just knowing where she's at took a huge weight off my shoulders and allows me to move forward without the doubt I was having. The doubts were 100% around the relationship, but I had increasingly been questioning if I even wanted to be in this relationship with another woman. Guess that's settled, atleast for now. She committed to sticking around at least a year. We shall see.
Also put the deposit down with facial team, so ffs on 9/12 and at my wife's suggestion, the two of us are using our dvc points for a 4 day holiday to Disneyland Paris and some sight seeing the week before ffs. Haven't been to Paris since I was an exchange in Vitry Sur Seine in 93.
And now for the drum roll, full time outside of work within the next 30 days. Yikes. Basically there now but really need to get some experience with applying makeup and voice between now and then. And help my son come up with something better in public to call me than DAD!!!! It's getting weird.
Bought my first nice purse as well, omg yesterday really was a huge day! So happy. (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/daa6c3895a3a1134ebd283200485176d.jpg)
After yesterday's laser, eyebrow and ear piercing sessions. Sorry for the offensively make up free pic. Can't wait for the hair to be gone, my biggest dysphoria lately. (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/13bd66fc68be77c8a3550be2176b3683.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/486c9788ee17d36698f7677df950cc71.jpg)
Quote from: jill610 on January 16, 2018, 03:50:17 PM
Yesterday after a therapy session with my spouse where it came out that she announced I'm her best friend but plans to leave after I'm fully transitioned, I took my daughter out and we both got our ears pierced, which was great though hurts a bit today. Only a few comments at work today, all which were good. I also started the process to change my name.
I feel like just knowing where she's at took a huge weight off my shoulders and allows me to move forward without the doubt I was having. The doubts were 100% around the relationship, but I had increasingly been questioning if I even wanted to be in this relationship with another woman. Guess that's settled, atleast for now. She committed to sticking around at least a year. We shall see.
Also put the deposit down with facial team, so ffs on 9/12 and at my wife's suggestion, the two of us are using our dvc points for a 4 day holiday to Disneyland Paris and some sight seeing the week before ffs. Haven't been to Paris since I was an exchange in Vitry Sur Seine in 93.
And now for the drum roll, full time outside of work within the next 30 days. Yikes. Basically there now but really need to get some experience with applying makeup and voice between now and then. And help my son come up with something better in public to call me than DAD!!!! It's getting weird.
Bought my first nice purse as well, omg yesterday really was a huge day! So happy. (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/daa6c3895a3a1134ebd283200485176d.jpg)
After yesterday's laser, eyebrow and ear piercing sessions. Sorry for the offensively make up free pic. Can't wait for the hair to be gone, my biggest dysphoria lately. (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/13bd66fc68be77c8a3550be2176b3683.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180116/486c9788ee17d36698f7677df950cc71.jpg)
My son calls me "Dee" which IS my nickname but for him stands for "dad". I even explain that to people. I tell them that, as a child of two women, that's the role I had in his life. (He's 33.)
The bag is great. Darth never looked better!
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Quote from: Anne Blake on January 16, 2018, 03:43:09 PM
I got a call during breakfast, a woman I met a while ago wanted me to join her for coffee, this was the first time we had a chance to meet and talk just the two of us. We met at a local coffee shop and talked for an hour and a half. We talked life stuff, family, kids, spiritual stuff, some really deep heart stuff that had both of us crying from time to time. I can't think of a more validating experience in being a woman, not a trans woman, just a woman.......and I loved it!
Tia Anne
That's wonderful! :) :)
Finished unpacking for my 6 week work trip. Counted 15 pair of shoes and felt great just looking at them!
I finally went out in public as me (you know how difficult it can be, it was tough). I went to a trans group meeting, which was about 35-40 minutes away. I spent a while with other trans women and it was awesome! When I returned home, my wife said a disparaging remark, but I didn't care and didn't change because I wanted to be me. I wasn't expecting some old friends to drop by and I was taken by surprise. It was the first time any of my friends had seen me in person that way. I quickly got over it because they didn't make it awkward and talked to me as normal and as if nothing had ever changed. I almost didn't want to take off my wig and clean off my makeup that night (I was literally willing to sleep that way!). Next day, I just put on some BB cream and used my eyebrow pencil, and some lip balm. They came over again and had dinner. It's going to be so nice to have friends who live near me. :)
Quote from: Cali on January 16, 2018, 12:33:53 PM
I hope my figure is at least half as awesome as your's!
Cali, thanks.
Update. Not only did people notice but the honest compliments were so uplifting.
One #$_&&_$##@* issue: I lost one earring!!! Damnit, they were one of my favorite. I think I lost it on the train-it's gone! (Insert very sad face here)
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Quote from: Denise on January 17, 2018, 01:12:15 PM
Cali, thanks.
Update. Not only did people notice but the honest compliments were so uplifting.
One #$_&&_$##@* issue: I lost one earring!!! Damnit, they were one of my favorite. I think I lost it on the train-it's gone! (Insert very sad face here)
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Totally on the earring. Lose them around the house all the time, especially the hook types - haven't gotten to using a locking piece on them yet. Or those locking pieces that have a larger base and bang into other earrings.
Quote from: Denise on January 17, 2018, 01:12:15 PM
Cali, thanks.
Update. Not only did people notice but the honest compliments were so uplifting.
Awesome dress, looks great on you. I haven't the nerve to wear a dress at work, some day maybe. I have to be comfortable myself first.
I received my 1st, unsolicited, from a co-worker with no vested interest in just making me feel good, comment of "You look beautiful" .. No camera, Laurie, so you don't get to see the smile that it gave to me. Happy? Oh Yah!
Quote from: Faith on January 17, 2018, 01:19:03 PM
I received my 1st, unsolicited, from a co-worker with no vested interest in just making me feel good, comment of "You look beautiful" .. No camera, Laurie, so you don't get to see the smile that it gave to me. Happy? Oh Yah!
Ha! Told ya so! You guys heard me, right? Didn't believe me, did ya? I already said that! So there! 🤩
Stephanie
Quote from: Faith on January 17, 2018, 01:19:03 PM
I received my 1st, unsolicited, from a co-worker with no vested interest in just making me feel good, comment of "You look beautiful" .. No camera, Laurie, so you don't get to see the smile that it gave to me. Happy? Oh Yah!
Faith, if you don't watch out that kind of smile gets stuck on your face and you just can't get rid of it.
Enjoy,
Tia Anne
Quote from: Faith on January 17, 2018, 01:19:03 PM
I received my 1st, unsolicited, from a co-worker with no vested interest in just making me feel good, comment of "You look beautiful" .. No camera, Laurie, so you don't get to see the smile that it gave to me. Happy? Oh Yah!
There ya go! It's not just us messing with you. It's the truth.
I'm happy that the meteor that caused the 2.0 mag earthquake in Michigan didn't hit near me :)
Fitting back into my skinny jeans!!!!!
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Quote from: MollyPants on January 17, 2018, 03:31:31 PM
Fitting back into my skinny jeans!!!!!
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Yay, I love that feeling! Love your pict too mollypants.
Bari Jo
Quote from: KathyLauren on January 17, 2018, 02:10:40 PM
There ya go! It's not just us messing with you. It's the truth.
Y'all are always messing with people
Quote from: Anne Blake on January 17, 2018, 01:46:37 PM
Faith, if you don't watch out that kind of smile gets stuck on your face and you just can't get rid of it.
Enjoy,
Tia Anne
That's a scary thought .....
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 17, 2018, 01:31:03 PM
Ha! Told ya so! You guys heard me, right? Didn't believe me, did ya? I already said that! So there!
Stephanie
did any of you hear a squeak?
Quote from: MollyPants on January 17, 2018, 03:31:31 PM
Fitting back into my skinny jeans!!!!!
skinny jeans .. FTW!!
I reached into my purse and found a concealer stick had opened and coated basically everything in the bag. I could have been mad, embarrassed, you name it. Instead it was a delightfully ladylike problem to have:)
Bari Jo
So I worked up the courage to finally ask my my sister outright if she wanted to see a picture of myself fully dressed. I was worried it would be uncomfortable for her, but she thought it was uncomfortable for me which is why I hadn't before then. :D Her response: "Awwww, you're so cute!" (Showed her my profile pic, it was the only one I had on my phone.)
Quote from: Roll on January 17, 2018, 10:11:13 PM
So I worked up the courage to finally ask my my sister outright if she wanted to see a picture of myself fully dressed. I was worried it would be uncomfortable for her, but she thought it was uncomfortable for me which is why I hadn't before then. :D Her response: "Awwww, you're so cute!" (Showed her my profile pic, it was the only one I had on my phone.)
That's nice!
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 17, 2018, 08:02:31 PM
I reached into my purse and found a concealer stick had opened and coated basically everything in the bag. I could have been mad, embarrassed, you name it. Instead it was a delightfully ladylike problem to have[emoji4]
Since I got my hair styled, I have this strand that falls across my eyes. It drives my wife crazy and she thinks it's ridiculous that I don't do something about it, but it's such a quintessentially feminine movement to brush it out of my eyes, I just continue to delight in it. Though if I'm really trying to get some work done, I'll use a barrette to hold it up, which I'm told is cute, too. So either way it's a win. [emoji1]
Stephanie
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 17, 2018, 08:02:31 PM
I reached into my purse and found a concealer stick had opened and coated basically everything in the bag. I could have been mad, embarrassed, you name it. Instead it was a delightfully ladylike problem to have:)
Bari Jo
Love it. [emoji3][emoji3]
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Quote from: Roll on January 17, 2018, 10:11:13 PM
So I worked up the courage to finally ask my my sister outright if she wanted to see a picture of myself fully dressed. I was worried it would be uncomfortable for her, but she thought it was uncomfortable for me which is why I hadn't before then. :D Her response: "Awwww, you're so cute!" (Showed her my profile pic, it was the only one I had on my phone.)
Awesome Roll. A fantastic milestone.
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I was asked to speak at my union rally C.U.P.E at Queen Park in Toronto About Bill 33 (time to care act) which requires 4 hours of standard care for residents in long term care home. I have done a lot of work on this project. I am honored but nerves as hell it is on thing speaking in front of a few hundred people but this is thousands and being on t.v. Is crapping myself now.Why did I say yes. Still working on my voice. But I am happy about it.
Quote from: Roll on January 17, 2018, 10:11:13 PM
So I worked up the courage to finally ask my my sister outright if she wanted to see a picture of myself fully dressed. I was worried it would be uncomfortable for her, but she thought it was uncomfortable for me which is why I hadn't before then. :D Her response: "Awwww, you're so cute!" (Showed her my profile pic, it was the only one I had on my phone.)
well you do look cute
Went out last night with a girlfriend for makeup lessons at Ulta. My wallet is lighter but I feel so much more confident.
Quote from: jill610 on January 18, 2018, 06:02:24 AM
Went out last night with a girlfriend for makeup lessons at Ulta. My wallet is lighter but I feel so much more confident.
Coworkers took me to sophora my first day for a makeover. It was nerve-wracking! Scared? No, just awkward for not knowing what to do, say, act,..... And yes the purse was heavier but the wallet was a lot lighter.
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Quote from: Denise on January 18, 2018, 06:56:44 AM
Coworkers took me to sophora my first day for a makeover. It was nerve-wracking! Scared? No, just awkward for not knowing what to do, say, act,..... And yes the purse was heavier but the wallet was a lot lighter.
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I was chatting with one of the ladies that works there and she described it as Home Depot for women. Oh my God that is so true, I felt so lost but brought a girlfriend who was amazing. We went out for dinner afterwards and it's amazing the confident boost I felt from just a little bit of makeup. It's nice to feel pretty once in a while!
Quote from: SiobhánF on January 17, 2018, 03:42:43 AM
I finally went out in public as me (you know how difficult it can be, it was tough). I went to a trans group meeting, which was about 35-40 minutes away. I spent a while with other trans women and it was awesome!
WOW! That's really awesome in itself!
QuoteI wasn't expecting some old friends to drop by and I was taken by surprise. It was the first time any of my friends had seen me in person that way. I quickly got over it because they didn't make it awkward and talked to me as normal and as if nothing had ever changed.
Even more wow! I can't imagine being brave enough for my friends to have seen me on my first time out. That's awesome strength!
Told a couple of my housemates about this side of me and had my first appointment to get this pesky facial hair lasered off 😁 all in all today has felt like some progress being made
My therapist told me she would support me 100% for any physical transition steps I choose to take.
Quote from: raeanne on January 19, 2018, 07:50:08 AM
My therapist told me she would support me 100% for any physical transition steps I choose to take.
That's awesome, good for you.
Here's my 'happy of the day'. I was going to post it in my progress thread.
Lady ("D") I talk to here at work (very supportive, constructive critiques) mentioned another woman ("K") had seen me walking across the parking lot and thought, "Who is that woman? She has a nice walk" and then got closer and realized it was me. "D" told "K" that she should have told me. "K" said she didn't want to embarrass me.
I'm like, please tell me, I have a lot to learn.
"D" replied that I'm doing great in presentation and not to worry so much. :)
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on January 18, 2018, 05:07:36 AM
I was asked to speak at my union rally C.U.P.E at Queen Park in Toronto About Bill 33 (time to care act) which requires 4 hours of standard care for residents in long term care home. I have done a lot of work on this project. I am honored but nerves as hell it is on thing speaking in front of a few hundred people but this is thousands and being on t.v. Is crapping myself now.Why did I say yes. Still working on my voice. But I am happy about it.
I hope it goes (went?) well for you today! Good for you for speaking out!
Today I am happy to be home and two weeks post GCS. It is so odd to have something taken away to make me feel complete.
I found out my insurance covers gcs and ba. I had no idea! Now to plan:)
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 19, 2018, 07:22:34 PM
I found out my insurance covers gcs and ba. I had no idea! Now to plan:)
Bari Jo
That's incredible!
Let's see, great day and it's not even over yet.
Started out using my daughter's car to go K-Mart because two of their stores are closing. Bought some fem clothing; jeans, blouses, and shoes. As I checked out I got 40 bucks cash back.
Then I went to my post office box and there was a certificate for $5.00 free slots at a local gambling place. Then I went to the gambling place and left with 85 dollars (won 60) and arrived home.
My daughter, Katie, easier than saying daughter all the time, was still asleep (she works two jobs) so I went back to the gambling place "Dotty's" and won another $40.00. When home and Katie was ready to go to work so I went with her because I needed to go to Lowe's and get some gardening stuff.
After dropping her off I stopped at another local casino, Santa Fe Station and lost 20 and despite my better judgement put another five bucks in the Buffalo slot machine and ended up winning $100.00. However, the demon got me and I ended up leaving with $45.00, so I was twenty ahead.
Went to Lowe's and purchased the items I needed and left. Then went to K-Mart again and they have a gambling den in their store (all stores have them here). I ended up leaving with 80 dollars so I won another 60.00.
So, I then went to Albertson's and bought some groceries. I ended up paying $63.00 and that was only 37% of the total bill. So between gambling and groceries, I've kinda cleared close to $300.00 today.
And there's still six hours left in today :)
Quote from: Roll on January 19, 2018, 07:53:50 PM
That's incredible!
Yeah, apparently a law went into effect this year that gcs and ba is a requirement for insurance on CA. To everyone should move here:)
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 19, 2018, 08:26:17 PM
Yeah, apparently a law went into effect this year that gcs and ba is a requirement for insurance on CA. To everyone should move here:)
Bari Jo
LOL, was born and raised in the Golden State and lived there until I couldn't tolerate the taxes and BS.
Just sitting here in fairly neutral clothes(well, jeans and a black cold shoulder top, nothing pink or frilly), no makeup but a bit of lipstick, and without effort I felt perfectly feminine. Despite the slightly visible regrowing chest hair, and beard shadow. Normally I don't feel this way unless I'm fully done up with not a touch of male hair showing. Maybe it's the HRT, maybe not. Whatever the reason, it's a damn good feeling.
Quote from: p on January 19, 2018, 12:29:13 PM
I hope it goes (went?) well for you today! Good for you for speaking out!
Thank you and it is February 27 it is happening on so I have some time to work on stuff
Quote from: Roll on January 19, 2018, 10:39:30 PM
Just sitting here in fairly neutral clothes(well, jeans and a black cold shoulder top, nothing pink or frilly), no makeup but a bit of lipstick, and without effort I felt perfectly feminine. Despite the slightly visible regrowing chest hair, and beard shadow. Normally I don't feel this way unless I'm fully done up with not a touch of male hair showing. Maybe it's the HRT, maybe not. Whatever the reason, it's a damn good feeling.
I can understand that. Just being around the house in even jeans and a top with my earrings in I feel really relaxed. Like it's always suppose to have been this way. Then for whatever reason I have to leave my sanctuary and get into boy mode which sucks.
Quote from: Roll on January 19, 2018, 10:39:30 PM
Whatever the reason, it's a damn good feeling.
Roll, reading your post makes me feel great. A reminder the mind is a foundation of transition.
As for what makes me happy today. Although I'm still on bed rest until later today, I have discovered I can carefully move my legs around with relatively little pain in the surgical area less than 48 hours after GCS. And I am no longer on any pain meds - not even an aspirin.
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 19, 2018, 07:22:34 PM
I found out my insurance covers gcs and ba. I had no idea! Now to plan:)
If they cover BA, they might cover other things like hair removal and voice lessons if prescribed by your doctor.
Mud-masks with my love! Very happy :)
(https://imgur.com/a/fjpfV)
I went to the women's march in my town today. There was some drama around it because a lot of women were under the impression that they discriminate against trans women and women of color but it was absolutely not the case, they had black lives matter and trans lives matter chants and I made sure to record footage of both of them!
I enjoyed group last night. For some reason a couple people start talking politics at this group every time. I usually just shut down when this happens. Well, last night I spoke up, respectfully. Basically asking if we can get back to trans related stuff and leave politics aside. I could tell they were judging me like I was one of 'them' in their eye. I quickly told the group, I don't engage in political discussions in polite groups. I find it distasteful. We got back to trans discussions and it turned out to be a better group meeting because of it
Bari Jo
Today one of the new staff we have saw a picture of me from 6 years ago and they did not recognize it was me ya!
Finally got my ears pierced today!!! Ended up going with ruby, since that's my birthstone. Ended up spending WAY more than I intended, both on the starters and because Claire's had an incredible buy 3 get 3 sale, plus an extra 20% off for having my ears pierced. I've not got a ton of earrings that I can wear... eventually. Plus a new necklace, and a few things my friend picked out for herself (it was HER birthday, after all ;D ).
Being able to stand up and take a shower completely on my own after GCS (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,230213.40.html). Wow that felt great.
And reading about my mud-masked marching pierced-ear sisters asserting ourselves at meetings and at work makes me happy.
Quote from: Kendra on January 21, 2018, 05:27:16 AM
Being able to stand up and take a shower completely on my own after GCS (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,230213.40.html). Wow that felt great.
And reading about my mud-masked marching pierced-ear sisters asserting ourselves at meetings and at work makes me happy.
Yay for standing! [emoji4]
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Quote from: Kendra on January 21, 2018, 05:27:16 AM
Being able to stand up and take a shower completely on my own after GCS (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,230213.40.html). Wow that felt great.
And reading about my mud-masked marching pierced-ear sisters asserting ourselves at meetings and at work makes me happy.
Congrats Kendra! I remember that my first shower sure felt great! All the Best in your recovery!
I had a very nice phone call with my mom today. We related well as mother and daughter, and discussed things like style, presenting and my love life. By the end of the call she told me she loves me, and I told her I love her too. Pre hrt, I never said that, it was always a me, too, or talk with you later. She thanked me, andI think both of us teared up a little.
Bari Jo
I came out via email to a friend about a week ago. I got no response, so I thought, "Well, ugh, but you can't win them all." I thought he just decided to cut off contact and I was actually pretty sad because I was sure he'd be supportive.
Today, I check my email, and get a response where the first line was, "Hi, <feminine name>! I'm so happy for you!" He just was slow responding. Because the support was, at this point, unexpected, it was just wonderful!
I had a pinup photo shoot! It was one of the most affirming things I have ever done!
(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4746/28058044749_622c229b5e_b.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe)IMG_7793 (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe) by Michaela Waltz (https://www.flickr.com/photos/100114565@N04/), on Flickr
Quote from: Yuusui on January 22, 2018, 10:09:37 AM
I had a pinup photo shoot! It was one of the most affirming things I have ever done!
(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4746/28058044749_622c229b5e_b.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe)IMG_7793 (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe) by Michaela Waltz (https://www.flickr.com/photos/100114565@N04/), on Flickr
Beautiful!
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Quote from: Yuusui on January 22, 2018, 10:09:37 AM
I had a pinup photo shoot! It was one of the most affirming things I have ever done!
(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4746/28058044749_622c229b5e_b.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe)IMG_7793 (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe) by Michaela Waltz (https://www.flickr.com/photos/100114565@N04/), on Flickr
That must have been fun!! You look great!
Quote from: Yuusui on January 22, 2018, 10:09:37 AM
I had a pinup photo shoot! It was one of the most affirming things I have ever done!
(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4746/28058044749_622c229b5e_b.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe)IMG_7793 (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe) by Michaela Waltz (https://www.flickr.com/photos/100114565@N04/), on Flickr
What are all those alien looking plants you have?
Quote from: Yuusui on January 22, 2018, 10:09:37 AM
I had a pinup photo shoot! It was one of the most affirming things I have ever done!
(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4746/28058044749_622c229b5e_b.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe)IMG_7793 (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe) by Michaela Waltz (https://www.flickr.com/photos/100114565@N04/), on Flickr
Wow, you are beautiful. I'm putting this kind of shoot on my bucket list now!
Bari Jo
This is so cool! What an idea - and you look great!
Quote from: Kendra on January 22, 2018, 12:37:36 PM
This is so cool! What an idea - and you look great!
Personally, aaaaah, I think the hemline was way too high for the early 60's! :-*
And five seconds after saving this I came up with the thought "How did I know it was the early 60's????"
I talked to my therapist for a minute today, she called to see if we could bump my next session up a couple hours. While we were on the phone she said that my voice sounded different, she said it was more feminine! I haven't seen her since early November, this made me so happy!
Quote from: Maddie86 on January 22, 2018, 05:32:49 PM
I talked to my therapist for a minute today, she called to see if we could bump my next session up a couple hours. While we were on the phone she said that my voice sounded different, she said it was more feminine! I haven't seen her since early November, this made me so happy!
You Lucky Dawgette!!!!!!
Quote from: Yuusui on January 22, 2018, 10:09:37 AM
I had a pinup photo shoot! It was one of the most affirming things I have ever done!
(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4746/28058044749_622c229b5e_b.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe)IMG_7793 (https://flic.kr/p/JKoPbe) by Michaela Waltz (https://www.flickr.com/photos/100114565@N04/), on Flickr
... Stop. Please. My heart can't take much more of this. You are stunning! :-*
Quote from: Maddie86 on January 22, 2018, 05:32:49 PM
I talked to my therapist for a minute today, she called to see if we could bump my next session up a couple hours. While we were on the phone she said that my voice sounded different, she said it was more feminine! I haven't seen her since early November, this made me so happy!
I haven't seen my therapist since early November, too! I really need to get in to see her soon.
It may seem odd that I'm posting here, since I just posted something in the "unhappy today" thread; but this was something good that happened. Technically, it happened yesterday; but hopefully that's OK.
I'm 60 years old and don't pass, and I've struggled with makeup and my wig. My presentation has been very feminized male for some time now, and with my name change being imminent I see myself going full-time. I sort of see myself as full-time now; I can't present female at work, however. I present female when I go shopping or go out socially.
There's a local transfeminine support group that meets once a month. I went to a few meetings soon after coming out, but then stopped because it was difficult to attend with my work schedule. This month, however, I needed some input related to the exigencies of my name change; so, I showed up. I went in total girl mode. Two things happened.
The first happened at the end of the meeting. The group coordinator told me as we were leaving that I looked fantastic and that she nearly hadn't recognized me. That was so good to hear, after my struggles with my presentation. The second happened at home, as I was getting ready to leave. I looked in the mirror and was taken aback by my own reflection – not because I saw a woman, but because of the woman I saw. This person was powerful – intelligent, deep, piercing in her gaze. I saw someone looking back at me that I barely know. It brings me to tears to think that this is really me, the real me. She has been buried all my life. Perhaps that sounds sad; but I am thrilled every time I see her – I think it's twice now – because I know it's me.
Quote from: AnnMarie2017 on January 23, 2018, 01:10:14 AM
It may seem odd that I'm posting here, since I just posted something in the "unhappy today" thread; but this was something good that happened. Technically, it happened yesterday; but hopefully that's OK.
I'm 60 years old and don't pass, and I've struggled with makeup and my wig. My presentation has been very feminized male for some time now, and with my name change being imminent I see myself going full-time. I sort of see myself as full-time now; I can't present female at work, however. I present female when I go shopping or go out socially.
There's a local transfeminine support group that meets once a month. I went to a few meetings soon after coming out, but then stopped because it was difficult to attend with my work schedule. This month, however, I needed some input related to the exigencies of my name change; so, I showed up. I went in total girl mode. Two things happened.
The first happened at the end of the meeting. The group coordinator told me as we were leaving that I looked fantastic and that she nearly hadn't recognized me. That was so good to hear, after my struggles with my presentation. The second happened at home, as I was getting ready to leave. I looked in the mirror and was taken aback by my own reflection – not because I saw a woman, but because of the woman I saw. This person was powerful – intelligent, deep, piercing in her gaze. I saw someone looking back at me that I barely know. It brings me to tears to think that this is really me, the real me. She has been buried all my life. Perhaps that sounds sad; but I am thrilled every time I see her – I think it's twice now – because I know it's me.
Awesome AnnMarie, stand tall and be counted. Great courage and self reckoning.
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Changes have been picking up speed for me lately and I decided that I needed to speed up my name change. I sent off my request for an FBI background report in mid-November and had not heard anything. I just could not wait any longer. Saturday morning I went to an FBI 'channeler' in Denver who does all of the fingerprinting and paperwork electronically. Early this morning I received a note that my FBI background report is in the mail and I should have it in a day or two!
So I know I've mostly been lurking, but it's been a couple good days.
This past weekend we went out (me as Sarah, with my wife and son) for breakfast. Clothing was nothing crazy - jeans, long sleeve shirt and boots - but I felt 100% femme, I'm finally reaching a point of being comfortable in public. My son "daddy"d me a lot, (he's only 6) but it was never an issue - we just had a nice time out.
Today I had my therapist appointment, and in taking advantage of the warm weather (60 degrees in winter?) I opted for a cute knee length dress and red heels, and first thing my therapist said was how nice I looked. I know she's supposed to be supportive, but I'll take every compliment I can get. :-D
And my wife is looking at a therapist that has more experience with the LGBT community. She's had some reservations about the idea of my transitioning, but wants to talk to someone so try and work through it. Even though I'm not sure I'm at a place where I'm ready to transition, she wants to be in a position of supporting me no matter what.
So it's been a really good day.
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I opened up two medical invoices today. One was for an MRI and ultrasound for my voice and the other was for bloodwork. I owe about $30.00 after insurance. I was sweating it when I saw the envelopes. I was so relieved.
I just spoke to our library board about my transition, and they support me 100%. What does this mean? It means that I'm now Sarah.... FULL TIME!!!! FINALLY!!! :eusa_dance:
Tomorrow will be an interesting day at work. I've got a pack of 'Hello, my name is...' tags to wear. ;D
Quote from: Sarah_P on January 23, 2018, 06:40:34 PM
I just spoke to our library board about my transition, and they support me 100%. What does this mean? It means that I'm now Sarah.... FULL TIME!!!! FINALLY!!! :eusa_dance:
Tomorrow will be an interesting day at work. I've got a pack of 'Hello, my name is...' tags to wear. ;D
YAY!!!!! Congratulations! Full time is amazing!
My chest feels like someone has been punching me repeatedly for about a day straight and the bruising is setting in. In other words, boobies.
Also, that's amazing news Sarah!!!!
I was told a very amusing story by one of my closer cousins. Apparently my dad (who is EXTREMELY against my transition and still hasn't talked to me since I came out to him in July) was at a family get together recently and saw cousin #1 showing another cousin a picture of me and she was admiring my hair and such.
So my dad being a nosey horn dog says "Oh she's cute, who is that?"
"Your daughter, Colleen" (my cousin is totally awesome)
Apparently he didn't speak another word the rest of the evening after sulking off. ;D
Roll, the drugs are kicking in, lol. It gets a bit annoying at times, but it's also a nice feeling.
Sarah, awesome news!
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on January 23, 2018, 07:31:30 PM
Roll, the drugs are kicking in, lol. It gets a bit annoying at times, but it's also a nice feeling.
First, that story was amazing! ;D And I had a bit of soreness about a week or two ago, but nothing compared to this. It's actually quite a bit more intense than I was expecting.
Yep you can kiss sleeping on your belly goodbye for a while. Mine seem to go through phases ranging from merely a bit tender to "don't even look at them" sort of sore.
So, today I met my Endo Doctor for the first time and my visit was for GID and HRT thru the VA. We had a nice visit and discussed my situation and I advised her that initially a VA doctor told me the VA didn't do HRT so I obtained them through a GP.
I told her the doses and we discuss monitoring and use of the patch. And I made an appointment with a shrink and also a voice coach.
All in all, a nice day.
BTW, while she was examining me she looked at my bambinos and asked if I had them before HRT. I said no and she responded she didn't really see any breast tissue but the aries and nips were interesting. Kind of made my day.
Yay Sarah awesome. Joining the full time gals.
Ellie - enjoy the novelty and the pain. It is worth it.
Colleen that was sheer poetic justice for your dad. Relish in it.
Cassi - I'm glad to see you getting what you should through the VA.
Congrats and Hugs for all of you girls,
Laurie
Quote from: Laurie on January 23, 2018, 08:23:32 PM
Yay Sarah awesome. Joining the full time gals.
Ellie - enjoy the novelty and the pain. It is worth it.
Colleen that was sheer poetic justice for your dad. Relish in it.
Cassi - I'm glad to see you getting what you should through the VA.
Congrats and Hugs for all of you girls,
Laurie
Thank you Laurie, your referral to the "appropriate" department back in December is what made today possible!
Ellie - YAY!!!! This is one of those few times we can cheer another's pain, and it's happily accepted. :D
Colleen - LOL!
Cassi - YAY!! For you, too!
Thanks ladies!!!
Quote from: Serenation on March 21, 2016, 07:31:46 AM
Finally applied for my F birth certificate today, the staff at the place were nice. Had been procrastinating about doing that for months, feel like a huge weight off.
Also had a jam donut :)
A JAM DONUT, WHAT ARE YOU KRAZY, IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE A BANANA FILLED CREME DONUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote from: Sarah_P on January 23, 2018, 08:53:26 PM
Ellie - YAY!!!! This is one of those few times we can cheer another's pain, and it's happily accepted. :D
Colleen - LOL!
Cassi - YAY!! For you, too!
Thanks ladies!!!
THANK YOU SARAH P
Wearing a bra, lately, and feeling more confident, even when having to be in guy mode. :)
Quote from: Sarah_P on January 23, 2018, 06:40:34 PM
I just spoke to our library board about my transition, and they support me 100%. What does this mean? It means that I'm now Sarah.... FULL TIME!!!! FINALLY!!! :eusa_dance:
Tomorrow will be an interesting day at work. I've got a pack of 'Hello, my name is...' tags to wear. ;D
Awesome girl. [emoji106][emoji106][emoji106]
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Quote from: Colleen_definitely on January 23, 2018, 07:31:30 PM
I was told a very amusing story by one of my closer cousins. Apparently my dad (who is EXTREMELY against my transition and still hasn't talked to me since I came out to him in July) was at a family get together recently and saw cousin #1 showing another cousin a picture of me and she was admiring my hair and such.
So my dad being a nosey horn dog says "Oh she's cute, who is that?"
"Your daughter, Colleen" (my cousin is totally awesome)
Apparently he didn't speak another word the rest of the evening after sulking off. ;D
Roll, the drugs are kicking in, lol. It gets a bit annoying at times, but it's also a nice feeling.
Sarah, awesome news!
Love that story. Fantastic for you and hope moving forward.
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last night really, still happy today. I put this in my progress topic but happy things need spread around :)
After therapy I was directed to the women's restroom. While washing up I saw Faith standing in the mirror.
I have trouble with mirrors and full-length are typically a dysphoric trigger. It was such a powerful moment that I'm still happy from it this morning.
Quote from: Faith on January 24, 2018, 07:01:56 AM
last night really, still happy today. I put this in my progress topic but happy things need spread around :)
After therapy I was directed to the women's restroom. While washing up I saw Faith standing in the mirror.
I have trouble with mirrors and full-length are typically a dysphoric trigger. It was such a powerful moment that I'm still happy from it this morning.
Those mirror moments are wonderful. I still get a kick out of noticing that there is a woman in the mirror. Glad it's happening for you!
Quote from: Faith on January 24, 2018, 07:01:56 AM
last night really, still happy today. I put this in my progress topic but happy things need spread around :)
After therapy I was directed to the women's restroom. While washing up I saw Faith standing in the mirror.
I have trouble with mirrors and full-length are typically a dysphoric trigger. It was such a powerful moment that I'm still happy from it this morning.
Wow, that must feel good. I still have lots of issues with mirrors, pictures, anything where I can see myself. Your moment must be amazing.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 24, 2018, 10:20:03 AM
Wow, that must feel good. I still have lots of issues with mirrors, pictures, anything where I can see myself. Your moment must be amazing.
Bari Jo
Hey Hun, This too shall pass. Give it time.
Hugs,
Laurie
Quote from: KathyLauren on January 24, 2018, 07:24:13 AM
Those mirror moments are wonderful. I still get a kick out of noticing that there is a woman in the mirror. Glad it's happening for you!
:)
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 24, 2018, 10:20:03 AM
Wow, that must feel good. I still have lots of issues with mirrors, pictures, anything where I can see myself. Your moment must be amazing.
Bari Jo
Bari Jo, it still feels good even now. I think back and wonder if it was imagination, I know it was real. I did not expect to have it happen to me this soon with not being on hrt. Simply clothes and makeup. If it can happen to me, it will for you. Your moment will come and when it does it'll take your breath away. With your facial features I have no doubt about it.
Quote from: Faith on January 24, 2018, 07:01:56 AM
last night really, still happy today. I put this in my progress topic but happy things need spread around :)
After therapy I was directed to the women's restroom. While washing up I saw Faith standing in the mirror.
I have trouble with mirrors and full-length are typically a dysphoric trigger. It was such a powerful moment that I'm still happy from it this morning.
Yes!! Now you can finally see what the rest of us have been seeing! The only question is, was she smiling?
- Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on January 24, 2018, 10:32:55 AM... The only question is, was she smiling? ...
I don't know about in the reflection, but she was when she walked away :D
I had a meeting today with the CEO of the big oil company I'm currently working at, ran him through my training and video and he was amazed and completely on board with helping. Absolute support - he's going to play my video before his next staff addresses and help me talk to all of the senior managers.
It's a really amazing feeling seeing as I'm starting my transition and feel so stressed about it to have some someone like that not only say it's fine but to say "right this has got to change"
Happy? I think so! Feel a bit shocked I think, but definitely starting to feel hopeful for the first time in my my life
Quote from: vickijonesuk on January 24, 2018, 12:14:28 PM
I had a meeting today with the CEO of the big oil company I'm currently working at, ran him through my training and video and he was amazed and completely on board with helping. Absolute support - he's going to play my video before his next staff addresses and help me talk to all of the senior managers.
It's a really amazing feeling seeing as I'm starting my transition and feel so stressed about it to have some someone like that not only say it's fine but to say "right this has got to change"
Happy? I think so! Feel a bit shocked I think, but definitely starting to feel hopeful for the first time in my my life
Good for you though I don't have a clue as to what "mm" means :)
It made me happy but it actually happened to my partner. Basically she found out about someone who is going through the same thing she is and has been really encouraged by how they're making it work. :)
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Quote from: Faith on January 24, 2018, 07:01:56 AM
last night really, still happy today. I put this in my progress topic but happy things need spread around :)
After therapy I was directed to the women's restroom. While washing up I saw Faith standing in the mirror.
I have trouble with mirrors and full-length are typically a dysphoric trigger. It was such a powerful moment that I'm still happy from it this morning.
Awesome!!! I love that feeling!
I will be going in to elections for My local union again for a second term looking forward to it I will be CUPE second ever Transgender person elected as president if I win the election
It's been a couple months since my first flower:
This is it today
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This is it in November
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It must be sustained by our love or something!
I think I may be falling in love with someone I've known for a while and very much like. I know she likes me quite a bit. Limerence; a novel experience that I haven't had for 45 years or so. I'll enjoy the ride no matter the outcome.
Quote from: Michelle_P on January 27, 2018, 12:43:44 AM
I think I may be falling in love with someone I've known for a while and very much like. I know she likes me quite a bit. Limerence; a novel experience that I haven't had for 45 years or so. I'll enjoy the ride no matter the outcome.
Michelle!!!... Love in bloom!!! ❤️ How wonderful!... Enjoy every moment dear sister!!! 😀
One of the employees at work yesterday was amazing to me! We were talking about teeth and beauty, we eventually got around to age. She was shocked when I told her I was 44 years old. She asked how I did it, and I said my medicine is doing it, kind of sending me through a second puberty. She asked if I'm starting to have my periods again. I told her no, and that it could never happen. I told her I'm a transgirl, and she gave me a giant hug, and told me she would have never known and that I look amazing!
Quote from: Michelle_P on January 27, 2018, 12:43:44 AM
I think I may be falling in love with someone I've known for a while and very much like. I know she likes me quite a bit. Limerence; a novel experience that I haven't had for 45 years or so. I'll enjoy the ride no matter the outcome.
I had to Google 'limerence', but I'm really happy for you Michelle, you totally deserve to love and be loved. X
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Had an awesome evening out at a club with great friends and the love of my life last night :)
And congrats Michelle <3
Trying to make a plan for the day now >^..^<
Well just last night I was taking selfies, and I took one that I loved, and I put it on my Facebook page which was a transition first for me, and I am just so happy with it, that today I am just walking around work happy, and I hit my 15th post today so I have my profile pic now and I'm a very happy and beautiful woman and life is beautiful.
You look marvelous darling, absolutely marvelous!
I finally seem.to be getting the hang of doing my eyes :)
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My parents are awesome, but this is still new for them and I don't talk often.
So hearing my dad on the phone use the right name...wonderful!
went to support group last night. then out with the trans girls and boys for drinks. so much fun
Quote from: ToriJo on January 27, 2018, 11:09:34 PM
My parents are awesome, but this is still new for them and I don't talk often.
So hearing my dad on the phone use the right name...wonderful!
Awesome!!!
Quote from: Michelle_P on January 27, 2018, 12:43:44 AM
I think I may be falling in love with someone I've known for a while and very much like. I know she likes me quite a bit. Limerence; a novel experience that I haven't had for 45 years or so. I'll enjoy the ride no matter the outcome.
Michelle, this is wonderful news!! Nothing like the feeling of love - best drug known to woman :) And there's no better time to experience love and romance than springtime.
Big hugs for you big news.
Lindy
Quote from: Lindy on January 28, 2018, 10:26:07 AM
Michelle, this is wonderful news!! Nothing like the feeling of love - best drug known to woman :) And there's no better time to experience love and romance than springtime.
Big hugs for you big news.
Lindy
Wow, and I thought it was chocolate! Go figure, duh :)
In my ongoing attempt to build driving experience to get to the point I can make it to somewhere to actually do laser, I had a milestone today and despite insane anxiety survived super dangerous causeway bridge for the first time. I feel like I am a huge step closer to where I need to be, and I have a lot of hope I will be able to start treatment before my birthday in a few weeks.
(For those unaware this seems weird to, I didn't have a license until last month and I have a massive phobia of cars.)
Quote from: Roll on January 28, 2018, 04:19:49 PM
In my ongoing attempt to build driving experience to get to the point I can make it to somewhere to actually do laser, I had a milestone today and despite insane anxiety survived super dangerous causeway bridge for the first time. I feel like I am a huge step closer to where I need to be, and I have a lot of hope I will be able to start treatment before my birthday in a few weeks.
(For those unaware this seems weird to, I didn't have a license until last month and I have a massive phobia of cars.)
If I was at work I'd photoshop a sign on a bridge saying 'Super Dangerous Causeway Bridge'. Since I'm not, I'll just let you imagine it.
Oh, and yay for you!
after working outside all week in temperatures below 25 degrees it finally warmed up and got into the 40s! Yesterday I made an awesome meal on my smoker and today I finally got to go back to the park! There's a park here that I love and I was there almost every day from April to mid-December last year but I stopped going because of the cold, I really miss that place! and to top it off I had a friend go with me and I had a great time talking with her! After that I went and explored a cemetery that I've been meaning to check out
Quote from: Maddie86 on January 28, 2018, 04:38:02 PM
after working outside all week in temperatures below 25 degrees it finally warmed up and got into the 40s! Yesterday I made an awesome meal on my smoker and today I finally got to go back to the park! There's a park here that I love and I was there almost every day from April to mid-December last year but I stopped going because of the cold, I really miss that place! and to top it off I had a friend go with me and I had a great time talking with her! After that I went and explored a cemetery that I've been meaning to check out
Kewl. You dig cemetarys
Quote from: Roll on January 28, 2018, 04:19:49 PM
In my ongoing attempt to build driving experience to get to the point I can make it to somewhere to actually do laser, I had a milestone today and despite insane anxiety survived super dangerous causeway bridge for the first time. I feel like I am a huge step closer to where I need to be, and I have a lot of hope I will be able to start treatment before my birthday in a few weeks.
Oh, wow! It takes a strong woman to face her fears.
Quote from: ToriJo on January 28, 2018, 09:23:11 PM
Oh, wow! It takes a strong woman to face her fears.
I have made huge leaps in my life just since dealing with being trans, all in the name of doing what I need to do for transitioning(which also goes to reassure me of my choice, because you don't change your life the way I have for a lark ;D). I have everyone here largely to thank for that. :)
Makeup station in my new room [emoji4] it's also a desk and I'm sure I'll be using it for my laptop or even throwing clothes on top of it when I'm more settled in lol I always do that (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180129/0a86469d9ee855975220e306d94263d5.jpg)
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Quote from: Allison S on January 29, 2018, 07:08:16 AM
Makeup station in my new room [emoji4] it's also a desk and I'm sure I'll be using it for my laptop or even throwing clothes on top of it when I'm more settled in lol I always do that (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180129/0a86469d9ee855975220e306d94263d5.jpg)
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I'd say that it needs to have some pastels but I figure it will be larger :)
So, I mentioned somewhere on the site that since taking the HRT people seem to be different.
Well, I went to have my lab work done this morning at the VA and the waiting room was full with the exception of one seat after I took my number. There was a woman sitting next to an empty seat so I politely asked if the seat next to her was being used. She replied her husband was using it but he likes to walk around instead of sitting and that I was welcome to use it.
Next thing I know we're talking about stuff and it's more female stuff than male stuff. I was as I usually am, in man mode basically but maybe I smell differently because we kept on a talk'n. It was nice too.
I filed my petition for a legal name change!
So many posts I read here make me happy. Accomplishments as our lives improve in ways small and large, in almost all cases requiring careful decisions and a lot of effort. After a while things become routine and we may reach for more - but never forget how far you have already traveled.
I agree with you Kendra. Y'all are an inspiration!
I haven't posted on here for awhile. I have been in a funk lately. Today I am feeling happy because I am finally getting back to my mandolin. It is so nice to make 'music' again, at least attempting to! I tend to like fiddle tunes and some that I have given a go to over the last week are 'Red Haired Boy', 'Arkansas Traveler', 'Ashoken Farewell', 'Hollow Poplar', ' Maple Sugar', and 'Red Wing'. I get lost in playing even though it is slower than it should be. I am still getting back to reading music and getting my fingers and brain to work together. Also, I need to build up my calluses.
I waited in line at the post office today. Then when I got to the front I realized I didn't have the address of the package I needed to send. I waited at the packing station till I received it through email. During the wait three people came over to help me. It was like they thought I was in crisis or something. The first two were men and gendered me as male. The last one was a grandmother and called me sweetie and told me not to be afraid to go to the counter. I don't know why but I love this:)
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on January 29, 2018, 09:01:53 PM
I waited in line at the post office today. Then when I got to the front I realized I didn't have the address of the package I needed to send. I waited at the packing station till I received it through email. During the wait three people came over to help me. It was like they thought I was in crisis or something. The first two were men and gendered me as male. The last one was a grandmother and called me sweetie and told me not to be afraid to go to the counter. I don't know why but I love this:)
Bari Jo
Ok, tomorrow's the big HR Day so we, or at the very least, I, expect to hear happy things tomorrow!!!!
I was told today I have more clothes than most cis women but still have my favorites that I am more comfortable it that I wear all the time
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on January 29, 2018, 10:11:01 PM
I was told today I have more clothes than most cis women but still have my favorites that I am more comfortable it that I wear all the time
OMG! Did you get attacked?
I almost chickened out, but at a physical today I asked my doctor if she'd write me the SSA letter (to change gender) and sign the DMV form to change gender. She didn't even hesitate - I have the DMV form in front of me, with "female" checked, and should get the SSA letter within a few days. I'll be filing my name change very shortly, so pretty soon I'll legally be the person I know I already am.
I could use some advice from the expert transwomen here who want to help this baby transwoman out: How the heck do I contain my joy when stuff like this happens? :)
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on January 29, 2018, 12:15:17 PM
I filed my petition for a legal name change!
Yay!!! I'm getting ready to do that myself! Just got an official letter from my doctor for the gender marker change, too!
Quote from: ToriJo on January 29, 2018, 10:53:01 PM
> I could use some advice from the expert transwomen here who want to help this baby transwoman out: How the heck do I contain my joy when stuff like this happens? :)
ToriJo, I'm certainly not an expert but if you think the joy of having these forms in your hands feels great (because it does), nothing compares to holding your updated driver license in your hands. I wanted to tape it to my forehead and run wildly through the streets.
Quote from: Cassi on January 29, 2018, 10:28:04 PM
OMG! Did you get attacked?
Lol well actually I did at work by a resident with dementia at work got a couple of bruises and scraps and little sore. Ya not happy about that
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on January 30, 2018, 05:49:34 AM
Lol well actually I did at work by a resident with dementia at work got a couple of bruises and scraps and little sore. Ya not happy about that
Ouch and I'm psychic or psycho, get the two confused. Got punched in the nose by a psych patient years ago, ouch too.
Quote from: Cassi on January 30, 2018, 09:13:49 AM
Ouch and I'm psychic or psycho, get the two confused. Got punched in the nose by a psych patient years ago, ouch too.
Ya that part is not happy or funny but mostly I love my job the residents make me laugh most of the time
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on January 30, 2018, 09:35:45 AM
Ya that part is not happy or funny but mostly I love my job the residents make me laugh most of the time
My working at the hospital was to supplement my GI Bill while attending college. Initially, I worked security at the hospital covering the psych and detox units. After I was hit by that patient I said screw this macho stuff and told a higher paying job in Admissions - my handwriting has always sucked because my brain works faster than my hand, but typing 70-80 words back in the olden days when they had manual typewriters :)
Well, I got a perfect score on my map of Eastern & Southern Africa in Geography and one of my friends called me by my preferred name. But the day's not over yet, so I'm sure something bad could happen still. I'm staying optimistic though.
I got ma'am-ed today.
That's cool and awesome and would make me really gleeful normally. But I was dressed as a guy and I've got two days of beard growth (getting ready for electrolysis).
Quote from: ToriJo on January 30, 2018, 05:03:41 PM
I got ma'am-ed today.
That's cool and awesome and would make me really gleeful normally. But I was dressed as a guy and I've got two days of beard growth (getting ready for electrolysis).
Kewl
Soooo
Went to get something notarized and the lady who did it said she liked my hair.
The thing I got notarized was my Petition For Name Change, which I then filed with the clerk of courts. Should learn the date next week
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Two things!!! #1... weighed myself. I expected to be static with last weigh in around the start of HRT. Instead... I LOST 10 WHOLE POUNDS. Even accounting for a high reading before and a low reading now, that's at least a good 5-6 pounds probably actually lost in about a month and a half. That is the perfect rate. And I have been eating a lot. I think its the desk bike, this thing is awesome.
#2... Well, I mentioned talking to an old friend of mine a week or two ago, and he has a slack setup for people to hang out in and coordinate gaming and stuff. When I first logged into it, I used male name just because im used to hiding behind it. Well, today I worked up the courage to say screw it, and changed name there.
I filed for my name change today!!!! No problems whatsoever, and I'm getting a judge that a trans guy living here in town said he had that was happy to do it. :)
Quote from: Sarah_P on February 01, 2018, 01:57:36 PM
I filed for my name change today!!!! No problems whatsoever, and I'm getting a judge that a trans guy living here in town said he had that was happy to do it. :)
That's awesome :) congratulations!
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Quote from: Sarah_P on February 01, 2018, 01:57:36 PM
I filed for my name change today!!!! No problems whatsoever, and I'm getting a judge that a trans guy living here in town said he had that was happy to do it. :)
That is so amazing!! You are just taking off like some sort of ship propelled by rockets! (Dare I say... rocket ship?)
Quote from: Roll on February 01, 2018, 02:16:40 PM
That is so amazing!! You are just taking off like some sort of ship propelled by rockets! (Dare I say... rocket ship?)
Hopefully I don't crash into any comets... The icebergs of space.
I came out to my brother and sister in law tonight. That concludes all of my immediate family (mom, dad - I use that term loosely, brother, sister in law). I'm feeling a lot more sure that I'm making the right choice choosing to transition (eventually), telling my friends will be easier than it was telling my family
Quote from: Sinead on February 02, 2018, 08:25:38 PM
I came out to my brother and sister in law tonight. That concludes all of my immediate family (mom, dad - I use that term loosely, brother, sister in law). I'm feeling a lot more sure that I'm making the right choice choosing to transition (eventually), telling my friends will be easier than it was telling my family
Good for you Girl!
Quote from: Sinead on February 02, 2018, 08:25:38 PM
I came out to my brother and sister in law tonight. That concludes all of my immediate family (mom, dad - I use that term loosely, brother, sister in law). I'm feeling a lot more sure that I'm making the right choice choosing to transition (eventually), telling my friends will be easier than it was telling my family
Awesome! I did mine similarly. Wife first, then mom, dad, then everybody on FB. I'm still coming out to new friends. Kinda tough to have to do it constantly.
Quote from: SiobhánF on February 03, 2018, 12:49:09 AM
Awesome! I did mine similarly. Wife first, then mom, dad, then everybody on FB. I'm still coming out to new friends. Kinda tough to have to do it constantly.
Yeah, it is a little deflating - you've made a big step coming out to someone, now there's someone else you have to come out to.
I feel like once I tell my friends and people at work (that won't happen for a while), I'll then announce it on social media - I don't even think I'll announce it, I'll just change my name, gender and profile picture
Two things for me. I bought my first pair of hoop earrings at a second hand store for 50 cents :)
And I had a long heart-to-heart conversation with my sister about my unfolding transition. She was such a great listener, so supportive, and so accepting. She even showed me a new concealer I might like!
Lindy
My friend I reconnected with is just being really great, introduced me to another friend of his who just went through the whole gamut of transition. Though I'm still struggling a bit letting girl out and not trying to be one of the guys again, falling into old habits around him since I've known him for so long in that role. But he's been truly sweet about everything.
Fleece Leggings!
I went to the Costco store in Las Vegas to sign up in the hope of getting better deals. They didn't open until 10am so I stopped at a Walgreen's. While at Walgreen's I noticed they had fleece leggins that were being discontinued for a reduced price of $2.99. I bought two pair,one for me and one for my daughter.
It turns out that the first pair were $2.99 and second half price so basically $2.25/each. I ended up going to another Walgreen's and they had them too. Got the large - extra large size but according to their "( )" the size went from 14 - 16. Oh well, worst case scenario, daughter gets them all. turns out they fit so went to another store and bought all the l-xl sizes :).
Also, switched from pills to patch late yesterday afternoon and spiro was increased. I swear I felt as if I was high or drunk. Good feeling though.
And lastly, my ticker should reflect one month on HRT :)
Cassi,
Congratulations on your one month mark, as well as your bargains.
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on February 03, 2018, 12:14:59 PM
Cassi,
Congratulations on your one month mark, as well as your bargains.
Chrissy
Thanks Chrissy!
I'm sure that all the Walgreen's have the leggings at the price. I snatched up all the Large-XLarge at 3 stores, lol.
Did you get want you wanted at the warehouse club that you came into town for?
They can have good prices.
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on February 03, 2018, 01:59:05 PM
Did you get want you wanted at the warehouse club that you came into town for?
They can have good prices.
No, I didn't buy anything. I try to do things with my daughter and she works two jobs so it's tight time wise. I did look around though and was impressed. We had Costco memberships when her mom was alive but that was a long time ago.
One word: vodka.
So my wife had postponed our trip to Florida due to my parents being sick. (We were supposed to visit my mother after her 2nd hip replacement surgery.) So we wanted to swim somewhere so we did a quick trip to Harrah's in Atlantic City and they have an awesome indoor pool under a huge dome that is always 82 degrees with one large pool and 5 jacuzzis. (We went there for the pool, not the gambling and the rooms were inexpensive but very nice.)
This was the first time I went swimming since GCS and OMG it was amazing. I no longer had to worry about tucking or anything and it was wonderful and felt so free. After we spent the day swimming I changed in the women's locker room afterward. I'm shy about being naked, but went ahead and changed into dry clothes (the hallways were too cool to wear a wet swimsuit.) I faced away from the two other woman besides my wife changing out of their swimsuits and after I had mine off and about to put on my dry panties, another woman needed to get into the locker right in front of me and she ended up seeing me totally naked. (Thankfully you can't see any scars unless my labia is spread laying down.) Nothing happened, just as it shouldn't have, but it was such an affirming experience. I wasn't planning on showing it off, but it just happened.
I'm competing in a two day shooting match and have no issues getting gendered correctly by everyone except by a couple of people who knew me from way back. (Mental imprints and all)
I'm also stomping over half my squad. I overheard "holy crap she can shoot" after one stage.
An old acquaintance of mine whom I've shot many matches with saw me and has been asking a friend if I'm my own sister. He has no clue I transitioned, I'm not planning on telling him, and it's a nice confidence boost.
I believe congratulations are in order for both Sydney and Colleen.
Hugs to both,
Laurie
Quote from: Laurie on February 04, 2018, 01:23:38 AM
> I believe congratulations are in order for both Sydney and Colleen.
Wow - yes!!
Quote from: yayo on February 03, 2018, 06:27:45 PM
One word: vodka.
Hello Yayo, I can relate... in my past. Vodka and similar things did boost my spirits (yeah bad pun) followed with increasing unhappiness unless I was partying or at the local bar. Some people can manage it just fine but I can't, I had my last drink in 2003. Turns out I'd been self-medicating to mask deep-rooted issues which I finally tackled head-on. I wish genuine long term happiness for you. If you ever need a hand please don't hesitate to ask directly, PM, etc.
Quote from: Kendra on February 04, 2018, 02:28:52 AM
Hello Yayo, I can relate... in my past. Vodka and similar things did boost my spirits (yeah bad pun) followed with increasing unhappiness unless I was partying or at the local bar. Some people can manage it just fine but I can't, I had my last drink in 2003. Turns out I'd been self-medicating to mask deep-rooted issues which I finally tackled head-on. I wish genuine long term happiness for you. If you ever need a hand please don't hesitate to ask directly, PM, etc.
Aww, thanks hun. I was mostly joking, but I should cut back on the drinking. I've been using it to cope with stress lately and that's no bueno.
Thanks everyone. Here goes day two.
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 04, 2018, 07:32:00 AM
Thanks everyone. Here goes day two.
I hope you score well today in day two, and again "pass" well (no misgendering) with flying colors! :)
Chrissy
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 04, 2018, 07:32:00 AM
Thanks everyone. Here goes day two.
I hope you win the whole shootin' match!
- Stephanie
I got the courage to go out to the shop in an all female look. High waisted skinny jeans, a cute t-shirt, a dash of eyeliner and a handbag :) it was really quite lovely. I felt like my loving, caring and playful self got to go outside instead of gruff manly exterior I normally have to put on! Xx
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Quote from: MollyPants on February 04, 2018, 07:57:07 AM
I got the courage to go out to the shop in an all female look. High waisted skinny jeans, a cute t-shirt, a dash of eyeliner and a handbag :) it was really quite lovely. I felt like my loving, caring and playful self got to go outside instead of gruff manly exterior I normally have to put on! Xx
Sounds like it was a good experience for you! Great!
Chrissy
Quote from: Laurie on February 04, 2018, 01:23:38 AM
I believe congratulations are in order for both Sydney and Colleen.
Hugs to both,
Laurie
Thank you ;D
Visited my daughter at her new house (nice) and looks like I will be a grandparent again :icon_geekdance:
Davina, congratulations!!
my hair looked awesome last night :)
Well I didn't win the whole thing, but I finished and didn't "par out" on any stages which is better than at least 1/3 of the shooters in attendance can say. Each stage had a 5 minute time limit, and with the kind of technical shooting combined with physical stupidity a lot of people ended up hitting that time limit. (physical stupidity included but was not limited to: throwing 29 kilo kettlebells, crawling under things, running 200 yards while shooting, etc... Just look up Desert Brutality match on youtube in the next few days and you'll find lots of videos)
So while I wasn't in the top 3 for my division, I honestly don't know my actual rank but I'm pretty confident I'm in the upper 1/2 to 1/3. The match ran late and they took shortcuts on posting scores so nobody knows exactly yet other than the top 3 in each division. I know that I did crush a lot of egos and even the guys from the Camp Pendleton shooting team that were on my squad started commenting on how well I was doing. No misgendering at all other than the old friends who just slip once in a while, and all in all it went great. But now I'm covered in bruises, and have to catch a flight home in the morning, so I'm going to go collapse in bed with my girlfriend who was my official cheerleader all weekend.
Watching the EAGLES win from Disney World, and going to see the parade today. Never in my wildest dreams did I think they would win a Super Bowl in my lifetime having lived through their failures last time around. And finally starting to blend in and not get sideways looks. (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180205/713b2d8e97e958c465ca94a74b1d47d3.jpg)(https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180205/1af8717b31f81ceccd2763d76564caa9.jpg)
I finished my first visit at home with the parents - they did fairly well (However, I did really astonish them when I explained I was in a lesbian marriage when mom asked if I knew any lesbians).
There were so many things I did that I'm proud of and that went well - things like it was the first time I've had to go into a women's room and wait for a stall in line with other women (nobody screamed or ran out, which I count as a win), dealt with the TSA flying, waitresses properly gendering me at restaurants (yay!) and best of all they gave my male family members the check instead of me (ironically I was paying, but still it was awesome).
Quote from: ToriJo on February 05, 2018, 07:31:10 AM
I finished my first visit at home with the parents - they did fairly well (However, I did really astonish them when I explained I was in a lesbian marriage when mom asked if I knew any lesbians).
There were so many things I did that I'm proud of and that went well - things like it was the first time I've had to go into a women's room and wait for a stall in line with other women (nobody screamed or ran out, which I count as a win), dealt with the TSA flying, waitresses properly gendering me at restaurants (yay!) and best of all they gave my male family members the check instead of me (ironically I was paying, but still it was awesome).
Awesome!
I did everything I could to avoid that first line for the ladies room. No screamers for me either, but if they did run out at least I would have moved up in the line.
I've also noticed that we almost always get asked if it's separate checks when I got to restaurants with my wife now.
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Quote from: TonyaW on February 05, 2018, 08:44:26 AM
Awesome!
I did everything I could to avoid that first line for the ladies room. No screamers for me either, but if they did run out at least I would have moved up in the line.
I've also noticed that we almost always get asked if it's separate checks when I got to restaurants with my wife now.
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We were getting asked about separate checks until Randi started cutting them off with "she's paying." I don't mind, it's the one time I can be sure that she'll gender me correctly.
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
What made me happy today is work was not busy as a usual Monday so I had time to work on my transition game plan and budget. If things go well I will have enough money to afford therapy and Dr. appointments AND Disneyland!
(Big Disney nerd here)
Quote from: EllieJune on February 05, 2018, 01:12:26 PM
What made me happy today is work was not busy as a usual Monday so I had time to work on my transition game plan and budget. If things go well I will have enough money to afford therapy and Dr. appointments AND Disneyland!
(Big Disney nerd here)
Cast member for 3 years.
Well it's was yesterday, but had fun fighting with my wife over items while clawing through a couple of buckets of clearance make up at Target.
All good brands, mostly lip stuff.
We both took home a handful. I think I had 6 items for around $10
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Finally got scores: 4th in my division and 11th overall out of 105 shooters. :o
Now that creepy old acquaintance is REALLY going to be wondering who I am. :D
I came out to my boss today - and he did great in his response. :)
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 05, 2018, 09:03:19 PM
Finally got scores: 4th in my division and 11th overall out of 105 shooters. :o
Now that creepy old acquaintance is REALLY going to be wondering who I am. :D
Good going! Good ranking!
Keep him guessing!
Chrissy
8 days till my divorce is final, and 16 till my name is legal. You'd think the first one would be a bad thing, but me and my ex-wife do better as friends than we did as spouses.
Yesterday I was sitting at a casual restaurant and a lady came over as she thought that I was her girlfriend. I was presenting as male. She said that she was sorry for the confusion but I was wearing a sweater that looked a lot like the one her girlfriend was wearing a lot recently, and the same for the jeans, plus my hair was somewhat like what her girlfriend wears.
I told her that her girlfriend must like to wear her boyfriend's clothes, and we laughed. She said that her girlfriend likes to wear this bright red lipstick and that I obviously did not have any on. Well we had a little bit of chit chat after that, then her girlfriend came in and she joined her at another table.
That lady must have been blind as a bat. Her girlfriend was rather pretty, and at least this time, she was wearing jeans but her sweater was a deep pink, mine was a purplish or royal blue. She also had more feminine looking hair than me, although I have a lot of weight or thickness in my hair in the back, as her girlfriend does.
I do not consider that a male fail, but I did get a small kick out of what happened.
Chrissy
Kewl
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on February 06, 2018, 05:25:53 PM
That lady must have been blind as a bat. Her girlfriend was rather pretty, and at least this time, she was wearing jeans but her sweater was a deep pink, mine was a purplish or royal blue. She also had more feminine looking hair than me, although I have a lot of weight or thickness in my hair in the back, as her girlfriend does.
not consider that a male fail, but I did get a small kick out of what happened.
Women can be color blind so if you take color out of the picture, it's possible you look more alike than you think. On the other hand, When I don't have to, I like to shed my glasses so sometimes I have to be careful with more distant objects.
Dena,
You made some good points. Thank you.
Now my unclearly made point was that her girlfriend looked a lot better and fem than me, "anyone that could see" could tell the difference in that regard. But I did understand in a way how she could make her mistake. It is not like her girlfriend and I were standing side by side. Her girlfriend clearly was looking all lady, that's for sure.
You do make a lot of good posts here on a regular and consistent basis and I want to thank you for that, as I have learned from the helpful things that you have mentioned in them. Thanks for taking your time to make insightful replies to people here.
Chrissy
I Just saw this thread; it was carried over by my previous username Kittenpower. Anyway, I signed up for a new account yesterday, and chose this username since I am starting a blog and YouTube Channel with it; the idea is that I will cover many topics including trans related discussions. So I'm happy about those projects, and being back here at Susan's 😊
Scheduled first laser on beard tomorrow! STUFF IS FINALLY MOVING AGAIN.
Quote from: Roll on February 06, 2018, 09:04:42 PM
Scheduled first laser on beard tomorrow! STUFF IS FINALLY MOVING AGAIN.
Yay! Be sure to take some ibuprofen or something before hand. The pain level for laser is different for everyone, but without a doubt it does hurt. Avoid caffeine, and drink lots of water!
Quote from: kitchentablepotpourri on February 06, 2018, 08:26:19 PM
I Just saw this thread; it was carried over by my previous username Kittenpower. Anyway, I signed up for a new account yesterday, and chose this username since I am starting a blog and YouTube Channel with it; the idea is that I will cover many topics including trans related discussions. So I'm happy about those projects, and being back here at Susan's 😊
We are so happy to have you back. I was curious if it might be you. Welcome.
(You might remember me as Joanna with the Homestuck web comic avatar)
With warmth,
Jacqui
Quote from: kitchentablepotpourri on February 06, 2018, 08:26:19 PM
I Just saw this thread; it was carried over by my previous username Kittenpower. Anyway, I signed up for a new account yesterday, and chose this username since I am starting a blog and YouTube Channel with it; the idea is that I will cover many topics including trans related discussions. So I'm happy about those projects, and being back here at Susan's 😊
As long as you realise that there is never any chance of erasing your history after blogging and you tubing
Quote from: Jacqueline on February 06, 2018, 11:08:35 PM
We are so happy to have you back. I was curious if it might be you. Welcome.
(You might remember me as Joanna with the Homestuck web comic avatar)
With warmth,
Jacqui
Hi Jacqui, yes I do remember you; thanks for the warm welcome 😊
Regards,
Karen
Quote from: Cindy on February 06, 2018, 11:58:41 PM
As long as you realise that there is never any chance of erasing your history after blogging and you tubing
Hi Cindy,
That is worth considering; thanks.
Hi all,
I have to share this. A few weeks ago I was buying a new coat from Eddie Bauer. I was presenting as usual.(only at work and with extended family that I don't). I was leaning over the counter dealing with the card machine and about to sign my name. The woman ringing me out asks, "Who does your hair? I love the color." I just kind of laughed it off and she had to re scan my card. Then said "Really. Is it a secret? I really love the color so I want to know who does it?"
I smiled and generally told her the truth: " Well, it's a wig. I lost most of my hair a while ago." She leans forward and says, "Really?? It's really good and I still love the color".
I beamed for the rest of the day. ;D
Jacqui
It's snowed in my part of the world for the first time in years. Snowed and stuck that is. There is a beautiful thick blanket covering everything. I'm sat on the sofa having my breakfast looking out at the world in my favourite nightie and some leggings and I feel so free to let myself be the woman I am. I think I might have to dance around the living room for a bit...! And have a cuddle with my dog. She thinks snow is very much overrated.
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My day starts early so my 'happy today' is always yesterdays.
a few times during casual conversation I was referred to as 'her' 'she' 'girl' ... by my wife ... :)
ok, I have a 2nd 'today' happy.
One of the women here at work that's helping me along gave me an spontaneous quick hug today and said, you look very handsome. Then looked and asked, "or should I say pretty?" I simply replied, "there are handsome women and pretty men, pick the word that fits."
About the hug, there was no question of it being a simple 'nice to see you, friend' hug. To me it meant an acceptance at a more equitable level. Were it not, or had it been before any of my changes, it simply would not have happened. I found it very affirming.
Just got back from walking our new puppy; she's such a cutie!!!😊
Needed new shoes for work and found a super cute pair of heels on clearance for $10! They are open toed so I won't get to hear them until it warms up, but omg, can't wait.
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Celebrating my 3 year tranniversary! It was 3 years ago today I met with my gender therapist to begin my official transition!
1 year (give or take a few days) since moved into my flat and spent the day doing" woman's work" washing, cleaning and cooking. Also got a message from Sara to say she wants to come over this weekend , weather looks bad though.
Quote from: I Am Jess on February 08, 2018, 01:29:23 PM
Celebrating my 3 year tranniversary! It was 3 years ago today I met with my gender therapist to begin my official transition!
Happy anniversary🎂
I had a wonderful catch up with one of my oldest friends. We caught up over Carribbean curry and rum cocktails. I'm close to telling her I'm secretly a woman but not quite there yet. I know she's onboard and she's knows I'm very different!
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I'm 1 step closer to moving out to the southwest! Let's just hope tomorrow goes well and everything should turn out great. It puts me within a day's drive of my family out there, which are the ones I care for the most.
A woman who'd been in before passed my desk as she came in to my workplace, stopped and did a double take. I just smiled. A little later she came back on her way out, stopped and said to me: "I'm sorry, I had to do a double take. I was just shocked when I saw you. You look so different, you truly look beautiful. I can see in your eyes that you must have a kind, gentle soul".
I'm still having trouble not breaking into tears. She completely made my day (if not my week!). I thanked her profusely and told her how much happier I am now. I can say for certain my soul used to be anything but kind and gentle, but maybe now....
Quote from: I Am Jess on February 08, 2018, 01:29:23 PM
Celebrating my 3 year tranniversary! It was 3 years ago today I met with my gender therapist to begin my official transition!
Happy anniversary Jess!!
Quote from: Sarah_P on February 08, 2018, 05:20:23 PM
A woman who'd been in before passed my desk as she came in to my workplace, stopped and did a double take. I just smiled. A little later she came back on her way out, stopped and said to me: "I'm sorry, I had to do a double take. I was just shocked when I saw you. You look so different, you truly look beautiful. I can see in your eyes that you must have a kind, gentle soul".
I'm still having trouble not breaking into tears. She completely made my day (if not my week!). I thanked her profusely and told her how much happier I am now. I can say for certain my soul used to be anything but kind and gentle, but maybe now....
Wow! Congratulations, Sarah.
I can see it, too. Let that soul shine.
- Stephanie
Seriously that's awesome to hear Sarah!
So I went to the bank yesterday and was unable to open a new account because my id photo was so different that they did not believe I was me. Well that led me to go to DMV today and not only get a new license with a photo that looks like me but I also had the gender marker change form all set and ready to go. I was going to wait until my name change went through but figured why not just do it now? So in the eyes of the state of Pennsylvania, I am now Female! Wow I told the guy who handed me my ID (who was super nice and totally flirting with me) that he completely made my day. Oh my goodness what a feeling seeing that F on my license! Suddenly TSA seems much less of a concern.
Lol, yes airport security is WAAAAY easier with an updated ID. Congrats.
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 08, 2018, 07:24:47 PM
Lol, yes airport security is WAAAAY easier with an updated ID. Congrats.
It's funny, I have never had an issue with TSA except that my photo was 100# heavier and didn't look like me AT ALL. But once past the gatekeeper I've never had an issue. I was wearing some cargo capris this weekend and got the patdown - by a female agent, but I don't really know if my ease is due to my TSA PRE+ Global Entry or just because TSA has had it beaten into them. Or both.
My experience is that the only really vigilant people were the check in attendants at the airline check in stations. Even though I was male failing hard, and looked nothing at all like my ID the TSA never really batted an eye at it. I got a lot of "this looks nothing like you" from the airline attendants.
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 08, 2018, 07:39:07 PM
My experience is that the only really vigilant people were the check in attendants at the airline check in stations. Even though I was male failing hard, and looked nothing at all like my ID the TSA never really batted an eye at it. I got a lot of "this looks nothing like you" from the airline attendants.
Yeah I have seen a lot of the same. A check in agent in Phoenix did a lot of the look at the DL then me and repeat.
My name change was approved by the judge today! I am really me now.
While I was filing some paperwork at the court, I was sitting with a group of other women - just being one of the girls (who complimented me on my earrings), with their children running around us and climbing over all of us - so much fun, and such a rare treat to just be able to be me.
Quote from: ToriJo on February 08, 2018, 08:59:13 PM
My name change was approved by the judge today! I am really me now.
While I was filing some paperwork at the court, I was sitting with a group of other women - just being one of the girls (who complimented me on my earrings), with their children running around us and climbing over all of us - so much fun, and such a rare treat to just be able to be me.
Congratulations! :)
Chrissy
Jill, ToriJo, congratulations to you both!! I should be getting both name change & gender marker done myself next week. ;D
Steph, Colleen, thank you! I've been astounded at how well the public has accepted me at work. I was half expecting torches and pitchfork wielding villagers surrounding the building, though. :D Gives me more hope for not only this country but humanity as a whole!
Where you live that truly is impressive. Well, if one uses stereotypes to judge anyhow. (nothing personal, but your state does get a lot of flak for being kind of really backwards, not to say that MO is much better)
I also quickly realized that I was worrying myself sick over nothing. Most people simply don't care.
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 08, 2018, 09:46:03 PM
Where you live that truly is impressive. Well, if one uses stereotypes to judge anyhow. (nothing personal, but your state does get a lot of flak for being kind of really backwards, not to say that MO is much better)
I also quickly realized that I was worrying myself sick over nothing. Most people simply don't care.
Exactly! I guess I should be glad I'm not in western KS, that probably WOULD have been bad. Don't worry, I'm one of the first people to badmouth this state. I'd gladly move elsewhere if the opportunity arises, though.
Had a wonderful day today. It started with getting myself ready to be out and about. Went to DSW and was able to find some nice knee high boots that fit, then was able to have an infrequent face-to-face with my therapist. Following the appointment I headed to meet my dear friends Tia and Debi at a major shopping mall where we had great talk while having a meal together and shopping, all of us enhancing our wardrobes. They have helped me greatly to emerge into myself, and today was another significant step forward.
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Found out my hearing date for name change. First full day of spring will be the first legal day of Tonya!
Judge hasn't sent the paper down yet so will be next week before I can take care of that stupid newspaper publishing.
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Quote from: jill610 on February 08, 2018, 07:40:37 PM
Yeah I have seen a lot of the same. A check in agent in Phoenix did a lot of the look at the DL then me and repeat.
They're envious. They wish they could transition too.
Quote from: TonyaW on February 09, 2018, 08:23:19 AM
Found out my hearing date for name change. First full day of spring will be the first legal day of Tonya!
Judge hasn't sent the paper down yet so will be next week before I can take care of that stupid newspaper publishing.
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Congratulations! I spent my morning at the courthouse and it's going to be May 9 for me!
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 08, 2018, 09:46:03 PMI also quickly realized that I was worrying myself sick over nothing. Most people simply don't care.
Exactly that!
At the Oshkosh aviation convention there's a big sign near the flight line where they conduct pilot briefings. It says, "DON'T DO NOTHING DUMB".
If you're not getting in people's faces and drawing excessive attention to yourself, the rest of the world has its own problems, and they don't even see you. Act confident, even if you have to fake it, and know that you belong there. Easier said than done. Believe me, I know. But give it a try, and you might be surprised.
- Stephanie
I got to work home today which was great. I spent all day dressed in what I like to wear and even ventured out as well :)
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Quote from: Roll on February 06, 2018, 09:04:42 PM
Scheduled first laser on beard tomorrow! STUFF IS FINALLY MOVING AGAIN.
I didn't find the pain to be that bad - mostly just an occasional sting, almost like being snapped with a rubber band.
The smell though... that's absolutely awful.
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I was talking with a friend who mentioned that we were close to being in the same generation. She was telling me that even though I'm younger than her I would probably still know what she was talking about. I was a bit confused by that comment and I asked her how old she was and she said 48. I told her she had things a little backwards since I am almost 9 years older than she was. She didn't want to believe me. lol
Good for you Jess!
If what my niece is telling me is truth it seems that "E" may be the Fountain of Youth for us older than dirt women :)
BTW, loved your wig and colors, brings out your eyes even more.
I've been thinking of experimenting with color a little bit myself. There's a temporary hair dye at Walgreens that's not too expensive and I could play with it to see what I look better as. I have always been a blond but looking for something that makes me look awesome :)
I got progesterone today from my new endo who was very nice and caring. He took 30 mins with me I was shocked but pleased. My first hrt doctor barely spent 10 mins with me lol
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Quote from: Phoenix1742 on February 09, 2018, 12:33:41 PM
I didn't find the pain to be that bad - mostly just an occasional sting, almost like being snapped with a rubber band.
The smell though... that's absolutely awful.
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I didn't have any smell during mine. Wonder if she was using a low setting to draw it out for money, heh. :D The feeling to me was more like... hrrm, well, it felt more like plucking a few hairs at a time. But when other people do it, not when you do it. (It's more painful when you pluck your own! :D)
Anywho, today I came out to the last of my siblings, my step-sister. I am now out to every last immediate family member, blood and step- alike, as well as spouses of said siblings. I have two aunts I'm going to tell before I just do a general announcement, but otherwise I'm out to friends and family that matters.
The twin sisters have been acting up for two days now. The braille appeared on the aureola of both a few days ago (Montgomery glands) and nips are sore :(
Montgomery glands, sometimes also referred to by their more technical name "areolar glands," are small glands located on the areola of the female breast that produce an oily secretion designed to keep the nipple moisturized and protected. Lubrication is particularly important during breastfeeding, and as a consequence the glands often work the hardest in lactating women; oily secretions are a normal part of breast health, though, and can be triggered by ordinary stimulation, too. The glands are generally sensitive, and blockages and other problems can lead to serious consequences.
Appearance and Location
Most women have between five and 20 Montgomery glands on each breast, and they are located just below the surface of the areola. The areola is the circular area of darkened skin surrounding the nipple. The primary reason for the discoloration of this area is that the areola roughly outlines the location of the mammary glands, which is where milk is produced and travels to the nipples through a network of lobules and ducts.
Even though the glands sit right on the surface of the skin they aren't usually visible under normal conditions. Certain hormonal triggers will cause them to bump up slightly, though. Pregnancy is one example: pregnant women often experience small raised pink or red bumps, often in a ring formation around the nipple, when the glands are stimulated. Arousal and pressure, often from tight-fitting clothes or bras, can also trigger this reaction. These bumps are usually considered very normal, and they usually subside on their own with time.
Basic Role and Function
The glands are named for the Irish obstetrician William Fetherstone Montgomery, who was the first to identify what, exactly, their role was back in the 1800s. He surmised that the oily secretions that happen during stimulation and breastfeeding were coming not from the milk ducts themselves, but rather from a separate glandular area that simply responded to triggers in those regions. Modern breast science has confirmed that he was correct.
Nipples are made of somewhat sensitive tissues that are more prone to environmental dryness and irritation than normal skin. The main job of the glands is to secrete enough natural oils to keep them moisturized and protected against the outside world. In most cases surface oils can also serve to keep foreign objects out by creating something of a surface barrier at the nipple's tip.
Infection and Irritation
The Montgomery glands' position right on the surface of the breast means that they are sometimes susceptible to infection or irritation. Infection is often related to mastitis, a problem involving the mammary glands as well as surrounding glands and tissue. It is most common in lactating women, and medical treatment is almost always required in order to get rid of the infection and keep it from spreading.
A condition commonly referred to as "jogger's nipple" also involves irritation of these glands. The correct term for this condition is "fissure of the nipple," and it happens whenever the nipples are subjected to repeated, constant stimulation that overwhelms the glands' ability to keep up with adequate lubrication levels. The "jogging" name comes because it happens a lot when sports bras or shirts chafe the skin during exercise. Common symptoms include dryness, soreness, or bleeding involving one or both nipples. Some medications can help speed healing, but in most cases time and reduced friction are the only cures.
Certain medical problems can also cause the glands to clog or stop working properly, which can lead to a host of other problems. Dryness and itching are usually near the top of the list, but clogged ducts, swelling, and breast tenderness are also generally included. It's usually rare for problems to strike the Montgomery glands alone — usually problems happen elsewhere in the areola and mammary glands at the same time — but it is possible. Usually only a medical professional can make the distinction and final determination, though.
Problem Solving Tips
One of the best ways for people to avoid problems with these glands is for them to work at keeping their nipples protected. Joggers and runners should find sports bras that fit properly, for instance, and if pressure is still a problem it may make sense to place a bandage over the nipples before beginning an exercise regiment. The bandage will act as an effective barrier between the skin and clothing. Surgical tape often works as well to prevent damage from occurring.
I started my conversations with HR about my transition (which are going well, I think) - it's going to be an interesting career journey, but I'm looking forward to it, and it's really exciting to be bringing the last piece of my life where I'm not me into conformance with who I am. It's hard to believe that I'm going to be full time less than a year after I started this process of transitioning - when I started, I said it would take me two years, but it is so wonderful to be me and I've lived long enough that the girl in me is ready to be out everywhere.
It'll be interesting to be the sole representation of a woman in my part of the company. I think I'm up to it though. :)
Quote from: Phoenix1742 on February 09, 2018, 12:33:41 PM
I didn't find the pain to be that bad - mostly just an occasional sting, almost like being snapped with a rubber band.
The smell though... that's absolutely awful.
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If I remember right, the smell happens when hair gets burned, which can happen more if you miss some when shaving. It's been a year or so since I had laser so I'm not 100% on that.
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Quote from: Cassi on February 09, 2018, 08:46:13 PM
The twin sisters have been acting up for two days now. The braille appeared on the aureola of both a few days ago (Montgomery glands) and nips are sore :(
Haven't had much pain but criminarys they itch some times still.
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What made me happy today was spending nearly the entire day with two wonderful women I met here at Susan's. Laurie and Michelle helped me feel and look as the woman that has been hiding inside me. I felt so comfortable strolling through town, having lunch and enjoying talking about so many things. They made me feel special that they took the love and care to help me be who I am. I love them both for what they have done for me.
Smiling, Jess
Just let an old man (probily blind!) In through a shop door before i left, he said thank you sweetheart
;D
Quote from: Shambles on February 10, 2018, 03:47:59 AM
Just let an old man (probily blind!) In through a shop door before i left, he said thank you sweetheart
;D
Awww, that's nice of both you and him!
Got a check in the mail for winning my fantasy baseball league (finally!).
It was made out to Tonya, so I guess that means this years draft won't be quite as awkward as it might have been. Other than my brother, I mostly only see the rest of the league in person at the draft.
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Though I transitioned over a year ago, I've never really had to interact that much with people I don't know.
My friend was celebrating her birthday last night at a bar. The only person I knew who went was her. Since she was being a dutiful host I couldn't talk with her that much. Instead I was talking with the girls that were there. It was great. I didn't have to pretend to be interested with what the guys were taking about.
My voice kept cracking like I was a teenager. I thought that was funny.
And the guys kept paying for everything. Which was nice.
Also, the other day another friend called me a "bitch." Which made me so happy because she meant it like a woman and not like a gay male.
I uploaded some name change paperwork to my bank a few days ago. It is taking some time for the update to percolate through, but today I was able to order a debit card with my new name! It is simply an awesome feeling to see my new name appearing on more and more things.
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on February 10, 2018, 01:53:27 PM
I uploaded some name change paperwork to my bank a few days ago. It is taking some time for the update to percolate through, but today I was able to order a debit card with my new name! It is simply an awesome feeling to see my new name appearing on more and more things.
Awesome.
The lady at my bank that notarized my Petition For Name Change said to come back when it's official and she'll take care of it. 6 weeks until my hearing though. A lot of waiting involved in this transition stuff.
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Quote from: TonyaW on February 10, 2018, 02:14:36 PM
A lot of waiting involved in this transition stuff.
Tell me about it! I mean it took me 40 years to get to this point, I don't particularly want to wait another day!
But it is *so* worth it. You'll have an ear to ear smile on your face when you're holding your name change order!
Wellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll, the boobs sisters have been a hurt'n for 3 days now.
Quote from: ToriJo on February 10, 2018, 04:01:06 PM
Tell me about it! I mean it took me 40 years to get to this point, I don't particularly want to wait another day!
But it is *so* worth it. You'll have an ear to ear smile on your face when you're holding your name change order!
And when you get your drivers license with the name, picture, and gender marker all correct... WOOOOO!
- Stephanie
I'm still presenting as male right now and today when I went to get lunch the guy behind the counter called me "miss" :)
Way to go Pastry Girl!!!!!!
Quote from: Maddie86 on February 10, 2018, 04:17:33 PM
I'm still presenting as male right now and today when I went to get lunch the guy behind the counter called me "miss" :)
Cool!
Chrissy
Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 10, 2018, 04:02:35 PM
And when you get your drivers license with the name, picture, and gender marker all correct... WOOOOO!
Monday is my big day at the DMV. Then I'll be impatiently waiting. :) I'll probably end up being so excited when it arrives that I'll be running around and showing it to random strangers!
Quote from: ToriJo on February 10, 2018, 05:25:36 PM
Monday is my big day at the DMV. Then I'll be impatiently waiting. :) I'll probably end up being so excited when it arrives that I'll be running around and showing it to random strangers!
Not sure where you are, but here in Florida they make the new one right there and you walk out with it. The lady took my picture and said, "Oh, I think you'll like it." That was the understatement of the year!
- Stephanie
I'm in Colorado - and they make us wait! I don't think I've been this impatient about a driver's license since I was 16. And somehow I think this will be way better! Even the temporary paper license they give out will make me really, really happy though. :)
Quote from: Cassi on February 10, 2018, 04:02:31 PM
Wellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll, the boobs sisters have been a hurt'n for 3 days now.
Mine completely stopped hurting, makes me sad. ;D
Quote from: Roll on February 10, 2018, 07:31:29 PM
Mine completely stopped hurting, makes me sad. ;D
Mine never really hurt. Everyone else always said theirs did so I was concerned, but they are there and still still growing. Small for certain, but they can be seen.
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Quote from: Roll on February 10, 2018, 07:31:29 PM
Mine completely stopped hurting, makes me sad. ;D
Maybe the growth is being accompanied by your natural endorphins, so there is no pain.
Chrissy
4 days till my divorce is final, and 12 till my name is legal!! My future step daughters are still welcoming me to the family. My littlest future granddaughter cried when I had to give her back to her mom. The older granddaughters think I'm cool. My future son in law accepted me as a woman. The gas station attendant said ma'am to me even after I spoke.
I let my wife know I had put into my drawers some bulk tops I had bought several months ago. After sharing with her my loot she commandeered at least 40%. I am so lucky to have those precious moments.
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I received my new permanent driver's license today and the picture isn't as bad as others I've seen.
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So in my continued attempts at driving practice, I made a trip out to Sam's Club, a good 35-40 minute drive. While there, I saw some cute tops and a loose knit shawl "jacket" at a really good price. The store was kind of packed, so I just sort of walked by, wanting so bad to look through them. Well, after hitting deli area, I looped back around and said screw it. I stopped and looked through the women's clothes. I really wanted a few of them, and I would have bought them, but none were left in my size in the colors I wanted. But I'm happy because I had the courage to look!! If I hadn't have spent too much money already and wasn't developing a slight stomach ache (I'm iffy about some Chinese I had before hand, fortunately didn't eat much) I was ready to go over to Target or somewhere else and start shopping. I'm thinking about making a trip out there tomorrow during the work/school day.
Quote from: Roll on February 11, 2018, 01:41:02 PMBut I'm happy because I had the courage to look!!
Yes!! You get out there and be yourself!
Quote from: Roll on February 11, 2018, 01:41:02 PM
So in my continued attempts at driving practice, I made a trip out to Sam's Club, a good 35-40 minute drive. While there, I saw some cute tops and a loose knit shawl "jacket" at a really good price. The store was kind of packed, so I just sort of walked by, wanting so bad to look through them. Well, after hitting deli area, I looped back around and said screw it. I stopped and looked through the women's clothes. I really wanted a few of them, and I would have bought them, but none were left in my size in the colors I wanted. But I'm happy because I had the courage to look!! If I hadn't have spent too much money already and wasn't developing a slight stomach ache (I'm iffy about some Chinese I had before hand, fortunately didn't eat much) I was ready to go over to Target or somewhere else and start shopping. I'm thinking about making a trip out there tomorrow during the work/school day.
Good for you Ellie, that you did look.
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on February 11, 2018, 03:52:45 PM
Good for you Ellie, that you did look.
Chrissy
Good for you Ellie! I've spent a lot of time at K-Mart because they've had some great sales. It was difficult at first but now I just go and look. It gets easier the more you do it. And if someone gives you a weird look, just say Hi.
My new eye shadow came in today
(https://i.imgur.com/wOqTakob.jpg)
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 11, 2018, 08:44:49 PM
My new eye shadow came in today
(https://i.imgur.com/wOqTakob.jpg)
How do you decide? I can't pick from the 4 or 5 basic colors I have. That many would overwhelm me.
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Good for you Ellie!!! It gets easier from here! Wait until the first time another woman starts chatting with you while you're looking! :D
Wow, shopping at first is really hard - I still get nervous about it, but everyone who said the more you do it the easier it gets, and the stronger you get. I remember my first shopping trip with another trans friend - I was so scared we walked through the clothes, looked at only a few things, and I made her practically need to run to keep up with me as I went for the exit.
I'm glad you made such a huge step!
Quote from: Roll on February 10, 2018, 07:31:29 PM
Mine completely stopped hurting, makes me sad. ;D
How long did your's hurt?
Quote from: Cassi on February 11, 2018, 09:08:02 PM
How long did your's hurt?
Were sore for about a week or so then stopped.
Had a great day out with friends today (mostly, see my post in the unhappy thread). Went to see Mazinger Z Infinity in the theater. IT. WAS. AMAZING!!!!!!!!!
Had a great talk with my friend that rode with me, too. Helped me clear up (well, more clearer?) a few things and gave me some great advice in regards to dating (need all the help I can get!).
Quote from: Roll on February 11, 2018, 09:09:02 PM
Were sore for about a week or so then stopped.
Mine had felt like they were hurting a week or so ago so I was wearing a sports bra to keep them from getting rubbed.
Now today is the 4th, maybe the 5th day of hurting. Did your Montgomerys come out?
Quote from: TonyaW on February 11, 2018, 08:52:06 PM
How do you decide? I can't pick from the 4 or 5 basic colors I have. That many would overwhelm me.
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That is the hole point for me I can have so much fun now
Quote from: Roll on February 11, 2018, 09:09:02 PM
Were sore for about a week or so then stopped.
They will do that off and on. I wouldn't worry. They do grow painfully slow though. Good for you on the clothes. I find the looking is easy now, buying is easy, but the changing rooms is hard. I've gotten the isn't this the girls changing room? Question. I just say, yes, yes it is and continue to wait for a room. It's awkward but I prefer it over going to the men's.
Bari Jo
What's made me happy thus far today are the three orchid plants a coworker brought for me. They're in sad shape and I'm looking forward to repotting them; hoping I can coax at least one of them to send out a flower spike & bloom this year.
I'm also looking forward to my eye exam later today because it means a new prescription and more feminine eyeglasses eventually! Plus I get to leave work early!!
Feeling very blessed to be transgendered and to be able to be a peace with myself.
It's been a long hard road but with beautiful scenery .
Being 73 years old now I really appreciate every day.
I also have received great benefit by doing Qi Gong and meditation.
It's great to be on Susan's place . Millie
The dress I ordered online should be here by friday can't wait to try it on Just no place to wear it and to cold lol
Quote from: Millie Powell on February 12, 2018, 10:43:46 AM
Feeling very blessed to be transgendered and to be able to be a peace with myself.
It's been a long hard road but with beautiful scenery .
Being 73 years old now I really appreciate every day.
I also have received great benefit by doing Qi Gong and meditation.
It's great to be on Susan's place . Millie
Welcome to the site Millie, your inputs will be appreciated.
Tia Anne
Okay...today... I. Got. My. Drivers. License.
I must have spent 15 minutes straight just staring at the temporary they gave me today (I get the permanent one within a couple weeks). I even like my picture on it - way better than the guy that looks like he belongs in a maximum security lockup somewhere that was on my last one. :)
Quote from: ToriJo on February 12, 2018, 11:15:36 AM
Okay...today... I. Got. My. Drivers. License.
I must have spent 15 minutes straight just staring at the temporary they gave me today (I get the permanent one within a couple weeks). I even like my picture on it - way better than the guy that looks like he belongs in a maximum security lockup somewhere that was on my last one. :)
Cool congratulations
I love seeing so much good news from my sisters! I needed to hear these wonderful stories today.
The realization i need a vibrator, since my five month old kitty finally wants to play and I need, um, toys til I see my BF again in a week. I never wanted a penis in my this bad. I haven't been ____ yet. And all of the sudden I want it so bad.
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 12, 2018, 10:54:02 AM
The dress I ordered online should be here by friday can't wait to try it on Just no place to wear it and to cold lol
That's so frustrating! I've got several I'm hoping I have the chance to wear sometime....
It's official!! I'm now legally Sarah Dawn P.....!
Quote from: ToriJo on February 12, 2018, 11:15:36 AM
Okay...today... I. Got. My. Drivers. License.
I must have spent 15 minutes straight just staring at the temporary they gave me today (I get the permanent one within a couple weeks). I even like my picture on it - way better than the guy that looks like he belongs in a maximum security lockup somewhere that was on my last one. :)
OMG!! That's so cool! I can't wait to get mine....
Quote from: Sarah_P on February 12, 2018, 05:12:15 PM
It's official!! I'm now legally Sarah Dawn P.....!
So cool congratulations I am happy for you
Quote from: Sarah_P on February 12, 2018, 05:12:15 PM
It's official!! I'm now legally Sarah Dawn P.....!
Yay! Congratulations! :)
Chrissy
Quote from: Anne Blake on February 12, 2018, 11:13:20 AM
Welcome to the site Millie, your inputs will be appreciated.
Tia Anne
It's about time you put up your picture again.
Quote from: Cassi on February 12, 2018, 06:14:58 PM
It's about time you put up your picture again.
Thank you Cassi, I didn't think that anyone noticed. I have been down in the dumps for a while, I imagine we all know that sort of worthless feeling. Feeling better now, my partner and I are in Las Vegas for holiday and took that shot this morning at breakfast.
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on February 12, 2018, 06:37:04 PM
Thank you Cassi, I didn't think that anyone noticed. I have been down in the dumps for a while, I imagine we all know that sort of worthless feeling. Feeling better now, my partner and I are in Las Vegas for holiday and took that shot this morning at breakfast.
Tia Anne
I'm in Vegas myself - actually live here :)
Vegas, always wanted to visit Vegas :) Hoover Dam, Grand Cannon and the old casino strip. Best of all warm weather.
I am going to attempt to get a selfie for a dating sight and perhaps here, tomorrow at work.
Quote from: Anne Blake on February 12, 2018, 06:37:04 PM
Thank you Cassi, I didn't think that anyone noticed. I have been down in the dumps for a while, I imagine we all know that sort of worthless feeling. Feeling better now, my partner and I are in Las Vegas for holiday and took that shot this morning at breakfast.
Tia Anne
There's my beautiful classy girlfriend! So wonderful to
see you again!
- Stephanie
Quote from: Rachel on February 12, 2018, 07:17:49 PM
Vegas, always wanted to visit Vegas :) Hoover Dam, Grand Cannon and the old casino strip. Best of all warm weather.
I am going to attempt to get a selfie for a dating sight and perhaps here, tomorrow at work.
There's Fremont Street, which my daughter took me to right after I moved here. I think there's a full moon every night on that street :)
Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 12, 2018, 07:29:25 PM
There's my beautiful classy girlfriend! So wonderful to see you again!
- Stephanie
Awww geee Steph, you always know how to make a girl feel all mushy inside
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on February 12, 2018, 09:17:38 PM
Awww geee Steph, you always know how to make a girl feel all mushy inside
Tia Anne
I call 'em as I see 'em, lovely lady. And it makes me happy to know you're feeling better.
- Stephanie
Tori Jo! Sarah Dawn! I'm so joyful for both of you. There's not much that compares with that feeling. Heartfelt congratulations to you both!
Stephanie
Quote from: Sarah_P on February 12, 2018, 05:40:32 PM
OMG!! That's so cool! I can't wait to get mine....
I keep pulling it out of my purse and looking at it. Even though you're not allowed to smile, and I'm not apparently smiling, I can tell how happy I am in that picture! And I smile every time I look at it. Especially that magic "F" on the license. :)
I love reading everyone's name change and drivers license stories when it happens! You can just feel the joy and excitement flowing from the posts. My name change is just 10 days away, and the wait is murder. How did everyone cope with the waiting?
I had a worker at a job site start flirting with me. Really made me feel odd and while I will likely never see him again, I left aglow! It is the first time I can recall having a man "hit" on me. I have had more than a few women customers start flirting, but that is really just fun nonsense. This was really different. I am a very happily spoken for woman and there is nothing to do except enjoy the revelation that I have an allure I am scant aware of I guess.
Good morning all from the west coast!
I got my ears pierced!
Quote from: JulieAllana on February 13, 2018, 09:51:19 AM
I got my ears pierced!
YAY!!
I can't get this one past my wife yet. Someday, I hope. I'm taking baby steps .. BIG baby steps but still, considering the battles I'm giving her, I can lose that one.
My Psychologist approved my letter for HRT!! Now I have to find a doctor! I'm so excited to begin my journey.
Quote from: Jennifer W on February 13, 2018, 03:53:56 PM
My Psychologist approved my letter for HRT!! Now I have to find a doctor! I'm so excited to begin my journey.
Congratulations, Jennifer!
Reorganizing my closet, moving male clothes that I need for work to the back and female clothes that I have purchased to a more prominent space. Something so simple, but it is making me smile.
-Julie
Just now taking my hrt meds! My sister told me I make choices without thinking but I've been on hrt for almost 5 months that's some time to not be thinking! And I don't see myself stopping any time soon either
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Yesterday I got my permanent driver's license with my new name and gender marker! Today I received my debit card, also with my new name.
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on February 13, 2018, 06:19:26 PM
Yesterday I got my permanent driver's license with my new name and gender marker! Today I received my debit card, also with my new name.
That is great Jessica!
Chrissy
I had my annual performance review at work today & it went glowingly! Also, my supervisor (who I'm out to) did her best to avoid using male pronouns throughout the official document!! Though I'm not using feminine pronouns at work yet, I really appreciate her showing her support like that. :icon_dance:
I ordered a bra from Victoria's Secret and it arrived today. It fits me perfectly. I can say I wear a 36A bra now. I'm on top of the world.
Today my wife and I are celebrating our 34th anniversary in Las Vegas. She woke me up this morning with a sweet anniversary present of a pair of dangly lapis lazuli earrings. She has given me many gifts before but this is the first anniversary gift she has ever given her wife. Much has changed during this past year.
I believe that Steph would say, "Squeeeeeeeeeeeee".
Tia Anne
Nice!!!!
I don't know if this is fully happy but a guy who beat me up in high school did not recognise me today and was flirting with me and hitting on me extremely and it felt so good to turn him down
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 14, 2018, 03:16:37 PM
I don't know if this is fully happy but a guy who beat me up in high school did not recognise me today and was flirting with me and hitting on me extremely and it felt so good to turn him down
Wow, that hasn't happen to me yet, lol.
I did however run into a high school bully after returning from Vietnam.
My 1000 yard stare had him running in the opposite direction :)
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 14, 2018, 03:16:37 PM
I don't know if this is fully happy but a guy who beat me up in high school did not recognise me today and was flirting with me and hitting on me extremely and it felt so good to turn him down
Oh wow, that is great!
Quote from: Roll on February 14, 2018, 03:46:04 PM
Oh wow, that is great!
Speak of the devil and not Devyln, my nips are still hurting!!!!!
Hey Robyn, that is great! I love my VS bras and have more than a few. I also really like the Maidenform Devotion line for inexpensive everyday wear. Keep in mind, you will likely be outgrowing your A cup bras in fairly short order. I was ecstatic and also nearly heart broken when I came to a point where my favorite A cup bras just could not fit everything in.
Revenge is a dish best served, yes!? LOL.
It only gets better Cassie!
As for me, I had a chance to fly KT_Bug, my Micro race quadcopter at a park in Del Mar during lunch. I have flown there before and suddenly realized that I am flying close proximity that had me freaked out a few months ago but felt normal and easy now. No spotter, so I kept things close to the ground mostly...so much fun!!!
I made the appointment for my SRS consult. ;D
Time to burn up some frequent flier miles.
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 14, 2018, 05:47:58 PM
I made the appointment for my SRS consult. ;D
Time to burn up some frequent flier miles.
YAY!!! Congrats, hope the consult goes well!
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 14, 2018, 03:16:37 PM
I don't know if this is fully happy but a guy who beat me up in high school did not recognise me today and was flirting with me and hitting on me extremely and it felt so good to turn him down
That must have been an AMAZING feeling!
WOW! All of this makes me so happy - ear piercings, driver's licenses, sweet revenge, SRS, bras, hormone letters.
You ladies are all so awesome!
Thank you, girls you all made my long never ending day at work by reading all your comments, all you chicks Rock. :icon_joy:
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 14, 2018, 05:47:58 PM
I made the appointment for my SRS consult. ;D
Time to burn up some frequent flier miles.
Good for you Sweetie, hope all goes well!
Woke up from a nap (weird sleep habits lately), and realized suddenly... my skin was insanely soft. It has always been soft, like girl soft even before hormones (came up a few times in my life, heh). Now, it's well beyond what I would think of as typically soft even for women, and it feels amazing. It's almost silky, and I can't stop rubbing my arms.
Quote from: Roll on February 14, 2018, 10:22:40 PM
Woke up from a nap (weird sleep habits lately), and realized suddenly... my skin was insanely soft. It has always been soft, like girl soft even before hormones (came up a few times in my life, heh). Now, it's well beyond what I would think of as typically soft even for women, and it feels amazing. It's almost silky, and I can't stop rubbing my arms.
Thanks a lot Ellie. Now, in a couple of weeks I'll be doing that too :)
Quote from: Roll on February 14, 2018, 10:22:40 PM
Woke up from a nap (weird sleep habits lately), and realized suddenly... my skin was insanely soft. It has always been soft, like girl soft even before hormones (came up a few times in my life, heh). Now, it's well beyond what I would think of as typically soft even for women, and it feels amazing. It's almost silky, and I can't stop rubbing my arms.
Ellie,
That is wonderful! Sounds like you are overjoyed about this. Great news.
Chrissy
Quote from: Anne Blake on February 14, 2018, 02:14:15 PM
Today my wife and I are celebrating our 34th anniversary in Las Vegas. She woke me up this morning with a sweet anniversary present of a pair of dangly lapis lazuli earrings. She has given me many gifts before but this is the first anniversary gift she has ever given her wife. Much has changed during this past year.
I believe that Steph would say, "Squeeeeeeeeeeeee".
Tia Anne
Happy anniversary Tia and Debi. yes, it is a SQueeeeeeee moment.
Hugs,
Laurie
Congratz Roll!
Another milestone on your journey! Here's to many more..
Julie
Saw my Endocrinologist at Mt. Sinai for the second time and she increased both my e and t-blocker. This was welcome.
Quote from: Roll on February 14, 2018, 10:22:40 PM
Woke up from a nap (weird sleep habits lately), and realized suddenly... my skin was insanely soft. It has always been soft, like girl soft even before hormones (came up a few times in my life, heh). Now, it's well beyond what I would think of as typically soft even for women, and it feels amazing. It's almost silky, and I can't stop rubbing my arms.
Don't be shocked if a woman you don't know comes up and touches your arm to feel them. It happens.
"OMG! You're so soft. What do you use?"
Come up with something, because if you say hormones, they're going to want to know where to get them and you just won't have the heart to tell them they already have them builtin.
Quote from: Anne Blake on February 14, 2018, 02:14:15 PM
Today my wife and I are celebrating our 34th anniversary in Las Vegas. She woke me up this morning with a sweet anniversary present of a pair of dangly lapis lazuli earrings. She has given me many gifts before but this is the first anniversary gift she has ever given her wife. Much has changed during this past year.
I believe that Steph would say, "Squeeeeeeeeeeeee".
Tia Anne
Haha! Oh yes! Definitely a "Squeeeeeeeeee!" moment! Congratulations, Tia and Debi. You're both awesome!
Stephanie
Quote from: Roll on February 14, 2018, 10:22:40 PM
Woke up from a nap (weird sleep habits lately), and realized suddenly... my skin was insanely soft. It has always been soft, like girl soft even before hormones (came up a few times in my life, heh). Now, it's well beyond what I would think of as typically soft even for women, and it feels amazing. It's almost silky, and I can't stop rubbing my arms.
Soft is good! :)
Chrissy
Quote from: Sarah_P on February 14, 2018, 08:02:16 PM
YAY!!! Congrats, hope the consult goes well!
Thanks!
It's in a couple of weeks, and I'm going to try and time it to have it scheduled right before my birthday in July. (yeah yeah happy birthday to me, lol) But we'll see how the doc's schedule looks. In any case I get to go enjoy Torchy's Tacos and visit my friend who is going through chemo right now after colon cancer surgery last month. It's going to be a good trip no matter what.
Quote from: KarynMcD on February 15, 2018, 05:18:47 AM
Don't be shocked if a woman you don't know comes up and touches your arm to feel them. It happens.
"OMG! You're so soft. What do you use?"
Come up with something, because if you say hormones, they're going to want to know where to get them and you just won't have the heart to tell them they already have them builtin.
Thank you McD!
Enjoying a quiet morning after a wonderful Valentine's evening with my wife. Despite all the humps bumps and crashes of daily life, I feel lucky and blessed every day.
Quote from: BrianaJ on February 15, 2018, 08:57:14 AM
Enjoying a quiet morning after a wonderful Valentine's evening with my wife. Despite all the humps bumps and crashes of daily life, I feel lucky and blessed every day.
For sure!
I got my license changed!!!!!!! Has both my name and that beautiful letter 'F' on it and everything!!!
:eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :eusa_dance: :icon_bumdance-nerd: :icon_bumdance-nerd: :icon_bumdance-nerd:
It's only the temporary printout for now.... can't wait for the real thing to show up!!!!!
Yay no more awkward carding moments
Awesome. That is on my agenda for this summer.
Congrats Sarah!!! Awesome feeling, yes!?
Congrats! So nice to have that piece of ID in your hands!
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 15, 2018, 11:49:01 AM
Yay no more awkward carding moments
Especially once I get my credit cards all changed!
Quote from: RobynTx on February 15, 2018, 12:40:43 PM
Awesome. That is on my agenda for this summer.
Thanks! I hope yours goes as smoothly as mine did!
Quote from: kaitylynn on February 15, 2018, 08:21:00 PM
Congrats Sarah!!! Awesome feeling, yes!?
It's amazing!! I was smiling all day and occasionally lightly squeeing whenever I thought about it. I wanted to show it off to everyone.
Quote from: islandgirl on February 15, 2018, 10:38:08 PM
Congrats! So nice to have that piece of ID in your hands!
Thanks! Yes, it is!!
Congrats Sarah
My wife and I had the opportunity to meet Cassi for a bite to eat and a chance to get to know one another. It was a great two or three hours just talking and enjoying ourselves.
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on February 15, 2018, 11:19:33 PM
My wife and I had the opportunity to meet Cassi for a bite to eat and a chance to get to know one another. It was a great two or three hours just talking and enjoying ourselves.
Tia Anne
I enjoyed myself a great deal. I hadn't realized how much time had passed until I returned home and let the dogs out for their evening duty call - they really let me know how late I was :)
I really had a nice time - thank you again!
Cassi
Told my therapist I consider being finished with my transition and anything from now on will be like "fine" tuning. Same as CIS gender woman. :)
Hmmmm....I was ecstatic to apply my patches and take my pills today :D
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Leaving some chocolates for my new roommates [emoji4] (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180216/1a73780823d0c123a430213017a07030.jpg)
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Mmmmm chocolate
I'm happy because I got word that I've been recommended for acceptance to the doctoral program I was urged to apply to.
Quote from: Colleen_definitely on February 16, 2018, 10:10:17 AM
I'm happy because I got word that I've been recommended for acceptance to the doctoral program I was urged too apply to.
What field?
Chemistry
We are still in Las Vegas and had breakfast on the Miracle Mile. Stopped by the Bikini Bay shop and bought a swim suit that I love and it fits perfectly. It is a one piece, a two piece is coming in 20 or 25 pounds. Wow, bought a swimsuit, another first!
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on February 16, 2018, 02:40:19 PM
We are still in Las Vegas and had breakfast on the Miracle Mile. Stopped by the Bikini Bay shop and bought a swim suit that I love and it fits perfectly. It is a one piece, a two piece is coming in 20 or 25 pounds. Wow, bought a swimsuit, another first!
Tia Anne
Well??????? What color?
You will just have to wait until I get some pics at a beach in the next month or two.
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on February 16, 2018, 03:44:03 PM
You will just have to wait until I get some pics at a beach in the next month or two.
Tia Anne
Okay, lol.
My new boots arrived today. I've always really wanted a nice pair of boots but never been able to bring myself to buy a pair. They fit beautifully and make my feet look quite saint as well! :)
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Nicer rounder bottom but apparently because of my eating was way too much over the last two weeks! Yikes! The built-in pillow I sit on became a bit bigger bubble. We will see if the bubble deflates as I now try to lose these new pounds. I know what happened: Eating candy, ice cream, and fat snacks - I ate too much. Bad girl.
Chrissy
Alas Chrissy I too gained 6 lbs in 3 months and need to shed them again and then a lot more. It's hard when you love food. (and goodies) I'm blaming Michelle's cooking & home made cookies and my lil' Sis Jessica bring me double stuffed OREOS. Yep, it's all their fault.
Hugs,
Laurie
I got my permanent driver's license!!!
ToriJo, YES!!
<Jumping up and down> :)
Quote from: ToriJo on February 17, 2018, 03:43:51 PM
I got my permanent driver's license!!!
Yay! Good picture? (Of course it is, it's ToriJo!)
Stephanie
Quote from: ToriJo on February 17, 2018, 03:43:51 PM
I got my permanent driver's license!!!
Exciting times! Congrats!
Quote from: ToriJo on February 17, 2018, 03:43:51 PM
I got my permanent driver's license!!!
YAY!!! Congrats!!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 17, 2018, 05:02:27 PM
Yay! Good picture? (Of course it is, it's ToriJo!)
I'm pretty happy with it, as I think it's about as good as DMV photography gets! (you aren't allowed to smile, and I was actually really, really happy at this point!)
(https://image.ibb.co/nJSTrS/dl_pic.jpg)
At some point, I'll be brave enough to change my avatar to a recent picture of me.
Oddly the DMV here lets you smile.
Same here. But ToriJo fooled em. I see the smile in there!
Stephanie
My wife for the first time ever referred to me as "she" and "Sarah" in an email...
Saw Black Panther with my mom today (it was AWESOME!), then we had dinner. She told me that since she doesn't wear them anymore, I can raid her earrings! :laugh:
So kewl of your mom.
My niece wants us to go shopping for earrings, sunglasses and heels. Don't think I'll be trying on heels in public as I'm still presenting as "him". And as far sunglasses, while I'm sure that I would look absolutely fabulous in any style, I do wear prescription glasses so others would be a waste of money.
However, I'm happy about spending time with her. She's really supportive of my trans'ing :)
I've been all over the place lately emotionally, but really haven't felt the need to dress female for a while (yay, HRT doing its job) even though it has a grounding effect. So I realized I really needed to. Well, today I decided that I was going to try something different. I put on fake boobs, super light makeup (literally just foundation, no extra beard cover or anything, worked amazingly well post even just the one laser), donned my hair, and just wore regular guy clothes. I figured that if I looked feminine wearing them at only 2 months on HRT, that would be a pretty solid indicator of future potential. Well, I was quite happy with the result. (Though the lack of realism for my rice in hose boobs is bothering me a bit, heh.) Definitely would look better with a female cut t-shirt (male cut just sort of hangs off "boobs" and looks awkward), but overall it worked.
Also, I've made random steps to stop hiding. I keep forgetting I'm basically out to everyone at this point, and no longer have any need to keep stuff on my computer in secret directories or hiding makeup in the back of drawers. (Not that anyone ever went through either my computer or my drawers, but the paranoia was there!) So now all my girl photos are just sitting in a folder on my desktop and my makeup and wigs are sitting out for all to see.
I've been having a really good weekend :D
yesterday I went for a jog and I made a great meal and then I went out for a drink with some friends (one of which is back in town, she moved a month and a half ago and I've missed her!) and then I went and hung out at another friend's house and had a great time chatting and playing with her dogs, I got so many snuggles and kisses! Then today I got up early and went to a hardcore punk show that started at 9am! It was a really fun time and then I went and refilled my hormones and had brunch with my best friend and she gave me a makeup bag with donuts on it! She told her mom about me because I'm going to be at her wedding in June and her mom was cool with it, I've known her since I was 15 and she said she always thought I was asexual lol. Brunch was amazing, I had a coconut mocha latte and some crepes, yummmm! Then I went for a jog and I went to a giftshop to buy coffee and had a cute little moment with a girl and then I came home.
Hi Maddie and Ellie. Both of you seem to be doing very well and I'm glad to see it in both of you.
Quote from: Laurie on February 18, 2018, 03:27:35 PM
Hi Maddie and Ellie. Both of you seem to be doing very well and I'm glad to see it in both of you.
thank you :)
I had to go out and get a passport picture taken today - and for the first time just was able to connect with other women without feeling I was an outsider intruding during the day. Just small chit chat, but it still feels pretty awesome. :)
Oh, finally got brave enough to update my avatar. I definitely want my hair to start growing faster, but when I looked at the new passport picture vs. the old one, it is striking how different I look these days. I'll always be more masculine looking than I like, but I'm really liking how Tori is starting to look. :)
Tori you look great!! And most important you look genuinely happy.
I'll agree with Kendra Tori, you look great and happy.
And it is so nice to be out dressed as we feel and feeling great as ourselves. The smiles we wear and the twinkle in our eyes tell it all. They say "I am happy with who I am and I don't care who sees it! I am ME!!" Finally we are able to show ourselves and just be.
I get a lot of comments from long-time friends about the change in my eyes - and I notice I carry myself with a ton more confidence.
But of course when you start liking yourself and treating her right, it's a *lot* easier to smile, have confidence, and otherwise deal with life, and I'm starting to believe all the gals that have been through this that it's a mental thing.
For the first time ever, my wife called me Jessica!
Jessica, Now that is a thing to remember and be happy about. And it is another step in your journey, congratulations.
Tia Anne
Quote from: ToriJo on February 18, 2018, 06:52:26 PM
I had to go out and get a passport picture taken today - and for the first time just was able to connect with other women without feeling I was an outsider intruding during the day. Just small chit chat, but it still feels pretty awesome. :)
Oh, finally got brave enough to update my avatar. I definitely want my hair to start growing faster, but when I looked at the new passport picture vs. the old one, it is striking how different I look these days. I'll always be more masculine looking than I like, but I'm really liking how Tori is starting to look. :)
I agree, you look great, and happy!
I think it's crazy how one email can change your day. I emailed the woman who did my very first makeover, asking for some advice on how to hide stubble, and she got back to me a minute ago, it's literally made me day. I feel so determined to ace my makeup.
My day was very meh prior to that. Slow at work, the usual level of dysphoria accompanying me everywhere I go
My hair is long enough I can get it in my mouth. Lol sorry silly happy moment
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 19, 2018, 10:26:37 AM
My hair is long enough I can get it in my mouth. Lol sorry silly happy moment
That is wonderful!
Chrissy
I feel like I helped someone today. Which is what I feel my purpose is right now
I lost almost all the weight I had put on over the last two weeks.
I did not eat much the last three days and will eat again when hungry.
Now, moderation is the key when eating but at times it is hard for me to NOT snack on foods that can put on weight. Naughty, naughty. I know that long term moderation is the key but sometimes I just simply ignore that fact!
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on February 19, 2018, 11:29:26 AM
I lost almost all the weight I had put on over the last two weeks.
I did not eat much the last three days and will eat again when hungry.
Now, moderation is the key when eating but at times it is hard for me to NOT snack on foods that can put on weight. Naughty, naughty. I know that long term moderation is the key but sometimes I just simply ignore that fact!
Chrissy
Mayo, mayo....................
I had a good workout earlier today too.
But that I guess is no biggie for all of you who have one about every day! :)
Chrissy
Well today at work a couple of the girls I work with got together and asked me if they go through there clothes if I would wear them as we are about the same size so I now will have lots of clothes it is really cool working with such caring people
Totally Kewl!
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 19, 2018, 10:18:56 PM
Well today at work a couple of the girls I work with got together and asked me if they go through there clothes if I would wear them as we are about the same size so I now will have lots of clothes it is really cool working with such caring people
That is awesome!
Do they have similar style choices to what you would pick?
Quote from: Artesia on February 20, 2018, 06:30:10 AM
That is awesome!
Do they have similar style choices to what you would pick?
I've had people do that for me. The nice thing is, if they have a different style it can lead you to clothes you wouldn't otherwise consider. I'm wearing a shirt right now that I never would have considered but now it's one of my favorites. If they don't work just pass them down the line.
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
well waking up this morning, knowing I am living my life as woman and the real me on the inside is also on the outside.
and then getting to put on a dress and making myself pretty with some makeup..
This morning I woke up in a good mood..
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 19, 2018, 10:18:56 PM
Well today at work a couple of the girls I work with got together and asked me if they go through there clothes if I would wear them as we are about the same size so I now will have lots of clothes it is really cool working with such caring people
I had a dear friend do that for me. We traveled from Florida to Tennessee to spend time with her and her husband, and to try on a literal roomful of clothes she'd set aside for me. There was so much that it took me five hours to try them all on. Even though she's a lot taller than me, about half of them fit. She had complained that she had dresses that she loved but were too short for her, and they fit me beautifully. With that new wardrobe I was finally able to purge the boy clothes completely.
I'll say it again: people are cool, and women especially. What a privilege to be accepted into that world.
- Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 20, 2018, 08:09:05 AM
I'll say it again: people are cool, and women especially. What a privilege to be accepted into that world.
- Stephanie
Yes I totally agree with you I figured where I work I would have a very hard time but the girls I work with stick up for my and ya treat me like there own I love it.
Natalie, I am sure these girls won't be the last to offer you clothes! The women in my life have stepped up in a huge way, letting me pick out earrings, bags, scarves, makeup, clothes. And the best part is, they aren't sweating it at all--most women have lots of extra items that they are holding onto for one reason or another. Stephanie, I couldn't agree more that it's amazing to be accepted into the sisterhood! So happy to see all of the great news on this forum, as always.
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 20, 2018, 08:42:33 AM
Yes I totally agree with you I figured where I work I would have a very hard time but the girls I work with stick up for my and ya treat me like there own I love it.
Isn't it amazing how wonderful it feels when the ladies you work with treat you as just one of the girls. I have ladies at work that I go shopping with and who have brought me jewelry and makeup. They see me as just another lady in the office....
Well, they should, you are a lady afterall. You too Nat
Yes it is very nice to be treated by the girls as a girl, I love it I have always dreamed of it
I was in another Onison video at 4:17 I posted on there just for fun to get on youtube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ifj8_CjoJU&t=0s
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 19, 2018, 10:18:56 PM
Well today at work a couple of the girls I work with got together and asked me if they go through there clothes if I would wear them as we are about the same size so I now will have lots of clothes it is really cool working with such caring people
One of my lady friends gave me a bunch of her old clothes last summer. They were too small for her (barely), but fit me well (mostly). That gave me a big boost to my wardrobe back when I was first starting out. We're actually really close on sizes, so occasionally borrow clothes from each other. It's such an amazing feeling to share like that!
My 3rd batch of parts for my engine rebuild showed up today. Cant wait to have this thing back together so we can stop bumming rides to work... oh and have a life outside the house.
Quote from: Jennifer.Diamonds on February 21, 2018, 01:04:12 AM
My 3rd batch of parts for my engine rebuild showed up today. Cant wait to have this thing back together so we can stop bumming rides to work... oh and have a life outside the house.
Cool what type of engine
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on February 21, 2018, 01:25:05 AM
Cool what type of engine
Currently working on a v8 5.9 magnum. Pulled it out of our 98 Durango because a freeze plug between the transmission and engine was leaking.. I kept finding more and more wrong with it.. so long story short decided to rebuild the whole thing.
I've had HORRIBLE luck with vehicles all my life.. so i figured heck, why not just build a vehicle myself, so i know it's right, and have a reliable vehicle finally. I might make a post about it in general or something with pics
Hanging out with a guuuuuy i kinda like hahaha. :P
With the nice weather I tried on a pair of shorts that didn't quite fit when I bought them. I did anyway as a someday thing. Well someday is today because they fit really nicely and I had zero issues getting into them.
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Less than 24 hours and my old name can begin to be tossed in the trash! Court for my name change is tomorrow!!!! I already have letters for the Social Security people, and the BMV, with the legal papers in hand I'm going to everyone tomorrow to have things changed.
Quote from: Artesia on February 21, 2018, 03:39:40 PM
Less than 24 hours and my old name can begin to be tossed in the trash! Court for my name change is tomorrow!!!! I already have letters for the Social Security people, and the BMV, with the legal papers in hand I'm going to everyone tomorrow to have things changed.
SQUEEE!!!! Hope it all goes smoothly!
Quote from: Artesia on February 21, 2018, 03:39:40 PM
Less than 24 hours and my old name can begin to be tossed in the trash! Court for my name change is tomorrow!!!! I already have letters for the Social Security people, and the BMV, with the legal papers in hand I'm going to everyone tomorrow to have things changed.
Artesia, awesome news!!
And this reminds me - when I was in Arizona for GCS I took this photo next door to Toby Meltzer's office.
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/zadpkuwlz931jig/2017-11-01%2009.18.33.jpg?raw=1)
Quote from: Artesia on February 21, 2018, 03:39:40 PM
Less than 24 hours and my old name can begin to be tossed in the trash! Court for my name change is tomorrow!!!! I already have letters for the Social Security people, and the BMV, with the legal papers in hand I'm going to everyone tomorrow to have things changed.
As a shorty I know says SQUeeeeeeeeeeeee Clare. Congrats!
Quote from: Laurie on February 21, 2018, 04:31:34 PM
As a shorty I know says SQUeeeeeeeeeeeee Clare. Congrats!
That's MRS. Shorty to you.
And Artesia: SQUEEEEEEE!!
Stephanie
Quote from: Kendra on February 21, 2018, 04:20:25 PM
Artesia, awesome news!!
And this reminds me - when I was in Arizona for GCS I took this photo next door to Toby Meltzer's office.
(https://www.dropbox.com/s/zadpkuwlz931jig/2017-11-01%2009.18.33.jpg?raw=1)
That's a good likeness of me. Stocky yet elegant. ;D
Thank you all! There is bound to be more squeeee tomorrow......especially from me! 11:30am local time is my supposed appearance, I know the courts can run slow sometimes. I'm praying that it's quick and easy, and the judge doesn't have any back up.
I suppose I have a good reason, just had GCS yesterday with Dr. McGinn :-)
Quote from: TechGirl on February 21, 2018, 05:19:46 PM
I suppose I have a good reason, just had GCS yesterday with Dr. McGinn :-)
SUPER SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!
Congratulations! Hope everything's gone great! Please be careful & take care of yourself!
Quote from: TechGirl on February 21, 2018, 05:19:46 PM
I suppose I have a good reason, just had GCS yesterday with Dr. McGinn :-)
Congrats! That is so exciting! All the Best in your recovery!
While it's hard to compete with Clair and Tech Girl in terms of scope, I just had a truly amazing experience.
This is a cross post with my thread, but I have to shout it out!
So, today is my birthday. And it started out... pretty terribly. But my experience just how erased all of that unequivocally.
(copy and paste from my thread)
My sister always has the best socks. Just really amazing socks, crazy patterns and colors, they are just plain fun and cute. She has dozens if not hundreds. I've always been in awe of them, even before coming out. I've told her how great they were for years. So this year when people asked me what I wanted for both Christmas and then my birthday, I didn't speak up about what I truly wanted: women's clothes and accessories. I made due with some games during Christmas, a few nice cooking tools, etc. But come my birthday, I just asked for gift cards, because I still haven't the courage to say what I really wanted, and I figured an amazon card or two would help out. Well, not a single person listened to me, and I'm glad, because I got some really thoughtful presents all around. But the winner hands down... my sister got me two big packs of socks like hers. Women's socks, with amazing and hilarious and cute patterns. I didn't have the courage to ask for anything I wanted, but she knew. And the thought that went into that... the acceptance to act preemptively on something like that... the attention to detail for remembering how much I loved her socks and how cute and girly they were... it brought me to tears. After, she said something that I thought was just so incredibly wonderful and insightful, and is something so many of us here have said time and again. She knew I was scared of presenting in public or around people, but with socks... I could wear them, and I would know, even know one else did. That she understood what that meant to me without me ever saying anything remotely like that was just... it just floored me. What this present means to me is just... I can't even do it justice. I am just bawling as I type this, tears of just pure happiness. Such a simple thing, but such an amazingly wonderful thing somehow at the same time.
(end copy paste)
But yeah, it's no GCS. ;D But even if it's just socks, this is something I know I will remember forever. It is the moment that I felt not just accepted, but actively encouraged by someone who means the world to me, and is a huge turning point for me in terms of awkwardness about the issue around family.
TechGirl, congratulations!! Yess!!
And Roll, what a sweet story. The thought that went into that is so cool and yes I can see why you were just stunned. A day you will have fond memories of forever.
Awesomes!
TechGirl, CONGRATULATIONS!!
Ellie, I am crying at your sister's display of love and understanding. Give her a big hug for me.
Ellie your sister is the best don't forget to give her a big hug
I just mailed off my forms for my name and gender change In a couple of months I will be
Roberta Susan T******* and legally a woman
bobbisue :)
PS squeeeeeeeeeee
I told my sister she has a fan club and read her some of the posts from here and my thread, she was extremely touched. A few times in the past I've told her a few of the terrible family reactions people sometimes have, and how grateful I was to her before, and she just proved how great she is again by saying she has thought about those reactions and how sad it makes her that people can't just be loving and understanding, and that she wishes more people were able to feel the way I was.
She's completely undecided on what she wants to do career wise, but one thing she has talked about is psychology/social work/something in that area and even before I came out was interested in working with people with a range of issues including gender because she knows that so many people out there just don't have resources around them to properly deal with it. She sees it all the time in her school.
So while I was originally just posting to say the first bit, you know what? This is a what makes me happy post after all. I'm so happy, so very very happy, to have such a wonderful person in my life!! ;D
Oh, and my estradiol got doubled this morning.
Aww Ellie that's great! I'm sorry your birthday started rough but I'm glad that you had some happiness!!
what made me happy today is that I came out to a friend of mine that I never really get to see and she was very supportive <3
Quote from: Roll on February 21, 2018, 09:09:49 PM
While it's hard to compete with Clair and Tech Girl in terms of scope, I just had a truly amazing experience.
This is a cross post with my thread, but I have to shout it out!
So, today is my birthday. And it started out... pretty terribly. But my experience just how erased all of that unequivocally.
(copy and paste from my thread)
My sister always has the best socks. Just really amazing socks, crazy patterns and colors, they are just plain fun and cute. She has dozens if not hundreds. I've always been in awe of them, even before coming out. I've told her how great they were for years. So this year when people asked me what I wanted for both Christmas and then my birthday, I didn't speak up about what I truly wanted: women's clothes and accessories. I made due with some games during Christmas, a few nice cooking tools, etc. But come my birthday, I just asked for gift cards, because I still haven't the courage to say what I really wanted, and I figured an amazon card or two would help out. Well, not a single person listened to me, and I'm glad, because I got some really thoughtful presents all around. But the winner hands down... my sister got me two big packs of socks like hers. Women's socks, with amazing and hilarious and cute patterns. I didn't have the courage to ask for anything I wanted, but she knew. And the thought that went into that... the acceptance to act preemptively on something like that... the attention to detail for remembering how much I loved her socks and how cute and girly they were... it brought me to tears. After, she said something that I thought was just so incredibly wonderful and insightful, and is something so many of us here have said time and again. She knew I was scared of presenting in public or around people, but with socks... I could wear them, and I would know, even know one else did. That she understood what that meant to me without me ever saying anything remotely like that was just... it just floored me. What this present means to me is just... I can't even do it justice. I am just bawling as I type this, tears of just pure happiness. Such a simple thing, but such an amazingly wonderful thing somehow at the same time.
(end copy paste)
But yeah, it's no GCS. ;D But even if it's just socks, this is something I know I will remember forever. It is the moment that I felt not just accepted, but actively encouraged by someone who means the world to me, and is a huge turning point for me in terms of awkwardness about the issue around family.
It's more than just socks, dear. It's acceptance. It's unconditional love. It's a deep seated knowledge of who you are. It's encouragement. It's support.
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!
My name is totally legal, Social Security card will be mailed shortly. Drivers license has to wait till tomorrow because apparently the license branch requires 24 hours after the social security is changed before allowing a name change on the drivers license. At least all my paper work for the change is in order already.
Quote from: Artesia on February 22, 2018, 09:30:25 PM
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!
My name is totally legal, Social Security card will be mailed shortly. Drivers license has to wait till tomorrow because apparently the license branch requires 24 hours after the social security is changed before allowing a name change on the drivers license. At least all my paper work for the change is in order already.
That is great news Clair Definitely something to be happy about.
Hugs,
Laurie
Congrats Clair, finally you new life even better. :)
I went to renew my passport today, to a local government agency that does that.
I hand the stack of documents and my old passport to the dude at the counter. Before I can explain what I just handed him and why, he flips open the passport, looks at the picture, and then looks at the woman standing across from him. He looks at the passport again, then back at me, then suddenly really wide eyes - and realizes that, yes, the owner of the passport is right in front of him.
Then he says, "I'm going to need a different ID so I can verify this is you. And I'm thinking you probably have some medical documentation you want to send with this." He did it very politely and such - no problem there, and I had what was needed.
This was probably one of the most validating moments of my life - that passport was a bit less than a year old, and I still very much see the guy in the mirror. I also didn't bother getting dressed very fancy or anything - just a T-shirt, a hoodie, jeans, sneakers, and the bare minimum for makeup.
This morning I noticed something super cool... My hair line seems to be shifting to a feminine pattern. Maybe I am just being too liberal with the minox, but whatever the reason I'll take. My hairline has been fine forever, but was still in a male pattern. Now, there is light fuzzy vellum hair on the corners and coming down a bit from the front hair line creating the smooth rounded curve hair line rather than the slight M pattern. They are still virtually entirely invisible, but the hairs are there!!
I got into my high waisted skinny jeans... Comfortably!
I've managed to lose about 4 and a half pounds now which has really helped my figure. I'm hoping to lose about another 18 but I think I'm going struggle as I put on muscle.
I'm also feeling much more confident presenting feminine outside of my house now. It's a lot more than I thought I would be able to do :)
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Jeans... I was delighted that my size 6 skinny jeans, which used to be a bit loose on the hips are now quite snug! And I'm still at my goal weight!
Wheee!
Met with my new landlord and her husband to discuss some issues with another tenant (that are going to be resolved! yay!) Also went through my lease agreement and explained that I wanted my name and information updated on my file.
They were so confused, 'Who is *deadname* did you take over their lease?' 'Did you get married why the name change?'
And then the jaw drop when I politely explain that I was born a man. And at the time of my lease I was still presenting male. They couldn't believe it. lol
Wow, just wow. I'm gathering from all of this that I'm far far far beyond 'male fail.' Even going to the hospital now, everybody asks 'is there a possibility you could be pregnant?' 'You're 100% sure?'
*gigglefit.*
Quote from: Angela Drakken on February 26, 2018, 10:15:08 AM
Met with my new landlord and her husband to discuss some issues with another tenant (that are going to be resolved! yay!) Also went through my lease agreement and explained that I wanted my name and information updated on my file.
They were so confused, 'Who is *deadname* did you take over their lease?' 'Did you get married why the name change?'
And then the jaw drop when I politely explain that I was born a man. And at the time of my lease I was still presenting male. They couldn't believe it. lol
Wow, just wow. I'm gathering from all of this that I'm far far far beyond 'male fail.' Even going to the hospital now, everybody asks 'is there a possibility you could be pregnant?' 'You're 100% sure?'
*gigglefit.*
Congratulations, Angela! Ain't it cool? At my last doctor appointment I was asked when I'd had my last menstrual period. And today I ran some recent selfies through FaceApp (first time since before I started transitioning 8 months ago) and the female filters didn't seem to be working. They made no discernible changes at all!
Stephanie
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Quote from: Steph2.0 on February 26, 2018, 10:27:42 AM
.... ..... At my last doctor appointment I was asked when I'd had my last menstrual period. And today I ran some recent selfies through FaceApp (first time since before I started transitioning 8 months ago) and the female filters didn't seem to be working. They made no discernible changes at all!
Stephanie
@ Stephanie: Wow whee.... what happened at your doctor appointment is absolutely terrific.... and the FaceApp filters were indeed working.... they can't really change and modify a face to feminine that is already very feminine!!!! I have done the same identical thing with FaceApp with the same results... it made me feel very good indeed.
Aspriringperson
Early this morning when I was unlocking and opening my office a male acquaintance came right in to greet me and give me an espresso and a bagel. He kept on saying how nice I was when we had met and talked briefly last week and how I looked so pretty this morning... he also was hinting about taking me out to dinner this week.... I had only met him once this last week when I was leaving a local coffee shop having breakfast and he must have figured out where my business is located when I answered his question about what I do.
This indeed made me happy today!! :) :) :) :)
Yay! How lovely on a Monday!
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Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 26, 2018, 11:52:08 AM
Early this morning when I was unlocking and opening my office a male acquaintance came right in to greet me and give me an espresso and a bagel. He kept on saying how nice I was when we had met and talked briefly last week and how I looked so pretty this morning... he also was hinting about taking me out to dinner this week.... I had only met him once this last week when I was leaving a local coffee shop having breakfast and he must have figured out where my business is located when I answered his question about what I do.
This indeed made me happy today!! :) :) :) :)
Oh that is awesome
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Congrats on being hit on! Do you have any interest?
Quote from: p on February 26, 2018, 01:20:47 PM
Congrats on being hit on! Do you have any interest?
Honestly, I was floored by the unsolicited attention. When I calm down a little I will figure out my interest level and how and if I wish to proceed. He was rather tall, trim and good looking, however he sure looked a little young to me .... or perhaps he just has one of the young looking baby faces like some do ... ;) Since I live in a small town and now he knows where my business is and where the coffee shop is that I frequent I am certain I will bump into him again...
I finally got my first laser appointment scheduled (Groupon is amazing!). I figure that I'll do laser first while I'm waiting on my first endo appointment. Then, After a few months of E, I can start thinking about electro.
Good choice. I started with laser as well, can't start to soon to get rid of the dark hairs.
Was out looking for bargains at the thrift store and I got 2 ma'ams and a her. :)
Julie
Quote from: epvanbeveren on February 26, 2018, 11:17:07 PM
Good choice. I started with laser as well, can't start to soon to get rid of the dark hairs.
I can't wait. ^_^
http://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fcnn.it%2F2BS03bI&h=ATO0O64PtPLDA04a2xmoEQuOyEhX0Z10WDhhJ8EEAMyevDQ5AhqhSBQpldc_hYqdfSma7FWTX8LS0_pYodRC0UxrGmygZrVa54zPfOR22O201VQCnvNGSTaiClH33tQ&s=1
This made me happy!
Hope the link works.
Quote from: Artesia on February 27, 2018, 08:20:32 AM
http://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fcnn.it%2F2BS03bI&h=ATO0O64PtPLDA04a2xmoEQuOyEhX0Z10WDhhJ8EEAMyevDQ5AhqhSBQpldc_hYqdfSma7FWTX8LS0_pYodRC0UxrGmygZrVa54zPfOR22O201VQCnvNGSTaiClH33tQ&s=1
This made me happy!
Hope the link works.
Good morning, Artesia!
Here's a more direct link to the item you brought up:
https://www.cnn.com/2018/02/26/politics/first-transgender-recruit-join-us-military/index.html
First transgender recruit signs up to join US militaryCNN.com
By Ryan Browne
Updated 12:41 PM ET, Mon February 26, 2018
"Washington (CNN)The Pentagon confirmed Monday that the first transgender person has signed a contract to join the US military, a development made possible after a federal judge ruled that the military must accept transgender recruits. The ruling came after President Donald Trump announced his desire to prevent transgender people from serving in a July tweet.
"'The Department of Defense confirms that as of February 23, 2018, there is one transgender individual under contract for service in the US Military,' Maj. Dave Eastburn told CNN. . . ."
Kind of funny that the article seems to imply that this is the only trans person in the military, when there are and have been thousands. But it's quite a game-changer for an OPENLY trans person to JOIN under the new policy.
« quote author=Aspiringperson Reply #1457 on: Yesterday at 11:52:08 am »Quote:
"Early this morning when I was unlocking and opening my office a male acquaintance came right in to greet me and give me an espresso and a bagel. He kept on saying how nice I was when we had met and talked briefly last week and how I looked so pretty this morning... he also was hinting about taking me out to dinner this week.... I had only met him once this last week when I was leaving a local coffee shop having breakfast and he must have figured out where my business is located when I answered his question about what I do.
This indeed made me happy today!! :) :) :) :)
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Congrats on being hit on! Do you have any interest?
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Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 26, 2018, 01:25:48 PM
Honestly, I was floored by the unsolicited attention. When I calm down a little I will figure out my interest level and how and if I wish to proceed. He was rather tall, trim and good looking, however he sure looked a little young to me .... or perhaps he just has one of the young looking baby faces like some do ... ;) Since I live in a small town and now he knows where my business is and where the coffee shop is that I frequent I am certain I will bump into him again...
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... Today, a continuation... Well, the plot thickens. "He" showed up at my business again today to ask me if I wanted to go to dinner with him this week. I told him I would let him know soon... I am really temped, he is tall, good looking, well groomed, polite... he was wearing nice dress/casual clothes both yesterday when I met him for the first time and today so I don't think he is a logger, or construction worker, fisherman, etc like so many are around here... but that really doesn't matter at this point. Next time I see him or have a conversation with him I will be certain to ask.
I have several new problems now: When I started living full-time at the end of 2016 I moved up here to a small town and started my own business and as far as I know, no one in my new town knows about my transition. There seems to be no question that I pass 100% of the time.
Obviously if I go to dinner with him, during that dinner outing I will absolutely tell him about myself... the additional problem is ... how long before everyone in town knows about my past male life, which by the way I am proud to have transitioned but in this small and conservative town full of people that are outdoors men, loggers, fisherman, etc... I am holding my breath that this does not affect my business significantly.??
For now I think that I will politely refuse but my future responses are uncertain.
The several lady friends that I frequently go to the local gym with do not know that I am a trans-woman, I seemed to have passed the frightful locker room scenario (very carefully, I may add) Here are some pics of me at the local gym.
(first pic: I stacked 49 inches of weights in record time.)
****PLEASE: Any advice or comments from you gals that transitioned to full-time would be most welcome
Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 27, 2018, 06:02:35 PM
Any advice or comments from you gals that transitioned to full-time would be most welcome
How small is the town? If for some reason half found out and disapproved would that make having meaningful interactions with the other half difficult?
Edit: I shouldn't have posted, I haven't transitioned to full-time. I was just curious.
Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 27, 2018, 06:02:35 PM
Obviously if I go to dinner with him, during that dinner outing I will absolutely tell him about myself... the additional problem is ... how long before everyone in town knows about my past male life, which by the way I am proud to have transitioned but in this small and conservative town full of people that are outdoors men, loggers, fisherman, etc... I am holding my breath that this does not affect my business significantly.??
First off, hell yeah you pass!
I would probably subtly ask him how he felt about the LGBT community, in general. Then, somehow let the conversation evolve to the trans community. If he's really negative about it, don't get defensive, but decide how you want to go about it from there. If you don't feel safe or if you're not comfortable moving forward with things, finish the date and don't see him again. That's how I would do it. Then again, I haven't fully transitioned, so take my words with a grain of salt. It's all totally up to your judgement.
Quote from: SiobhánF on February 27, 2018, 07:04:27 PM
First off, hell yeah you pass!
I would probably subtly ask him how he felt about the LGBT community, in general. Then, somehow let the conversation evolve to the trans community. If he's really negative about it, don't get defensive, but decide how you want to go about it from there. If you don't feel safe or if you're not comfortable moving forward with things, finish the date and don't see him again. That's how I would do it. Then again, I haven't fully transitioned, so take my words with a grain of salt. It's all totally up to your judgement.
Just be "reading" (ie: have it up at all times ready to go) that article about the first openly transgender soldier and use it as a gauge
Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 27, 2018, 06:02:35 PM
****PLEASE: Any advice or comments from you gals that transitioned to full-time would be most welcome[/size]
I've been out for almost 3 years now and I've only once never told the person up front. My view is if they can't handle the fact I'm trans up front then there is probably not a relationship to be had.
But I live in Los Angeles and I am very open about myself. Partially because I transitioned on the job and I've been working with some of the same people for almost 30 years and so I really couldn't go stealth even if I wanted to. So I can say my situation is vastly different from yours.
Having grown up in a very small town I can tell you that as soon as one person knows about your background, the whole town will know shortly after that. People will not be able to keep the information to themselves. So you will need to think very hard before you tell anyone. It will probably be better to take your time and get to know the people in the community and let them get to know you. Once you have established yourself and people know and like you then they will probably be much less judgmental about your prior life. Then again it is Alaska where people go so that they can be individualistic so they may not care at all.
Quote from: PollyQMcLovely on February 27, 2018, 06:35:03 PM
How small is the town? If for some reason half found out and disapproved would that make having meaningful interactions with the other half difficult?
Edit: I shouldn't have posted, I haven't transitioned to full-time. I was just curious.
@ PollyOMcLovely: No problem... I am glad that you posted with your comments about my situation. I am open to all suggestions... Thank you for your thoughts. Yeah, very small town, depending on the time of year the population is 1500 to 2500. I have been here for 16 months and have already built good friendships and acquaintances... there have been a few friends here that in the last couple months I was considering telling them... if one person knows, all will know soon enough... I am getting prepared to just tell everyone soon so they here from me, not the grapevine gossip sources. I think it will be better that way.
Aspiringperson
Quote from: SiobhánF on February 27, 2018, 07:04:27 PM
First off, hell yeah you pass!
I would probably subtly ask him how he felt about the LGBT community, in general. Then, somehow let the conversation evolve to the trans community. If he's really negative about it, don't get defensive, but decide how you want to go about it from there. If you don't feel safe or if you're not comfortable moving forward with things, finish the date and don't see him again. That's how I would do it. Then again, I haven't fully transitioned, so take my words with a grain of salt. It's all totally up to your judgement.
SiobhánF: Thank you for your comments and good suggestions.
I appreciate you posting your ideas.
Aspiringperson
You should assess his trustworthiness before you tell him. If you feel you can trust him not to blab, then tell him about your past. If you can't trust him, then he doesn't need to know.
How do you assess his trustworthiness? Heck, if I could answer that, I'd be rich and famous.
Quote from: I Am Jess on February 27, 2018, 08:22:58 PM
I've been out for almost 3 years now and I've only once never told the person up front. My view is if they can't handle the fact I'm trans up front then there is probably not a relationship to be had.
Having grown up in a very small town I can tell you that as soon as one person knows about your background, the whole town will know shortly after that. People will not be able to keep the information to themselves. So you will need to think very hard before you tell anyone. It will probably be better to take your time and get to know the people in the community and let them get to know you. Once you have established yourself and people know and like you then they will probably be much less judgmental about your prior life. Then again it is Alaska where people go so that they can be individualistic so they may not care at all.
@ I am Jess: Thanks for your input. You are right about small town gossip, if one knows, all will know soon ...
and I would rather they here from me directly so I have been planning very soon to just tell everyone I come across right away but this recent situation and a dinner date kinda brings it to a head.
Thanks for your reply.
Aspiringperson
Quote from: Roll on February 27, 2018, 07:27:25 PM
Just be "reading" (ie: have it up at all times ready to go) that article about the first openly transgender soldier and use it as a gauge
@ Roll: Thanks for your response!!!! I think that I am deciding to so what I have been planning all along... Instead of letting people find out via gossip I am thinking of just going to tell everyone I come across myself. That way they will hear it directly from me. I have been here for 16 months, have a network of friends, acquaintances and business clients and as far as I know, no one knows... yet!!!
Thanks again for responding.
Aspiringperson
You are brave. Best of luck.
Quote from: KathyLauren on February 27, 2018, 08:44:16 PM
You should assess his trustworthiness before you tell him. If you feel you can trust him not to blab, then tell him about your past. If you can't trust him, then he doesn't need to know.
How do you assess his trustworthiness? Heck, if I could answer that, I'd be rich and famous.
@ KathyLauren: Thanks for your reply. I have been considering what you said and I agree that he doesn't have to know especially if I don't date him. You are right, how does one assess his trustworthiness, oh yeah, we would be rich and famous if the answer was found.
The town I live in is very small, 1500 to 2500 depending on the time of year. I have been here for 16 months as a full time female and I feel that no one knows about my male past due to the fact I pass so well... even the ladies I go to the gym with.
I have been thinking that instead of people finding out via the small town grape vine that perhaps I should just tell everyone I come across so they here it directly from me.... I just don't know but soon I need to do something after living here and being a part of the town for 16 months.
****This would all be much easier if I didn't pass so well!!!Thanks again.
Aspiringperson
Quote from: Aspiringperson on February 27, 2018, 06:02:35 PM
****PLEASE: Any advice or comments from you gals that transitioned to full-time would be most welcome[/size]
Well, I've only been full-time for a month, and have zero dating experience, so I don't know how much I can help. But I also live in a small (well, 8000, so larger than yours) town (in Kansas) that's really conservative (or so I thought?) and religious. Since I've gone full-time, the reaction has been astoundingly good. This may not be the case with your town, but people can really surprise you. But yes, once someone knows everyone will soon.
Do any of your new friends in town know the guy in question? Can they tell you what he's like, so you can get an idea how he might react?
Quote from: Sarah_P on February 27, 2018, 10:09:10 PM
Well, I've only been full-time for a month, and have zero dating experience, so I don't know how much I can help. But I also live in a small (well, 8000, so larger than yours) town (in Kansas) that's really conservative (or so I thought?) and religious. Since I've gone full-time, the reaction has been astoundingly good. This may not be the case with your town, but people can really surprise you. But yes, once someone knows everyone will soon.
Do any of your new friends in town know the guy in question? Can they tell you what he's like, so you can get an idea how he might react?
@ Sarah_P: Thank you for your thoughtful reply. I will be going to the gym with my girl group tomorrow and I will ask them. I think he works for either a pharmacy, sporting goods store, bank or a credit union because those places are less than a block away from the coffee shop that I met him at yesterday... my business is 2 doors away from the coffee shop... but I will ask him next time I see him. Certainly anyone I talk to here, business clients and/or friends would know who he is once I divulge his name especially if he works locally.
Again, thanks for your reply.
Aspiringperson
Quote from: Roll on February 27, 2018, 07:27:25 PM
Just be "reading" (ie: have it up at all times ready to go) that article about the first openly transgender soldier and use it as a gauge
Hey, Roll! I would only make a minor change to your comment in that it was an article about the first openly transgender person to enlist as an openly transgender person. There have been open trans members since at least August of 2016. Not trying to take away from the message, though. <3
I went to a food show in Chicago today. It was great! I had a couple girls at one of the counters telling me how bad men's tastes in food could be. Had another tell me how nice she thought my outfit looked. Got goosed by a random passerby. Not one person misgendered me! I even got ignored by a couple of booth attendants who prioritized the men who walked up behind me at their booths.
And it was all on the company dime. I'm getting paid for the mileage for going, plus paid for the day!
Quote from: Artesia on February 28, 2018, 03:58:06 PM
I went to a food show in Chicago today. It was great! I had a couple girls at one of the counters telling me how bad men's tastes in food could be. Had another tell me how nice she thought my outfit looked. Got goosed by a random passerby. Not one person misgendered me! I even got ignored by a couple of booth attendants who prioritized the men who walked up behind me at their booths.
And it was all on the company dime. I'm getting paid for the mileage for going, plus paid for the day!
Got goosed? Did you hear about the woman who said she got geesed in the elevator? Someone replied, you mean you got goosed? And she said No, I can count!!!!
Quote from: Cassi on February 28, 2018, 04:06:50 PM
Got goosed? Did you hear about the woman who said she got geesed in the elevator? Someone replied, you mean you got goosed? And she said No, I can count!!!!
LOL!!!!!!
It was just the once, but that's funny!
Quote from: Artesia on February 28, 2018, 03:58:06 PM
I went to a food show in Chicago today. It was great! I had a couple girls at one of the counters telling me how bad men's tastes in food could be. Had another tell me how nice she thought my outfit looked. Got goosed by a random passerby. Not one person misgendered me! I even got ignored by a couple of booth attendants who prioritized the men who walked up behind me at their booths.
And it was all on the company dime. I'm getting paid for the mileage for going, plus paid for the day!
That's awesome, especially getting paid for it, too!
I realized what my new name should be. Put an actual honest to god smile on my face.
580550 seconds left till my first HRT appointment :angel:
Quote from: FreyaG on February 28, 2018, 06:58:34 PM
580550 seconds left till my first HRT appointment :angel:
Good one!
I vaguely recall have a count-down til HRT myself :)
Though, I don't remember it being actually seconds :)
I just sent off the documents necessary to get my birth certificate fixed. :)
Well, had my 3rd session with my speech therapist and it turns out that when I don't think about it and talk with my head voice I do sound feminine. It was nice to get the validation from the therapist and when I returned home I was talking to my daughter as I did the therapist and she also commented that I did sound like a woman.
However.....................
When my daughter was video talking with her friend on the phone and her friend started asking me questions like "If you like women, why are you becoming one?", etc. At that point I apparently lost my unfocused voice and returned to the dude or dud voice.
Quote from: ToriJo on February 28, 2018, 09:53:30 PM
I just sent off the documents necessary to get my birth certificate fixed. :)
Yay!!!! I'm not too far behind you on that!
Quote from: Artesia on February 28, 2018, 04:20:38 PM
LOL!!!!!!
It was just the once, but that's funny!
I'm glad it didn't offend you. I try to find humor in everything. For some reason it calms my lack of HRT patience :)
Quote from: Cassi on February 28, 2018, 11:10:12 PM
I'm glad it didn't offend you. I try to find humor in everything. For some reason it calms my lack of HRT patience :)
All the worlds a joke, and the people, merely punchlines.
I seek the humor in everything too. Some days I fail, but that's life. The human race is an amazing organism. Finding life, and wanting to live it, is one of the reasons I chose to start studying to be a psychologist. The other is my desire to one day help other transgender people cope with themselves, and find their way.
@ Aspiring, I am from a small town (~10k) and was totally dreading coming out to folks there. I now live in the NY metro area and so my status, if anyone even looks up from their phone long enough to notice, is a non-issue there. But my hometown is a rural community that has a big evangelical influence and is very socially conservative. But everyone has been totally wonderful and accepting. Your mileage may vary. But I was truly surprised with the genuine depth of support and love that I encountered. Whatever you do, I hope it goes well for you hon. And if you have anything left of that magic elixir that makes you pass so well, send a girl a few drops! :laugh:
My wife and I agreed last night that I should start HRT. I'm certainly more excited than I thought it would be.
Quote from: SaraDanielle on March 01, 2018, 03:02:29 PM
My wife and I agreed last night that I should start HRT. I'm certainly more excited than I thought it would be.
Yay, Sara! Glad to hear it.
Wow Sara that's a double win! Having the full support of your partner is precious.
Name change form all filled out just have to make an appointment with MPP and to get them sign it send it away finally.
I have arranged a date for tommorrow with a handsome guy.
He didn't care that I'm trans. He told me that he wants to meet me because all he sees is a beautiful woman. We are having dinner and then having an X date in a hotel room. We both want to see where it goes and we both want intimacy tommorrow.
I became a Grandma today and I am still on cloud 9!!! My eldest daughter gave birth to a precious child, Isabella. She was delivered in Virginia, 7 pounds 12 ounces, 19.25"!
Quote from: kaitylynn on March 01, 2018, 09:13:12 PM
I became a Grandma today and I am still on cloud 9!!! My eldest daughter gave birth to a precious child, Isabella. She was delivered in Virginia, 7 pounds 12 ounces, 19.25"!
Congratulations to you grandma... you will have fun with a granddaughter.
Wow AP, you don't look like you're frozen in frostland!
Quote from: kaitylynn on March 01, 2018, 09:13:12 PM
I became a Grandma today and I am still on cloud 9!!! My eldest daughter gave birth to a precious child, Isabella. She was delivered in Virginia, 7 pounds 12 ounces, 19.25"!
Never heard of a 20 year old grandma, congrats!
Quote from: Cassi on March 01, 2018, 10:34:53 PM
Wow AP, you don't look like you're frozen in frostland!
We do have modern things here, like there is a heater in my office.... yes, it is frostland, it has been near ZERO F for a long time....... waiting for spring to come.
You obviously could not see my sweater I had on the back table, .... and winter coat, gloves and knit hat that I wore to work.
Quote from: Aspiringperson on March 01, 2018, 10:58:38 PM
We do have modern things here, like there is a heater in my office.... yes, it is frostland, it has been near ZERO F for a long time....... waiting for spring to come.
You obviously could not see my sweater I had on the back table, .... and winter coat, gloves and knit hat that I wore to work.
Wow, a heater and it's not a tommy gun :)
Nope, didn't see your sweater,coat, etc. Did see your smile!
Quote from: Transfused on March 01, 2018, 06:15:32 PM
I have arranged a date for tommorrow with a handsome guy.
He didn't care that I'm trans. He told me that he wants to meet me because all he sees is a beautiful woman. We are having dinner and then having an X date in a hotel room. We both want to see where it goes and we both want intimacy tommorrow.
How wonderful, sweetie! Please let us know how it went.
Hugs, Sarah
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Quote from: kaitylynn on March 01, 2018, 09:13:12 PM
I became a Grandma today and I am still on cloud 9!!! My eldest daughter gave birth to a precious child, Isabella. She was delivered in Virginia, 7 pounds 12 ounces, 19.25"!
Congratulations! What lovely news!
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Quote from: kaitylynn on March 01, 2018, 09:13:12 PM
I became a Grandma today and I am still on cloud 9!!! My eldest daughter gave birth to a precious child, Isabella. She was delivered in Virginia, 7 pounds 12 ounces, 19.25"!
Congratulations Kaitlynn!! X
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I'm on day four of working from home as the snow is blocking all the roads which is great as I can lounge about in whatever I want to wear :)
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My driver's license finally arrived today!!
SQUEEEEEEE^7!!!
And the picture, while not great, is better than I feared it would be!
Oh yay Sarah! I remember that day so clearly, except instead of squeeeing, I cried in the DMV office. Congratulations hon!
- Stephanie
Hunh. Looked in the mirror and it feels like it's too early, but I could swear I've got some noticeable fat redistribution going. When I smile my cheeks notably dimple up a bit more rather than crease on the sides.
As we are on a similar time line I keep thinking my checks have filled out and lips as well, or is it wish fullness?
Quote from: davina61 on March 02, 2018, 02:30:35 PM
As we are on a similar time line I keep thinking my checks have filled out and lips as well, or is it wish fullness?
It's probably real.
It's really hard to figure out what exactly has changed on my face, but it sure looks different. I noticed the lips first. I was putting on lipstick one day and suddenly thought, "Wait a second, those aren't my lips!" They weren't
his lips, of course, but they sure are mine. :)
Same a while later with my eyes. Now, when I catch a glimpse in a mirror, it's a woman's face looking back.
Quote from: davina61 on March 02, 2018, 02:30:35 PM
As we are on a similar time line I keep thinking my checks have filled out and lips as well, or is it wish fullness?
You're right this isn't wishfulness, it's wish fullness. And you will gradually get there!
Quote from: KathyLauren on March 02, 2018, 02:35:39 PM
I noticed the lips first. I was putting on lipstick one day and suddenly thought, "Wait a second, those aren't my lips!" They weren't his lips, of course, but they sure are mine. :)
Same a while later with my eyes. Now, when I catch a glimpse in a mirror, it's a woman's face looking back.
Kathy, I don't know when I first noticed the changes sneaking in but you are right. It's a woman's face looking back. And ain't it great!!!
Enjoy the magic,
Tia Anne
Quote from: Roll on March 02, 2018, 02:20:03 PM
Hunh. Looked in the mirror and it feels like it's too early, but I could swear I've got some noticeable fat redistribution going. When I smile my cheeks notably dimple up a bit more rather than crease on the sides.
Quote from: davina61 on March 02, 2018, 02:30:35 PM
As we are on a similar time line I keep thinking my checks have filled out and lips as well, or is it wish fullness?
It's definitely what's happening! I didn't really notice my face changes until month 5, but I know they were happening before that. I'm happy for both of you seeing it so soon!
I spoke with a Hollywood producer who has been in the business for many years who really likes the mini comedy shows my roommates and I have been producing and uploading to YouTube and Facebook. He really likes them and thinks that we need to write an actual 1/2 hour comedy script to shop around to see if we can get someone to invest in developing a pilot to sell to the industry. We have a very unique and topical angle that people tell us is very funny. We play three sexy but hapless Russian Spies who get into zany situations because of our misunderstanding of American Culture. We came up with these characters on a trip to New York back in December and have been trying to shoot little 30 second to 3 minute scenes. You can find our work on YouTube by searching for The Slayovich Sisters. I would be interested in what you ladies think about our shows.
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 02, 2018, 07:34:32 PM
I spoke with a Hollywood producer who has been in the business for many years who really likes the mini comedy shows my roommates and I have been producing and uploading to YouTube and Facebook. He really likes them and thinks that we need to write an actual 1/2 hour comedy script to shop around to see if we can get someone to invest in developing a pilot to sell to the industry. We have a very unique and topical angle that people tell us is very funny. We play three sexy but hapless Russian Spies who get into zany situations because of our misunderstanding of American Culture. We came up with these characters on a trip to New York back in December and have been trying to shoot little 30 second to 3 minute scenes. You can find our work on YouTube by searching for The Slayovich Sisters. I would be interested in what you ladies think about our shows.
So cool I hope it goes throw I would love to watch it
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 02, 2018, 07:34:32 PM
I spoke with a Hollywood producer who has been in the business for many years who really likes the mini comedy shows my roommates and I have been producing and uploading to YouTube and Facebook. He really likes them and thinks that we need to write an actual 1/2 hour comedy script to shop around to see if we can get someone to invest in developing a pilot to sell to the industry. We have a very unique and topical angle that people tell us is very funny. We play three sexy but hapless Russian Spies who get into zany situations because of our misunderstanding of American Culture. We came up with these characters on a trip to New York back in December and have been trying to shoot little 30 second to 3 minute scenes. You can find our work on YouTube by searching for The Slayovich Sisters. I would be interested in what you ladies think about our shows.
Just watched a few clips!!! Lovin' it sister.... you need scene with cake commemerating day Boris and Natasha finally blew up Moose n' Squirrel once and for all 😀 Only time I see Fearless Leader smile!!!
Hugs!!!
Natasha Ashleyakov!!!
Ukraine
I went shopping today for a new, extra warm winter coat....
... the cold weather just keeps coming!!!
I did buy it and it is wonderfully warm !!!
Kashmere!
I am now... how you say.. subscribe! ...to Slayovich Sister... on Tube of You!... Look forward to many ha ha.. yes?
You make hello also to Valentina and Oksana yes?
Natasha Ashleyakov
Ukraine
Quote from: Aspiringperson on March 02, 2018, 09:04:14 PM
I went shopping today for a new, extra warm winter coat....
... the cold weather just keeps coming!!!
I did buy it and it is wonderfully warm !!!
And I bet that third hand comes in helpful for scratch'n and rubb'n?
Quote from: tgirlamc on March 02, 2018, 09:08:37 PM
Kashmere!
I am now... how you say.. subscribe! ...to Slayovich Sister... on Tube of You!... Look forward to many ha ha.. yes?
You make hello also to Valentina and Oksana yes?
Natasha Ashleyakov
Ukraine
107/5000
Ага! Путин отдал приказ о том, чтобы сестры Слейовича были привезены в Кремль для перепрограммирования !!!!
Quote from: Cassi on March 02, 2018, 09:13:07 PM
And I bet that third hand comes in helpful for scratch'n and rubb'n?
It is awkward finding good hats though, when it comes out of the top of your head like that. ;D
I think the third hand is due to radiation from the northern lights.
Quote from: Cassi on March 02, 2018, 10:33:59 PM
I think the third hand is due to radiation from the northern lights.
Thank you
Cassi for you touch of humor tonight!
:) :icon_dance:
Aspiringperson
Cassi...
Я не беру заказы от Путина я делаю мои собственные правила
вперед мы идем
Ashleyakov
Quote from: Cassi on March 02, 2018, 09:17:06 PM
Cassi, you and
tgirlamc are not the only ones that can read and speak Russian!!!
Let's be festive :)
Quote from: Aspiringperson on March 02, 2018, 11:34:40 PM
Cassi, you and tgirlamc are not the only ones that can read and speak Russian!!!
Let's be festive :)
يبدو جيدة أسبيرينجون! يمكننا جميعا أن يكون الدافع من قبلكم وشكرا على العديد من النعم في ألاسكا مثل مكعبات الثلج والدببة القطبية، كلوندايك الحانات، الأضواء الشمالية، ليال طويلة، الخ، الخ، الخ :)
Quote from: tgirlamc on March 02, 2018, 11:26:24 PM
Cassi...
Я не беру заказы от Путина я делаю мои собственные правила
вперед мы идем
Ashleyakov
LOL, вот что говорит Илса, пока она не превратилась в гуляжную любовницу и хранителя гарема, просто шучу :)
Quote from: Cassi on March 02, 2018, 11:54:29 PM
يبدو جيدة أسبيرينجون! يمكننا جميعا أن يكون الدافع من قبلكم وشكرا على العديد من النعم في ألاسكا مثل مكعبات الثلج والدببة القطبية، كلوندايك الحانات، الأضواء الشمالية، ليال طويلة، الخ، الخ، الخ :)
... and Arabic too!
"Looks good Aspiringperson! We can all be motivated by you and thank you for many blessings in Alaska such as Ice Cubes, Polar Bears, Klondike Bars, Northern Lghts, long nights, etc etc etc"
Quote from: Aspiringperson on March 03, 2018, 12:01:53 AM
... and Arabic too!
"Looks good Aspiringperson! We can all be motivated by you and thank you for many blessings in Alaska such as Ice Cubes, Polar Bears, Klondike Bars, Northern Lghts, long nights, etc etc etc"
And Martianese, Plutoian (though it's a dead language now), Jupiterian and a whole lot more :)
Quote from: Aspiringperson on March 02, 2018, 09:04:14 PM
I went shopping today for a new, extra warm winter coat....
... the cold weather just keeps coming!!!
I did buy it and it is wonderfully warm !!!
Ummmm look where you live - are you surprised it's cold and it keeps coming? Do you know what the definition of insanity is? BURRRRRRRRRRR I thought it was bad in Chicago but Alaska, really?
Nice coat. Did you buy an extra in a large size so you can layer them together? (I could keep going but I won't)
Today 3/3 marks my one year anniversary of Full-Time. It actually started at 4:50 on the 2nd, but full day & full time. I wouldn't trade it for the world.
Quote from: Denise on March 03, 2018, 12:17:49 AM
Today 3/3 marks my one year anniversary of Full-Time. It actually started at 4:50 on the 2nd, but full day & full time. I wouldn't trade it for the world.
Congrats Denise! Hope I can say the same some day.
Thanks ladies. OKsauna and I were in the spa tonight outlining the pilot and I think we are well on our way to having a great story line for an introductory show. Thank you for subscribing to our YouTube page. We've only been at this a couple months and it's hard to get all of us together to shoot these because of our real life jobs. I would be more than happy to take a leave of absence from my job to film a pilot.
Congrats Denise on your anniversary. It's also my 3 year anniversary of starting HRT. It's so hard to believe that it was only 3 years ago I was 100% male in appearance. Now there pretty much is no trace of my former maleness.
Looking good AP. I really like that coat.
Quote from: Denise on March 03, 2018, 12:17:49 AM
Today 3/3 marks my one year anniversary of Full-Time. It actually started at 4:50 on the 2nd, but full day & full time. I wouldn't trade it for the world.
@ Denise: "Ain't" being Full-Time great! It is a terrific feeling for certain. You are correct, I also wouldn't trade it for anything.
I think that most of us
trans folks lament that
why did we wait so long to finally start transitioning, start HRT, and start living full time.
I think of the many years that I wasted. But, we can not change the past, however we have the present time and future to get things back on track and to live the life we had wished for !!!!
Congrats on your 1 year "anniversary" :)
YES, my new coat is very warm and cozy... replaced an older, not as warm older coat that was shorter so it didn't cover my bumm like this new one does.... it is nice to not have a cold bumm!!! LOL
Aspiringperson
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 03, 2018, 02:15:33 AM
Thanks ladies. OKsauna and I were in the spa tonight outlining the pilot and I think we are well on our way to having a great story line for an introductory show. Thank you for subscribing to our YouTube page. We've only been at this a couple months and it's hard to get all of us together to shoot these because of our real life jobs. I would be more than happy to take a leave of absence from my job to film a pilot.
Congrats Denise on your anniversary. It's also my 3 year anniversary of starting HRT. It's so hard to believe that it was only 3 years ago I was 100% male in appearance. Now there pretty much is no trace of my former maleness.
Looking good AP. I really like that coat.
@ I Am Jess: YES, the new coat is great, comfortable, warm, cozy, etc, etc,..... and just what I needed, it replaced a 2 year old coat that was looking worn and just did not have the warm and cozy feeling of my new one.
Congrats on your 3 year HRT anniversary.... last month was my 3 year as well. I assume that for you, as it was for me, transitioning things really progressed wonderfully in the 2nd and 3rd year. I, too, can't even see a hint of maleness in the mirror any longer. Life is GOOD!
Aspiringperson
Это был он, кто послал сестры в Америке
I was at the gas station today I was pumping gas when an ex male coworker was pumping gas right beside me I got really nervous. We used to trade girlfriends lol but I always had a thing for him. Well I we were talking in the store as we went to pay and I got his number. As much as I had a crush on him before I know his reputation and if he has my number in his phone it would show up my male name, I may change my phone. He is like 28 6'4 230 pounds and fairly muscular and has an accent and speaks spanish mmm. We used to also go to strip bars together. I am happy Shocked lol.
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 03, 2018, 09:15:32 AM
Это был он, кто послал сестры в Америке
Ну, Вадимир, очевидно, не любит своих сестер, что он их отталкивает, лол.
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 03, 2018, 09:15:32 AM
Это был он, кто послал сестры в Америке
Well, I can't read Cyrillic. I just wanted to comment on your avatar. I've been carrying that exact picture in my wallet for probably 25 years. I love asking people if they'd like to see a picture of my Pride and Joy.
Silly Stephanie
Quote from: Steph2.0 on March 03, 2018, 10:44:15 AM
Well, I can't read Cyrillic. I just wanted to comment on your avatar. I've been carrying that exact picture in my wallet for probably 25 years. I love asking people if they'd like to see a picture of my Pride and Joy.
Silly Stephanie
YES, for sure the "Pride and Joy" avatar is very appropriate.
Oh, and Stephanie, I really like your Avatar photo.... I think that is a new one??? You look terrific.
Aspiringperson
Quote from: Cassi on March 03, 2018, 10:30:58 AM
Ну, Вадимир, очевидно, не любит своих сестер, что он их отталкивает, лол.
He send girls to America to help make it great again........
Quote from: Aspiringperson on March 03, 2018, 10:47:45 AM
Oh, and Stephanie, I really like your Avatar photo.... I think that is a new one??? You look terrific.
Awww, thanks! It of course is one of the best ones I could find. I don't normally look that nice. If I may co-opt a portion of your name, I
Aspire to looking as good as you do in another 2 years 4 months!
- Stephanie
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 03, 2018, 11:57:57 AM
He send girls to America to help make it great again........
Oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh. LOL
Quote from: Steph2.0 on March 03, 2018, 10:44:15 AM
Well, I can't read Cyrillic. I just wanted to comment on your avatar. I've been carrying that exact picture in my wallet for probably 25 years. I love asking people if they'd like to see a picture of my Pride and Joy.
Silly Stephanie
While you're at it, anyone seen my Future?
Nice avatar kiddo
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 03, 2018, 09:15:32 AM
Это был он, кто послал сестры в Америке
Да ладно, ты меня путин!
Quote from: Cassi on March 03, 2018, 05:55:44 PM
While you're at it, anyone seen my Future?
Nice avatar kiddo
I'll Shout if I see it. It'll be a Joy to find it. Think about it... it'll Dawn on you.
Quote from: Steph2.0 on March 03, 2018, 06:01:47 PM
I'll Shout if I see it. It'll be a Joy to find it. Think about it... it'll Dawn on you.
I'm go'n need some floor cleaner now too from rolling on the floor laughing, please loan me Mr. Clean :)
SHIMMER! It's a floor wax AND a dessert topping!
Quote from: Steph2.0 on March 03, 2018, 06:47:40 PM
SHIMMER! It's a floor wax AND a dessert topping!
Oh, I'm glad you clarified that! I was thinking it was that beer made in the town of the same name in Texas :)
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 03, 2018, 07:32:03 PM
We are Putin' you on...
ฉันรู้ว่าคุณทุกคนไม่ได้เลวร้ายร้ายกาจหญิงสีแดง! ตอนนี้คุณต้องทำงานใน "สาม Ocktoberist!"
Quote from: Cassi on March 03, 2018, 05:58:14 PM
Да ладно, ты меня путин!
If that was intended as a bilingual pun, it was truly awful. :D Truly. Well done.
Oh, I see from the following comments that it was. I love puns that you can smell from miles away!
Quote from: AnnMarie2017 on March 03, 2018, 08:56:28 PM
If that was intended as a bilingual pun, it was truly awful. :D Truly. Well done.
Oh, I see from the following comments that it was. I love puns that you can smell from miles away!
Ann Marie,
Sono contento che ti sia divertito il divertimento che abbiamo avuto e
Penso che sia semplicemente fantastico che tu possa vedere con tanta chiarezza :)
E con un po 'di motivazione dovremo continuare il nostro gioco di parole :)
Grazie!
Quote from: Cassi on March 03, 2018, 06:48:47 PM
Oh, I'm glad you clarified that! I was thinking it was that beer made in the town of the same name in Texas :)
That's Shiner. It's nice but it doesn't travel well.
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Well... another HAPPY DAY today.
My gentleman suitor came back to my office yesterday morning to bring me another espresso and a pastry. He works at a business a couple doors down so I am always seeing him at the nearby coffee shop, convenience store, gas station and just walking through town.
He is always dressed so nicely, well groomed and is so very polite. :)
Quote from: Aspiringperson on March 04, 2018, 09:12:45 AM
Well... another HAPPY DAY today.
My gentleman suitor came back to my office yesterday morning to bring me another espresso and a pastry. He works at a business a couple doors down so I am always seeing him at the nearby coffee shop, convenience store, gas station and just walking through town.
He is always dressed so nicely, well groomed and is so very polite. :)
Mayberry seems like a nice place to live! J/K of course 😀
Took my two youngest boys to the zoo to kill a few hours. The clerk at the gift shop said she really liked my nails. They are painted a shamrock green since it's March. I was really happy since I did them myself.
Quote from: kitchentablepotpourri on March 04, 2018, 03:31:14 PM
Mayberry seems like a nice place to live! J/K of course 😀
@ kitchentablepotpourri: It is kinda like Mayberry... a big change from a larger town or city.
It is a very nice place to live for certain. Kinda like living in a bubble. I like it here.
Aspiringperson
Вся ваша база принадлежит нам!
Quote from: SiobhánF on March 06, 2018, 05:12:55 PM
Вся ваша база принадлежит нам!
Большой! Добро пожаловать в TransLution!
I had the most wonderful day today. I have been feeling sickly for the past couple weeks and yesterday and today I woke feeling pretty good. My son wanted to go to town this afternoon to get his dead ends cut at the beauty salon. I took him and after his appointment he told the lady about me and had me sit down and had her cut and style my hair. She even did my eyebrows and took time to show me how to do it. OMG I was almost in tears from joy. I have never had anyone fix my hair. She asked and wanted to know about me and how my transition was going and that she was happy for me. We talked about a lot of things and I felt like I was one of the regular ladies.
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Bobbie LeAnn, this is wonderful!
The reason you felt like one of the regular ladies is - you are one of the regular ladies.
You ARE one of the regular ladies, sugar! I love the outfit you're wearing in your picture.
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Quote from: Kendra on March 06, 2018, 09:04:22 PM
Bobbie LeAnn, this is wonderful!
The reason you felt like one of the regular ladies is - you are one of the regular ladies.
Thank you Kendra you are so sweet.
Quote from: SarahFehrman on March 06, 2018, 09:25:59 PM
You ARE one of the regular ladies, sugar! I love the outfit you're wearing in your picture.
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Thank you Sarah. I dressed up as Mrs Santa Claus this past Christmas and had a blast doing it. Strangely even though it was around 4 degrees fahrenheit outside I was never cold in that dress.
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Starting HRT today OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG :D
Freya, Awesome!!
But don't use up the entire container of OMG at once. Follow your prescription. :P
Quote from: Kendra on March 07, 2018, 06:13:40 PM
Freya, Awesome!!
But don't use up the entire container of OMG at once. Follow your prescription. :P
Lmao now that's funny right there I don't care who ya are :eusa_clap:
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Quote from: Aspiringperson on March 04, 2018, 09:12:45 AM
Well... another HAPPY DAY today.
My gentleman suitor came back to my office yesterday morning to bring me another espresso and a pastry. He works at a business a couple doors down so I am always seeing him at the nearby coffee shop, convenience store, gas station and just walking through town.
He is always dressed so nicely, well groomed and is so very polite. :)
That is really cute! Good for you, that would brighten anyone's day for sure!
Sonja.
Quote from: Kendra on March 07, 2018, 06:13:40 PM
Freya, Awesome!!
But don't use up the entire container of OMG at once. Follow your prescription. :P
Nice one!
Quote from: Sonja on March 07, 2018, 07:28:05 PM
Nice one!
Ladies, you awl obviously don't know what OMG means?
In some cases Oh My God, in others Organized Motorcycle Gang, but in our case Old Male Gone!
Quote from: FreyaG on March 07, 2018, 06:09:18 PM
Starting HRT today OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG :D
OMG!! Congratulations!! Welcome to the ride. Please keep your arms raised in the celebratory position. :D
Today, several key people at work were told of the big event tomorrow: I'll be coming out as a woman tomorrow at work. They reacted very well, and I'm pretty excited about tomorrow.
And also absolutely terrified. I'll be the real me everywhere tomorrow, for good or bad. When I put on my guy clothes in the morning, it will be the last time. Ever. So it's awesome. And terrifying.
Did I mention that I'm terrified? And excited?
Quote from: ToriJo on March 07, 2018, 09:15:00 PM
Today, several key people at work were told of the big event tomorrow: I'll be coming out as a woman tomorrow at work. They reacted very well, and I'm pretty excited about tomorrow.
And also absolutely terrified. I'll be the real me everywhere tomorrow, for good or bad. When I put on my guy clothes in the morning, it will be the last time. Ever. So it's awesome. And terrifying.
Did I mention that I'm terrified? And excited?
ToriJo: That is very exciting and was nice for you to get a good reaction from your coworkers. I will look forward to hearing all about it. ... and of course a picture would be great if you want to post one.
Aspiringperson
Quote from: ToriJo on March 07, 2018, 09:15:00 PM
Today, several key people at work were told of the big event tomorrow: I'll be coming out as a woman tomorrow at work. They reacted very well, and I'm pretty excited about tomorrow.
And also absolutely terrified. I'll be the real me everywhere tomorrow, for good or bad. When I put on my guy clothes in the morning, it will be the last time. Ever. So it's awesome. And terrifying.
Did I mention that I'm terrified? And excited?
I went through that myself not so long ago! Having some coworkers already supportive should help a great deal. You just be you!
Quote from: FreyaG on March 07, 2018, 06:09:18 PM
Starting HRT today OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG :D
Happy ReBirthday Freya! I remember that day so clearly myself. I also had a bit of an OMG overdose that day. I took a few WTF's to counteract them and I was fine.
- Stephanie
I was taking to a guy I meet on line all night we seem to have so much in common. He is funny kind caring , and he is hot. He is 32 ex military. I am so exicited on meeting him in person. Just trying to figure out when as he is 2 hours away. He made me totally melt he is like so sweet and perfect. The girls at work told me that I have become boy crazy.
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on March 08, 2018, 09:04:21 AM
I was taking to a guy I meet on line all night we seem to have so much in common. He is funny kind caring , and he is hot. He is 32 ex military. I am so exicited on meeting him in person. Just trying to figure out when as he is 2 hours away. He made me totally melt he is like so sweet and perfect. The girls at work told me that I have become boy crazy.
Well,
boy-crazy natalie.ashlyne.... obviously we are wishing you good luck with meeting him and of course we are looking for updates and perhaps a pic.
If you can't be good, at least be careful !!!!
Aspiringperson
Quote from: Aspiringperson on March 08, 2018, 09:32:41 AM
Well, boy-crazy natalie.ashlyne
If you can't be good, at least be careful !!!!
Aspiringperson
I was going to write something like this. Yes, @natalie.ashlyne, please be careful. Meet at a public place with open lighted parking and stay alert. You're smart but excitement can affect your judgment. Have fun but be safe!
- Stephanie
Started my first dose of my HRT meds today! Actually got them yesterday but started this morning.
Happy Times!
Hugs,
Chelsea
Congrats! Enjoy your journey! I found that I experienced some changes fairly quickly, especially in skin tone. This varies for everyone, but was exciting for me. The biggest thing was the knowledge that I was making a concrete change to help me move further along my path. HRT can cause a roller coaster ride of emotions so hang on and enjoy!
Hugs,
Kelly
Quote from: islandgirl on March 08, 2018, 10:33:12 AM
Congrats! Enjoy your journey! I found that I experienced some changes fairly quickly, especially in skin tone. This varies for everyone, but was exciting for me. The biggest thing was the knowledge that I was making a concrete change to help me move further along my path. HRT can cause a roller coaster ride of emotions so hang on and enjoy!
Hugs,
Kelly
Thank you Kelly! I sure hope it works on me. I took herbs for almost three years until last week. I hope that HRT gives me more results than the herbs did. :) Now the worst part, The Waiting Game. :)
Hugs,
Chelsea
Quote from: Steph2.0 on March 08, 2018, 09:47:40 AM
I was going to write something like this. Yes, @natalie.ashlyne, please be careful. Meet at a public place with open lighted parking and stay alert. You're smart but excitement can affect your judgment. Have fun but be safe!
- Stephanie
Stephanie:
I absolutely AGREE with you !!!...Please be careful and play it safe
natalie.ashlyne !!!
Aspiringperson
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on March 08, 2018, 11:10:47 AM
Thank you Kelly! I sure hope it works on me. I took herbs for almost three years until last week. I hope that HRT gives me more results than the herbs did. :) Now the worst part, The Waiting Game. :)
Hugs,
Chelsea
@
Chelsea: HRT definitely will give you a lot more and a lot better results...
... we will be looking for your updates during your journey.
Aspiringperson
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on March 08, 2018, 09:49:59 AM
Started my first dose of my HRT meds today! Actually got them yesterday but started this morning.
Happy Times!
Hugs,
Chelsea
Congratulations Chelsea that's awesome!, are you taking before pictures to help monitor your progress?
Sonja.
Quote from: Sonja on March 08, 2018, 03:03:52 PM
Congratulations Chelsea that's awesome!, are you taking before pictures to help monitor your progress?
Sonja.
Yes I have taken a lot lately lol.
I will post pictures on my thread every few months to document my progress.
Hugs,
Chelsea
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on March 08, 2018, 09:49:59 AM
Started my first dose of my HRT meds today! Actually got them yesterday but started this morning.
Happy Times!
Hugs,
Chelsea
Let me be one of the many Transisters and say CONGRATS!!!
Now you have to get one of those ticker things so you can see how long you've been on HRT and we'll have to find you some patience's pills, lol.
Seriously, may you have a smooth and happy adventure!
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on March 06, 2018, 09:52:25 PM
Thank you Kendra you are so sweet.
Thank you Sarah. I dressed up as Mrs Santa Claus this past Christmas and had a blast doing it. Strangely even though it was around 4 degrees fahrenheit outside I was never cold in that dress.
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
I'm not surprised - you hottie, you!
Hugs,
Sarah
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Quote from: SarahFehrman on March 08, 2018, 06:23:36 PM
I'm not surprised - you hottie, you!
Hugs,
Sarah
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OMG quit you are making me blush lmao :icon_redface:
I've never been a hottie lol
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on March 08, 2018, 06:57:24 PM
OMG quit you are making me blush lmao :icon_redface:
I've never been a hottie lol
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Well, she may be saying that so you'll tell Santa she was a good girl!
Thank you all I for your concerns and looking out for me love you all ;)
Quote from: Aspiringperson on March 08, 2018, 09:32:41 AM
Well, boy-crazy natalie.ashlyne.... obviously we are wishing you good luck with meeting him and of course we are looking for updates and perhaps a pic.
If you can't be good, at least be careful !!!!
Aspiringperson
Thank you and I have every plan one behaving nothing past kissing and yes I will take a pic because if he will not let me that will be a deal breaker
Quote from: Steph2.0 on March 08, 2018, 09:47:40 AM
I was going to write something like this. Yes, @natalie.ashlyne, please be careful. Meet at a public place with open lighted parking and stay alert. You're smart but excitement can affect your judgment. Have fun but be safe!
Yes I do plan on it I it will be a few weeks still so I am just making plans as he has no car so I have to drive, I do know a little bit of the area but it is Toronto and I am from a small city.
Quote from: Aspiringperson on March 08, 2018, 02:07:21 PM
Stephanie: I absolutely AGREE with you !!!
...Please be careful and play it safe natalie.ashlyne !!!
Aspiringperson
- Stephanie
Thank you, I don't plan on playing to much. I actually want a boyfriend not a fling I do know emotions though so i get it.
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on March 08, 2018, 09:49:59 AM
Started my first dose of my HRT meds today! Actually got them yesterday but started this morning.
Happy Times!
Hugs,
Chelsea
So cool congratulations Happy for you Chelsea :)
Quote from: Cassi on March 08, 2018, 07:13:07 PM
Well, she may be saying that so you'll tell Santa she was a good girl!
Ahhh the plot thickens.. There is a method to her madness.
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on March 08, 2018, 08:17:30 PM
Ahhh the plot thickens.. There is a method to her madness.
Yes, and her madness's method :)
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on March 08, 2018, 09:49:59 AM
Started my first dose of my HRT meds today! Actually got them yesterday but started this morning.
Happy Times!
Hugs,
Chelsea
Congrats Chelsea I'm so happy for you. I remember how nervous I was when I first started.
Remember to take lots of pictures of your transition.
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Seeing my sister get so excited about both her acceptance letter to Virginia Tech (she had a clean sweep of acceptance for everywhere she applied, but that was the big surprise since her math scores were lower than her language scores by a good bit) and also about her going to prom on Saturday! Despite the fact she is gorgeous she has never really dated, and so never winds up getting to go to dances or events like that. She doesn't have a date, but she and a few people who are in the same situation are going together just to say they went and have a chance to dress up. By some miracle she fit perfectly in a dress my step mother had for a wedding she wound up not being able to go to, that by all accounts looks like it was tailor made just for my sister (I haven't seen yet). I'm so incredibly happy for her and how excited she is, and also more than quite a bit jealous! ;D
Quote from: Cassi on March 08, 2018, 05:46:33 PM
Let me be one of the many Transisters and say CONGRATS!!!
Now you have to get one of those ticker things so you can see how long you've been on HRT and we'll have to find you some patience's pills, lol.
Seriously, may you have a smooth and happy adventure!
Thank you! Now where are the patience's pills? lol
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on March 08, 2018, 07:40:44 PM
So cool congratulations Happy for you Chelsea :)
Thank you! :)
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on March 08, 2018, 08:23:45 PM
Congrats Chelsea I'm so happy for you. I remember how nervous I was when I first started.
Remember to take lots of pictures of your transition.
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Thank you!
The nerves are doing good now. I'm just impatient i guess but I will get there one day. :)
Hugs,
Chelsea
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on March 08, 2018, 09:14:27 PM
Thank you! Now where are the patience's pills? lol - in the mail
Thank you! :)
Thank you!
The nerves are doing good now. I'm just impatient i guess but I will get there one day. :)
Hugs,
Chelsea
I just made some hot cocoa for my roommate and he said it's "the best I've ever had" [emoji4] I'm just in my room now with the biggest smirk on my face! I like this guy if you couldn't tell...
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On International Women's Day, and appropriately enough, I came out in the one remaining place I had left: WORK!
I am now officially out everywhere and no longer presenting as a man. Good riddance to that miserable man!
YES!!!
Quote from: ToriJo on March 09, 2018, 01:24:40 AM
On International Women's Day, and appropriately enough, I came out in the one remaining place I had left: WORK!
I am now officially out everywhere and no longer presenting as a man. Good riddance to that miserable man!
Yay congrats I have a new sister. :eusa_dance:
Love
Bobbie LeAnn
Quote from: ToriJo on March 09, 2018, 01:24:40 AM
On International Women's Day, and appropriately enough, I came out in the one remaining place I had left: WORK!
I am now officially out everywhere and no longer presenting as a man. Good riddance to that miserable man!
Congratulations!!
Quote from: ToriJo on March 09, 2018, 01:24:40 AM
On International Women's Day, and appropriately enough, I came out in the one remaining place I had left: WORK!
I am now officially out everywhere and no longer presenting as a man. Good riddance to that miserable man!
Awesome ToriJo!! Congratulations, girl! What a feeling!
- Stephanie
Another coming out, to my mom's sister (one of literally only 4 people I care to tell in my extended family, meaning 3 more and I am simply out). Went amazing, she is such a sweet person. I still can't believe how lucky I've been on coming out so far. (The two on my dad's side will be much iffier.)
Thanks, all! Today was my first day where all my coworkers knew who I was. I worked remotely, but participated on several conference calls and such - and was consistently gendered and named properly (despite IT being a bit slower than I would like changing my name on all the computer accounts!). I had a lot of very nice notes and IMs from coworkers today.
I'll be terrified next week when my coworkers see me for the first time, but the hard part is done. I'm really looking forward to getting my new security badge next week. :)
Quote from: ToriJo on March 09, 2018, 09:07:13 PM
Thanks, all! Today was my first day where all my coworkers knew who I was. I worked remotely, but participated on several conference calls and such - and was consistently gendered and named properly (despite IT being a bit slower than I would like changing my name on all the computer accounts!). I had a lot of very nice notes and IMs from coworkers today.
I'll be terrified next week when my coworkers see me for the first time, but the hard part is done. I'm really looking forward to getting my new security badge next week. :)
@
ToriJo: Thanks for letting us know how it went on your first day, I was wondering how that would turn out after you mentioned it on a previous post of yours. Now, the mostly scary part is over then the next episode of being terrified is next week.. Be confident and self assured and hold your head high. After next week you will be on the home stretch... congratulations... and keep the updates coming, and perhaps a photo from next week??.. but only if you feel comfortable doing it.
Best Wishes,
Danielle (previously Aspiringperson)
So today I went shopping with my wife. We started with a few small town antique shops looking for a new kitchen table. We found a cute black and light blue ice cream table with two chairs. After that we went to the mall. I wanted to go by Victoria's Secret for a bra fitting. We found a very helpful sales lady to do the fitting for me. I found out I'm now a 36B. This made me very happy. This is the size that I wanted to get to. I figured not too bad for 7 months of HRT. I also got five new pairs of panties. We shopped by another store and found a few cute dresses and a skirt. We stopped by a few more places but nothing exciting like VS was.
Tomorrow we continue the search for two more chairs and plus we were be visiting a Italian place that just opened up for lunch. I've been on vacation all week for my kids spring break so it made it a good time all in all. Plus I visited a potential salon for my hair and make-up in the near future. Feeling better about my future as a woman.
Hope everyone here is having a great day.
My wife wrote me a love poem!
"TRANSITIONAL LOVE
She hasn't always been a woman.
He was once the man I loved.
It's really quite confusion this un-expecting love.
It must be a heart thing.
My eyes declared it wrong.
But there she stood declaring ... he was She?
I have always loved her.
This woman inside of him.
But realization that he's left us... is a grieving.
Change can be a hard thing
but in some form it comes to all.
Our transitions have defined in us completeness.
Thirty years of life and love.
Three of extreme confusing change
But love has never left us, life is different but still the same.
It must be a heart thing.
My mind is filled with pride.
She stands with arms around me asking to be my bride.
We are now two old women
With less time then before.
But the plan is to live heart-to-heart until God does close this door."
Oh but I do love her so!!!!
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on March 10, 2018, 02:28:50 PM
My wife wrote me a love poem!
"TRANSITIONAL LOVE
She hasn't always been a woman.
He was once the man I loved.
It's really quite confusion this un-expecting love.
It must be a heart thing.
My eyes declared it wrong.
But there she stood declaring ... he was She?
I have always loved her.
This woman inside of him.
But realization that he's left us... is a grieving.
Change can be a hard thing
but in some form it comes to all.
Our transitions have defined in us completeness.
Thirty years of life and love.
Three of extreme confusing change
But love has never left us, life is different but still the same.
It must be a heart thing.
My mind is filled with pride.
She stands with arms around me asking to be my bride.
We are now two old women
With less time then before.
But the plan is to live heart-to-heart until God does close this door."
Oh but I do love her so!!!!
Tia Anne
OMG Ann, that is beautiful. Wow, how touching!
Moni
Quote from: Anne Blake on March 10, 2018, 02:28:50 PM
My wife wrote me a love poem!
"TRANSITIONAL LOVE
She hasn't always been a woman.
He was once the man I loved.
It's really quite confusion this un-expecting love.
It must be a heart thing.
My eyes declared it wrong.
But there she stood declaring ... he was She?
I have always loved her.
This woman inside of him.
But realization that he's left us... is a grieving.
Change can be a hard thing
but in some form it comes to all.
Our transitions have defined in us completeness.
Thirty years of life and love.
Three of extreme confusing change
But love has never left us, life is different but still the same.
It must be a heart thing.
My mind is filled with pride.
She stands with arms around me asking to be my bride.
We are now two old women
With less time then before.
But the plan is to live heart-to-heart until God does close this door."
Oh but I do love her so!!!!
Tia Anne
Wow. Just... wow.
Thank you Debi, for taking care of our Tia Anne.
Thank you Tia, for sharing it with us.
Stephanie
Quote from: RobynTx on March 09, 2018, 10:29:26 PM
So today I went shopping with my wife. We started with a few small town antique shops looking for a new kitchen table. We found a cute black and light blue ice cream table with two chairs. After that we went to the mall. I wanted to go by Victoria's Secret for a bra fitting. We found a very helpful sales lady to do the fitting for me. I found out I'm now a 36B. This made me very happy. This is the size that I wanted to get to. I figured not too bad for 7 months of HRT. I also got five new pairs of panties. We shopped by another store and found a few cute dresses and a skirt. We stopped by a few more places but nothing exciting like VS was.
Tomorrow we continue the search for two more chairs and plus we were be visiting a Italian place that just opened up for lunch. I've been on vacation all week for my kids spring break so it made it a good time all in all. Plus I visited a potential salon for my hair and make-up in the near future. Feeling better about my future as a woman.
Hope everyone here is having a great day.
@ RobynTx: Congratulations on your bra fittling ... for most trans-women that is a difficult and nerve wracking endeavor, and also for those who are new to the bra fitting experience. It is great to get the proper size and proper fit, it will not only be more comfortable but it will give a much better appearance as you present yourself as a woman. You are correct, for 7 months of HRT, a B cup is terrific... there are many tran-women that barely get to a B cup after years of HRT.
Ahhh, you will enjoy being pampered in a salon for hair and make-up.... it will be a great feeling when you look in the mirror afterwards.
Please keep the updates coming, I enjoy reading about your transition journey.
Danielle ...
formerly Aspiringperson
Quote from: Anne Blake on March 10, 2018, 02:28:50 PM
My wife wrote me a love poem!
"TRANSITIONAL LOVE
...
Oh but I do love her so!!!!
Tia Anne
Oh, my! I am glad I am not wearing mascara right now. That is beautiful!
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 10, 2018, 02:59:30 PM
@ RobynTx: Congratulations on your bra fittling ... for most trans-women that is a difficult and nerve wracking endeavor, and also for those who are new to the bra fitting experience. It is great to get the proper size and proper fit, it will not only be more comfortable but it will give a much better appearance as you present yourself as a woman. You are correct, for 7 months of HRT, a B cup is terrific... there are many tran-women that barely get to a B cup after years of HRT.
Ahhh, you will enjoy being pampered in a salon for hair and make-up.... it will be a great feeling when you look in the mirror afterwards.
Please keep the updates coming, I enjoy reading about your transition journey.
Danielle ... formerly Aspiringperson
Thank you. I'll see what I can do on updates. Today I got new glasses since my old ones were male and very old. Got one pair that the metal frame is a pink-purple color and the other are heavier black frames. Then I got a pair of black pumps. I have to re-interview to keep my job here in a month or so and I needed shoes. Now I got to find a top that will go with the rest of the outfit.
I can't wait for the salon. I'll be taking my wife when I go so she can meet the group there.
Quote from: Anne Blake on March 10, 2018, 02:28:50 PM
My wife wrote me a love poem!
"TRANSITIONAL LOVE
She hasn't always been a woman.
He was once the man I loved.
It's really quite confusion this un-expecting love.
It must be a heart thing.
My eyes declared it wrong.
But there she stood declaring ... he was She?
I have always loved her.
This woman inside of him.
But realization that he's left us... is a grieving.
Change can be a hard thing
but in some form it comes to all.
Our transitions have defined in us completeness.
Thirty years of life and love.
Three of extreme confusing change
But love has never left us, life is different but still the same.
It must be a heart thing.
My mind is filled with pride.
She stands with arms around me asking to be my bride.
We are now two old women
With less time then before.
But the plan is to live heart-to-heart until God does close this door."
Oh but I do love her so!!!!
Tia Anne
Beautiful! I love this!!!
My big happpy for today is that my drivers liscense is now here, and it's the right me on it, and not that uncle Fester looking mug that I used to wear.
Quote from: KathyLauren on March 10, 2018, 04:49:09 PM
Oh, my! I am glad I am not wearing mascara right now. That is beautiful!
I'm so happy for you both and so grateful we got the chance to meet!
Quote from: Anne Blake on March 10, 2018, 02:28:50 PM
My wife wrote me a love poem!
"TRANSITIONAL LOVE
She hasn't always been a woman.
He was once the man I loved.
It's really quite confusion this un-expecting love.
It must be a heart thing.
My eyes declared it wrong.
But there she stood declaring ... he was She?
I have always loved her.
This woman inside of him.
But realization that he's left us... is a grieving.
Change can be a hard thing
but in some form it comes to all.
Our transitions have defined in us completeness.
Thirty years of life and love.
Three of extreme confusing change
But love has never left us, life is different but still the same.
It must be a heart thing.
My mind is filled with pride.
She stands with arms around me asking to be my bride.
We are now two old women
With less time then before.
But the plan is to live heart-to-heart until God does close this door."
Oh but I do love her so!!!!
Tia Anne
Absolutely Beautiful!!
I had the pleasure of meeting both Anne and Debbie and they're awesome!
Quote from: Artesia on March 10, 2018, 08:19:27 PM
My big happy for today is that my drivers license is now here, and it's the right me on it, and not that uncle Fester looking mug that I used to wear.
Congratulations, Artesia! That was a special moment for me, too. It hasn't been all that long; I still take it out and look at my name, from time to time. Isn't it strange that such a seemingly small thing can have so much meaning?
My big happy for today was at the post office. I get all my mail there, so I'm there fairly often. There is one particular clerk who was always nice to me, from the time I first got my box; she always called me by name and had a nice word to say to me. When I started transitioning, I could tell she was uncomfortable, which was sad. Well, today, I got in her line, and the first thing she said to me was to address me as "ma'am." ;D
Well, I had my first date in 20 years today! It was with a lovely trans woman from KC. I'll spill the details over in my thread. :D
Quote from: Artesia on March 10, 2018, 08:19:27 PM
Beautiful! I love this!!!
My big happpy for today is that my drivers liscense is now here, and it's the right me on it, and not that uncle Fester looking mug that I used to wear.
Congrats. I can't wait to do that this summer. It's high on my list.
My medical and dental insurance cards finally have my new name on them!
Quote from: Sarah_P on March 10, 2018, 10:59:41 PM
Well, I had my first date in 20 years today! It was with a lovely trans woman from KC. I'll spill the details over in my thread. :D
Oh, Sarah, I'm so happy for you.
Next to that, my happy for today is nothing to shout about. In my part-time job, my relief is a really unpleasant person. She doesn't speak to me when she comes in; I've often thought she hates me. Sometimes, I still think she does. I felt like quitting last week, because of her. Well, this morning, with the time change (it's a graveyard shift job), there was so much I didn't get done; and I was miserable anticipating her attitude toward me. Then, someone else showed up -- someone nice, who I hadn't seen in a while. She made the shift-change so much better. To people who don't do shift work, it may be difficult to understand how much of a difference this can make. Believe me, it's amazing how much of a difference it can make.
So, I'm happy today because I got to finish my shift positively, for the first time in weeks.
I'm also happy today because one of my co-workers complimented me on my name (which is different from my name here). :)
And I'm happy because I'm a girl. I don't know how many here are like me, not knowing until late in life who they really were; I feel so grateful to have learned the truth about myself, so blessed.
Finally -- and this is going to sound sooo sappy -- I'm happy for Susan's Place. I wish I weren't living paycheck-to-paycheck. When I get some free money, I'm going to give Susan some. I promise.
Quote from: Sarah_P on March 10, 2018, 10:59:41 PM
Well, I had my first date in 20 years today! It was with a lovely trans woman from KC. I'll spill the details over in my thread. :D
Sarah: That is very neat, I am so very happy for you. Obviously we are waiting impatiently for more details... and of course a picture if you feel comfortable posting one... if not, that is OK too!
Danielle ....
formerly Aspiringperson
Ann Marie, I am happy that you had a more pleasant shift change than normal. Little bits of interpersonal dynamics can really make or break a day.
Quote from: AnnMarie2017 on March 11, 2018, 09:24:45 AMI don't know how many here are like me, not knowing until late in life who they really were; I feel so grateful to have learned the truth about myself, so blessed.
There are lots and lots of us "late bloomers". We might even be in the majority here on Susan's. You have plenty of company. And I think most of us will share your sentiment. :)
(Well yesterday.....)
My GCS surgeon, Dr Rachel Bluebond-Langner, asked me (and my wife) to be part of an interview and photo shoot for NYU to take the medical part out of their transgender patients to see us as people instead of just patients for a project. There was a makeup artist there and both my wife and I had fun with it and we were interviewed on camera for about 20 minutes and had a full photo shoot. Some really nice "movie star quality" (according to my wife and photographer) photos came out. As soon as I get them I'm going to have to post them :) We get to keep a copy of all the photos for personal use and we get a copy of the video when it comes out. Of course, we had to have a group picture with Dr Rachel Bluebond-Langner for the occasion.
(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4775/26882172608_b6ca3c809a_z.jpg)
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on March 11, 2018, 03:03:35 PM
(Well yesterday.....)
My GCS surgeon, Dr Rachel Bluebond-Langner, asked me (and my wife) to be part of an interview and photo shoot for NYU to take the medical part out of their transgender patients to see us as people instead of just patients for a project. There was a makeup artist there and both my wife and I had fun with it and we were interviewed on camera for about 20 minutes and had a full photo shoot. Some really nice "movie star quality" (according to my wife and photographer) photos came out. As soon as I get them I'm going to have to post them :) We get to keep a copy of all the photos for personal use and we get a copy of the video when it comes out. Of course, we had to have a group picture with Dr Rachel Bluebond-Langner for the occasion.
(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4775/26882172608_b6ca3c809a_z.jpg)
You all look great!
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Quote from: tgirlamc on September 19, 2017, 07:11:00 PM
Awwww!!! Thank you so much Anne and Kendra for the kind words and well wishes! It has been an awesome year of Love, laughs, new beginnings and challenges faced together!... We are going to do our big dinner at our favorite place this weekend... just doing an evening BBQ at home at the end of a gorgeous day here!!! Hubby should be home momentarily and I am ambushing him in my wedding dress!!!
Onward we go!!!
Ashley :)
(https://farm5.staticflickr.com/4392/37162087152_71a2d7c00f_h.jpg) (https://flic.kr/p/YBTpNy)Untitled (https://flic.kr/p/YBTpNy) by Ashley Campbell (https://www.flickr.com/photos/156388176@N05/), on Flickr
I love your dress! You look absolutely stunning. Thank you for inspiring me - you give me hope.
XOXO
Sarah
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Quote from: Anne Blake on September 20, 2017, 10:12:26 PM
Thank you Kathy and Ashley,
It is a big milestone for me and I really look forward to moving on with my journey....but hey, I am only two and a half years old, I kind of need to figure out where to go from here.....I love it, at nearly seventy I am trying to figure out what I want to do/be when I grow up! I will be looking for suggestions from my Susan's family
Tia Anne
You're such an inspirational example of what's possible. I had almost given up hope, fearing that, at just having turned 63, I had waited too long. You're so beautiful and seeing you and reading what you've written gives me a renewed sense of desire to be the woman I am, once and for all, no matter what. I want to go to Howard Brown here in Chicago this week and take the first HRT steps. Thank you, Anne, for being you.
Hugs and kisses,
Sarah
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Awe Sarah, your going to make me blush, such kind words. But actually, for me and maybe most of us here it is but a choice of letting go and enjoying the ride where ever it takes us or suffer until we die. My partner and I have set our goal to be two of the craziest most eccentric old ladies you will ever get the chance to meet.........and we are well on our way to meeting that goal.
Tia Anne
From Saturday my visitor didn't recognise me as I came out of building and walked towards them and its only 3 weeks since I last saw them !!!! Was wearing my orange dress (to just above knees) black leggings and a black wrap around cardigan , well a girls got to look her best.
Quote from: Anne Blake on March 11, 2018, 03:49:28 PM
Awe Sarah, your going to make me blush, such kind words. But actually, for me and maybe most of us here it is but a choice of letting go and enjoying the ride where ever it takes us or suffer until we die. My partner and I have set our goal to be two of the craziest most eccentric old ladies you will ever get the chance to meet.........and we are well on our way to meeting that goal.
Tia Anne
Crazy like foxes says I :)
Quote from: Dee Marshall on March 11, 2018, 03:13:19 PM
You all look great!
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Thank you :D
Today is the six month mark since GCS! We celebrated with pedicures and out fancy for dinner. Being able to celebrate something that I never thought could ever happen is awesome.
Tia Anne
:icon_birthday:Quote from: Anne Blake on March 12, 2018, 08:26:34 PM[/size]
Today is the six month mark since GCS! We celebrated with pedicures and out fancy for dinner. Being able to celebrate something that I never thought could ever happen is awesome.
Tia Anne
Dear gods of hair removal,
Thank you for inventing the epilator. Please have mercy upon my body as I allow this heavenly device to rip the hairs out of my skin so hastily.
Ouch. Ouch! OUCH!! It'll get easier the more I do it over time, I hear.
Bridget
Just made plans to have lunch with my big brother tomorrow!! I'm so excited! He doesn't know I'm transitioning but he tells me the most important thing is to be happy. And I think I'm (very) slowly getting there!! Finally
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Vegas trip coming up 😊
Quote from: SiobhánF on March 13, 2018, 02:46:07 PM
Dear gods of hair removal,
Thank you for inventing the epilator. Please have mercy upon my body as I allow this heavenly device to rip the hairs out of my skin so hastily.
Ouch. Ouch! OUCH!! It'll get easier the more I do it over time, I hear.
Bridget
It should. After 2 weeks I barely noticed it anymore. One of my cats is fascinated by it though - I think it's all those little hairs going flying in the air.
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 13, 2018, 04:23:44 PM
I will be there this weekend!
On Fremont Street, looking for the alien casinos?
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 13, 2018, 04:23:44 PM
I will be there this weekend!
Awesome, have fun! 😊
My trip isn't until the end of April, but I'm really looking forward to it!
Quote from: Cassi on March 13, 2018, 04:33:05 PM
On Fremont Street, looking for the alien casinos?
At one of the many wedding chapels.....
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 13, 2018, 05:19:59 PM
At one of the many wedding chapels.....
LOL, I live in North Las Vegas now. A week or so after taking my daughter to the airport, I stopped at a few casinos that I never been to; Planet Hollywood, Hard Rock Cafe, Ceasars' and Paris. Free parking at the Miracle Mile Mall.
Anyway, after tripping out at the Mall, I drove home and the street I drove on had more "chapels" than I could count. I found the "Get Married with Elvis" the most funny.
Quote from: Cassi on March 13, 2018, 05:24:30 PM
LOL, I live in North Las Vegas now. A week or so after taking my daughter to the airport, I stopped at a few casinos that I never been to; Planet Hollywood, Hard Rock Cafe, Ceasars' and Paris. Free parking at the Miracle Mile Mall.
Anyway, after tripping out at the Mall, I drove home and the street I drove on had more "chapels" than I could count. I found the "Get Married with Elvis" the most funny.
(Camera fades into Elvis Wedding Chapel during ceremony)
Minister: If you take this woman to be your lawfully wedded wife, say I'm all shook up baby!
Groom: I'm all shook up baby!
Minister: If you take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband, say I'm all shook up baby!
Bride: I'm all shook up baby!
Minister: All right baby. I now pronounce you taking care of business as husband and wife,
Ugh-huh!
Quote from: kitchentablepotpourri on March 13, 2018, 05:44:09 PM
(Camera fades into Elvis Wedding Chapel during ceremony)
Minister: If you take this woman to be your lawfully wedded wife, say I'm all shook up baby!
Groom: I'm all shook up baby!
Minister: If you take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband, say I'm all shook up baby!
Bride: I'm all shook up baby!
Minister: All right baby. I now pronounce you taking care of business as husband and wife,
Ugh-huh!
Awlllllllllllllllll,
The WONDER of YOU!!!!!!!
https://www.theelvisweddingchapel.com/
Quote from: Sarah_P on March 13, 2018, 04:25:20 PM
It should. After 2 weeks I barely noticed it anymore. One of my cats is fascinated by it though - I think it's all those little hairs going flying in the air.
I hope so. I'm taking it a little at a time. I did my legs and most of my thighs. Working my way up the body. I'm glad it's a plug-in model, otherwise, I'd be charging this thing up constantly. I'm sure after about two treatments it will be noticeably smoother. I gotta keep exfoliating, though.
Also, I'm going to laser my face on Thursday! Wheee!!
Quote from: SiobhánF on March 13, 2018, 06:09:32 PM
I hope so. I'm taking it a little at a time. I did my legs and most of my thighs. Working my way up the body. I'm glad it's a plug-in model, otherwise, I'd be charging this thing up constantly. I'm sure after about two treatments it will be noticeably smoother. I gotta keep exfoliating, though.
Also, I'm going to laser my face on Thursday! Wheee!!
It is okay to know the model and types? I really have no intention of spending thousands of dollars myself.
On my way back from laser, sitting in back seat of car (had to catch a ride there) I looked into the rear view mirror. The narrow band of my face above freshly lasered beard and below hairline just looked like a girl looking back at me, eyebrows or not. I almost burst into tears in the crowded car. My cheeks have really started to shape for sure.
Quote from: Roll on March 13, 2018, 07:53:45 PM
On my way back from laser, sitting in back seat of car (had to catch a ride there) I looked into the rear view mirror. The narrow band of my face above freshly lasered beard and below hairline just looked like a girl looking back at me, eyebrows or not. I almost burst into tears in the crowded car. My cheeks have really started to shape for sure.
Very nice!
Chrissy
Quote from: Roll on March 13, 2018, 07:53:45 PM
On my way back from laser, sitting in back seat of car (had to catch a ride there) I looked into the rear view mirror. The narrow band of my face above freshly lasered beard and below hairline just looked like a girl looking back at me, eyebrows or not. I almost burst into tears in the crowded car. My cheeks have really started to shape for sure.
@ Roll: Very good report.... I am very, very happy for you... things will just keep getting better and better as you continue you journey. As always I always like to see your updates and pic.
Danielle
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on March 13, 2018, 07:55:51 PM
Very nice!
Chrissy
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 13, 2018, 08:02:30 PM
@ Roll: Very good report.... I am very, very happy for you... things will just keep getting better and better as you continue you journey. As always I always like to see your updates and pic.
Danielle
<3
Once my face heals a bit so I can use makeup without irritating it I think I am going to get a good, new photo. All of my current ones are dated back towards before HRT basically. (And Danielle, to answer your question from another thread, Ellie would be great. :D)
Quote from: SiobhánF on March 13, 2018, 06:09:32 PM
I hope so. I'm taking it a little at a time. I did my legs and most of my thighs. Working my way up the body. I'm glad it's a plug-in model, otherwise, I'd be charging this thing up constantly. I'm sure after about two treatments it will be noticeably smoother. I gotta keep exfoliating, though.
Also, I'm going to laser my face on Thursday! Wheee!!
Mines rechargeable, but it lasts long enough for one full session. I do my legs, hips, bum, and lower stomach. I tried it on my armpits, but I can't get them flat enough for it to work. I also tried it on my chest & it left several red bumps, so I'm not doing that again. :-\ Thankfully what little chest hair I have is thin & light, and HRT is already slowing all the hair growth anyway (at least a little).
I've been "fulltime" since Thursday, but today was my first in-person day at work. What a rush to walk in there dressed, trembling and not knowing if I wanted to scream, "HERE I AM!" or just hide under my desk! I've received so many wonderful messages of support from literally all over the world (we're an international company).
I'm processing the day's events still, but I keep thinking, "I did this!" The goal I've been working towards was full-time life as myself. There are still a lot of things I want to do as part of my transition, but the biggest part was just living as myself. I can't believe I did it.
Quote from: Cassi on March 13, 2018, 06:28:56 PM
It is okay to know the model and types? I really have no intention of spending thousands of dollars myself.
I got the Philips Satinelle Essential HP6401. It has two settings: medium and fast. I stick with the medium speed because the higher speed scares me a bit and it doesn't bode well with me with all the hairs being plucked from my skin at the same time. There are a lot to choose from on Amazon. :)
Quote from: Sarah_P on March 13, 2018, 09:19:24 PM
Mines rechargeable, but it lasts long enough for one full session. I do my legs, hips, bum, and lower stomach. I tried it on my armpits, but I can't get them flat enough for it to work. I also tried it on my chest & it left several red bumps, so I'm not doing that again. :-\ Thankfully what little chest hair I have is thin & light, and HRT is already slowing all the hair growth anyway (at least a little).
I shudder at the thought of starting on my torso hair. I don't think I could effectively get my back and I'm not asking anyone for help in that department. I can deal with the redness for the first round or two, but if it persists after that, I won't consider doing it again until after my HRT has slowed my hair growth more.
Quote from: ToriJo on March 14, 2018, 12:25:00 AM
I've been "fulltime" since Thursday, but today was my first in-person day at work. What a rush to walk in there dressed, trembling and not knowing if I wanted to scream, "HERE I AM!" or just hide under my desk! I've received so many wonderful messages of support from literally all over the world (we're an international company).
I'm processing the day's events still, but I keep thinking, "I did this!" The goal I've been working towards was full-time life as myself. There are still a lot of things I want to do as part of my transition, but the biggest part was just living as myself. I can't believe I did it.
YAY!!! Congratulations!! I'll always remember my first day, so anxious and excited! Welcome to your new happier life!
She called me she. More than once.
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Tonya that is wonderful!
Well, having retired late last night, or early this morning, I decided I wouldn't get up until I heard the jets from Nellis USAF base nearby. Usually, like clockwork, they're zipping and zooping all over at 8am.
For some reason they didn't start until after 9 so I slept in :)
On the downside, I find the more sleep I have, the worse I look, lol.
That's because your eyes are working better
That's for the rest of the girls , thought I would get one in. not being nasty its my humour XX XXX
Tuesday I talked to my therapist about SRS. She's going to write the first letter.
Today I talked to my Endo/GP and he's going to write the second letter.
Now to get the third letter from another Ph.D. That I hope to get done in April. Send everything to the insurance company, hope no issues (like FFS has been!!!!). Hope to schedule for either September or December. Originally I thought it was just one more step... now I'm thinking it's more important.
My exercise and diet are starting to pay off. My tummy is alot flatter and my bum is a whole 2 inches bigger :)
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Quote from: MollyPants on March 16, 2018, 03:51:51 AM
My exercise and diet are starting to pay off. My tummy is alot flatter and my bum is a whole 2 inches bigger :)
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Teach me, oh wise one. I, too, want a flat tummy and bigger butt.
I don't feel ashamed of the awkward process or being "andro" in the early stages. Like Kelly Clarkson's song piece by piece, you slowly let go of that (in my case) self hate. Actually it's more like shedding, it's painful at times too
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Quote from: SiobhánF on March 16, 2018, 04:18:34 AM
Teach me, oh wise one. I, too, want a flat tummy and bigger butt.
I found an app for my phone with a workout that I do about days a week. It's tough at first but now I feel a bit lost on rest days in the mornings.
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Quote from: SiobhánF on March 16, 2018, 04:18:34 AM
Teach me, oh wise one. I, too, want a flat tummy and bigger butt.
Ok I know this isn't directed at me. But I've been working on this too. I usually try to eat before exercising (I play music and dance or go for walks). My stomach isn't perfect, I have a bit of a pouch there, but it's feminine. Oh and give yourself time after eating something, even if it's small, before doing your work out. Squats and lunges are good and stairs (which I've been meaning to do but I keep forgetting..) helps a lot!!
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Quote from: Allison S on March 16, 2018, 04:33:02 AM
Ok I know this isn't directed at me. But I've been working on this too. I usually try to eat before exercising (I play music and dance or go for walks). My stomach isn't perfect, I have a bit of a pouch there, but it's feminine. Oh and give yourself time after eating something, even if it's small, before doing your work out. Squats and lunges are good and stairs (which I've been meaning to do but I keep forgetting..) helps a lot!!
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Yes stairs are great! I stopped using the elevator at work and it's like a little mini cardio session. I've also started running half an hour 5 times a week.
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I did it. I worked up the courage to shop for women's clothes in person. ................ Well. The courage to nab a pair of jeans already by the dressing room while it was unattended and try them on with no one seeing me go in or out and then make a half hearted comment about being sent with a list at the checkout. But... you know, baby steps.
Bottom line is, I now own women's skinny jeans and I couldn't be happier. :D
Quote from: Roll on March 16, 2018, 10:54:01 AM
I did it. I worked up the courage to shop for women's clothes in person. ................ Well. The courage to nab a pair of jeans already by the dressing room while it was unattended and try them on with no one seeing me go in or out and then make a half hearted comment about being sent with a list at the checkout. But... you know, baby steps.
Bottom line is, I now own women's skinny jeans and I couldn't be happier. :D
Well, good for you!
I seem to be able to check out clothes easier when I'm alone. Sometimes I'll get a glance but I think it's more to see if I'm stealing something, lol.
What made me happy today was receiving a call from my oldest younger sister who I replaced as the oldest sister, lol.
We talked for a while and she said that I seem to talk more happy and open and laughed a lot more.
I mentioned how I told my daughter that she was going to have to buy me a french maid's outfit if I had to keep cleaning up after her. She responded by saying she was going to get me one when they're on sale during Halloween.
I told her I was just joking and she responded "you will look cute".
My wife wanted to get some T-shirts from the second-hand / clearance store (Value Villge) today, so of course I went in too, just because. I wasn't actually looking for anything, but that's no excuse not to check it out.
I found a very flattering navy blouse in a kind of lineny-cottony mystery fabric. When I saw myself in the mirror in the fitting room, it wasn't just a "yes", it was "hell, yes!"
(Re: pics or it didn't happen, it's in the wash right now, washing out the heavy-duty disinfectant/detergent that the store uses on everything. Pics later.)
Quote from: KathyLauren on March 16, 2018, 02:36:26 PM
My wife wanted to get some T-shirts from the second-hand / clearance store (Value Villge) today, so of course I went in too, just because. I wasn't actually looking for anything, but that's no excuse not to check it out.
I found a very flattering navy blouse in a kind of lineny-cottony mystery fabric. When I saw myself in the mirror in the fitting room, it wasn't just a "yes", it was "hell, yes!"
(Re: pics or it didn't happen, it's in the wash right now, washing out the heavy-duty disinfectant/detergent that the store uses on everything. Pics later.)
We use to have a Value Village in Long Beach but it disappeared - so now the mystery is solved, you Vikings stole it.
Cool on the blouse!
Quote from: Roll on March 16, 2018, 10:54:01 AM
I did it. I worked up the courage to shop for women's clothes in person. ................ Well. The courage to nab a pair of jeans already by the dressing room while it was unattended and try them on with no one seeing me go in or out and then make a half hearted comment about being sent with a list at the checkout. But... you know, baby steps.
Bottom line is, I now own women's skinny jeans and I couldn't be happier. :D
Wait, you didn't just shop, you TRIED THEM ON?! I never tried anything on until I went shopping with a friend! That's amazing! Way to go! :D
Quote from: Sarah_P on March 16, 2018, 04:35:17 PM
Wait, you didn't just shop, you TRIED THEM ON?! I never tried anything on until I went shopping with a friend! That's amazing! Way to go! :D
:D I folded them back so perfectly so it didn't look like I did!!
I can just imagine the following over the speaker there:
"Attention OCD in women's pants, repeat......"
Just kidding!
Clothes shopping is HUGE. Trying them on in the store is even bigger! You are awesome!
My good day thing today was someone contacting me that heard about my transition. They have been using a quote from me in their work. They said that they noticed I changed my name and then asked if I wanted the citation to be updated to my current name.
I took that for what it is: someone saying, basically, "Yes, I see you as you are and want to honor that." I'm fine with people showing me kindness (indeed it is a spiritual lesson I seem to be learning right now - it's good to let people be kind to you).
Some of you have been aware of my battles with my insurance BCBS. After the original submission for FFS was denied, the first appeal denied, the second appeal denied, my personal appeal denied I requested a review by an outside physician. Well since this is in the "what made you happy" thread..... They finally APPROVED EVERYTHING!
Lessons learned - make sure the original submission has it clearly spelled out that the procedures are Medically Necessary due to Gender Dysphoria (fka Gender Identity Disorder). I strongly suspect that once the outside medical review looked at it and figured out what was going on it was all approved. NOT ONLY THAT but the approval letter goes on to say, these procedures are also available to you. Some are for Transmasculine transformations so they don't apply but two jumped right off the page: ELECTROLYSIS and VOICE THERAPY. ALL COVERED.
Guess who is a happy girl?
Quote from: Roll on March 16, 2018, 10:54:01 AM
I did it. I worked up the courage to shop for women's clothes in person. ................ Well. The courage to nab a pair of jeans already by the dressing room while it was unattended and try them on with no one seeing me go in or out and then make a half hearted comment about being sent with a list at the checkout. But... you know, baby steps.
Bottom line is, I now own women's skinny jeans and I couldn't be happier. :D
Congratulations; that's a major step! I remember my first time shopping for women's clothing; it was freaking scary as hell, and I felt so proud of myself also.
Quote from: Denise on March 16, 2018, 11:30:38 PM
Some of you have been aware of my battles with my insurance BCBS. After the original submission for FFS was denied, the first appeal denied, the second appeal denied, my personal appeal denied I requested a review by an outside physician. Well since this is in the "what made you happy" thread..... They finally APPROVED EVERYTHING!
Lessons learned - make sure the original submission has it clearly spelled out that the procedures are Medically Necessary due to Gender Dysphoria (fka Gender Identity Disorder). I strongly suspect that once the outside medical review looked at it and figured out what was going on it was all approved. NOT ONLY THAT but the approval letter goes on to say, these procedures are also available to you. Some are for Transmasculine transformations so they don't apply but two jumped right off the page: ELECTROLYSIS and VOICE THERAPY. ALL COVERED.
Guess who is a happy girl?
That is killer awesome!
My phone took a dump, and I got a new one, could you resend the address of that pizza place?
Quote from: MollyPants on March 16, 2018, 04:29:18 AM
I found an app for my phone with a workout that I do about days a week. It's tough at first but now I feel a bit lost on rest days in the mornings.
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What's the app?
Quote from: Allison S on March 16, 2018, 04:33:02 AM
Ok I know this isn't directed at me. But I've been working on this too. I usually try to eat before exercising (I play music and dance or go for walks). My stomach isn't perfect, I have a bit of a pouch there, but it's feminine. Oh and give yourself time after eating something, even if it's small, before doing your work out. Squats and lunges are good and stairs (which I've been meaning to do but I keep forgetting..) helps a lot!!
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If I eat before I workout, I feel sluggish. I work better on an empty stomach. But, I've known plenty of people who work well after eating.
Quote from: Roll on March 16, 2018, 10:54:01 AM
I did it. I worked up the courage to shop for women's clothes in person. ................ Well. The courage to nab a pair of jeans already by the dressing room while it was unattended and try them on with no one seeing me go in or out and then make a half hearted comment about being sent with a list at the checkout. But... you know, baby steps.
Bottom line is, I now own women's skinny jeans and I couldn't be happier. :D
That's awesome! I've only gone clothes shopping on my own after figuring out my size through measurements and common size options. I've never gone so far as to try them on in the store. I have gone to Goodwill to do that, but it was with my wife and she was pretty impatient, so it wasn't my favorite experience.
Quote from: Cassi on March 16, 2018, 01:29:23 PM
What made me happy today was receiving a call from my oldest younger sister who I replaced as the oldest sister, lol.
We talked for a while and she said that I seem to talk more happy and open and laughed a lot more.
I mentioned how I told my daughter that she was going to have to buy me a french maid's outfit if I had to keep cleaning up after her. She responded by saying she was going to get me one when they're on sale during Halloween.
I told her I was just joking and she responded "you will look cute".
Your daughter is amazing. ^_^
I went to my first laser appointment. The lady seemed surprised that I didn't flinch. I was thinking, "Hun, I'm here on purpose. I don't care how much it hurts. This is gonna happen." All in all, a positive experience.
Also, I got a teeth whitener kit from Walgreens and I'm starting tonight. Then, I got my makeup and shoes in the mail.
Taking the steps I need to get where I want to be. ^_^
What an afternoon!
My daughter's girlfriend came to visit from California because Sunday is my daughter's birthday. And not having anything to do, her girlfriend and I hungout most the afternoon and until a little while ago.
What a day. We went to the biggest wig shop in Las Vegas and she easily spent close to $300 on a human hair wig. I on the other hand bought 2 $20.00 wigs, termed Petite and Wendy and burgundy in color.
Anyway, we then went to the Planet Hollywood Casino and walked around the Miracle Mile Mall. And at 10pm we picked up my daughter from work and are suppose to be heading to the Cannery Casino for a little while.
Oh, my daughter DOES NOT LIKE the wigs I got. She's insisting that they be blond because that's my color and long. Her girlfriend says that the color brings out my eyes and has been hinting at some make-up.
We'll see what happens.
Quote from: SiobhánF on March 17, 2018, 12:39:10 AM
Your daughter is amazing. ^_^
Thank you. Most the time she is :)
Very small thing, but a big step for me:
I took the bins out, wearing heels, a wig, a dress and a face full of makeup. My first real time out of the house presenting as female ;D (albeit just for a few seconds)
Quote from: Hannah Samira on March 17, 2018, 07:49:20 AM
Very small thing, but a big step for me:
I took the bins out, wearing heels, a wig, a dress and a face full of makeup. My first real time out of the house presenting as female ;D (albeit just for a few seconds)
I remember doing something similar [emoji5]. It takes guts to take those first steps out of the door! X
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Quote from: Megan. on March 17, 2018, 08:07:12 AM
I remember doing something similar [emoji5]. It takes guts to take those first steps out of the door! X
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There was a bit of an adrenaline rush, but for the most part I just felt kind of normal!! :D x
Mexican food. What can I say, I'm easy!
Quote from: Hannah Samira on March 17, 2018, 08:30:37 AM
There was a bit of an adrenaline rush, but for the most part I just felt kind of normal!! :D x
Same here! It was a struggle to get out the door the first time, then do something normal like that. It felt normal to me, but what didn't feel normal was the looks I got. I haven't started HRT, so I'm not anywhere near what I want to look like. I'm trying hard to work up the courage to be as close to full time as possible within the confines of military regs. There's just so many issues I have to deal with these days. More power to you girl. I hope we can both be full time soon. :)
Quote from: SiobhánF on March 17, 2018, 05:37:36 PM
More power to you girl. I hope we can both be full time soon. :)
We got this babe!! ;D
I have been watching my friend's kids for the past week. The parents knew me in the military, and their kids only know me as Victoria. They were so sweet all week. My friend got home from Texas early this morning and when I got up there was a brand new hair dryer and towel sitting in the bathroom on display as a thank you gift for helping them out. I feel so loved. :D
Quote from: Harley Quinn on March 17, 2018, 06:17:20 PM
I have been watching my friend's kids for the past week. The parents knew me in the military, and their kids only know me as Victoria. They were so sweet all week. My friend got home from Texas early this morning and when I got up there was a brand new hair dryer and towel sitting in the bathroom on display as a thank you gift for helping them out. I feel so loved. :D
I'm sorry Victoria, I have to ask. Is there a hotel name on the dryer and towel?
Stephanie
Quote from: Hannah Samira on March 17, 2018, 07:49:20 AM
Very small thing, but a big step for me:
I took the bins out, wearing heels, a wig, a dress and a face full of makeup. My first real time out of the house presenting as female ;D (albeit just for a few seconds)
That is NOT small! That's huge and wonderful!
My sister told me my complexion is light and I'm glowing. She also said I have really nice curves. I'm shocked. My brother said my nose fixing itself is a miracle and it looks a lot better. I guess this is a very shallow update
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Quote from: SiobhánF on March 17, 2018, 12:43:54 AM
I went to my first laser appointment. The lady seemed surprised that I didn't flinch. I was thinking, "Hun, I'm here on purpose. I don't care how much it hurts. This is gonna happen." All in all, a positive experience.
Funny. The person who did my face apologized every time she took a swipe. My reply was similar - I'm paying you to do this - keep going.
Keep in mind they will increase the strength. I suggest getting some 5% lidocaine (Amazon.com) and put it on about an hour before and about 40 minutes and about 20 minutes before the procedure. It helps.
Quote from: ToriJo on March 17, 2018, 09:02:09 PM
That is NOT small! That's huge and wonderful!
Thank you :) although I was extra careful to make sure nobody saw me :P
Quote from: Steph2.0 on March 17, 2018, 06:32:40 PM
I'm sorry Victoria, I have to ask. Is there a hotel name on the dryer and towel?
Stephanie
Steph!!!!!!
This sounds like something I'd ask :)
I just found out one of my favorite journalists, Charlie Jane Anders, was trans.
I stayed home and slept in quite late. Then sat around with my wife and binged on Netflix. Sometimes it's nice to have a totally, 100% unproductive day!
I'm happy today because, although I don't pass, at work several strangers gendered me correctly -- including someone from the Middle East, who I assumed would look on me with disgust because of the male-dominated culture over there. Sometimes people are so nice.
Good for you Ann!
Well, maybe he wanted you to be a belly dancer or expected you to wear one of those cover your entire body things.
Which, has me thinking ======
Transgender women in the middle east most likely don't get called out?
So the good news on the surgeries continues. My "calendar" is totally booked with pre-paid trips until September 15. So I called the Surgeon's office and they tell me FFS in September will be good and SRS in December will be good too. He's currently booking for June and July.
I love it when a plan comes together.
Quote from: Denise on March 19, 2018, 03:08:57 PM
So the good news on the surgeries continues. My "calendar" is totally booked with pre-paid trips until September 15. So I called the Surgeon's office and they tell me FFS in September will be good and SRS in December will be good too. He's currently booking for June and July.
I love it when a plan comes together.
@ Denise: That is very good news indeed getting your surgery appointments solidified and on your calendar.
The wait will be difficult to deal with but you will be so happy when it all happens.
Happy for you, and Hugs
Danielle
This actually made me happy last week...
I went to my doctor for my last post-op GRS follow up and she told me I am healing well and there are no issues. She lifted all restrictions, yeah, so I can take hot tubs again. :)
She also touched my clitoris and noticed my reaction, yes it works. <3 I was thinking, that's not fair. It take her 1 second to find it and me months. :)
On the way home I cried from both happiness that I pretty much completed my transitioning and from sadness b/c I am not going to see her as often anymore. I am very terrible in goodbyes.
Here's a selfie of my DR. and me:
(https://www.susans.org/forums/gallery/0/57991-190318015108.jpeg)
You go Girl!
Quote from: epvanbeveren on March 19, 2018, 03:35:45 PMIt take her 1 second to find it and me months. :)
Well, she should find it quickly: I would hope she'd remember where she put it!
Congrats on the clean bill of health!
Quote from: Cassi on March 19, 2018, 02:06:12 PM
Good for you Ann!
Well, maybe he wanted you to be a belly dancer or expected you to wear one of those cover your entire body things.
Which, has me thinking ======
Transgender women in the middle east most likely don't get called out?
Slightly racist.
Iran, as one example, actually provides full funding for trans surgery. I've travelled quite extensively in the Middle East and don't recognize stereotypes of belly dancers or burkhas.
There may well be Middle Eastern people reading this for support and they find their society written about in these terms instead. Those countries don't tend to have Western notions of sexuality (although they are certainly extremely binary when it comes to gender presentation) and I'm not sure they should.
Quote from: Hannah Samira on March 18, 2018, 10:59:06 AM
Thank you :) although I was extra careful to make sure nobody saw me :P
It's so great to see you living your life and making changes at your own pace, in the direction you want to go in - that's made me happy. I remember talking to you here two years ago and I hope your Erasmus year was a great success, and that you have luck with whatever else you end up doing.
It wasn't intended to be racist and if I offended anyone, I apologize.
And as it is beginning to turn out created a venue for education. I did not know the things you are explaining now, thank you.
Quote from: Cassi on March 19, 2018, 07:27:11 PM
It wasn't intended to be racist and if I offended anyone, I apologize.
And as it is beginning to turn out created a venue for education. I did not know the things you are explaining now, thank you.
I shouldn't have been so sharp with you and I apologise. I hope you had a fabulous day, and have another fabulous one tomorrow.
Thank you. Everyone's entitled to their opinion and freedom of speech for most. I did google your comment regarding Iran providing Trans surgery and yes they do. There's obviously more to it than that of course.
I think it's awesome that you are well-traveled - in my past life I spent some time going places but never the Middle East.
Have a great day!
Cassi
Quote from: Cassi on March 19, 2018, 07:40:38 PM
Thank you. Everyone's entitled to their opinion and freedom of speech for most. I did google your comment regarding Iran providing Trans surgery and yes they do. There's obviously more to it than that of course.
I think it's awesome that you are well-traveled - in my past life I spent some time going places but never the Middle East.
Have a great day!
Cassi
There is more to it, and some homophobic context which is less pleasing - great if you are a trans woman, but terrible if you are a passive gay man. That fits into the wider notion of active and passive rather than male and female or straight and gay. I think taking that notion away might be chucking the baby out with the bath water. As it is, they are probably in a slightly better position than western societies were 50 years ago to go forward without firm boxes.
Get over there if you can, many of those countries are amazing and beautiful, and not at all intimidating. There are some surprises like the open and funded advocacy of safe sex, the great fashion, and the fantastic looking guys. Amazing handmade shoes to be had as well.
Have a wonderful day tomorrow.
This morning while walking into Costco the greater, who always has a nice word for me when I come in, told me he loved my hair and said it looked amazing! It's the little things that can brighten your day.
Quote from: alex82 on March 19, 2018, 08:00:35 PM
There is more to it, and some homophobic context which is less pleasing - great if you are a trans woman, but terrible if you are a passive gay man. That fits into the wider notion of active and passive rather than male and female or straight and gay. I think taking that notion away might be chucking the baby out with the bath water. As it is, they are probably in a slightly better position than western societies were 50 years ago to go forward without firm boxes.
Get over there if you can, many of those countries are amazing and beautiful, and not at all intimidating. There are some surprises like the open and funded advocacy of safe sex, the great fashion, and the fantastic looking guys. Amazing handmade shoes to be had as well.
Have a wonderful day tomorrow.
Thank you Alex!
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 19, 2018, 08:02:52 PM
This morning while walking into Costco the greater, who always has a nice word for me when I come in, told me he loved my hair and said it looked amazing! It's the little things that can brighten your day.
Blonds do have more fun and compliments :)
Today two t-shirts came in that I ordered. I ordered them in womens sizes since I wanted that kind of cut. What I forgot though was I ordered the size I normally do for men, except in womens. So I was worried they would be too small. They fit just perfect. I am officially a size L in ladies. My shoulders may be a tad too wide, the the waist, bust and everything else seemed spot on. Happy girl here.
Bari Jo
Quote from: Bari Jo on March 19, 2018, 11:30:22 PM
Today two t-shirts came in that I ordered. I ordered them in womens sizes since I wanted that kind of cut. What I forgot though was I ordered the size I normally do for men, except in womens. So I was worried they would be too small. They fit just perfect. I am officially a size L in ladies. My shoulders may be a tad too wide, the the waist, bust and everything else seemed spot on. Happy girl here.
Bari Jo
Great, :D! Oops, I'm intruding... ;) But commenting is fine I guess? Or not?
I'm an unruly child ;). I don't care for boundaries!
Quote from: PurpleWolf on March 19, 2018, 11:36:35 PM
Great, :D! Oops, I'm intruding... ;) But commenting is fine I guess? Or not?
I'm an unruly child ;). I don't care for boundaries!
LOL
A few weeks ago I was asked to come to a group photoshoot tonight. A bunch of photographers have their booths setup, and you show up with a few outfits, and just go to as many of them as you want and ask to be photographed. But there was one photographer who asked me a few weeks ago if I would come tonight. So I did. Brought a couple different dresses, as well as an overbust corset thing.
It was so amazing to be photographed as a "FEMALE" model!!! Having a bunch of people standing around telling me how beautiful I am, and had one model come up to me and ask if I was just there getting some new stuff to ad to my portfolio. I said "Yeah, this is my first time doing this, so I'm just looking for some nice pictures." She said "Well this is a great place to get headshots to give to your agent!" I was like "Wait what?? My portfolio?? My agent??? Do you actually think I look good enough to even have a portfolio and an agent!?!?!?!?" I didn't actually say that, but that's sure what I was thinking! Ha ha.
I was photographed by four different photographers. All of them with their own style, and I wore a few different outfits. Showed more skin than I have ever shown in photographs as well. ha ha. No nudity though ha ha.
It was truly magical to get to be photographed as the woman I am like that for the first time in my life, and to have the photographers so happy about what they were getting and getting almost ecstatic every time they would take a shot and look at what they just got. Talk about an extremely affirming situation!! It felt so good and validating! And I absolutely cannot wait to see the results! Only 8 months on HRT, and treated as if I was just a cis woman there. So incredible......and strange to get used to. ha ha.
But yes, talk about making a girl happy!!
Quote from: PurpleWolf on March 19, 2018, 11:36:35 PM
Great, :D! Oops, I'm intruding... ;) But commenting is fine I guess? Or not?
I'm an unruly child ;). I don't care for boundaries!
You are not intruding, and any compliment makes this girl happy;)
Signed up to volunteer at Pride Phoenix. My days to do it are just after my first appointment with my endo. ^_^
I got my shoes and skincare products in the mail and I'm having a ball.
Finally, I signed up for Stitch Fix. I'll finally be able to properly build up my wardrobe. ᕦ(｡◕‿◕｡)ᕤ
Me and my gf had a heart to heart.
There was a lot of tears, but ultimately she supports me and just wants to see me happy :) Even if we don't stay together we're staying in each other's lives which is the best thing I could ask for ;D
Quote from: Cassi on March 19, 2018, 09:13:27 PM
Blonds do have more fun and compliments :)
I don't know. I've gotten lots more compliments since I went red than when I was blonde.
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Quote from: Hannah Samira on March 20, 2018, 07:12:28 AM
Me and my gf had a heart to heart.
There was a lot of tears, but ultimately she supports me and just wants to see me happy :) Even if we don't stay together we're staying in each other's lives which is the best thing I could ask for ;D
That is great news Hannah! :)
Quote from: Hannah Samira on March 20, 2018, 07:12:28 AM
Me and my gf had a heart to heart.
There was a lot of tears, but ultimately she supports me and just wants to see me happy :) Even if we don't stay together we're staying in each other's lives which is the best thing I could ask for ;D
Yes that's Great news Hannah. :)
Hugs,
Chelsea
I have now been in 4 onision videos lol 1:16 in the video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t8SGcA34mgk&t=123s
Congratulations Tiffany!
Quote from: Hannah Samira on March 20, 2018, 07:12:28 AM
Me and my gf had a heart to heart.
There was a lot of tears, but ultimately she supports me and just wants to see me happy :) Even if we don't stay together we're staying in each other's lives which is the best thing I could ask for ;D
That's wonderful news! I'm happy you can at least remain friends.
Two things, if I"m allowed two. ;D
First thing - at work, I notified a few vendors about my name and email change (our emails have our full name in them). One of the emailed back that they can't change usernames (which are our email addresses)...then about 2 minutes later, I got a second mail from them, "But we can create you a new account. Here's how to get logged in..." It shouldn't make me this happy, but there is a lot of people in the world that want to find ways to be kind and that is always a pleasant surprise. :)
Second thing - again, something that shouldn't make me quite so happy, but the young man at the fast food window ma'amed me 18 hours since I shaved. It's very possible he was just being very kind, but I'll take it.
What made me happy today?
My girlfriend.
Just being able to type that makes me happy! This had been an unexpected development for both of us. We are trans women, lesbian in orientation, and in our 60s. That is effectively three strikes against us. Neither of us expected to meet someone. I certainly never expected to meet someone who would have the romantic interest in me that I need to connect. (I'm a demisexual (https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/demisexual) as part of my orientation.). I never expected to fall for someone, and have them fall for me.
But, in spite of the odds, for some reason, it happened.
We've got these ridiculously strong feelings toward each other, but really don't quite know what to do with them. Since they surfaced, she's left on an extended trip, but we communicate several times a day. Neither of us knows where this will lead, what we should do next, or any of that practical stuff. We are both just enjoying the ride, being able to experience feelings that I thought were dead and gone the past 40 years.
It's one heck of a ride. Thank you,
@Laurie !
Quote from: Michelle_P on March 21, 2018, 12:07:21 AM
What made me happy today?
My girlfriend.
Just being able to type that makes me happy! This had been an unexpected development for both of us. We are trans women, lesbian in orientation, and in our 60s. That is effectively three strikes against us. Neither of us expected to meet someone. I certainly never expected to meet someone who would have the romantic interest in me that I need to connect. (I'm a demisexual (https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/demisexual) as part of my orientation.). I never expected to fall for someone, and have them fall for me.
But, in spite of the odds, for some reason, it happened.
We've got these ridiculously strong feelings toward each other, but really don't quite know what to do with them. Since they surfaced, she's left on an extended trip, but we communicate several times a day. Neither of us knows where this will lead, what we should do next, or any of that practical stuff. We are both just enjoying the ride, being able to experience feelings that I thought were dead and gone the past 40 years.
It's one heck of a ride. Thank you, @Laurie !
That's awesome!
Being a lesbian myself (which is getting some use to saying), I think that's amazing.
I don't know what the future holds for me but we'll see. Maybe I'll be lucky in the future and be able to say the same thing down the Road of Life :)
Quote from: Michelle_P on March 21, 2018, 12:07:21 AM
What made me happy today?
My girlfriend.
Just being able to type that makes me happy! This had been an unexpected development for both of us. We are trans women, lesbian in orientation, and in our 60s. That is effectively three strikes against us. Neither of us expected to meet someone. I certainly never expected to meet someone who would have the romantic interest in me that I need to connect. (I'm a demisexual (https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/demisexual) as part of my orientation.). I never expected to fall for someone, and have them fall for me.
But, in spite of the odds, for some reason, it happened.
We've got these ridiculously strong feelings toward each other, but really don't quite know what to do with them. Since they surfaced, she's left on an extended trip, but we communicate several times a day. Neither of us knows where this will lead, what we should do next, or any of that practical stuff. We are both just enjoying the ride, being able to experience feelings that I thought were dead and gone the past 40 years.
It's one heck of a ride. Thank you, @Laurie !
It's true I indorse this messsge.
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Quote from: Laurie on March 21, 2018, 12:37:09 AM
It's true I indorse this messsge.
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That is so awesome and I am soooooooooooooooooo happy for you both and it appears that you both are on the same side of the Juan DeFuca Fault - A Match made in Valhalla!!!!!!!
One of my female co-workers said that I am officially a member of the itty bitty titty committee. Mine are a bit bigger than hers. hehe
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on March 21, 2018, 01:39:25 AM
One of my female co-workers said that I am officially a member of the itty bitty titty committee. Mine are a bit bigger than hers. hehe
Congrats!!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ge9Ou3-YyqU
Quote from: Cassi on March 21, 2018, 01:43:37 AM
Congrats!!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ge9Ou3-YyqU
LOL cute Thank you :)
Quote from: Michelle_P on March 21, 2018, 12:07:21 AM
What made me happy today?
My girlfriend.
Quote from: Laurie on March 21, 2018, 12:37:09 AM
It's true I indorse this messsge.
OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG!!!!! This is so awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Congratulations!!! I am so unbelievably happy for you both!
Quote from: Sarah_P on March 21, 2018, 07:27:22 AM
OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG!!!!! This is so awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Congratulations!!! I am so unbelievably happy for you both!
Michelle and Laurie, I totally agree with what Sara said! WOW, I couldn't be happier...for the both of you!!! The happiness in this has brought Deb to tears. Bless the both of you,
Tia Anne & Deb
Congrats Michelle and Laurie!
After my roommate posted my video on her Facebook page I received a message from one of her friends. It started out by saying she had been following the postings of the things my roommate and I had been doing saying it looked like we have a lot of fun. Then she added "I had no idea you were trans." It turns out she has a 16 year old trans daughter. She said that when they watched the video about me they both cried. I'm going to connect up with them and try to offer support for them.
There you go again, just amazing me all over again :)
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It's true I indorse this messsge.
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When I first read this I was sort of in a state of surprise-shock, and now that its starting to really sink in I am just about to start openly weeping I'm so incredibly happy for the two of you!!!!! Closest emoji I could find that doesn't do it justice: :icon_joy:
So at work, ive got a number of different work t shirts now of various sizes, some too.small most too big but theres on that fits just right .... said goldielocks it just happens to be a female cut t shirt. Well ive started to wear that when its clean and to add to that ive been wearing proper bras rather than hiding then.
I was soo petrified of the looks or responces i may get at 1st but all ive had is - god how much weight have you lost!?. Even had to do a twirl for 2 of the managers yesterday while they showered me with compliments. Im going to have to get some more of that size in female cut.
So now rockin clear long finger nails, no arm hair, less face side hair and neck, boobs and now a fem t shirt 1/2 the time.... and im not out yet to them.
Felt awsome xx
Wow, Laurie and Michelle, I am totally late to the party but it's still heart warming. Congrats you two!
Bari Jo
I had an interesting semi waking dream that sort of started while I was asleep I guess and flowed into consciousness for a while? Not really sure. But regardless, I loved it. Basically was just a really down to earth and simple dream of me "post" transition living married, including a random trip to the beach or a pool, I'm not sure it was a dream so it was shifting, with me being hot in a bikini. ;D
I soooooort of know why I had it (a conversation last night where I was complimented a few times).
Quote from: Roll on March 22, 2018, 09:17:37 AM
I had an interesting semi waking dream that sort of started while I was asleep I guess and flowed into consciousness for a while? Not really sure. But regardless, I loved it. Basically was just a really down to earth and simple dream of me "post" transition living married, including a random trip to the beach or a pool, I'm not sure it was a dream so it was shifting, with me being hot in a bikini. ;D
I soooooort of know why I had it (a conversation last night where I was complimented a few times).
@ Ellie: I love having pleasant dreams... but then just as it starts getting really good, then I wake up... trying to go back to sleep and pick up where it left off is a futile effort!!!
Hey, where is the picture of you in that "dream" bikini???? ;)
Danielle
Danielle why are you leaning on a pile of giant Pontefract cakes????
Quote from: Roll on March 22, 2018, 09:17:37 AM
I had an interesting semi waking dream that sort of started while I was asleep I guess and flowed into consciousness for a while? Not really sure. But regardless, I loved it. Basically was just a really down to earth and simple dream of me "post" transition living married, including a random trip to the beach or a pool, I'm not sure it was a dream so it was shifting, with me being hot in a bikini. ;D
I soooooort of know why I had it (a conversation last night where I was complimented a few times).
I've mentioned before that I don't dream often (or at least don't remember it at all), but I've actually had a couple in the last month or so, and I was female both times in them. I'm so glad my subconscious is as happy as my conscious mind.
And yep, waiting on those bikini pics.... ;)
All my dreams are my experience in another dimension. Sadly, something on this side wakes me up and I never am revealed the ending :(
Quote from: Shambles on March 22, 2018, 06:04:59 AM
I was soo petrified of the looks or responces i may get at 1st but all ive had is - god how much weight have you lost!?. Even had to do a twirl for 2 of the managers yesterday while they showered me with compliments. Im going to have to get some more of that size in female cut.
This is exactly the kind of thing I was getting too, before I came out there. Oh, and one coworker commenting how much my appearance changed and saying, "Well, he'll probably show up in a dress the way he's been changing!" (He really didn't know that, yes, that was likely in the future).
My good thing for today: Sitting in a bunch of meetings, hearing all the right pronouns, consistently, from all of my coworkers. I still have to look around when someone uses "her" or "she" to refer to me, but it's really awesome!
Coming home to find white lilies in two favourite vases, placed there by the man I'm seeing. One on the coffee table, one on my dressing table.
Opening the fridge to find my favourite things were in there, and he'd even stocked the cupboard with wine. With a note saying 'don't drink it all you f***ing lush, save some for me X'.
Finding he'd scrubbed my bath out, changed my sheets, and perfumed them with my essential oils. Edit - the bed also had this months Vogue and Vanity Fair, the latest Private Eye, and the Financial Times and The Guardian all fanned out.
And left a letter saying he'll miss me during his conference trip and to enjoy quality time with my baby (another reason I won't be able to drink all the wine). As an addition he'd bought the baby a very cute jumper.
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 21, 2018, 07:34:23 PM
Congrats Michelle and Laurie!
After my roommate posted my video on her Facebook page I received a message from one of her friends. It started out by saying she had been following the postings of the things my roommate and I had been doing saying it looked like we have a lot of fun. Then she added "I had no idea you were trans." It turns out she has a 16 year old trans daughter. She said that when they watched the video about me they both cried. I'm going to connect up with them and try to offer support for them.
Loved your video link Jess, that was great. Looking glamorous, professional, and confident.
Interesting to see the discussion with your kids about what they should call you. Mine is too young to speak, but I'm not comfortable with 'mum'. Weirdly I'm more ok with 'dad', despite being no kind of male and not looking like one either. But I don't want him encountering problems in the future, although I fought hard and planned extensively and sacrificed a lot for his existence and biological tie to me.
I was thinking maybe just Alex. Although he's going to be getting use to me being addressed as 'mum' when he starts talking, strangers already do it and will probably continue What happens will happen, he'll no doubt call me whatever he wants, with I guess a whole extra as he grows up! Lol.
I liked the idea of being called "D". My wife passed away so my daughter calling me mom is kinda out of the question out of respect for her mom. I suggested MoDa but sounds too weird. Then I heard Jess mentioned that one of her kids asked about "D" and aside from not changing my fem name from Cassi to Dassi, I think "D" between her and I in future public will do. Again, Jess, thanks!
Quote from: Cassi on March 22, 2018, 03:38:20 PM
I liked the idea of being called "D". My wife passed away so my daughter calling me mom is kinda out of the question out of respect for her mom. I suggested MoDa but sounds too weird. Then I heard Jess mentioned that one of her kids asked about "D" and aside from not changing my fem name from Cassi to Dassi, I think "D" between her and I in future public will do. Again, Jess, thanks!
D was a nice compromise I thought. Affectionate and intimate without people having to know all your business. We shall see, got ages before it's even coming up. His biological mother is being called 'first name' because she's very modern and wanted that. Hence Alex for me. But it's not very intimate, and I'm a bit vain so I want everyone to know my gorgeous boy is mine.
Quote from: alex82 on March 22, 2018, 03:43:50 PM
D was a nice compromise I thought. Affectionate and intimate without people having to know all your business. We shall see, got ages before it's even coming up. His biological mother is being called 'first name' because she's very modern and wanted that. Hence Alex for me. But it's not very intimate, and I'm a bit vain so I want everyone to know my gorgeous boy is mine.
Even though my ex-wife is horrible towards me, I do not want to usurp the title she has earned by giving birth to them. She too is modern and I guess the kids may call her by her first name. She
always called her parents by their first names and I hated that. I have one son who is always calling me by my first name and it bothers me to no end. I guess I'm just going to have to get used to that because he doesn't want to change and is very stubborn like his mother. They didn't include in the story the comment that he made the day I came out to them. He asked me if I was going to become a democrat too? I told him I was willing to make some changes in my life but nothing as drastic as that... All in all the "D" name is a good compromise. I like the fact that I am a father to my kids and I don't think I will ever want to run away from being called Dad. It is a uniquely personal journey for all of us and how we relate to the others in our lives. Personally, what ever works for a family is what is right.
Words well spoken, or typed!!
When my daughter found out, which wasn't plan, she asks "What??? Are you becoming a Caitlyn Jennings???
The words that fell out of my mouth (still reeling from her finding out) were: No, a better version.
Oh well :)
Quote from: alex82 on March 22, 2018, 03:25:14 PM
Coming home to find white lilies in two favourite vases, placed there by the man I'm seeing. One on the coffee table, one on my dressing table.
Opening the fridge to find my favourite things were in there, and he'd even stocked the cupboard with wine. With a note saying 'don't drink it all you f***ing lush, save some for me X'.
Finding he'd scrubbed my bath out, changed my sheets, and perfumed them with my essential oils. Edit - the bed also had this months Vogue and Vanity Fair, the latest Private Eye, and the Financial Times and The Guardian all fanned out.
And left a letter saying he'll miss me during his conference trip and to enjoy quality time with my baby (another reason I won't be able to drink all the wine). As an addition he'd bought the baby a very cute jumper.
That's sweet... I'm jealous! Haha
Quote from: Cassi on March 22, 2018, 05:54:00 PM
Words well spoken, or typed!!
When my daughter found out, which wasn't plan, she asks "What??? Are you becoming a Caitlyn Jennings???
The words that fell out of my mouth (still reeling from her finding out) were: No, a better version.
Oh well :)
Caitlyn Jennings?! Haha that's too funny!! Pretty sure that's another trans person's last name
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Quote from: Allison S on March 22, 2018, 10:27:49 PM
That's sweet... I'm jealous! Haha
Caitlyn Jennings?! Haha that's too funny!! Pretty sure that's another trans person's last name
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Yes, she's always trying to keep up with Cashcardians!
Random Guy on the Street: "You look cute baby."
I just smiled and kept on walking.
Quote from: KarynMcD on March 23, 2018, 02:35:23 PM
Random Guy on the Street: "You look cute baby."
I just smiled and kept on walking.
And, pray tell, what street was this????
I want to be told "You're Cute" :)
Just kidding - totally happy for you!
Quote from: Allison S on March 22, 2018, 10:27:49 PM
That's sweet... I'm jealous! Haha
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Yeah, he's adorable. Kind, sensitive, educated, entertaining, good looking, and 6'4. Very kind in fact. I'm jealous of myself lol.
I'm bad at DIY, so he completed the nursery in my flat and it looks amazing. I wish he was here tonight so it was the three of us in my home. I like our pillow conversations about everything under the sun, no holds barred.
I just wish I could have his baby, because I would. But we are good with our blended and slightly complicated modern family set up.
A few things! One, I found a place to buy my comic books. I won't make full value, but they are so incredibly difficult to move that attempting to get full value would be like a full time job. I think I can get enough to cover most of hair transplants out of them plus a few games!! Took once box over there earlier as a test run and they gave me cash on the spot. ... Do surgeons usually accept cash? :D
Two, my courage is definitely way up. After selling my comics and just... I dunno, life? I was on a high, and I was deadset I was going to get my ears pierced, I was in the mall anyway. Piercing pagoda place was empty when I was in the comic store, and I went to head right to it after making the sale but in the meanwhile a huge family had setup shop... having like 3-4 infants ears pierced... and it was like... some big event I guess? So yeah they took over the place. I wandered over to Claires, as even though they are aimed at tween and teen girls, I read they are happy to do adult, presenting male or not, ear piercings and tend to be good. Unfortunately, once I got to the store and saw exactly what was in it... was a little much. But I was going to try, only one person in it so I was going to wait until they left just to not seem like a pedophile (seriously, it felt super creepy being there), rushing in to get your ears pierced is one thing, waiting in line seemed like something else entirely. So went to look back at the piercing pagoda, no luck there yet, still on infant #1 or 2. Weird. Went back to Claires, now like 3 people in it just hanging out. Back to pagoda, the party continued. Back to Claires... like 5 or 6 people. This continued for like 45 minutes before I ran out of time and had to leave to go pick up my sister (I needed car so took her to school and borrowed hers for day). So while I can't say for sure I would have gone through with it, I really, really felt like I was going to and I was willing to stay as long as I needed to. (Also drank a Blood Orange Diet Coke while walking back and forth, super weird drink that I don't know what I feel about it.) I didn't even feel defeated afterward, just frustrated as any normal customer who didn't get a chance to buy what they were planning to buy because of crowds!
Third, apparently my lips have changed dramatically just in the past few weeks and I really only just noticed. I just sort of looked in the mirror a while ago and was totally confused. Asked my sister if she thought I was crazy and she said yeah she definitely noticed, she thought I was wearing perfectly done lipstick for the past 3 days! (Like, lipstick and nothing else with visible beard shadow, which would be pretty weird.) So yeah. I don't know what the deal is. I didn't think HRT did anything to lips? If its a side effect of something else I really need to figure out what, because it looks amazing.
(Edit: Also, I'm loving what hair I have lately and can't wait to get a full head of it. Sort of looks like Morena Baccarin's hair when she has it shorter and natural, where its totally curly but starts to go into waves. I am super, super curious how its going to end up!)
Great news Ellie!! I got my ears pierced at Claires. They had no problem with a 42 year old lady getting her ears pierced, so you'd be fine. Heck, I went in there a month earlier to buy the silly 'Best Friends' rainbow heart necklace I share with my gal pal (they probably thought I was buying it for my daughter or something though).
Quote from: Sarah_P on March 23, 2018, 11:40:37 PM
Great news Ellie!! I got my ears pierced at Claires. They had no problem with a 42 year old lady getting her ears pierced, so you'd be fine. Heck, I went in there a month earlier to buy the silly 'Best Friends' rainbow heart necklace I share with my gal pal (they probably thought I was buying it for my daughter or something though).
Kewl - I want to get my nose pierced but don't have a clue if there's some secret signal from which part is pierced.
Quote from: Roll on March 23, 2018, 10:54:42 PM
Third, apparently my lips have changed dramatically just in the past few weeks and I really only just noticed. I just sort of looked in the mirror a while ago and was totally confused. Asked my sister if she thought I was crazy and she said yeah she definitely noticed, she thought I was wearing perfectly done lipstick for the past 3 days! (Like, lipstick and nothing else with visible beard shadow, which would be pretty weird.) So yeah. I don't know what the deal is. I didn't think HRT did anything to lips? If its a side effect of something else I really need to figure out what, because it looks amazing.
I had
exactly the same experience! I was putting on lipstick one day and suddenly noticed that those were someone else's lips. It was the weirdest thing: I didn't recognize them at all. The change had taken place over the space of one week.
Yes, HRT does change your lips! :)
Having no sleep.
The new born was up late trying to sit up, giggling. An hour later our eldest got up due to a bad dream. Cue getting her superhero dress up out, loading up Overwatch and hearing her trying to smack talk the opposing team. Brilliant.
Got two from yesterday.
Got to work and laying on my desk was an updated phone extension list, with my name as Tonya. I've been going by TJ at work since I came out there and I'm pretty sure no one even knew what that stood for until someone asked me about what I was doing on the two days I took PTO for this last week.
Second was that because I hold a professional license from the state, I needed to inform them of my name change within 30 days. I was able to login in to the self service web site where we go to pay our renewals etc and change things there. Did that late Thursday night and of course it says takes one business day.
Didn't think it would be that simple to change and it wasn't. I got an email that said I needed to send a copy of court order or some other legal document with new name. Still not too hard, so I send that off and get an auto reply that some one will look at my email within 3 business days. I figured it will get done on time so whatever.
Get an email back around 4pm that it's all done, so I print out my new license and put it up on the wall (legal requirement).
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A friend told me yesterday that my breasts are developing nicely...awesome!
Simple one today, i brought a pink t shirt. Yay!
This made me happy a week ago, but I waited for my daughter to give her permission to post.
Just a few days after I had my last follow up visit with my dr. and had an emotional outburst, my grand daughter Gabriella was born on March 19 at 04:37 am, 5lb 15oz and 19 inch. This made me so happy. <3
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Quote from: epvanbeveren on March 25, 2018, 01:23:51 AM
This made me happy a week ago, but I waited for my daughter to give her permission to post.
Just a few days after I had my last follow up visit with my dr. and had an emotional outburst, my grand daughter Gabriella was born on March 19 at 04:37 am, 5lb 15oz and 19 inch. This made me so happy. <3
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That's so awesome!!! Congratulations!!! ^_^
Went to Pride volunteer orientation. This will be my first Pride ever. I've never been to one.
I got a new wig and it's at least 50% better than the one I was using before, as it looks more natural. :)
Aw, congratulations!
The fact that everything is pretty calm this morning, so I can do housework.
Honey nut cornflakes. Simple pleasures.
Quote from: SiobhánF on March 25, 2018, 03:10:14 AM
Went to Pride volunteer orientation. This will be my first Pride ever. I've never been to one.
I got a new wig and it's at least 50% better than the one I was using before, as it looks more natural. :)
First pride... congrats. Going to be great.
Quote from: SiobhánF on March 25, 2018, 03:10:14 AM
Went to Pride volunteer orientation. This will be my first Pride ever. I've never been to one.
I got a new wig and it's at least 50% better than the one I was using before, as it looks more natural. :)
Cool on the Pride (Group of Lions)
Hot on the Wig (Will Make you 100% Happier)
Awesome on your new avatar!
I got a bigger burger and exrtra fries from the guys that work there.. they both asked if the food is for me and seemed really nice, smiling even. Not sure why, I've never been there before. The guys at the pizza place though saw me a bunch of times.
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Quote from: Allison S on March 25, 2018, 08:18:26 PM
I got a bigger burger and exrtra fries from the guys that work there.. they both asked if the food is for me and seemed really nice, smiling even. Not sure why, I've never been there before. The guys at the pizza place though saw me a bunch of times.
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Allison!!!!
If you keep this up I'm going to ask Laurie to visit you and slap you back into reality! You're hot and the guys know it.
:)
Quote from: epvanbeveren on March 25, 2018, 03:40:24 AM
First pride... congrats. Going to be great.
I can't wait! ^_^
Quote from: Cassi on March 25, 2018, 03:07:41 PM
Cool on the Pride (Group of Lions)
Hot on the Wig (Will Make you 100% Happier)
Awesome on your new avatar!
Thank you! I appreciate the compliment. I was so nervous walking into that wig shop, but they were quietly understanding and welcoming. ^.^
It was warm enough to sit out on the patio and have lunch in a summer dress :)
I weighed myself and I've shifted 7 pounds since the start of the year.
Lastly I made some amazing cheese scones for brunch on Sunday.
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Quote from: MollyPants on March 26, 2018, 03:28:34 AM
It was warm enough to sit out on the patio and have lunch in a summer dress :)
I weighed myself and I've shifted 7 pounds since the start of the year.
Lastly I made some amazing cheese scones for brunch on Sunday.
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Hi Molly,
Cheese scones? I'm guessing you didn't send me some? See how you are?
I wish it was warm enough to weay a sun dress here in Connecticut. I just spent the night in a rest stop with freezing temps. It's COLD. Enjoy thay warmth.
Hugs
Laurie
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Quote from: Laurie on March 26, 2018, 08:22:53 AM
Hi Molly,
Cheese scones? I'm guessing you didn't send me some? See how you are?
I wish it was warm enough to weay a sun dress here in Connecticut. I just spent the night in a rest stop with freezing temps. It's COLD. Enjoy thay warmth.
Hugs
Laurie
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Freezing? Hmmmm....
75 will be the high tomorrow at my home. We will be up to 80 in Thursday and Friday.
And that's outside...
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Quote from: Michelle_P on March 26, 2018, 02:12:12 PM
Freezing? Hmmmm....
75 will be the high tomorrow at my home. We will be up to 80 in Thursday and Friday.
And that's outside...
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You in the desert????
Well, I could get accustomed to this.... this morning at my office I had another guy that recently met at the next door coffee shop bring me an espresso and chocolate chip cookies.
So now I have 3 male suitors? :icon_help:
I am starting to wonder if the coffee shop next door has a notice posted with my picture stating that I need coffee brought to me every morning ???
The coffee shop barista must have know that it was intended for me because she put a pink lid on the espresso cup.
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Small village, single and attractive young woman.........................................................
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 26, 2018, 03:17:00 PM
Well, I could get accustomed to this.... this morning at my office I had another guy that recently met at the next door coffee shop bring me an espresso and chocolate chip cookies.
So now I have 3 male suitors? :icon_help:
I am starting to wonder if the coffee shop next door has a notice posted with my picture stating that I need coffee brought to me every morning ???
The coffee shop barista must have know that it was intended for me because she put a pink lid on the espresso cup.
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@Danielle - That's fantastic!! free coffee AND cookies!!!!!!! ( oh and the guys too....hehe)
BUT - have you a favourite out of them? ;)
Sonja.
Quote from: Sonja on March 26, 2018, 04:19:36 PM
@Danielle - That's fantastic!! free coffee AND cookies!!!!!!! ( oh and the guys too....hehe)
BUT - have you a favourite out of them? ;)
Sonja.
Oatmeal raisin
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
Quote from: Sonja on March 26, 2018, 04:19:36 PM
@Danielle - That's fantastic!! free coffee AND cookies!!!!!!! ( oh and the guys too....hehe)
BUT - have you a favourite out of them? ;)
Sonja.
@ Sonja: I know that you have been following my "Male Suitor" episodes so I will tell you that
#1 is my favorite. I already went to casual dinner with him and it is still nothing serious for reasons that I have discussed before.
#2 is very arrogant and very buff but really good looking, he's the one I met at the gym
#3 is the brand new guy I wrote about today... nice but I know nothing about him and he just was in my office for 30 seconds and I know nothing about him... yet. Chocolate chip cookies are my favorite so he gets "points" for that. He may have asked the barista at the coffee shop about that.
If this keeps up I will need a "black book" and a special calendar to keep track of things!!!
Danielle
Quote from: Dee Marshall on March 26, 2018, 04:36:06 PM
Oatmeal raisin
The spy who came in from the cold in the War Between the Sexes.
@Dee ROFL!! HAHA - now that's sharp... But on a serious note, I would prefer chocolate chip...
Sonja
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 26, 2018, 03:17:00 PM
Well, I could get accustomed to this.... this morning at my office I had another guy that recently met at the next door coffee shop bring me an espresso and chocolate chip cookies.
So now I have 3 male suitors? :icon_help:
I am starting to wonder if the coffee shop next door has a notice posted with my picture stating that I need coffee brought to me every morning ???
The coffee shop barista must have know that it was intended for me because she put a pink lid on the espresso cup.
(https://i.imgur.com/iDabDYc.jpg)
It must feel great to be so popular!! Or it must feel exasperating! Or both!
Quote from: Sarah_P on March 26, 2018, 05:18:45 PM
It must feel great to be so popular!! Or it must feel exasperating! Or both!
You are correct
Sarah:
Feels:
great
exasperating (for sure)
and frightening too (for various reasons)
It does feel like it is hunting season and I am the hunted. Hopefully not for a trophy hunt.
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 26, 2018, 03:17:00 PM
Well, I could get accustomed to this.... this morning at my office I had another guy that recently met at the next door coffee shop bring me an espresso and chocolate chip cookies.
So now I have 3 male suitors? :icon_help:
I am starting to wonder if the coffee shop next door has a notice posted with my picture stating that I need coffee brought to me every morning ???
The coffee shop barista must have know that it was intended for me because she put a pink lid on the espresso cup.
(https://i.imgur.com/iDabDYc.jpg)
I'd be calling the police. Alaska must be a whole other world.
Quote from: alex82 on March 26, 2018, 05:39:51 PM
I'd be calling the police. Alaska must be a whole other world.
Alex: I would definitely not call it stalking but rather the males are doing what males have always done... they pursue, and as long as it is not creepy, not stalking, and they are polite and well mannered, I don't mind it at all, it is just a new and pleasurable and sometimes frightening experience for me.
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 26, 2018, 06:17:38 PM
Alex: I would definitely not call it stalking but rather the males are doing what males have always done... they pursue, and as long as it is not creepy, not stalking, and they are polite and well mannered, I don't mind it at all, it is just a new and pleasurable and sometimes frightening experience for me.
Danielle
Whatever you're comfortable with.
Appy, my long lost daughter I am sooooo happy for you. #2 - Biff, I think would be purely physical attraction. As a goddess I know these things and Biff sounds like my brother Adonis so be careful.
#3 Mystery man, hummmmm. You need to let us all know about who works at this coffee shop.
#1 Baseball Player - hummmm
Just be careful and safe. Read somewhere recently how our hormones override logic.
So at work today one of the contractors today where talking about me and called me a milf. They did not realize I was in the room beside them when they all were doing guy talk lol and 4 other staff heard so it was not just me lol so I blushed right away and all day. I never would have even thought to use that word to describe me. It did make me feel good though on a hard day at work
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on March 26, 2018, 08:48:42 PM
So at work today one of the contractors today where talking about me and called me a milf. They did not realize I was in the room beside them when they all were doing guy talk lol and 4 other staff heard so it was not just me lol so I blushed right away and all day. I never would have even thought to use that word to describe me. It did make me feel good though on a hard day at work
You do not look as old as what many would consider to be one of those. But as there was some apparent sexual attraction there reflected in that guy talk, I can see that in a way that could be affirming. Might depend too on who exactly said that.
Chrissy
Quote from: ChrissyRyan on March 26, 2018, 08:55:46 PM
You do not look as old as what many would consider to be one of those. But as there was some apparent sexual attraction there reflected in that guy talk, I can see that in a way that could be affirming. Might depend too on who exactly said that.
Chrissy
Thank you there were 6 guys all electricians and they were all talking about the do ability factor in the 3 girls and I was working with and myself yes It did feel nice that I was included. 4 of the guys where in there early 20s and the other 2 were in there 40s
Natalie, why am I not surprised ;D
Quote from: PurpleWolf on March 26, 2018, 09:25:58 PM
Natalie, why am I not surprised ;D
Aww Thank you PurpleWolf Well I was I really did not expect that
One thing I have noticed, especially for us oldies and maybe moldies, is that HRT seems to be a fountain of youth drug as it seems that the major of us transitioning actually end up looking anywhere from 10-20 years younger. I am not a doctor so I can say anything about the insides but outsides!!!!!
Quote from: Cassi on March 26, 2018, 09:54:06 PM
One thing I have noticed, especially for us oldies and maybe moldies, is that HRT seems to be a fountain of youth drug as it seems that the major of us transitioning actually end up looking anywhere from 10-20 years younger. I am not a doctor so I can say anything about the insides but outsides!!!!!
Makes sense to me I feel 20 years younger now I know I act like it sometimes.... ok well maybe to often lol
That pink lid is soo cute!!! They need to start sending you flowers I mean you're the small town hottie and they should be competing. Guys in big cities like nyc don't ever have to do that really because there's so many pretty women.
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Quote from: Cassi on March 26, 2018, 09:54:06 PM
One thing I have noticed, especially for us oldies and maybe moldies, is that HRT seems to be a fountain of youth drug as it seems that the major of us transitioning actually end up looking anywhere from 10-20 years younger. I am not a doctor so I can say anything about the insides but outsides!!!!!
Was setting up a camera yesterday and didn't recognize myself in it for a moment, I looked like a little kid.
Quote from: Allison S on March 26, 2018, 10:50:31 PM
That pink lid is soo cute!!! They need to start sending you flowers I mean you're the small town hottie and they should be competing. Guys in big cities like nyc don't ever have to do that really because there's so many pretty women.
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Danielle It is a nice lid I never saw a pink one before so cool Well why would they not be into you you are hottie as Allison said
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on March 26, 2018, 11:03:46 PM
It is a nice lid I never saw a pink one before so cool Well why would they not be into you you are hot
Because they still see me as a "him, he" and not what I really am, a "she, her". but hey, I'm not proving my femininity or even female identity to anyone.
And Natalie!! I think you made their day, those guys probably couldn't get enough of you lady!!
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Quote from: Allison S on March 26, 2018, 11:08:25 PM
Because they still see me as a "him, he" and not what I really am, a "she, her". but hey, I'm not proving my femininity or even female identity to anyone.
And Natalie!! I think you made their day, those guys probably couldn't get enough of you lady!!
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Thank you Allison, You are getting there soon you will be a NYC Hottie it does take time but you definitely Have the capability Like I said That cat suit pick was hot I swear you where female there
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on March 26, 2018, 11:13:11 PM
Thank you Allison, You are getting there soon you will be a NYC Hottie it does take time but you definitely Have the capability Like I said That cat suit pick was hot I swear you where female there
Was it the one with cat ears? I had another full body one in an all black outfit, and even nails! That was such a fun outfit to put together [emoji4] heck, here it is! Lol I loved my sister's purse!! I need to find one like it.. (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180327/5e295cf7905668b55f6ee82c5641b39c.jpg)
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No it was not that one but that is still a great one You have a great body for sure Allison.
Coworkers were talking about how "she" needed to provide the last bit of information on a project. Then realized I was "she". :)
Quote from: ToriJo on March 26, 2018, 11:41:16 PM
Coworkers were talking about how "she" needed to provide the last bit of information on a project. Then realized I was "she". :)
So cool congratulations it is shocking when it hits you for the first time
Quote from: Allison S on March 26, 2018, 11:18:53 PM
Was it the one with cat ears? I had another full body one in an all black outfit, and even nails! That was such a fun outfit to put together [emoji4] heck, here it is! Lol I loved my sister's purse!! I need to find one like it.. (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180327/5e295cf7905668b55f6ee82c5641b39c.jpg)
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Who's that person taking pictures in the hall??? I recognize this picture :) and comments I made sooooooooooooooo very long ago. Sometimes the brain works :)
I didn't know you were around here then? I read a lot of posts before joining too
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Quote from: Cassi on March 26, 2018, 09:54:06 PM
One thing I have noticed, especially for us oldies and maybe moldies, is that HRT seems to be a fountain of youth drug as it seems that the major of us transitioning actually end up looking anywhere from 10-20 years younger. I am not a doctor so I can say anything about the insides but outsides!!!!!
Yup. I've had my age estimated in the early 40s by guys, and by photo-evaluating AI software. I'm 64.
I'll take that as a complement. :) Def makes me happy!
I am 38 years old.... I hope that I don't look much older than that. I doubt that I look younger even after being on HRT for over 3 years.
May be true for some but not for all of those on HRT???
I know that my skin if younger looking and that may contribute to friends and those I just met often thinking I was much younger. I also lost some of the fat in my face and toned up the skin. However, I would have thought that the silver hair would have brought the estimate closer to my age, 64! I think that fitness/activity level also contributes to youthful appearance.
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 27, 2018, 11:43:49 AM
I am 38 years old.... I hope that I don't look much older than that. I doubt that I look younger even after being on HRT for over 3 years.
May be true for some but not for all of those on HRT???
Seriously? Girl, you definitely look much younger than 38! Lucky lady!
XO
Sarah
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Well, I started off prepping all the stuff for the Mac & Cheeze Balls because you have to freeze it for four hours. Daughter wakes up (only day off this week) and I fix her breakfast.
She has a habit of leaving dishes in her room which I usually end up going in and collecting and then washing. Today, however, after she finished eating I mentioned to her about bringing the dishes down and she says there's only three. I respond, "Who do you think washes them?" Her response: "My mother!". I couldn't say anything after that.
Now we're headed out for a couple of errands. She says she can't use dove and stuff like that as bar soap and I can't keep replacing the razors she doesn't buy. We've agreed that we'll go 50/50 on stuff we both use.
So, it's kind of a Mother/Daughter outing with the exception that I'm not presenting female in public yet.
Quote from: SarahFehrman on March 27, 2018, 02:59:20 PM
Seriously? Girl, you definitely look much younger than 38! Lucky lady!
XO
Sarah
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Yes, doesn't she look so young!!!! She's my long lost older daughter, Appy, who was kidnapped by Alaskan Aliens when she was little :)
Quote from: Cassi on March 27, 2018, 03:05:49 PM
Yes, doesn't she look so young!!!! She's my long lost older daughter, Appy, who was kidnapped by Alaskan Aliens when she was little :)
Cassi:
But, I won't tell anyone that you ARE the Alaskan Alien that kidnapped me in the first place.
I really like how you are communicating on here and everyone thinks you are living in Vegas....
.... but it is really Area 51 where you live, right?
Danielle
Quote from: SarahFehrman on March 27, 2018, 02:59:20 PM
Seriously? Girl, you definitely look much younger than 38! Lucky lady!
XO
Sarah
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Sarah: You are too kind. Thank you for your nice words.
By the way you can write to me anytime and tell me nice things like that.
Danielle
Quote from: Cassi on March 26, 2018, 09:54:06 PM
One thing I have noticed, especially for us oldies and maybe moldies, is that HRT seems to be a fountain of youth drug as it seems that the major of us transitioning actually end up looking anywhere from 10-20 years younger. I am not a doctor so I can say anything about the insides but outsides!!!!!
I frequently have people tell me I look like in my late 30's early 40's. I will be 57 in two months.
Quote from: I Am Jess on March 27, 2018, 05:40:21 PM
I frequently have people tell me I look like in my late 30's early 40's. I will be 57 in two months.
You, young lady, are the factual proof behind my saying this (along with Ashley and a few others). I've been told by family members, in the know, that I look younger and can only hope that someday I'll at least be considered your's and Ashley's older younger sister :)
And I've been called a bitch by a couple of cis-women friends over this :)
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 27, 2018, 04:41:21 PM
Cassi:
But, I won't tell anyone that you ARE the Alaskan Alien that kidnapped me in the first place.
I really like how you are communicating on here and everyone thinks you are living in Vegas....
.... but it is really Area 51 where you live, right?
Danielle
Great my daughter! Do you know how difficult it is to get to Las Vegas from Dulce, New Mexico? Remind me the next time you come home to have them double your Beta-Xerox 12 shot :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y_TaL60P4d4
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 27, 2018, 04:43:03 PM
Sarah: You are too kind. Thank you for your nice words.
By the way you can write to me anytime and tell me nice things like that.
Danielle
I will! You are such an inspiration, sweetie. I only wish you didn't live so far away from the rest of us girls down here in the lower 48!
Sarah
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Working with a group of disadvantaged teenagers and passing round complement slips about each other.
Reading mine, I was 'cool', 'sistah from anuvva muvva', 'great style', 'where is your belt from?', 'always smiling', 'so positive', 'I love your shoes', 'i wish you were my age so we could hang out' and, 'inspiring and insightful'.
I do have good style I must say, but I wouldn't say I was always smiling and so positive, but they thought so, so now it's pinned to my fridge because it made my day.
Quote from: alex82 on March 27, 2018, 07:24:51 PM
Working with a group of disadvantaged teenagers and passing round complement slips about each other.
Reading mine, I was 'cool', 'sistah from anuvva muvva', 'great style', 'where is your belt from?', 'always smiling', 'so positive', 'I love your shoes', 'i wish you were my age so we could hang out' and, 'inspiring and insightful'.
I do have good style I must say, but I wouldn't say I was always smiling and so positive, but they thought so, so now it's pinned to my fridge because it made my day.
@Alex - That's really cool, those are really sweet, and a bit funny...- good taste in shoes -Excellent BUT --- where did you get your belt from? ( because now I'M wondering aswell .... lol ;D)
Sonja.
Had a bit of a shopping spree and picked up two beautiful new dresses, a comfy hoody and some new leggings all on sale! :)
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Quote from: Sonja on March 28, 2018, 04:39:19 AM
@Alex - That's really cool, those are really sweet, and a bit funny...- good taste in shoes -Excellent BUT --- where did you get your belt from? ( because now I'M wondering aswell .... lol ;D)
Sonja.
Only H&M
Sent a family member a recent picture. His response? "Wow, your face is getting a lot more feminine looking."
I can handle that. :)
I went to see my general practitioner today for a checkup as it had been over 7 months since I had last seen her and to get refills on my meds (Not hormones, That's another doctor).
The last time she saw me I was still dressed as a man and she was the first one I ever told about me and she did her best to help get me on the right path.
She had no idea for the past 6+ months I have been living full time as a woman. I had on a cute low cut pink spaghetti strap top, Pink shorts and a white belt.
When she walked in she saw me then stepped back out the door and looked at the room number and came back in with a puzzled look on her face.
She looked at me and asked if I was (She used my old name that I don't use unless signing legal papers.) I smiled and said yes that was me and told her I now go by Bobbie LeAnn.
She said she was shocked at the change and didn't recognize me lol. She couldn't believe the change in me and how I had filled out.
I showed her my before and after pictures I have on my phone and she called all the other nurses in to show them. She said I looked 20 years younger and that she was so proud of me. She had me smiling from ear to ear.
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on March 29, 2018, 12:47:30 AM
I went to see my general practitioner today for a checkup as it had been over 7 months since I had last seen her and to get refills on my meds (Not hormones, That's another doctor).
The last time she saw me I was still dressed as a man and she was the first one I ever told about me and she did her best to help get me on the right path.
She had no idea for the past 6+ months I have been living full time as a woman. I had on a cute low cut pink spaghetti strap top, Pink shorts and a white belt.
When she walked in she saw me then stepped back out the door and looked at the room number and came back in with a puzzled look on her face.
She looked at me and asked if I was (She used my old name that I don't use unless signing legal papers.) I smiled and said yes that was me and told her I now go by Bobbie LeAnn.
She said she was shocked at the change and didn't recognize me lol. She couldn't believe the change in me and how I had filled out.
I showed her my before and after pictures I have on my phone and she called all the other nurses in to show them. She said I looked 20 years younger and that she was so proud of me. She had me smiling from ear to ear.
Good for you Bobbie. Oh course you were smiling fron ear to ear. It wad all so validating for you. Can't argue with success.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Susan's Place made me happy today. I do not have any friends in real life, so coming here every morning and night to talk to people makes me feel less depressed. I make money and do college online so I never leave the house, which means no human interaction except with my mom and sister of course. I desperately wish I had a friend, but my social anxiety tends to stop that from happening.
Quote from: TicTac on March 29, 2018, 02:46:00 PM
Susan's Place made me happy today. I do not have any friends in real life, so coming here every morning and night to talk to people makes me feel less depressed. I make money and do college online so I never leave the house, which means no human interaction except with my mom and sister of course. I desperately wish I had a friend, but my social anxiety tends to stop that from happening.
@ TicTac:Susan's Place is the definitely the right place for you socialize online with like minded individuals and to be to find out what others have done are in your transition circumstances.
You are certainly aware that there are lots of members here that can identify with the issues that you bring up in your postings and replies.
As just about everyone that comes to Susan's Place discovers you are finding this a safe and friendly place to share with others about your transition and to read about others transitions and their trials, tribulations, and successes in their transition journey.
Continue to share and involve yourself with some give and take with other members.
When frustrated or if you have a successful moment in your journey you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others.
You might even find that you will make some new friends here if you already have not done so.
As I tell everyone, come in and get involved at your own pace.
Thank you for being here and thank you for your comments. You have friends here.
Hugs,
Danielle
If I can just add to what Danielle already has perfectly said... so glad to have you here TicTac! I'm early in my transition and isolating is so easy. Between my trans groups and being on here, I feel like I found places that I can just be myself. It's not perfect and sometimes I delete my posts (I have no filter and say very silly things), but there's so many lovely people here!!
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Quote from: Allison S on March 29, 2018, 03:22:44 PM
If I can just add to what Danielle already has perfectly said... so glad to have you here TicTac! I'm early in my transition and isolating is so easy. Between my trans groups and being on here, I feel like I found places that I can just be myself. It's not perfect and sometimes I delete my posts (I have no filter and say very silly things), but there's so many lovely people here!!
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Silly????????????????????????? Whaaaaat??????????????????????????????///
Quote from: Allison S on March 29, 2018, 03:22:44 PM
If I can just add to what Danielle already has perfectly said... so glad to have you here TicTac! I'm early in my transition and isolating is so easy. Between my trans groups and being on here, I feel like I found places that I can just be myself. It's not perfect and sometimes I delete my posts (I have no filter and say very silly things), but there's so many lovely people here!!
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Allison: Thanks for not making me feel alone with your statement about being
"not perfect and sometimes I delete my posts" Very thankfully the Susan's Place Forums have a "
XRemove" button for our errant postings. I use it
often so I don't look like an ignorant and unpleasant person.
Danielle
Quote from: TicTac on March 29, 2018, 02:46:00 PM
Susan's Place made me happy today. I do not have any friends in real life, so coming here every morning and night to talk to people makes me feel less depressed. I make money and do college online so I never leave the house, which means no human interaction except with my mom and sister of course. I desperately wish I had a friend, but my social anxiety tends to stop that from happening.
That's odd, I don't remember posting in this thread earlier today but that sure sounds like me.
Seriously though, you are not alone!! My only friends in real life are family, I don't have a car (couldn't even drive until December), and attend college and work a little bit from home. I have spent a lifetime dealing with social anxiety, and spent my 20s as a straight up agoraphobic shut in. You'll find a lot of us have similar stories, though maybe not always to the same degree (or dealt with in different ways such as drugs/alcohol).
Quote from: Roll on March 29, 2018, 03:47:53 PM
That's odd, I don't remember posting in this thread earlier today but that sure sounds like me.
Seriously though, you are not alone!! My only friends in real life are family, I don't have a car (couldn't even drive until December), and attend college and work a little bit from home. I have spent a lifetime dealing with social anxiety, and spent my 20s as a straight up agoraphobic shut in. You'll find a lot of us have similar stories, though maybe not always to the same degree (or dealt with in different ways such as drugs/alcohol).
Ellie: Please be advised, YOU HAVE FRIENDS HERE !!!
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Roll on March 29, 2018, 03:47:53 PM
That's odd, I don't remember posting in this thread earlier today but that sure sounds like me.
Seriously though, you are not alone!! My only friends in real life are family, I don't have a car (couldn't even drive until December), and attend college and work a little bit from home. I have spent a lifetime dealing with social anxiety, and spent my 20s as a straight up agoraphobic shut in. You'll find a lot of us have similar stories, though maybe not always to the same degree (or dealt with in different ways such as drugs/alcohol).
LOL, initially I thought maybe you were getting senile like me when I catch myself posting where I have already posted but then the Big Bird Of Paradise (BBOP) came down and slapped me in the head and said "Ellie is just responding to someone who almost mirrors her own situation", like me to the BBOP, Duh. :(
Quote from: Cassi on March 29, 2018, 03:27:09 PM
Silly????????????????????????? Whaaaaat??????????????????????????????///
The elephant in the room I know [emoji12]
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 29, 2018, 03:46:28 PM
Allison: Thanks for not making me feel alone with your statement about being "not perfect and sometimes I delete my posts"
Very thankfully the Susan's Place Forums have a "XRemove" button for our errant postings. I use it often so I don't look like an ignorant and unpleasant person.
Danielle
Lol yeah I try to catch myself before I hit "send". Hasn't really worked much yet though [emoji16]
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Quote from: Allison S on March 29, 2018, 04:47:54 PM
The elephant in the room I know [emoji12]
Lol yeah I try to catch myself before I hit "send". Hasn't really worked much yet though [emoji16]
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Yeah, the pink one with purple stripes - I see it.
I have my reasons... :angel:
Quote from: Sarah_P on March 29, 2018, 05:17:29 PM
I have my reasons... :angel:
Sarah's got a boyfriend, Sarah's got a boyfriend.............................. ;D ;D ;D
Quote from: Cassi on March 29, 2018, 05:36:27 PM
Sarah's got a boyfriend, Sarah's got a boyfriend.............................. ;D ;D ;D
Nope. ;)
Quote from: Sarah_P on March 29, 2018, 05:56:57 PM
Nope. ;)
So, no boyfriend... when you do have one we need to see proof, a picture!!!
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on March 29, 2018, 05:59:02 PM
So, no boyfriend... when you do have one we need to see proof, a picture!!!
Reasons?????????????????? Rhyme or Reasons?????????????????????//
Quote from: Sarah_P on March 29, 2018, 05:56:57 PM
Nope. ;)
Girlfriend, then?
... Boyfriend AND girlfriend?! ;D <3
She met em at the Candy Store........................Get the picture??????
Quote from: Cassi on March 29, 2018, 07:19:23 PM
She met em at the Candy Store........................Get the picture??????
By the way, where did you meet him?
I met him at the candy store
He turned around and smiled at me
You get the picture
"Yes, we see"
That's when I fell for the leader of the pack
Quote from: Bobbie Ann on March 29, 2018, 07:31:23 PM
By the way, where did you meet him?
I met him at the candy store
He turned around and smiled at me
You get the picture
"Yes, we see"
That's when I fell for the leader of the pack
Egg-Zack-Lee!!!!!!
Quote from: Cassi on March 29, 2018, 05:36:27 PM
Sarah's got a boyfriend, Sarah's got a boyfriend.............................. ;D ;D ;D
Hahaha... This is a very broad statement on Susan's given that Sarah is the most common name for MTF here...
I was "Sara" until I came on here lol. Just kidding, but kinda true
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Quote from: sarah1972 on March 29, 2018, 07:50:23 PM
Hahaha... This is a very broad statement on Susan's given that Sarah is the most common name for MTF here...
LOL, just increases my chances about being right :)
I think I actually passed today! I actually outed myself, but I passed until that point.
I think I'm having trouble because I just assume they know. Not that it bothers me, because I came to terms with that,but to actually pass and just blend in would be amazing.
I didn't really think this would ever happen ❤️❤️
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Quote from: Kitty June on March 30, 2018, 02:10:49 AM
I think I actually passed today! I actually outed myself, but I passed until that point.
I think I'm having trouble because I just assume they know. Not that it bothers me, because I came to terms with that,but to actually pass and just blend in would be amazing.
I didn't really think this would ever happen ❤️❤️
I've done the same thing - A LOT. I usually out myself on purpose; in some circles I want to "blaze the trail" for the next trans person to come along.
HOWEVER one very important place that I outed myself was the doctor's office when the nurse went down the "female" questions... are you still on your cycle? I laughed and said you know I'm transgender, right? She laughed, crumpled up the page and started again. We both bot a laugh out of that. (It was very affirming though.)
Quote from: Denise on March 30, 2018, 08:03:50 AM
I've done the same thing - A LOT. I usually out myself on purpose; in some circles I want to "blaze the trail" for the next trans person to come along.
HOWEVER one very important place that I outed myself was the doctor's office when the nurse went down the "female" questions... are you still on your cycle? I laughed and said you know I'm transgender, right? She laughed, crumpled up the page and started again. We both bot a laugh out of that. (It was very affirming though.)
Ha... my kids es doctor referred to me as Mommy during the 24 month checkup and I told me to tell daddy that he does a good job. I did NOT tell him, I just enjoyed the moment.
Quote from: Denise on March 30, 2018, 08:03:50 AM
I've done the same thing - A LOT. I usually out myself on purpose; in some circles I want to "blaze the trail" for the next trans person to come along.
HOWEVER one very important place that I outed myself was the doctor's office when the nurse went down the "female" questions... are you still on your cycle? I laughed and said you know I'm transgender, right? She laughed, crumpled up the page and started again. We both bot a laugh out of that. (It was very affirming though.)
I did that trying donate plasma and things took a definite turn for the worst.
That was two months ago and I'm going back today, but this time I'm keeping my mouth shut.
Hoping I don't have a "what made you sad" post later
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Okay, I better go buy lottery tickets.
I mail ordered 3 blouses. All 3 fit!!! And they were brands I never ordered before. So I did a happy dance for that.
Then I did my makeup a bit different today, and *really* like how it turned out. I don't look like I'm going on stage now.
And when I did my hair, it actually cooperated. So I'm ready to take on the world now. :)
Quote from: ToriJo on March 30, 2018, 02:31:12 PM
Okay, I better go buy lottery tickets.
I mail ordered 3 blouses. All 3 fit!!! And they were brands I never ordered before. So I did a happy dance for that.
Then I did my makeup a bit different today, and *really* like how it turned out. I don't look like I'm going on stage now.
And when I did my hair, it actually cooperated. So I'm ready to take on the world now. :)
Viva La Trans-Lution!!!!!!
First day of Easter holidays, purchased lots of eggs and a new tablet for our eldest. Going to do an egg hunt with the tablet at the end.
And watching the My Little Pony movie and my daughter just trying to sing all the way through it. Good times.
Quote from: ToriJo on March 30, 2018, 02:31:12 PM
Okay, I better go buy lottery tickets.
I mail ordered 3 blouses. All 3 fit!!! And they were brands I never ordered before. So I did a happy dance for that.
Then I did my makeup a bit different today, and *really* like how it turned out. I don't look like I'm going on stage now.
And when I did my hair, it actually cooperated. So I'm ready to take on the world now. :)
What manner of sorcery did you employ? ;D
Quote from: Allison S on March 29, 2018, 07:56:08 PM
I was "Sara" until I came on here lol. Just kidding, but kinda true
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My future daughter told me that she doesn't see me as a transwoman, she only sees me as a woman.
I went out last night without makeup on, for the first time in months. Only one person half misgendered me, and she said it was my shoes that made her question my gender. She started with lady and then said man. She was talking to her 2 year old son telling him to "let lady, er man go first" I told her she was right the first time, then the shoes part came up and she apologized. I told her it was fine, and we left laughing about little kids being impatient about getting soda's.
Quote from: Artesia on March 31, 2018, 02:40:40 PM
My future daughter told me that she doesn't see me as a transwoman, she only sees me as a woman.
I went out last night without makeup on, for the first time in months. Only one person half misgendered me, and she said it was my shoes that made her question my gender. She started with lady and then said man. She was talking to her 2 year old son telling him to "let lady, er man go first" I told her she was right the first time, then the shoes part came up and she apologized. I told her it was fine, and we left laughing about little kids being impatient about getting soda's.
That's a bit odd as I recall a time when someone said "Your momma wears combat boots" but nowadays everyone does.
Quote from: Artesia on March 31, 2018, 02:40:40 PM
My future daughter told me that she doesn't see me as a transwoman, she only sees me as a woman.
I went out last night without makeup on, for the first time in months. Only one person half misgendered me, and she said it was my shoes that made her question my gender. She started with lady and then said man. She was talking to her 2 year old son telling him to "let lady, er man go first" I told her she was right the first time, then the shoes part came up and she apologized. I told her it was fine, and we left laughing about little kids being impatient about getting soda's.
Makes sense when having to look down at a 2 year old!! It's great to hear correcting someone led to just having a good laugh! I'm taking notes to do both more often!
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I don't normally go in for the days of this or that, but today... I resolved to do something, anything new. So I took a teeny, tiny step, but one that has been a huge road block for me, and I went downstairs and talked to my family wearing the women's jeans I bought. Jeans that male hipsters wear on a daily basis without a second thought, but... I was terrified. But I did it. Teeny, tiny steps...
Quote from: Roll on March 31, 2018, 06:15:10 PM
I don't normally go in for the days of this or that, but today... I resolved to do something, anything new. So I took a teeny, tiny step, but one that has been a huge road block for me, and I went downstairs and talked to my family wearing the women's jeans I bought. Jeans that male hipsters wear on a daily basis without a second thought, but... I was terrified. But I did it. Teeny, tiny steps...
Congratulations no matter how small of a step it is still a step forward proud of you :)
Congrats Roll! Each step you take, no matter how small you think they are, is a step further along your path! Each takes courage! Way to go! Did anyone notice! Often we worry so much and find out no one even notices. At least this is what happened to me. I used to have a poster up in my office that said something like - What do mean worrying doesn't help! Everything I worried about never happened!
I went to our local grocery store/pharmacy to pick up my patches and decided to get four 12-packs of lemonade. I decided to bypass the grocery cart and carried two packs in each hand. When I got to the self-checkout all of the lanes were busy, so I got in line behind the only other person waiting -- a young man with a single item. The fellow looked at me and said "You can go ahead ma'am". I of course thanked him! I am still not used to this, but I am really starting to enjoy it.
Today my birth certificate arrived, which made this Transgender Day of Visibility particularly awesome (it is my first TDoV expressing myself as a woman, so it's awesome that now *all* of my legal identity documents have the right name and gender).
I did not expect it to be particularly emotional - I thought I went through that already with my state ID, passport, etc - and it's not like I show people my birth certificate awesome. But every document I get, holding it in my hand, and seeing the right stuff on it...well, it's wonderful, and, yes, a bit more emotional (in good ways) than I expected.
Quote from: ToriJo on March 31, 2018, 08:30:44 PM
...Today my birth certificate arrived, which made this Transgender Day of Visibility particularly awesome...
Congratulations dear, you can't go further back. Great feeling to be completely legal isn't it?
TDOV will have a second meaning for you.
Hugs.
Quote from: Roll on March 31, 2018, 06:15:10 PM
I don't normally go in for the days of this or that, but today... I resolved to do something, anything new. So I took a teeny, tiny step, but one that has been a huge road block for me, and I went downstairs and talked to my family wearing the women's jeans I bought. Jeans that male hipsters wear on a daily basis without a second thought, but... I was terrified. But I did it. Teeny, tiny steps...
Yay Ellie!!! It's tough to start presenting in front of family or friends the first time. It's a big step! Keep it up, you're on a Roll!
... and yes, I know I've made that pun before. Deal with it. :D
Quote from: Jessica_Rose on March 31, 2018, 08:13:09 PM
I went to our local grocery store/pharmacy to pick up my patches and decided to get four 12-packs of lemonade. I decided to bypass the grocery cart and carried two packs in each hand. When I got to the self-checkout all of the lanes were busy, so I got in line behind the only other person waiting -- a young man with a single item. The fellow looked at me and said "You can go ahead ma'am". I of course thanked him! I am still not used to this, but I am really starting to enjoy it.
@
Jessica_Rose: Well, that is a wonderful thing to happen to any trans. I am certain that you were walking on cloud9 when you left the pharmacy.... it is always very self-assuring and boosts your confidence with those kinds of things happen!!!
But, of course, looking at your recent and lovely picture of you that you posted, I am not surprised that you were addresses with the correct gender... yes indeed, ma'am!!
Hugs, Danielle
I woke up late today and the sun was beaming in. I got up and looked in the mirror and it looked like something on my head like dry skin or powder. When I looked closer I have hundreds if not thousands of little tiny hairs "peach fuzz" where my hair had receded. Is this possible for this to happen in a month?? Either way I have something there now and before it was smooth as silk so Yeah Me! :D
Hugs,
Chelsea
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on April 01, 2018, 09:19:25 AM
I woke up late today and the sun was beaming in. I got up and looked in the mirror and it looked like something on my head like dry skin or powder. When I looked closer I have hundreds if not thousands of little tiny hairs "peach fuzz" where my hair had receded. Is this possible for this to happen in a month?? Either way I have something there now and before it was smooth as silk so Yeah Me! :D
Hugs,
Chelsea
So cool, are you using anything special? I sometimes think there are some sneaking in on me too, but am never sure, lol.
Quote from: Cassi on April 01, 2018, 11:44:48 AM
So cool, are you using anything special? I sometimes think there are some sneaking in on me too, but am never sure, lol.
My doctor put me on Finasteride and I am using Minoxidil (Rogaine)2 times a day with it.
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on April 01, 2018, 12:11:17 PM
My doctor put me on Finasteride and I am using Minoxidil (Rogaine)2 times a day with it.
I'm on Finasteride to if I can remember how spell it, lol. Ellie had recommended getting the Minoxidil at CostCo because it is like $44 for a six month supply but they're always out of stock when I go to get it :(
Quote from: Cassi on April 01, 2018, 12:13:39 PM
I'm on Finasteride to if I can remember how spell it, lol. Ellie had recommended getting the Minoxidil at CostCo because it is like $44 for a six month supply but they're always out of stock when I go to get it :(
That's where I got the idea from Ellie. We don't have a CostCo here but we have a Sam's Club. Aren't they the same? I paid almost that much at Walgreen's for 1 months worth. :(
Hugs,
Cheslea
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on April 01, 2018, 01:22:10 PM
That's where I got the idea from Ellie. We don't have a CostCo here but we have a Sam's Club. Aren't they the same? I paid almost that much at Walgreen's for 1 months worth. :(
Hugs,
Cheslea
As far as I know CostCo is a stand alone Corporation where Sam's Club is owned by WalMart and they have had some closures. Membership cost is about half of what it is at CostCo but whether the store will be there or not is a good question. Did you checkout the prices at Sam's club?
Quote from: Cassi on April 01, 2018, 01:31:39 PM
As far as I know CostCo is a stand alone Corporation where Sam's Club is owned by WalMart and they have had some closures. Membership cost is about half of what it is at CostCo but whether the store will be there or not is a good question. Did you checkout the prices at Sam's club?
Not yet. We have one in Knoxville I will go check out. I have a membership there.
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on April 01, 2018, 01:41:13 PM
Not yet. We have one in Knoxville I will go check out. I have a membership there.
I thought all they had in Tenn was sour mash and singers :) ?????
There's a Sam's Club less than 1/10th the distance then CostCo, so let me know, pleeeze.
I do get the costco brand but i get it from amazon for 26 for 6 months supply. :D
Quote from: Roll on April 01, 2018, 04:49:02 PM
I do get the costco brand but i get it from amazon for 26 for 6 months supply. :D
Thank you Ellie. That stuffs expensive. :)
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on April 01, 2018, 04:50:50 PM
Thank you Ellie. That stuffs expensive. :)
I'd use Amazon but I heard that the President has ordered a drone strike on their drones :(
Seeing family especially my nieces and nephew
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I had a wonderful long run on the cross trainer, I'm down another pound on the scales so treated myself to a long hot bath and binge watching so television.
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Quote from: MollyPants on April 02, 2018, 08:18:55 AM
I had a wonderful long run on the cross trainer, I'm down another pound on the scales so treated myself to a long hot bath and binge watching so television.
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Binge watching TV leads to a fat brain :)-
Quote from: Cassi on April 02, 2018, 11:14:34 AM
Binge watching TV leads to a fat brain :)-
(pout)
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Quote from: MollyPants on April 02, 2018, 01:51:51 PM
(pout)
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Unless you're watching SyFy or Fantasy shows - that's low Cal.
Quote from: Cassi on April 02, 2018, 02:00:10 PM
Unless you're watching SyFy or Fantasy shows - that's low Cal.
Pure reality to TV. I just cried at a proposal. It was so cute!
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Quote from: MollyPants on April 02, 2018, 02:17:41 PM
Pure reality to TV. I just cried at a proposal. It was so cute!
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Reality TV to me is like speed - have it in real life (Reality not Speed) and need to escape, lol.
BTW, I am very happy as my daughter, Appy aka Alaska Danielle, fixed my avatar for me. :)
I bought some hair removal cream for men today, for my body, and it's worked! My legs and arms are virtually hair free, I feel so much better, I felt like crying tears of joy when I took the cream off revealing my smooth arms and legs... All I need now is to find a decent hair removal cream for my facial hair :)
Veet Hair Removal Cream for men - if anyone's wondering :D
Quote from: Sinead on April 02, 2018, 04:44:53 PM
I bought some hair removal cream for men today, for my body, and it's worked! My legs and arms are virtually hair free, I feel so much better, I felt like crying tears of joy when I took the cream off revealing my smooth arms and legs... All I need now is to find a decent hair removal cream for my facial hair :)
Veet Hair Removal Cream for men - if anyone's wondering :D
Thanks for the tip! There are facial hair removers and I bought one to try which didn't work and kinda burnt a little so I wouldn't recommend it :(
With "practically nothing to do this afternoon, I thought I'd try and see if I could get a picture taken that looked half way decent.
Took a couple of full body shots but I'd swear my bare legs look like a cro-magnum's and there's no hair on them, lol.
And the ones that I didn't look like I had ape legs were kinda "frozen pics" which is result of my not liking to take pics, I freeze up.
When I thought I had a decent shot I'd push the button and the damn phone wouldn't take the pic. Go figure.
Anyway, I finally found one that is passable, I think and that's what I'm happy about along with Appy fixing the spot on my old one!
A Rookie with a capital "R" on make-up application, lol.
Quote from: Sinead on April 02, 2018, 04:44:53 PM
I bought some hair removal cream for men today, for my body, and it's worked! My legs and arms are virtually hair free, I feel so much better, I felt like crying tears of joy when I took the cream off revealing my smooth arms and legs... All I need now is to find a decent hair removal cream for my facial hair :)
Veet Hair Removal Cream for men - if anyone's wondering :D
Prepare for the very uncomfortable regrowth. Shaving style bumps and itching coming your way. Just get wax next time.
Quote from: Chelsea1807 on April 01, 2018, 09:19:25 AM
I woke up late today and the sun was beaming in. I got up and looked in the mirror and it looked like something on my head like dry skin or powder. When I looked closer I have hundreds if not thousands of little tiny hairs "peach fuzz" where my hair had receded. Is this possible for this to happen in a month?? Either way I have something there now and before it was smooth as silk so Yeah Me! :D
Hugs,
Chelsea
Good for you, sweetie - how lovely! You're SO pretty, that will just add even more to your beauty.
XO
Sarah
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Quote from: Sinead on April 02, 2018, 04:44:53 PM
I bought some hair removal cream for men today, for my body, and it's worked! My legs and arms are virtually hair free, I feel so much better, I felt like crying tears of joy when I took the cream off revealing my smooth arms and legs... All I need now is to find a decent hair removal cream for my facial hair :)
Veet Hair Removal Cream for men - if anyone's wondering :D
I'll try that. Nair (any of it) proved useless. I wound up burning myself the first time, the second and third times I still had to shave after using it. And it's so stinky!
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When I tried the creams it just left stubble still anyway, not sure what's up with that.
My skin is not compatible with Nair or Veet, leaves red bumps and a rash or burn. Laser and electrolysis leave my skin very irritated, sometimes with red bump. Waxing is kinda OK, leaves bumps sometimes but since my hair regrowth after 3+ years of HRT is very slow and when it does come back it is very fine... I can get by with shaving my legs and chest every couple weeks and shaving my face every 4 or 5 days. When I was a young man I could hardly grow stubble let alone a beard and my chest had maybe 3 hairs on, I was the butt of jokes in the locker room.... so that is a benefit now that I am Full-time.
Being much older than most people on planet earth, my prostate, which started out life about the size of a walnut, is now about the size of a coconut. Needless to say urinating requires Flomax. I normally take a pill once every third day. I've only been on HRT for five days and I have already noticed that peeing is a whole lot easier so I am dumping the Flomax as of today; thanks HRT. Next, chest bumps.
Christine
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on April 02, 2018, 07:50:00 PM
My skin is not compatible with Nair or Veet, leaves red bumps and a rash or burn. Laser and electrolysis leave my skin very irritated, sometimes with red bump. Waxing is kinda OK, leaves bumps sometimes but since my hair regrowth after 3+ years of HRT is very slow and when it does come back it is very fine... I can get by with shaving my legs and chest every couple weeks and shaving my face every 4 or 5 days. When I was a young man I could hardly grow stubble let alone a beard and my chest had maybe 3 hairs on, I was the butt of jokes in the locker room.... so that is a benefit now that I am Full-time.
I tried Veet on my scrotum several years before I went to waxing salons. I had to leave the stuff on for a fair amount of time for it to do its job; before the timer could ring I jumped in the shower to put the fire out. I swear there was smoke coming from that area. I couldn't believe the pain, it was like a blowtorch was burning the hair off. Once I got the stuff washed off, there was icky looking matted hair and my testicles were fire engine red... and RAW.
Couldn't find anything to sooth them except tons of powder. During the healing process it looked awful (I'll spare you the gruesome details). Several weeks later it pretty much returned to normal; never again. From now on it is professional waxing.
Christine
EDITED: 04 August 2018 - cj78
Hello,
Today I am happier abstaining from the porn and adult dating sites. I miss some of the friends, and lovers I want to stay close with. I hope I haven't lost any relationships to anonymous sex.
Sincerely,
Robben Wendy
Quote from: Cassi on April 02, 2018, 04:49:43 PM
Thanks for the tip! There are facial hair removers and I bought one to try which didn't work and kinda burnt a little so I wouldn't recommend it :(
I've ordered this one from Amazon called Soft Sheen Carson magic shave, it's supposed to be really effective, I'm praying that it works, it should save me so much hassle, I'll update with how I get on
Opened up my email and text app to lots of nice comments about the radio interview I did last night. An hour of discussion with the host who knew almost nothing about the trans world.
I did send him to glaad's site to read their media guide as to not embarrass himself.
It went better than I expected. It was like coming out again but this time I really was screaming from the top of a tower.
(Replay Thursday and Saturday at 1700utc or noon Chicago time streaming at www.wvlp.org)
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"Being much older than most people on planet earth, my prostate, which started out life about the size of a walnut, is now about the size of a coconut. Needless to say urinating requires Flomax. I normally take a pill once every third day. I've only been on HRT for five days and I have already noticed that peeing is a whole lot easier so I am dumping the Flomax as of today; thanks HRT. Next, chest bumps."
Just another plus for HRT's, peeing is easier and no need to take Flomax again.
Finally made appointment for HRT evaluation with a trans specialist recommended by my therapist. Still (3) weeks out, but it feels good to just take that step!
It is good to take that step, hon. And it isn't a little one either.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Quote from: Katie Ellen on April 03, 2018, 11:55:37 AM
Finally made appointment for HRT evaluation with a trans specialist recommended by my therapist. Still (3) weeks out, but it feels good to just take that step!
@ Katie: That is super good news.... taking that first step in your transition endeavor will always be a very memorable moment for you, and a very important life changing moment for sure.
The next step, if it is taken, will be to start HRT... it will be a very exciting moment for you when you take your first HRT meds. ... but rest assured that there will be many other very exciting moments after that.
Please keep us updated so we can share your experiences with you and celebrate with you and your sucesses and to support you when there are disappointments and frustrations....
Oh, and another thing to look forward to is changing your profile
"Ticker" from "Starting Therapy" to "
Starting HRT".... I will be looking for that to happen.
Hugs,
Danielle
The bad news was when my partner failed her mammogram a week or so ago. The good news was after an hour and a half of imaging and scanning today, she was declared free and clear of problems and healthy. What a relief!
Tia Anne
Quote from: Anne Blake on April 03, 2018, 02:32:32 PM
The bad news was when my partner failed her mammogram a week or so ago. The good news was after an hour and a half of imaging and scanning today, she was declared free and clear of problems and healthy. What a relief!
Tia Anne
Oh yay! Happy dance!
Stephanie
Thank you Laurie and Danielle. There will be a next step as long as they let me. I'll probably start a thread when that happens.
Cold rainy day I rode the horse carriage to my sister's home... Joking about the carriage lol
I think this will be a good venture for me. Leaving nyc for a bit. I think my sister wouldn't mind if I moved in but I wouldn't want to impose like that. Just a day or two.
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Quote from: Allison S on April 03, 2018, 04:23:45 PM
Cold rainy day I rode the horse carriage to my sister's home... Joking about the carriage lol
I think this will be a good venture for me. Leaving nyc for a bit. I think my sister wouldn't mind if I moved in but I wouldn't want to impose like that. Just a day or two.
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@ Allison: Hmm, tell me more about the horse carriage???
Ahhh, leaving the hustle and bustle of NYC is something that sounds inviting for you. Does you sister live in the country? Upstate? Connecticut?
Here where I live, 6 months of the year we take and ride snow-machines (snowmobiles) to visit neighbors and friends.
Hugs, Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on April 03, 2018, 04:34:24 PM
@ Allison: Hmm, tell me more about the horse carriage???
Ahhh, leaving the hustle and bustle of NYC is something that sounds inviting for you. Does you sister live in the country? Upstate? Connecticut?
Here where I live, 6 months of the year we take and ride snow-machines (snowmobiles) to visit neighbors and friends.
Hugs, Danielle
The country... i mean long island lol
I always loved the, usually british, shows that take place a century or more ago and they would get around in horse carriages... Before cars were invented of course.
A snowmobile in Alaska huh.. Say hi to the Palins for me lol just kidding actually, don't
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My name change just became legal today. ( Actually the court part was really really easy In Washington state, What took all day was going to the Social Security office, the DOL, and then my bank.) But I'm now one step closer for no longer having to hear what is now my dead name.
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Congrats! Yes it is all at the other ID changes that takes time. It is amazing how many changes have to be made. I found that I would think that I had done them all and then something else would come up! You will get there!
Quote from: islandgirl on April 03, 2018, 11:39:35 PM
Congrats! Yes it is all at the other ID changes that takes time. It is amazing how many changes have to be made. I found that I would think that I had done them all and then something else would come up! You will get there!
I felt like I tried to get everything changed everywhere in one day. I know I didn't . As a matter fact I think I just hit the tip of the iceberg with all the name changing....lol But I will get there one day.
I knew I really had to change my name when people kept looking at my ID with that questionable look. One person actually said that's not you in the picture. I guess I was flattered and worried because it was my bank....lol
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At my sisters and I think my mom correctly gendered me... Maybe. It could just be wishful thinking (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180404/024e9bd9ed1179ea927d89ee4ce277e1.jpg)
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Quote from: Allison S on April 04, 2018, 03:08:34 PM
At my sisters and I think my mom correctly gendered me... Maybe. It could just be wishful thinking (https://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20180404/024e9bd9ed1179ea927d89ee4ce277e1.jpg)
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Allison: Certainly not wishful thinking at all.... you look absolutely feminine in your picture...
...and I love the pose!!! ... but don't look so serious.... show us your beautiful SMILE!!!
Very nice.... as time goes on I will be looking forward to seeing more of your transition pictures!
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on April 04, 2018, 03:18:41 PM
Allison: Certainly not wishful thinking at all.... you look absolutely feminine in your picture...
...and I love the pose!!! ... but don't look so serious.... show us your beautiful SMILE!!!
Very nice.... as time goes on I will be looking forward to seeing more of your transition pictures!
Hugs,
Danielle
Lol thanks Danielle! I feel kindaserious today. Yes "as times goes on"... I'm very much looking forward to that!! [emoji4]
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Not to parrot a very happy post of someone else, but....
What made me happy yesterday, today, and hopefully for many many more days to come, is my girlfriend. :D
Here's the details:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,227782.msg2121424.html#msg2121424
I have an SRS consultation with Dr. Leis. :) I'm around a year from the soonest I'd be able to do surgery, but it's still really exciting. My wife is also coming with me, which is a big deal because it can be hard for her to travel with her health, but I'll really appreciate having her with me.
Having the day of work (lieu day) , staying in bed till 9.30 , seeing mum and then nearly finish welding 1/2 floor in panel van. Cooking a nice tea and then having a relax feeling girly
I'm finally fitting into a bra without artificial help. :)
I got my catheter out and got a chance to see my new vagina after the revisions. It looks awesome :)
I looked at my chest earlier changing and I caught a glimpse of real boobage, not just moob. I feel like based on what others have said I may be on the large side if the level of growth I have not even at 4 months is any indication of ending position. Scares me a bit realizing I now need to seriously think about hiding chest while still presenting male. ;D
Bought some killer shoes, drank some killer beer, ate some killer sushi (Mmmmmm wasabi!) and just loving life in general...But a bonus was driving around in my big ass blue gas guzzling 2018 Tundra with my trusty 1911 on my hip today jammin to some Grateful Dead when the Sirius XM dead Channel played my favorite song Sugar Magnolia.
It's the little things ya know!~
Quote from: Kira Nerys on April 06, 2018, 09:27:19 PM
Bought some killer shoes, drank some killer beer, ate some killer sushi (Mmmmmm wasabi!) and just loving life in general...But a bonus was driving around in my big ass blue gas guzzling 2018 Tundra with my trusty 1911 on my hip today jammin to some Grateful Dead when the Sirius XM dead Channel played my favorite song Sugar Magnolia.
It's the little things ya know!~
Wow sounds like an awesome day!! Thanks for sharing [emoji4]
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Quote from: Allison S on April 06, 2018, 09:28:59 PM
Wow sounds like an awesome day!! Thanks for sharing [emoji4]
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Every day is an awesome day if ya look hard enough!
Quote from: Kira Nerys on April 06, 2018, 09:45:46 PM
Every day is an awesome day if ya look hard enough!
I'd love to have vision that good [emoji4]
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Quote from: Allison S on April 06, 2018, 09:47:34 PM
I'd love to have vision that good [emoji4]
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Life is all about perception. If you perceive good things then good things come to you. We are all tumbling through an infinite multi planed reality that has no set course and is intertwined with multiple dimensions of that reality via quantum entanglement.
If you change your perception..you change your reality. Nothing is static...everything is fluid. Happiness is willed into existence, it's not handed out.
Quote from: Roll on April 06, 2018, 08:41:34 PM
Scares me a bit realizing I now need to seriously think about hiding chest while still presenting male. ;D
I know, horrible problem, right?! ;D
Here I was at 4 months, dressed in male mode:
(https://image.ibb.co/gJ5TKx/4mo.jpg)
I basically started realizing that I wasn't going to be able to hide forever. And I'm quite happy with how my body is responding. Even if I'd be okay if it responded say 10x faster. :)
Sports bra darlins...nuff said.
Oh, there was no way I was going to hide my body finally starting to look like it should have looked to begin with. :) A promise I made to myself when I started to transition was that I would not do transition-related things if they didn't bring me joy. A sports bra would not have brought me joy. :)
Nobody said anything (they probably did notice, that's okay), and at about the 6 month point on hormones I came out in the last few places I hadn't before. So definitely no need to hide now.
Quote from: ToriJo on April 06, 2018, 11:15:42 PM
Oh, there was no way I was going to hide my body finally starting to look like it should have looked to begin with. :) A promise I made to myself when I started to transition was that I would not do transition-related things if they didn't bring me joy. A sports bra would not have brought me joy. :)
Nobody said anything (they probably did notice, that's okay), and at about the 6 month point on hormones I came out in the last few places I hadn't before. So definitely no need to hide now.
Once again..it's the little things right? I'll never forget the first time I was called "miss". I was pre full time transition and wasn't even dressed female. I flippin loved it. I was still drivin trucks and it was a fuel clerk who called me miss..I about passed out...LOL. I thought to myself..->-bleeped-<- man, if I pass as a girl with a man's t-shirt and jeans on, I'm doin pretty good.
Finally got to see my endo today. It was a positive experience. The staff weren't rude and the doc was super supportive in calling me by my name. Unfortunately, she was unable to begin my hormone treatment yet, but I went ahead and faxed my letter from my counselor and she ordered my lab, which I went immediately and did. Ugh. I have to wait another two weeks to get results and finally get my hormones. Happy sad day. Mostly happy. :)
I talked to my partner a bit more and about what I'd like to have done surgery and hormone wise and she was actually very understanding and not that worried by what I said I would like to do.
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Quote from: SiobhánF on April 07, 2018, 12:44:12 AM
Finally got to see my endo today. It was a positive experience. The staff weren't rude and the doc was super supportive in calling me by my name. Unfortunately, she was unable to begin my hormone treatment yet, but I went ahead and faxed my letter from my counselor and she ordered my lab, which I went immediately and did. Ugh. I have to wait another two weeks to get results and finally get my hormones. Happy sad day. Mostly happy. :)
Exciting to be so much closer!
Quote from: SiobhánF on April 07, 2018, 12:44:12 AM
Finally got to see my endo today. It was a positive experience. The staff weren't rude and the doc was super supportive in calling me by my name. Unfortunately, she was unable to begin my hormone treatment yet, but I went ahead and faxed my letter from my counselor and she ordered my lab, which I went immediately and did. Ugh. I have to wait another two weeks to get results and finally get my hormones. Happy sad day. Mostly happy. :)
@ SiobhanF: Hang in there and be determined and resolute with your transition desires.
Waiting can be the very toughest part of transitioning... and be advised, once your finally start your HRT then the waiting even becomes more difficult to deal with.
As I always tell everyone here regarding HRT, "Patience is required, usually nothing happens very quickly with HRT" .... and it can be a slow and dogged process. Body changes, especially significant body changes can take time, the amount of time that it will take for your unique body to change is really up to your body. What you read about others transition timelines and how their body (and mind) have changed most likely will not be your exact experience, so do read about and learn from what others have experienced but please understand that you will have your own unique and specific journey.... we all want quick changes and for some than might happen, human nature usually dictates "I want it all and I want it now" ..... but NOW you must have patience!!!!
Please keep us updated regarding your HRT and transition journey and might I suggest, unless you have already done so, is for you to start your own personal and private
journal that you can write down the details of what is happening with your transition journey... writing about your successes, your disappointments, your goals and your problems can be very good therapy and will later on be a reminder of the grand journey that you have undertaken.
Best wishes and well wishes to you,
Danielle
Quote from: Roll on April 06, 2018, 08:41:34 PM
I looked at my chest earlier changing and I caught a glimpse of real boobage, not just moob. I feel like based on what others have said I may be on the large side if the level of growth I have not even at 4 months is any indication of ending position. Scares me a bit realizing I now need to seriously think about hiding chest while still presenting male. ;D
Welcome to the boobie club [emoji16]
I woke up this morning on the right side of the grass (lawn); slept well last night.
Had a Brazilian wax yesterday; outed myself before the procedure so my favorite esthetician would know of my transition. When I checked out she surprised me and gave me the female rate, which is quite a bit less than a male procedure. Super gal in every way possible.
The testicles seem to be shrinking; is this possible this soon after starting HRT (12 days)? Maybe it's the cold weather but I don't think so. Hope they don't shrink so much they can't find them on my "Borchiday."
Best always,
Christine
EDITED: 04 August 2018 - cj78
Quote from: christinej78 on April 07, 2018, 11:58:34 AM
I woke up this morning on the right side of the grass (lawn); slept well last night.
Had a Brazilian wax yesterday; outed myself before the procedure so my favorite esthetician would know of my transition. When I checked out she surprised me and gave me the female rate, which is quite a bit less than a male procedure. Super gal in every way possible.
Best always,
Christine
@ Christine.... waxing, a Brazilian especially.... OUCHY !!!
Any one that works for a living doing beauty salon work and hair removal usually are never fooled... they know well before you "out" yourself.
That was good news about getting the "female" rate..... hey, what happened to equality and equal rights??? why do men get charged more anyway?
Danielle
Last weekend I had a random fortune cookie, and the fortune was "Nothing shall stand in your way the coming week." THE COOKIE WAS RIGHT.
I just worked up the courage and got my ears pierced. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Small titanium studs right now, so nothing too fancy, but ..........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When I got back to car I just started crying in pure joy, had to pull myself together to be able to drive home!
Also while there, I was talking to the piercing tech lady and wound up coming out to her. Turned out someone close to her is going through it all as well. So I told her about susans and gave her my name here in case that person wants to reach out.
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on April 07, 2018, 12:04:59 PM
@ Christine.... waxing, a Brazilian especially.... OUCHY !!!
That was good news about getting the "female" rate..... hey, what happened to equality and equal rights??? why do men get charged more anyway?
Danielle
Danielle,
The gal I go to is so good there is hardly any ouch to it. Each waxing is less ouchy than the previous, unless you go too long between procedures. I have been to several estheticians, none even come close to this Lady.
Maybe they have more junk to contend with; oh, I still have mine... for a little while. I'll find out Monday 09 Apr. Hope it's soon. I want the female hormones working full strength without having to fight the evil twins.
Question; did you folks way up there at the North Pole conspire to dump a bunch of freezing cold air down Tejas way, Fort Worth to be precise? If you did, please come down and take it back north; we don't do well in the cold.
Best always,
Christine
Quote from: Roll on April 07, 2018, 12:07:32 PM
Last weekend I had a random fortune cookie, and the fortune was "Nothing shall stand in your way the coming week." THE COOKIE WAS RIGHT.
I just worked up the courage and got my ears pierced. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Small titanium studs right now, so nothing too fancy, but ..........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When I got back to car I just started crying in pure joy, had to pull myself together to be able to drive home!
Also while there, I was talking to the piercing tech lady and wound up coming out to her. Turned out someone close to her is going through it all as well. So I told her about susans and gave her my name here in case that person wants to reach out.
Omgomgomg so insanely happy and excited for you! Fwiw I didn't cry but I had a ship eating grin on my face the whole day back when I got mine pierced.
Quote from: Roll on April 07, 2018, 12:07:32 PM
Last weekend I had a random fortune cookie, and the fortune was "Nothing shall stand in your way the coming week." THE COOKIE WAS RIGHT.
I just worked up the courage and got my ears pierced. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Small titanium studs right now, so nothing too fancy, but ..........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When I got back to car I just started crying in pure joy, had to pull myself together to be able to drive home!
Also while there, I was talking to the piercing tech lady and wound up coming out to her. Turned out someone close to her is going through it all as well. So I told her about susans and gave her my name here in case that person wants to reach out.
Yay Ellie!!! You finally have some more holes in your head! ;D
I was pretty happy to finally have mine pierced. Even happier when I could eventually change them out whenever I needed! And that's awesome about your piercer! Always great to spread the word of Susan's Place and help out those wanting to transition!
Wow Ellis, that's awesome. Getting brave in your old age? I am glad you were able to feel good enough to spread the word that we are not alone with our struggles. Doing what you did could be just the thing that other person needs.
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Quote from: Roll on April 07, 2018, 12:07:32 PM
Last weekend I had a random fortune cookie, and the fortune was "Nothing shall stand in your way the coming week." THE COOKIE WAS RIGHT.
I just worked up the courage and got my ears pierced. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Small titanium studs right now, so nothing too fancy, but ..........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When I got back to car I just started crying in pure joy, had to pull myself together to be able to drive home!
Also while there, I was talking to the piercing tech lady and wound up coming out to her. Turned out someone close to her is going through it all as well. So I told her about susans and gave her my name here in case that person wants to reach out.
Good for you!!!!! A big step.
Quote from: Laurie on April 07, 2018, 05:41:55 PM
Wow Ellis, that's awesome. Getting brave in your old age? I am glad you were able to feel good enough to spread the word that we are not alone with our struggles. Doing what you did could be just the thing that other person needs.
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Honestly, I've had a few experiences over the past week or so that has made me begin to fully appreciate the power of visibility. My being open in a few circumstances has helped others open up in turn, even if that wasn't my original intention. I've also decided there are a few current circumstances I've been debating how to approach that simple honesty is the way to go, even if it is terrifying. I doubt I'll become an activist anytime soon, but I definitely want to be in a position to reach out to people on a personal level as I move forward.
Quote from: Roll on April 07, 2018, 06:05:03 PM
Honestly, I've had a few experiences over the past week or so that has made me begin to fully appreciate the power of visibility. My being open in a few circumstances has helped others open up in turn, even if that wasn't my original intention. I've also decided there are a few current circumstances I've been debating how to approach that simple honesty is the way to go, even if it is terrifying. I doubt I'll become an activist anytime soon, but I definitely want to be in a position to reach out to people on a personal level as I move forward.
I love that chosen attitude Ellie. Sorry about the misnaming. Dang automessup feature of my phone. I'll correct it when I can use my laptop again.
Hugs,
Laurie
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Quote from: SiobhánF on April 07, 2018, 12:44:12 AM
Finally got to see my endo today. It was a positive experience. The staff weren't rude and the doc was super supportive in calling me by my name. Unfortunately, she was unable to begin my hormone treatment yet, but I went ahead and faxed my letter from my counselor and she ordered my lab, which I went immediately and did. Ugh. I have to wait another two weeks to get results and finally get my hormones. Happy sad day. Mostly happy. :)
Glad to see the good news. It's a game changer for sure.
I checked the post today and found the letter In have been waiting for it was my new birth certificate I am legally Roberta Susan now and female
Squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Bobbisue :)
Congrats bobbisue! That is exciting news! Now to changing all the rest of your ID's!
I was Day dreaming today as there was a wedding where I work which never happens. So I was day dreaming about my own wedding hoping now one day I will be married.
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on April 07, 2018, 08:58:48 PM
I was Day dreaming today as there was a wedding where I work which never happens. So I was day dreaming about my own wedding hoping now one day I will be married.
Ohhhh, now I'm doing it!
Wow, Bobbiesue! Getting the right birth certificate is awesome!
I was looking at my arms today and noticed that I have a ton of longish hairs...but they are *white* and not the dark black. In other words, they basically look like any other woman's arms. That's new for me. :) Too bad the rest of my body hair isn't doing that, but I'll take the arms being nice.
After coming out to my older sister last week, she now calls daily with ideas on dressing and new body care products. She called again this morning to tell me she's sending a box of shampoos and conditioners! I'm on a limited budget and her generosity, love and caring are a true blessing :)
Lindy
Quote from: Lindy on April 09, 2018, 08:33:33 AM
After coming out to my older sister last week, she now calls daily with ideas on dressing and new body care products. She called again this morning to tell me she's sending a box of shampoos and conditioners! I'm on a limited budget and her generosity, love and caring are a true blessing :)
Lindy
Wow you're lucky I'm envious. My two sisters did the opposite I don't even hear from them.
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I'm on a roll! (Wait...) worked up courage to get brows done even if I think they did a meh job, then shopped in person again!! ;D
Quote from: Roll on April 07, 2018, 12:07:32 PM
Last weekend I had a random fortune cookie, and the fortune was "Nothing shall stand in your way the coming week." THE COOKIE WAS RIGHT.
I just worked up the courage and got my ears pierced. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Small titanium studs right now, so nothing too fancy, but ..........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When I got back to car I just started crying in pure joy, had to pull myself together to be able to drive home!
Also while there, I was talking to the piercing tech lady and wound up coming out to her. Turned out someone close to her is going through it all as well. So I told her about susans and gave her my name here in case that person wants to reach out.
I remember mine like it was yesterday. It's an amazing feeling to get those ears punctured. I know I had a giant smile, despite the wincing from my discomfort, and fear of needles. I did find out that my ears are sensitive to the metal of the post, so I have to be careful when getting new earrings. Be careful when you change them, there is a chance for renewed swelling. Also, work up the weight used, don't just jump to a bigger/heavier set.
As I'm walking around NYC today, I keep glancing a reflection of a pretty girl in shop windows. I keep wanting to check her put, but then I remember it's me.
"Hey, there she is again!"
Last day at work as start 10 days HOLIDAY ;D
Quote from: Roll on April 07, 2018, 12:07:32 PM
Last weekend I had a random fortune cookie, and the fortune was "Nothing shall stand in your way the coming week." THE COOKIE WAS RIGHT.
I just worked up the courage and got my ears pierced. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Small titanium studs right now, so nothing too fancy, but ..........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! When I got back to car I just started crying in pure joy, had to pull myself together to be able to drive home!
Lucky girl! I had mine done about 12 years ago, but my right one keeps closing up. I've had it redone a couple of times, but it just keeps happening. I'm talking to my doctor about it when I see him in a couple of weeks. Meanwhile, I can't just wear one earring!
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Yesterday I was out for lunch with my wife, and the waitress came to the table and said "Hello Ladies", I really can't tell you how amazing that made me feel! And then this morning I was leaving a building and a gentleman held the door open for me as we were both leaving, I said thank you and he replied your welcome ma'am. Literally my first 2 experiences being properly gendered in public. Little things, but huge things to me.
Quote from: Allison S on April 09, 2018, 10:21:28 AM
Wow you're lucky I'm envious. My two sisters did the opposite I don't even hear from them.
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Allison, if your avatar is any indication, you don't need their help anyway!
Hugs,
Sarah
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Quote from: BrandiYYC on April 09, 2018, 03:22:35 PM
Yesterday I was out for lunch with my wife, and the waitress came to the table and said "Hello Ladies", I really can't tell you how amazing that made me feel! And then this morning I was leaving a building and a gentleman held the door open for me as we were both leaving, I said thank you and he replied your welcome ma'am. Literally my first 2 experiences being properly gendered in public. Little things, but huge things to me.
That is awesome! I have been out for a year, and I still love being addressed as "ladies" (with my wife) or "ma'am". It never gets old.
Quote from: SarahFehrman on April 09, 2018, 02:57:12 PM
Lucky girl! I had mine done about 12 years ago, but my right one keeps closing up. I've had it redone a couple of times, but it just keeps happening. I'm talking to my doctor about it when I see him in a couple of weeks. Meanwhile, I can't just wear one earring!
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Why? It's very fashionable now to have one chandelier and nothing at all in the other. I do sometimes but I prefer one long earring and one gold stud on the opposite side. Or none at all and no jewellery either. It's a real pleasure to go without tbh.
I came to say I was made happy today by freshly laundered sheets. A sprinkling of lavender oil and they'll be ready for a good nights sleep.
Quote from: BrandiYYC on April 09, 2018, 03:22:35 PM
Literally my first 2 experiences being properly gendered in public. Little things, but huge things to me.
I remember the first time that happened to me in public. It is absolutely wonderful! And it's a sign of things to come!
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on April 07, 2018, 10:00:08 AM
@ SiobhanF: Hang in there and be determined and resolute with your transition desires.
Waiting can be the very toughest part of transitioning... and be advised, once your finally start your HRT then the waiting even becomes more difficult to deal with.
As I always tell everyone here regarding HRT, "Patience is required, usually nothing happens very quickly with HRT" .... and it can be a slow and dogged process. Body changes, especially significant body changes can take time, the amount of time that it will take for your unique body to change is really up to your body. What you read about others transition timelines and how their body (and mind) have changed most likely will not be your exact experience, so do read about and learn from what others have experienced but please understand that you will have your own unique and specific journey.... we all want quick changes and for some than might happen, human nature usually dictates "I want it all and I want it now" ..... but NOW you must have patience!!!!
Please keep us updated regarding your HRT and transition journey and might I suggest, unless you have already done so, is for you to start your own personal and private journal that you can write down the details of what is happening with your transition journey... writing about your successes, your disappointments, your goals and your problems can be very good therapy and will later on be a reminder of the grand journey that you have undertaken.
Best wishes and well wishes to you,
Danielle
Thank you, Danielle. I appreciate your encouragement. I know the waiting game all too well. I'm in the military where everything is hurry up and wait. lol. I'll keep my eyes on the prize, which is complete and total freedom to be myself. :)
I got to volunteer for Phoenix Pride, this past Saturday, then I got in for free on Sunday because I'm active duty military. on Saturday, it was awesome interacting with so many people as a box office person. Got plenty of compliments from people of all types. Then, yesterday, I didn't get to go with anyone, so I just walked around aimlessly listening to live bands and stuff. I got some awkward glares from quite a few lesbians, but I still got a few "you're cute" from passersby. I think I may have overdone my makeup, but I wasn't trying to really impress anybody. Fun times were had and I got to see Berlin live! They still got it. :)
Quote from: DawnOday on April 07, 2018, 06:38:33 PM
Glad to see the good news. It's a game changer for sure.
It certainly is. Thanks, Dawn! :)
Another hour of electrolysis passed! The results are becoming obvious and we covered a lot of ground this session! Also, insurance approved most laser sessions, so going to utilize them to start clearing "down there" as I begin the prep for SRS :)
Hope everyone is having a wonderful evening!
Quote from: BrandiYYC on April 09, 2018, 03:22:35 PM
Yesterday I was out for lunch with my wife, and the waitress came to the table and said "Hello Ladies", I really can't tell you how amazing that made me feel! And then this morning I was leaving a building and a gentleman held the door open for me as we were both leaving, I said thank you and he replied your welcome ma'am. Literally my first 2 experiences being properly gendered in public. Little things, but huge things to me.
Isn't it wonderful? I'm over 2 months living full-time & I still get a little happy thrill every time I hear someone gender me correctly. :)
chatting with the lady here @work that has been helping me out. We were talking about my progress/changes. I mentioned as part of the conversation my aversion to dresses (guy-in-a-dress syndrome) and the fact that I still look like a guy overall. She simply replied, all in time, besides you already have the walk down and better than most of the woman here.
:)
Quote from: Faith on April 13, 2018, 11:13:10 AM
chatting with the lady here @work that has been helping me out. We were talking about my progress/changes. I mentioned as part of the conversation my aversion to dresses (guy-in-a-dress syndrome) and the fact that I still look like a guy overall. She simply replied, all in time, besides you already have the walk down and better than most of the woman here.
:)
Happy for you Faith the walk is very important and you are looking good :)
Today, Friday the 13th of April 2018, was Borchiday; I gave up two testicles in my quest for womanhood and am irrevocably on my journey; thanks to all of you here at Susan's Place and friends that have made it possible for me to do this.
Best always
Christine
EDITED: 04 August 2018 - cj78
Mentioned this in my thread, but... Walked into Ulta, told them what I was after and why for recommendations, got a few looks from other customers, but sat down in the chair and everything! No nerves or anything. Safe to say I am officially over the worrying about what people think of me in those settings.
Going to try to spend the weekend dressed mostly female around house, then go to laser on Monday. If not for the fact I expressly can't wear makeup going there or after, I think I'd probably have tried to make that my first out of house trip.
Quote from: Roll on April 13, 2018, 09:04:54 PM
Mentioned this in my thread, but... Walked into Ulta, told them what I was after and why for recommendations, got a few looks from other customers, but sat down in the chair and everything! No nerves or anything. Safe to say I am officially over the worrying about what people think of me in those settings.
Going to try to spend the weekend dressed mostly female around house, then go to laser on Monday. If not for the fact I expressly can't wear makeup going there or after, I think I'd probably have tried to make that my first out of house trip.
@Roll Ellie : That is terrific that you sat right down in the chair at the cosmetics counter... do not be worried or concerned, let people think what they want to think... and ignore their LOOKS and their comments.... you gotta do what you gotta do to progress in your transition journey....
... Be brave, be strong!!! Never give up, never surrender!!!
So, you will be in female-mode at your house this weekend.... hmmm, camera time...
...we will be looking for those pics.
Thanks for posting your good news.
Hugs,
Danielle
I went shopping today spend money I don't have (lol) right now just got my new tax assessment back and I know owe them more money I just don't care I even bought my dog a new collar with pendents well my dog will get one pendent the (paw) and I will keep the (heart spoiled and the princess crown pendent ) Had fun shopping and last time I eat out for a while till I lose weight
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on April 13, 2018, 10:28:14 PM
I went shopping today spend money I don't have (lol) right now just got my new tax assessment back and I know owe them more money I just don't care I even bought my dog a new collar with pendents well my dog will get one pendent the (paw) and I will keep the (heart spoiled and the princess crown pendent ) Had fun shopping and last time I eat out for a while till I lose weight
Natalie I owe money too and I just can't be bothered lol I was gonna do my taxes today and I went to H&R block but the general manager who was supposed to get me a discount (barely knocked off anything off the $300 bill just for them to enter numbers and check a few boxes on their system) didn't and told me to basically go somewhere else lol she asked me how much I was willing to pay and I told her $120 like the gentleman told me when we first started... she was not having it and I walked out without saying not one word. I surely will take my business elsewhere [emoji4] so yes that made me happy today
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Quote from: Allison S on April 13, 2018, 10:31:53 PM
Natalie I owe money too and I just can't be bothered lol I was gonna do my taxes today and I went to H&R block but the general manager who was supposed to get me a discount (barely knocked off anything off the $300 bill just for them to enter numbers and check a few boxes on their system) didn't and told me to basically go somewhere else lol she asked me how much I was willing to pay and I told her $120 like the gentleman told me when we first started... she was not having it and I walked out without saying not one word. I surely will take my business elsewhere [emoji4] so yes that made me happy today
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@Allison S .... well, next time with any tax service get names and get it in writing....
... wow $300 ... really? That can't be right. Can it? How much did you pay last year??
Just how complicated are your tax filings anyway???
Danielle
Quote from: natalie.ashlyne on April 13, 2018, 10:28:14 PM
I went shopping today spend money I don't have (lol) right now just got my new tax assessment back and I know owe them more money I just don't care I even bought my dog a new collar with pendents well my dog will get one pendent the (paw) and I will keep the (heart spoiled and the princess crown pendent ) Had fun shopping and last time I eat out for a while till I lose weight
@natalie.ashlyne .... that can be my problem sometimes,
spending my money on things I don't need with money I don't have....
arghhhh... owing more tax money always sucks...
Hugs,
Danielle
Quote from: Allison S on April 13, 2018, 10:31:53 PM
Natalie I owe money too and I just can't be bothered lol I was gonna do my taxes today and I went to H&R block but the general manager who was supposed to get me a discount (barely knocked off anything off the $300 bill just for them to enter numbers and check a few boxes on their system) didn't and told me to basically go somewhere else lol she asked me how much I was willing to pay and I told her $120 like the gentleman told me when we first started... she was not having it and I walked out without saying not one word. I surely will take my business elsewhere [emoji4] so yes that made me happy today
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Ya H&R block charges a fortune which should be tax deductible as the government forces us to do taxes. I payed $280 to find out that I owe $6838 on top of the $600 I owed out of the 24 thousand from a few years ago. To bad Danielle was not closer and able to do Canadian taxes as I would totally give her my business. :)
Quote from: Alaskan Danielle on April 13, 2018, 10:45:38 PM
@Allison S .... well, next time with any tax service get names and get it in writing....
... wow $300 ... really? That can't be right. Can it? How much did you pay last year??
Just how complicated are your tax filings anyway???
Danielle
Because my job gives us a "health fund" an extra $750 for my healthcare. They explained this makes the bill much higher because the "paperwork" is more... yet I saw the guy just literally check off maybe acouple more boxes and enter "$750". He said their system computes everything but if it was done differently it would take a while.
Danielle it's my first year filing.
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Quote from: Roll on April 13, 2018, 09:04:54 PM
Mentioned this in my thread, but... Walked into Ulta, told them what I was after and why for recommendations, got a few looks from other customers, but sat down in the chair and everything! No nerves or anything. Safe to say I am officially over the worrying about what people think of me in those settings.
I totally missed this, that is awesome. I believe I'm at that phase too.
Speaking of, so many things have been going right for me lately. It feels like this transition journey has been the best choice I've made in years.
Bari Jo
3 month blood test results today, my first ones after starting HRT and AA - T is so low they cant measure it and E at 348 so needs upping a bit. I think the target is 500-700 from my Consultant. Really happy with those results anyway.
Generally happy nowadays anyway. Just need to manage coming out at work fully.... Maybe a few months yet..
Katie
Started yet another promising job. This one states in it's discrimination policy that gender identity is protected, unlike the other two previous jobs. My boss likes me, and after 2 days is giving me more hours than I was originally hired for. I am now a before and after school enrichment counselor. I get to talk with kindergartners and 1st graders, and help with minor homework, as well as do other things with them. 2 of them have asked if I'm a boy or a girl, most of them just accept me as Ms Labus. I had to chase one down on my first day as he took off running into an area they were not allowed to go. I refuse to lose a child, let alone on my first day.
Many great accomplishments from the women here.
And this:
Quote from: Artesia on April 14, 2018, 01:23:18 PM
> Started yet another promising job. This one states in it's discrimination policy that gender identity is protected
If you have the opportunity, employers that protect gender expression are the best places to work and attract a diverse, ambitious workforce to gain an edge over competitors. With this policy where I work, coming out was so much easier - I was able to simply show up one day as my true self. No big meetings or email announcements necessary.
Quote from: Bari Jo on April 14, 2018, 09:47:00 AM
I totally missed this, that is awesome. I believe I'm at that phase too.
Speaking of, so many things have been going right for me lately. It feels like this transition journey has been the best choice I've made in years.
Bari Jo
Same for me! ;D Who would have thought, being ourselves was a good idea.
Quote from: Bari Jo on April 14, 2018, 09:47:00 AM
I totally missed this, that is awesome. I believe I'm at that phase too.
Speaking of, so many things have been going right for me lately. It feels like this transition journey has been the best choice I've made in years.
Bari Jo
If I had the slightest idea things would work out so well, I would have had the courage to do this a decade or more ago. Life is so wonderful now!
Same for me , just wish my job didn't make me feel so "blokey"
Time to close this thread and start a new one.
Here is 4.0 https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,236667.0.html